0 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:15,000 **Like, Share and Follow our Instagram @Layarkaca21indo.id for Support** 1 00:00:39,266 --> 00:00:44,266 **Like, Share and Follow our Instagram @Layarkaca21indo.id for Support** 2 00:04:09,939 --> 00:04:11,274 Is she not answering? 3 00:04:12,041 --> 00:04:12,943 No. 4 00:04:16,046 --> 00:04:18,114 - Thank you. - You're welcome. 5 00:04:25,355 --> 00:04:26,521 - Here you go. - Thanks. 6 00:04:26,523 --> 00:04:27,825 You're welcome. 7 00:04:31,393 --> 00:04:32,696 Emma. 8 00:04:34,163 --> 00:04:35,231 Emma, Emma. 9 00:04:39,468 --> 00:04:40,804 Come on. 10 00:04:45,208 --> 00:04:47,712 You haven't packed anything. 11 00:04:48,145 --> 00:04:49,146 Come on. 12 00:04:54,518 --> 00:04:56,153 - Okay. - All right. 13 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:57,922 Where's your suitcase? 14 00:04:58,220 --> 00:04:59,122 Here. 15 00:05:11,501 --> 00:05:12,770 Whoa. 16 00:05:14,403 --> 00:05:17,074 Oh. Ruth. 17 00:05:21,410 --> 00:05:23,179 Okeydokey. 18 00:05:23,879 --> 00:05:25,081 Sweetheart. 19 00:05:29,451 --> 00:05:31,221 Goddamn it! 20 00:05:33,889 --> 00:05:35,024 Ruth! 21 00:05:47,170 --> 00:05:48,372 Oh, God. 22 00:05:51,908 --> 00:05:53,177 Shit. 23 00:05:55,511 --> 00:05:56,913 Yeah. Hey, Dad. 24 00:06:02,518 --> 00:06:05,185 Oh, man. All right, all right. 25 00:06:05,187 --> 00:06:07,390 I'll be there. Yeah, nothing. 26 00:06:13,929 --> 00:06:15,165 Shit. 27 00:06:44,393 --> 00:06:45,963 Nicky? 28 00:06:47,129 --> 00:06:48,965 What do you mean she's gone? 29 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:08,415 From our local Doppler radar blizzard warning still in effect... 30 00:07:08,417 --> 00:07:10,018 Come on! 31 00:07:10,020 --> 00:07:11,519 - Fuck you! - That's not nice. 32 00:07:11,521 --> 00:07:13,288 ...bringing snowfalls highest 33 00:07:13,290 --> 00:07:15,656 in Lake, Cook, and DuPage county. 34 00:07:15,658 --> 00:07:17,994 Expect up to 11 inches there... 35 00:07:19,528 --> 00:07:22,999 Emma, put that out. Come on, he's here. 36 00:07:23,465 --> 00:07:25,168 Yo, dickheads. 37 00:07:25,602 --> 00:07:26,971 Come on. 38 00:07:27,237 --> 00:07:28,205 Hi. 39 00:07:29,439 --> 00:07:31,175 Got your $10 coffee. 40 00:07:31,540 --> 00:07:33,376 - Hi. Thank you. - Hi. Yeah, yeah. 41 00:07:33,977 --> 00:07:35,576 Come on, hon. Come on. 42 00:07:35,578 --> 00:07:37,381 - Need help? - No. 43 00:07:39,182 --> 00:07:42,552 - No Eddie, huh? - No, he had to work. Where's dad? 44 00:07:43,420 --> 00:07:46,286 He's looking for her. He's looking everywhere, every single place 45 00:07:46,288 --> 00:07:47,957 she's ever been in her life. 46 00:07:48,391 --> 00:07:50,425 - Did you check the hospitals? - Yeah. 47 00:07:50,427 --> 00:07:53,528 Yeah, we checked the hospitals, St. Giles, Rotary Club, 48 00:07:53,530 --> 00:07:56,030 we even went by the nursing home in case she thought 49 00:07:56,032 --> 00:07:57,101 she was still working there. 50 00:07:58,268 --> 00:08:00,938 - Did you call the police? - Of course we called the police. 51 00:08:03,305 --> 00:08:05,139 - Do they have Dad's number? - Yeah. 52 00:08:05,141 --> 00:08:06,110 Yeah, they've Dad's number, 53 00:08:07,110 --> 00:08:08,375 they've got my number, your number, your number. 54 00:08:08,377 --> 00:08:11,247 And they've got Marion-Down-The-Hall's number. The condo. 55 00:08:13,249 --> 00:08:16,220 He's going out of his mind, Bitty. He's white as a ghost. 56 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:20,090 When he called me, I thought he was having another heart attack. 57 00:08:20,723 --> 00:08:22,456 I knew this was gonna happen. 58 00:08:22,458 --> 00:08:24,624 Yeah. I've been tellin' him for years, "You gotta figure out 59 00:08:24,626 --> 00:08:28,062 what you wanna do with Mom when the time comes because we all know it's coming. 60 00:08:28,064 --> 00:08:29,663 We all know how this thing works." 61 00:08:29,665 --> 00:08:31,298 - It's hard on him. - Yeah. 62 00:08:31,300 --> 00:08:32,734 Well, you know what's gonna be hard for him? 63 00:08:32,736 --> 00:08:34,302 When she turns up next week 64 00:08:34,304 --> 00:08:36,339 in a goddamn block of ice. 65 00:08:37,339 --> 00:08:40,008 It's over. She is not staying in that condo anymore. 66 00:08:40,010 --> 00:08:43,080 She's going to a place, and he's gonna have to let her. 67 00:08:44,747 --> 00:08:49,583 And if I hear one goddamn peep about frickin' Florida, 68 00:08:49,585 --> 00:08:51,421 so help me God. 69 00:08:52,622 --> 00:08:53,623 What happened to quitting? 70 00:08:54,123 --> 00:08:56,960 Life, Bitty. Life happened to quitting. 71 00:08:57,359 --> 00:08:59,394 You can't smoke in here, I'm chemically sensitive. 72 00:08:59,396 --> 00:09:01,361 - You're who? - Chemically sensitive. 73 00:09:01,363 --> 00:09:04,565 What kind of California bullshit is that? 74 00:09:06,636 --> 00:09:08,237 That's your ringer? 75 00:09:08,505 --> 00:09:09,473 For Dad it is. 76 00:09:11,507 --> 00:09:13,109 Hey, Pop. 77 00:09:20,416 --> 00:09:21,384 Dad. 78 00:09:23,085 --> 00:09:25,121 I told you not to call her. 79 00:09:25,387 --> 00:09:28,655 Bitty, it's Christmas. You oughta be home with your husband. 80 00:09:28,657 --> 00:09:31,661 - Is she all right? - She's swell, she's fine. 81 00:09:32,495 --> 00:09:34,562 - Hiya, sweets. - Hi, Gramps, you okay? 82 00:09:34,564 --> 00:09:36,132 Yes, thank you. 83 00:09:36,399 --> 00:09:38,001 Oh. Nicholas. 84 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,302 Damn it, I knew that you'd start smoking again with that bar. 85 00:09:41,304 --> 00:09:43,504 Dad, are you all right? Have they checked your blood pressure? 86 00:09:43,506 --> 00:09:45,539 - I'm fine. - What'd the doctor say? 87 00:09:45,541 --> 00:09:48,375 - He hasn't been in yet. - Then how do you know she's fine? 88 00:09:48,377 --> 00:09:51,814 Because she's fine. Go take a look at her, down that hall. 89 00:09:55,684 --> 00:09:56,619 What? 90 00:10:11,834 --> 00:10:13,237 Mom. 91 00:10:14,603 --> 00:10:16,169 Is that my baby? 92 00:10:16,171 --> 00:10:17,707 - Yeah. - Oh! 93 00:10:18,241 --> 00:10:20,707 I'm so happy to see you. 94 00:10:20,709 --> 00:10:22,311 - You too. - You all right, Mom? 95 00:10:23,179 --> 00:10:24,445 Oh, that's my baby, too. 96 00:10:24,447 --> 00:10:25,582 Yeah. 97 00:10:26,181 --> 00:10:28,151 Oh! 98 00:10:28,818 --> 00:10:30,650 - Honey! - Hi, Grandma. 99 00:10:30,652 --> 00:10:32,687 - Listen, do you need some money? - No. 100 00:10:32,689 --> 00:10:34,121 Let me get you some money. 101 00:10:34,123 --> 00:10:35,822 - See she's fine. - Where's my purse? 102 00:10:35,824 --> 00:10:37,859 - You don't need your purse, Ruth. - Yes, I do, you turkey. 103 00:10:37,861 --> 00:10:40,230 - Sit down. - Where the heck was she? 104 00:10:40,729 --> 00:10:42,763 - Aurora. - Aurora? 105 00:10:42,765 --> 00:10:43,766 She got on the commuter. 106 00:10:44,333 --> 00:10:45,732 Rode the damn thing back and forth 107 00:10:45,734 --> 00:10:48,336 until the conductor finally screwed his eyeballs in. 108 00:10:48,338 --> 00:10:50,574 - Did she really? - Where did she get on at? 109 00:10:51,406 --> 00:10:53,109 - Berwyn. - Hmm. 110 00:10:53,476 --> 00:10:56,376 She walked to Berwyn in a snowstorm? 111 00:10:56,378 --> 00:10:57,912 She's fine, Nicholas. 112 00:10:57,914 --> 00:10:59,746 She doesn't look fine to me. 113 00:10:59,748 --> 00:11:01,883 - She's fine, Mom. - She's fine, Ruth. 114 00:11:01,885 --> 00:11:03,087 Excuse you, 115 00:11:03,419 --> 00:11:05,686 I was in geriatrics for 30 years, 116 00:11:05,688 --> 00:11:07,091 thank you very much. 117 00:11:07,357 --> 00:11:08,492 Where's your diamond? 118 00:11:08,857 --> 00:11:11,491 Oh, um, I forgot to put it on. 119 00:11:11,493 --> 00:11:12,695 What do you mean, you forgot? 120 00:11:12,929 --> 00:11:14,461 - She doesn't wear it. - Yes, I do. 121 00:11:14,463 --> 00:11:16,864 - I take it off for work. - How come? 122 00:11:16,866 --> 00:11:20,136 Because I have my hands in raw poultry all day. Ow, Mom. 123 00:11:20,370 --> 00:11:22,673 - That hurts. - Did you guys go to mass last night? 124 00:11:22,905 --> 00:11:26,506 No, I... We were gonna go today. 125 00:11:26,508 --> 00:11:28,311 - We were? - Yeah. 126 00:11:28,611 --> 00:11:29,644 You were? 127 00:11:29,646 --> 00:11:31,180 Mm-hmm. Yes. 128 00:11:31,414 --> 00:11:33,650 - Come in. - Are we ready for a pelvic exam? 129 00:11:34,784 --> 00:11:36,183 Pelvic exam? 130 00:11:36,185 --> 00:11:37,420 That's my baby. 131 00:11:38,420 --> 00:11:39,455 Hmm? 132 00:11:40,390 --> 00:11:42,822 Now they are safer in memory care, 133 00:11:42,824 --> 00:11:44,660 they also typically improve. 134 00:11:46,261 --> 00:11:49,532 Some of them feel more at home among their peers than with their own family. 135 00:11:50,232 --> 00:11:52,268 As strange as that sounds. 136 00:11:54,404 --> 00:11:57,638 Look, the reason I did a pelvic exam is because 137 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,640 during wandering episodes, women are often assaulted. 138 00:12:00,642 --> 00:12:01,677 Sexually. 139 00:12:02,511 --> 00:12:04,412 I didn't see evidence of that today 140 00:12:04,414 --> 00:12:08,218 but I'd be very concerned about her getting out again. 141 00:12:09,452 --> 00:12:10,420 Dad. 142 00:12:12,921 --> 00:12:14,724 - Hey, Dad. - What? 143 00:12:16,693 --> 00:12:18,426 I'm on the street. 144 00:12:18,428 --> 00:12:20,461 So go then. Ruth. Come on, honey. 145 00:12:20,463 --> 00:12:22,498 No, I'll take her with me. 146 00:12:23,699 --> 00:12:24,798 Come on. 147 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:26,170 I'll go. 148 00:12:27,270 --> 00:12:29,236 - Bye. - Am I going with you? 149 00:12:29,238 --> 00:12:30,439 Yeah. 150 00:12:36,612 --> 00:12:38,712 Goddamn hospitals. 151 00:12:38,714 --> 00:12:41,651 Goddamn teenage doctors. 152 00:12:52,895 --> 00:12:54,463 What happened to the Camry? 153 00:12:54,697 --> 00:12:58,468 I'm 75 years old, Bitty. Fuck the Camry. 154 00:13:00,703 --> 00:13:01,771 Let's go. 155 00:13:08,611 --> 00:13:10,043 It's a convertible. 156 00:13:10,045 --> 00:13:11,949 What about putting the top up? 157 00:13:12,348 --> 00:13:13,617 I gotta fix that. 158 00:13:14,550 --> 00:13:17,221 This is a rocket, watch out. 159 00:13:18,288 --> 00:13:19,623 Like that? 160 00:13:36,572 --> 00:13:37,641 Hey. 161 00:13:38,808 --> 00:13:40,307 I got your lo mein. 162 00:13:40,309 --> 00:13:41,509 - Oh, yeah? - Where's your mother? 163 00:13:41,511 --> 00:13:43,043 She's in the back with Emma. 164 00:13:43,045 --> 00:13:44,348 All right. 165 00:13:46,582 --> 00:13:48,652 Hey, come here. 166 00:13:50,620 --> 00:13:52,919 - Come here. Come here. - What? 167 00:13:52,921 --> 00:13:54,457 What? What's the matter? 168 00:13:55,058 --> 00:13:56,793 - She hit on me. - Who? 169 00:13:58,026 --> 00:13:58,958 Not Emma. 170 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:00,396 - Mom? - Yeah. 171 00:14:00,663 --> 00:14:02,866 Yeah she put her hand on my knee, and she was... 172 00:14:03,900 --> 00:14:06,803 looking at me like she wanted to... She hit on me. 173 00:14:07,804 --> 00:14:08,704 What'd you do? 174 00:14:09,838 --> 00:14:12,907 I just kept calling her Mom. 175 00:14:12,909 --> 00:14:15,809 I said thanks, Mom. It's nice to see you, too, Mom. 176 00:14:15,811 --> 00:14:17,947 I'm really glad you birthed me, Mom. 177 00:14:20,949 --> 00:14:24,688 - You're laughing. Don't laugh, you asshole. - I'm sorry. 178 00:14:25,021 --> 00:14:26,887 No, I'm fucking traumatized. 179 00:14:26,889 --> 00:14:28,825 - Your face. - My face? 180 00:14:33,096 --> 00:14:35,299 It's not funny. 181 00:14:39,135 --> 00:14:40,069 Hey. 182 00:14:41,103 --> 00:14:42,838 You want to go for a drive with Uncle Nicky and me? 183 00:14:43,606 --> 00:14:46,543 No. Uncle Nicky is a dick. 184 00:14:46,742 --> 00:14:48,944 No he is not. Don't say that. 185 00:14:49,712 --> 00:14:51,881 Did you fill out your new dorm application? 186 00:14:52,381 --> 00:14:53,449 Yeah. 187 00:14:53,982 --> 00:14:55,319 You did? 188 00:14:55,650 --> 00:14:56,553 Yes. 189 00:14:56,953 --> 00:14:57,853 All right. Well... 190 00:14:58,954 --> 00:15:00,790 are you sure you're gonna be okay here by yourself? 191 00:15:03,693 --> 00:15:04,795 Okay. 192 00:15:05,862 --> 00:15:08,428 - Well, I have my cell. - Oh, really, you do? 193 00:15:08,430 --> 00:15:10,499 Great, I'll call you. We'll have a chat. 194 00:15:15,570 --> 00:15:17,440 Don't... 195 00:15:19,141 --> 00:15:22,475 Don't let those guys catch you with all of this. 196 00:15:27,983 --> 00:15:29,685 Let's go, dickie-doodle. 197 00:15:34,857 --> 00:15:37,557 - So Jimmy Laciak, remember him? - Yup. 198 00:15:37,559 --> 00:15:39,592 He sits on the board of what's considered 199 00:15:39,594 --> 00:15:42,365 to be the best memory care place in Chicago. 200 00:15:42,564 --> 00:15:44,030 They got a waiting list a mile long, 201 00:15:44,032 --> 00:15:46,769 but he says he can get Mom in there February one. 202 00:15:47,002 --> 00:15:50,937 And then a little two bedroom on the same campus for dad by the 15th. 203 00:15:50,939 --> 00:15:52,673 They can't be together? 204 00:15:52,675 --> 00:15:54,908 Memory care's lock down, dementia only. 205 00:15:54,910 --> 00:15:57,848 It's a bunch of loons. He'd be tearing his hair out in there anyway. 206 00:15:58,514 --> 00:16:01,749 But his spot in assisted living's like 50 yards away. 207 00:16:01,751 --> 00:16:03,551 He can go visit her whenever he wants. 208 00:16:03,553 --> 00:16:05,655 What if he doesn't want assisted living? 209 00:16:06,923 --> 00:16:10,025 Well, Daddy doesn't always get what Daddy wants. 210 00:16:11,059 --> 00:16:15,663 It's not daycare, Bit. They don't wipe his ass. It's nice. 211 00:16:15,665 --> 00:16:18,635 You know, they do his laundry, give him a meal plan, 212 00:16:19,001 --> 00:16:22,439 and if he gets a chest pain, all he gotta do is press a button. 213 00:16:23,005 --> 00:16:25,605 What about a live-in person? 214 00:16:25,607 --> 00:16:26,941 Insurance doesn't cover it. 215 00:16:26,943 --> 00:16:28,509 It doesn't cover memory care either. 216 00:16:28,511 --> 00:16:30,076 Well, it covers some of it 217 00:16:30,078 --> 00:16:31,211 and then he sells the condo. 218 00:16:31,213 --> 00:16:32,613 He's not gonna sell the condo. 219 00:16:32,615 --> 00:16:33,884 What's he gonna do take it with him? 220 00:16:34,550 --> 00:16:35,684 Oh. 221 00:16:36,618 --> 00:16:39,220 Oh, my God! Is that you? Are you Nick? 222 00:16:39,222 --> 00:16:42,255 Oh, no. That's the other owner. His name's Nick, too. 223 00:16:42,257 --> 00:16:43,859 Well... 224 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,793 Of course it's me, you dingleberry. 225 00:16:46,795 --> 00:16:49,965 Well, how am I supposed to know, you never told me. 226 00:16:50,500 --> 00:16:51,568 Yeah. 227 00:16:56,506 --> 00:16:57,904 Wow. 228 00:16:57,906 --> 00:17:00,707 - Yeah. - Oh, my God. It's gorgeous. 229 00:17:00,709 --> 00:17:03,543 Yeah. See? It's not some shitty dive. 230 00:17:03,545 --> 00:17:05,549 Who said it was a shitty dive? 231 00:17:06,147 --> 00:17:09,618 - Well, has he been here? - Of course he hasn't been here. 232 00:17:09,952 --> 00:17:10,987 Did you invite him? 233 00:17:11,287 --> 00:17:12,956 I shouldn't have to invite him. 234 00:17:20,128 --> 00:17:21,595 Somebody's living here. 235 00:17:21,597 --> 00:17:23,596 You're one sharp cookie, Bit. 236 00:17:23,598 --> 00:17:24,731 Who? 237 00:17:24,733 --> 00:17:26,267 The other owner. 238 00:17:26,269 --> 00:17:27,734 You're living here? 239 00:17:27,736 --> 00:17:29,538 - Yeah. - What about Rachel? 240 00:17:31,773 --> 00:17:32,708 Shh! 241 00:17:33,242 --> 00:17:34,810 What do you mean, "shh"? 242 00:17:36,244 --> 00:17:37,713 What do you wanna drink? 243 00:17:39,915 --> 00:17:43,086 Come on, loosen up. It's the holidays. 244 00:17:45,620 --> 00:17:46,720 Norbert's Manhattan. 245 00:17:46,722 --> 00:17:48,154 - That's it. - That's it. 246 00:17:48,156 --> 00:17:49,259 Good choice. 247 00:17:50,693 --> 00:17:54,931 This is going to be the best Manhattan you ever have in your life. 248 00:17:55,731 --> 00:17:57,200 You'll shit your pants. 249 00:17:58,267 --> 00:18:01,769 This is... I just love that you used Dad's farm up here. 250 00:18:01,771 --> 00:18:03,237 Yeah, if you look very closely, 251 00:18:03,239 --> 00:18:05,675 you'll notice that it's freezing fucking cold. 252 00:18:08,210 --> 00:18:12,848 - Emma, she's a real peach these days. - Yeah. 253 00:18:13,648 --> 00:18:14,950 I think she hates me. 254 00:18:15,216 --> 00:18:19,655 - For what? - I don't know. She doesn't talk to me. 255 00:18:20,790 --> 00:18:22,122 Maybe she's pregnant. 256 00:18:22,124 --> 00:18:26,359 Oh, God. No, please. God. 257 00:18:26,361 --> 00:18:27,795 You never know. 258 00:18:27,797 --> 00:18:29,732 That's unimaginable. 259 00:18:30,665 --> 00:18:32,900 - All right. - Thank you. 260 00:18:32,902 --> 00:18:34,069 Mm-hmm. 261 00:18:40,076 --> 00:18:41,044 Shit. 262 00:18:41,376 --> 00:18:42,779 What? 263 00:18:43,346 --> 00:18:44,644 In my pants. 264 00:18:46,816 --> 00:18:47,983 That was quick. 265 00:18:48,783 --> 00:18:52,088 Yeah, that thing's won an award. 266 00:18:52,687 --> 00:18:54,823 - Mmm. - An award. 267 00:18:57,092 --> 00:18:58,561 What happened with Rachel? 268 00:18:59,095 --> 00:19:00,564 Oh, who knows. 269 00:19:02,331 --> 00:19:05,965 All of a sudden, she's bursting into tears over a hamburger 'cause I haven't proposed. 270 00:19:05,967 --> 00:19:08,203 She's been waiting for you to wanna marry her, dummy. 271 00:19:08,671 --> 00:19:10,574 Nobody wants to ask to be proposed to. 272 00:19:10,873 --> 00:19:11,875 You gotta be intuitive. 273 00:19:12,809 --> 00:19:15,578 - You know, it's like Eddie, right? - Mm-hmm. 274 00:19:16,078 --> 00:19:19,214 I'm constantly telling him that chefs hate kitchen gadgets, 275 00:19:19,915 --> 00:19:22,115 but what does he put under the tree every year? 276 00:19:22,117 --> 00:19:24,020 I think, that's cause you open it and go, 277 00:19:24,386 --> 00:19:26,053 "Wow! A coconut roaster! 278 00:19:26,055 --> 00:19:29,056 Oh, my God. Thank you. I love it so much!" 279 00:19:29,058 --> 00:19:32,162 - What am I supposed to say? - "No thanks, where's the receipt?" 280 00:19:32,994 --> 00:19:34,862 - I can't say that. - Why not? 281 00:19:34,864 --> 00:19:36,199 Because, I don't... 282 00:19:37,465 --> 00:19:38,699 you know, I don't wanna make him feel bad in front of the girls. 283 00:19:38,701 --> 00:19:41,067 - It's just annoying. - That's just what the world needs, 284 00:19:41,069 --> 00:19:43,369 two more women who don't tell you what's really going on. 285 00:19:43,371 --> 00:19:44,740 Two more Rachels. 286 00:19:46,975 --> 00:19:48,712 She told you what's going on. 287 00:19:50,413 --> 00:19:52,781 Go over there and bring her flowers. 288 00:19:54,015 --> 00:19:57,620 She's trying to get full custody of her kid now, so... 289 00:19:58,053 --> 00:19:58,988 So? 290 00:19:59,387 --> 00:20:02,091 What? I'm gonna be a parent? 291 00:20:02,857 --> 00:20:04,991 - Why not? Yeah. - Why not? 292 00:20:04,993 --> 00:20:07,297 Bitty, you got any idea what I got goin' on here? 293 00:20:08,431 --> 00:20:12,900 I got my life savings dumped into this place, and I barely make payroll. 294 00:20:12,902 --> 00:20:14,804 I got the fire department, the health department 295 00:20:16,405 --> 00:20:18,774 double, triple fining me for shit I didn't even know I wasn't supposed to do. 296 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,144 My barback is stealing my tips, 297 00:20:21,409 --> 00:20:22,344 and then... 298 00:20:23,378 --> 00:20:26,081 I get to pick up Mom and Pop's prescriptions, 299 00:20:26,315 --> 00:20:28,918 pick up their dry cleaning. Take them to church. 300 00:20:32,754 --> 00:20:33,889 Here. 301 00:20:35,090 --> 00:20:36,789 I filled out all the paperwork. 302 00:20:36,791 --> 00:20:37,961 All he's gotta do is sign it. 303 00:20:38,728 --> 00:20:40,797 - The Reminisce Neighborhood? - Yeah. 304 00:20:41,097 --> 00:20:42,932 They're all called shit like that. 305 00:20:47,368 --> 00:20:49,204 Here, put this in your purse. 306 00:20:54,976 --> 00:20:56,845 You got your big girl pants on? 307 00:20:58,146 --> 00:21:00,817 - What? - Just don't get how you get. 308 00:21:01,317 --> 00:21:04,921 - What do you mean, how I get? Don't get how you get. - How do I get? 309 00:21:05,253 --> 00:21:07,386 You can't even tell him you're not a Catholic anymore. 310 00:21:07,388 --> 00:21:09,222 What's he gonna do, perform an exorcism? 311 00:21:09,224 --> 00:21:11,357 That's because I'm tired of the third degree. 312 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,396 Yeah, you know what you do when Dad gives you the third degree? 313 00:21:15,063 --> 00:21:17,199 Yeah. See, that's how you get. 314 00:21:20,368 --> 00:21:21,838 All right. 315 00:21:23,772 --> 00:21:25,140 So disgusting. 316 00:21:31,312 --> 00:21:32,848 Hi, Dad. 317 00:21:34,316 --> 00:21:36,249 - You smell like an ashtray, Nicholas. - Yeah, 318 00:21:36,251 --> 00:21:37,984 it took you four heart attacks to quit. 319 00:21:37,986 --> 00:21:40,921 Yeah, Rachel probably wants to throttle you. 320 00:21:40,923 --> 00:21:42,291 - They broke up. - Ah. 321 00:21:43,058 --> 00:21:44,327 - Just being honest. - Mmm. 322 00:21:44,827 --> 00:21:45,795 I don't blame her. 323 00:21:46,127 --> 00:21:47,928 Been on and off since high school, 324 00:21:47,930 --> 00:21:49,128 shit or get off the pot. 325 00:21:49,130 --> 00:21:51,198 Oh, gee, Dad, that's romantic. 326 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,236 - You know what your problem is? - Dad. 327 00:21:53,868 --> 00:21:55,536 You're waiting for some feeling. 328 00:21:55,538 --> 00:21:57,371 There's no bells and whistles. 329 00:21:57,373 --> 00:22:01,407 You pick somebody you can stand, and you make a commitment. 330 00:22:01,409 --> 00:22:03,410 - Dad. - Have her meet us at church tomorrow. 331 00:22:03,412 --> 00:22:06,316 Marion-Down-The-Hall's coming over with a corned beef. 332 00:22:07,249 --> 00:22:08,918 - Dad. - What? 333 00:22:10,819 --> 00:22:12,288 We need to talk about Mom. 334 00:22:13,021 --> 00:22:15,489 Goddamn teaching hospital. 335 00:22:15,491 --> 00:22:18,357 That little girl should never have been left anywhere near your mother. 336 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:22,298 - What little girl? - The teenager pretending to be a doctor. 337 00:22:22,498 --> 00:22:24,434 Your mother is doing fine. 338 00:22:24,834 --> 00:22:27,134 So, wandering off in the middle of the night's doing fine? 339 00:22:27,136 --> 00:22:31,070 Well, I gave her too much scotch, which I never do, 340 00:22:31,072 --> 00:22:34,040 but it was Christmas Eve so I said, "What the hell." 341 00:22:34,042 --> 00:22:35,909 So, what, she walked off 'cause she was drunk? 342 00:22:35,911 --> 00:22:38,578 She can't drink hardly at all with the medication she's taking. 343 00:22:38,580 --> 00:22:43,317 No, Dad, she walked off because that's what happens with stage six. 344 00:22:43,319 --> 00:22:47,019 Those stages are horseshit, everybody's brain is different... 345 00:22:47,021 --> 00:22:48,555 - Goddammit. - ...and everybody knows it. 346 00:22:48,557 --> 00:22:51,290 - Everybody except the doctor? - She was not a doctor. 347 00:22:51,292 --> 00:22:55,497 Okay, all right. So, we'll get a second opinion. 348 00:22:55,964 --> 00:22:59,399 I got an appointment next week with her geriatrician down in Florida. 349 00:22:59,401 --> 00:23:03,303 Oh, my God. Dad, you cannot go to Florida! 350 00:23:03,305 --> 00:23:06,606 - You're gonna wake Mom. - We are too going to Florida. 351 00:23:06,608 --> 00:23:08,977 I already put down a deposit. 352 00:23:09,944 --> 00:23:11,280 Dad, listen. 353 00:23:11,946 --> 00:23:13,512 There's this place that Nicky found, 354 00:23:13,514 --> 00:23:15,414 and it looks like it could be a really... 355 00:23:15,416 --> 00:23:18,120 I am not putting your mother in a nursing home. 356 00:23:18,486 --> 00:23:21,054 She spent 30 years working in nursing homes. 357 00:23:21,056 --> 00:23:23,257 They're horrible, and I'm not doing it to her. 358 00:23:23,259 --> 00:23:26,660 Dad, It's not a nursing home, all right? 359 00:23:26,662 --> 00:23:29,128 - It's Reminisce Neighborhood. - What? 360 00:23:29,130 --> 00:23:30,499 Reminisce Neighborhood. 361 00:23:31,165 --> 00:23:34,102 Yeah, it's great. They got Mass twice a week, 362 00:23:34,302 --> 00:23:37,203 a restaurant, art classes, a Jacuzzi. 363 00:23:37,205 --> 00:23:38,107 Jacuzzi? 364 00:23:39,374 --> 00:23:41,173 Your mother can't swim. What do you want? To drown her? 365 00:23:41,175 --> 00:23:43,277 You cannot drown in a Jacuzzi. 366 00:23:43,279 --> 00:23:45,011 She's terrified of water Nicholas. 367 00:23:45,013 --> 00:23:46,512 Yeah, she used to be terrified of Berwyn, 368 00:23:46,514 --> 00:23:48,649 now she's walking around down there in her nightie. 369 00:23:48,651 --> 00:23:50,854 Yeah. 370 00:23:51,086 --> 00:23:53,953 Now there's a two bedroom right next door, 371 00:23:53,955 --> 00:23:56,455 50 yards away in assisted living for you, okay. 372 00:23:56,457 --> 00:23:59,061 Are you out of your mind? 373 00:23:59,294 --> 00:24:01,528 Bitty feels the same way, right. 374 00:24:01,530 --> 00:24:04,434 How the hell do you know what Bitty feels, how do you know? 375 00:24:07,202 --> 00:24:07,971 Dad, I... 376 00:24:08,972 --> 00:24:11,907 I think this is a solution worth considering. 377 00:24:14,242 --> 00:24:18,181 Well, I've been thinking about this for eight years 378 00:24:18,947 --> 00:24:20,382 and the answer is no. 379 00:24:21,783 --> 00:24:24,953 Thank you for your suggestion. Merry Christmas. I'm going to bed. 380 00:24:29,157 --> 00:24:32,558 - I tried. - She wandered off in the middle of a fucking snowstorm. 381 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,898 Doesn't snow in Florida. 382 00:24:37,165 --> 00:24:38,501 And mind your language. 383 00:24:45,540 --> 00:24:48,377 Strong, real strong. 384 00:25:04,193 --> 00:25:05,528 I'm not going to force him. 385 00:25:09,030 --> 00:25:11,501 You know why she wound up in Aurora? 386 00:25:14,336 --> 00:25:16,673 'Cause that liner used to run to Amboy. 387 00:25:17,205 --> 00:25:19,442 Her dad worked that train. 388 00:25:21,476 --> 00:25:23,211 She was trying to go home. 389 00:25:26,181 --> 00:25:28,318 She thinks she's still a little girl, 390 00:25:29,283 --> 00:25:31,954 and she thinks her parents are worried sick about her. 391 00:25:34,356 --> 00:25:37,193 And all she wants to do is get home to her poor mother. 392 00:25:38,059 --> 00:25:40,363 She can't figure out why she's stuck here, 393 00:25:40,762 --> 00:25:43,366 all alone, with some strange, old dude. 394 00:25:51,572 --> 00:25:54,476 What the hell do you think power of attorney is for? 395 00:26:00,348 --> 00:26:01,483 Goodnight. 396 00:26:34,750 --> 00:26:36,386 I thought you went to bed. 397 00:26:36,617 --> 00:26:39,254 I did. I got back up. 398 00:26:41,790 --> 00:26:43,192 Nice tree. 399 00:26:43,826 --> 00:26:45,361 Your mother likes the pictures. 400 00:26:46,627 --> 00:26:49,165 She did something with the ornaments, so I got creative. 401 00:26:49,565 --> 00:26:51,434 Come on, I'll let you win a game. 402 00:26:53,367 --> 00:26:55,167 You're not too tired? 403 00:26:55,169 --> 00:26:57,439 For my daughter who never visits? 404 00:27:06,714 --> 00:27:09,215 Emma said she got kicked out of her dorm. 405 00:27:09,217 --> 00:27:10,719 - What's that all about? - Yeah. 406 00:27:11,486 --> 00:27:14,456 Yeah. She got caught drinking, so stupid. 407 00:27:15,424 --> 00:27:17,193 But you know what her problem is? 408 00:27:17,492 --> 00:27:20,096 She's negative. She doesn't get any exercise. 409 00:27:20,462 --> 00:27:22,732 Oh. Her problem is she's not a student. 410 00:27:23,264 --> 00:27:27,203 College is a waste of time, waste of money if you're not a student. 411 00:27:29,370 --> 00:27:30,839 She's gotta get a degree. 412 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,472 No, she doesn't have to get a degree. 413 00:27:33,474 --> 00:27:37,079 She'll figure it out. Look at you, you figured it out. 414 00:27:40,616 --> 00:27:42,218 Why can't you sleep? 415 00:27:43,284 --> 00:27:44,619 Why can't you sleep? 416 00:27:45,186 --> 00:27:46,388 I can sleep. 417 00:27:50,459 --> 00:27:53,362 I'm sorry. I ought to be here more often. 418 00:27:54,896 --> 00:27:56,398 You're here plenty. 419 00:27:57,499 --> 00:27:59,499 You got family, you got girls, 420 00:27:59,501 --> 00:28:01,535 you got a husband, you got a job. 421 00:28:01,537 --> 00:28:04,273 You live halfway across the country for Chrissake. 422 00:28:04,705 --> 00:28:05,640 We're fine. 423 00:28:05,941 --> 00:28:07,641 Marion-Down-The-Hall's helpful. 424 00:28:07,643 --> 00:28:11,547 She takes mom on poker night and whatnot. 425 00:28:13,514 --> 00:28:16,916 The two of them, a couple of peas in a pod. 426 00:28:16,918 --> 00:28:18,852 Both battier than hell. 427 00:28:18,854 --> 00:28:21,557 You take great care of her. 428 00:28:21,924 --> 00:28:23,757 But it's gotta be hard on you. 429 00:28:23,759 --> 00:28:25,261 Oh, Honey. 430 00:28:25,927 --> 00:28:28,463 Your mother was always a pain in the ass. 431 00:28:29,630 --> 00:28:32,332 Gettin' her Irish up, stompin' around, 432 00:28:32,334 --> 00:28:35,605 all red in the face over God knows what. 433 00:28:36,972 --> 00:28:39,407 There's no bells and whistles, Bit. 434 00:28:40,375 --> 00:28:42,545 Love is commitment. 435 00:28:45,681 --> 00:28:46,716 Better or worse, 436 00:28:48,216 --> 00:28:49,684 sickness and health, 437 00:28:50,219 --> 00:28:53,723 death do you part. That is the promise. 438 00:28:56,290 --> 00:28:58,226 She's gonna get worse, Dad. 439 00:29:01,296 --> 00:29:03,266 She's gonna forget everything. 440 00:29:11,706 --> 00:29:13,309 She's my girl, Bit. 441 00:29:14,742 --> 00:29:17,280 You can't take my girl away from me. 442 00:29:22,451 --> 00:29:24,420 Shut the lights when you're done. 443 00:29:40,534 --> 00:29:46,373 ♪ Joy to the world The Lord has come ♪ 444 00:29:46,375 --> 00:29:52,479 ♪ Let Earth receive her King ♪ 445 00:29:52,481 --> 00:29:58,617 ♪ Let every heart Prepare Him room ♪ 446 00:29:58,619 --> 00:30:00,553 ♪ And Heaven and nature sing ♪ 447 00:30:00,555 --> 00:30:02,388 What's that? Is it raining in here. 448 00:30:02,390 --> 00:30:04,891 ♪ And Heaven and nature sing ♪ 449 00:30:04,893 --> 00:30:07,826 ♪ And Heaven ♪ 450 00:30:07,828 --> 00:30:08,830 What? 451 00:30:15,503 --> 00:30:16,871 - Take care of yourself. - Thank you. 452 00:30:17,371 --> 00:30:18,974 - Thanks, Father. - Yeah, you're welcome. 453 00:30:19,407 --> 00:30:21,843 - Marion. - Beautiful homily, Father. 454 00:30:26,682 --> 00:30:27,783 Bitty Everhardt? 455 00:30:29,451 --> 00:30:30,620 It's Gerry. 456 00:30:31,919 --> 00:30:33,355 Hoffsteader. 457 00:30:34,489 --> 00:30:37,260 - Dommie's little brother, yeah. - Oh, yeah. 458 00:30:38,059 --> 00:30:41,060 - Hey, I'm sorry about your mom. - Oh, thanks. 459 00:30:41,062 --> 00:30:42,530 Get your sister. 460 00:30:44,499 --> 00:30:45,800 You look great. 461 00:30:46,335 --> 00:30:47,703 Uh, construction. 462 00:30:48,537 --> 00:30:49,639 Yeah, I took over for Dad. 463 00:30:49,937 --> 00:30:51,640 Bitty! 464 00:30:52,808 --> 00:30:53,809 Hey, Nick. 465 00:30:54,076 --> 00:30:55,478 Hey Ger. 466 00:30:55,711 --> 00:30:58,614 - We gotta go. - Bye. 467 00:31:02,017 --> 00:31:03,682 Grandma drank the Holy Water. 468 00:31:03,684 --> 00:31:05,553 Well... 469 00:31:05,986 --> 00:31:07,555 Well, at least she's hydrated. 470 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:13,727 God will forgive me. 471 00:31:13,729 --> 00:31:14,963 - I'll see ya. - See ya, Ger. 472 00:31:15,664 --> 00:31:16,962 - Who was that? - Nice to see you. 473 00:31:16,964 --> 00:31:18,431 Gerry Hoff-sniffer. 474 00:31:18,433 --> 00:31:20,532 - Don't call him that. - He used to beat off 475 00:31:20,534 --> 00:31:21,800 sniffing his sister's Barbie dolls. 476 00:31:21,802 --> 00:31:23,470 - Says who? - Says Dommie. 477 00:31:23,472 --> 00:31:25,571 - Where's my purse? - I have it, Gram. 478 00:31:25,573 --> 00:31:27,640 He used to be so tubby in junior high. 479 00:31:27,642 --> 00:31:30,576 - So were you. - Yeah. Old Big Butt Bitty. 480 00:31:30,578 --> 00:31:33,581 - Nicky. - Does somebody have my purse? 481 00:31:34,014 --> 00:31:35,615 I have it, Gram. 482 00:31:36,984 --> 00:31:38,951 Well, I'm gonna get my purse. 483 00:31:38,953 --> 00:31:40,487 So I said, "Margie, 484 00:31:40,489 --> 00:31:42,489 Margie, honey he's a toddler. 485 00:31:42,491 --> 00:31:44,057 Of course he likes pancakes." 486 00:31:44,059 --> 00:31:46,395 - What do you got, Dad? - Who doesn't like pancakes? 487 00:31:47,028 --> 00:31:49,729 - I got the obituaries. - Bridget, you're so skinny. 488 00:31:49,731 --> 00:31:51,530 - Why you reading obituaries? - I'm not in them. 489 00:31:51,532 --> 00:31:52,999 Come on, cheer up. Well, yeah. 490 00:31:53,001 --> 00:31:53,969 I guess that's something. 491 00:31:54,970 --> 00:31:56,469 Thinner, honey. Here, just a little thinner. 492 00:31:57,905 --> 00:31:58,907 Fine, you do it. 493 00:31:59,907 --> 00:32:01,409 Come on. What's going on? 494 00:32:03,744 --> 00:32:04,646 Come on. 495 00:32:05,813 --> 00:32:06,813 I hungry. 496 00:32:06,815 --> 00:32:08,013 This the age where it starts. 497 00:32:08,015 --> 00:32:09,451 It's all about control. 498 00:32:10,418 --> 00:32:13,685 Oh, beautiful. Thank you, Emma. 499 00:32:24,532 --> 00:32:27,634 Bless us, O Lord, for these thy gifts which we are about to receive 500 00:32:27,636 --> 00:32:29,602 from thy bounty through Christ our Lord, amen. 501 00:32:29,604 --> 00:32:31,507 Amen. 502 00:32:32,107 --> 00:32:34,140 So, Emma, you got a boyfriend? 503 00:32:34,142 --> 00:32:35,845 She's got several actually. 504 00:32:36,077 --> 00:32:37,509 Cool it, Nicky. 505 00:32:37,511 --> 00:32:39,045 Just as easy to love a rich one 506 00:32:39,047 --> 00:32:40,480 as a poor one, Squeaks. 507 00:32:40,482 --> 00:32:42,080 No bells and whistles. 508 00:32:42,082 --> 00:32:45,050 You know my Frankie died 17 years ago 509 00:32:45,052 --> 00:32:46,421 and I never remarried, 510 00:32:47,489 --> 00:32:49,692 although I had plenty of chances, and you know why? 511 00:32:49,925 --> 00:32:52,694 Hand to God, 'cause Frankie never left. 512 00:32:52,927 --> 00:32:55,194 Every single night he's right there next to me. 513 00:32:55,196 --> 00:32:57,463 - Yeah. That's right. - Hand to God. 514 00:32:57,465 --> 00:33:00,767 He's out there, and when he finds you, you watch out, 515 00:33:00,769 --> 00:33:02,738 he's never gonna let you go. 516 00:33:05,607 --> 00:33:07,807 So I said to Margie, "That kid's gonna be 517 00:33:07,809 --> 00:33:10,112 big as house if you don't watch it." 518 00:33:10,611 --> 00:33:13,880 But you know Margie. Oh, no. Mmm. Not a peep. 519 00:33:13,882 --> 00:33:15,818 You know, I'm going to have a baby. 520 00:33:17,786 --> 00:33:20,823 Kid's gonna wind up with diabetes. 521 00:33:21,121 --> 00:33:24,025 Mmm. Mmm. Delicious. 522 00:33:24,826 --> 00:33:25,861 So tender. 523 00:33:29,063 --> 00:33:30,730 - What? What? - Nothing. 524 00:33:30,732 --> 00:33:32,632 - What's matter with you two? - That's great news, Mom. 525 00:33:32,634 --> 00:33:33,999 Yeah. Right? 526 00:33:34,001 --> 00:33:35,101 Did you know this, Dad? 527 00:33:35,103 --> 00:33:36,502 - I heard. - Did you know? 528 00:33:36,504 --> 00:33:38,104 We saved all your old baby clothes. 529 00:33:38,106 --> 00:33:39,842 Great. Number three. 530 00:33:52,854 --> 00:33:53,989 Here. 531 00:33:54,688 --> 00:33:55,857 There you go. 532 00:33:56,691 --> 00:33:59,694 - Here. - Why did I get on that train? 533 00:34:02,129 --> 00:34:03,598 I live here. 534 00:34:04,232 --> 00:34:08,470 Oh, God. I don't know what's the matter with me. 535 00:34:10,972 --> 00:34:13,008 Oh, yes. Yes I do. 536 00:34:16,310 --> 00:34:19,013 Should I be in a home, do you think? 537 00:34:20,281 --> 00:34:21,617 What do you think? 538 00:34:22,584 --> 00:34:25,521 I don't know. I don't know. 539 00:34:32,026 --> 00:34:33,761 Night, Mama. 540 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:41,669 Goodnight. 541 00:35:01,890 --> 00:35:03,723 How's everything going there? 542 00:35:03,725 --> 00:35:06,028 Terrible. Dad won't even consider it. 543 00:35:06,660 --> 00:35:10,064 Well, I don't blame him. Nobody wants to be alone for the rest of their life. 544 00:35:12,267 --> 00:35:13,535 Hello? 545 00:35:14,336 --> 00:35:16,671 - Hello? - I'm sorry, I'm here. 546 00:35:16,972 --> 00:35:19,339 So, hey. What's going on with Emma? 547 00:35:19,341 --> 00:35:22,211 Nothing, you know. She's fine. 548 00:35:23,211 --> 00:35:25,814 Well, you know she didn't register for next semester. 549 00:35:26,180 --> 00:35:29,281 - What? - Her advisor called me this morning 550 00:35:29,283 --> 00:35:30,818 saying she wasn't coming back. 551 00:35:31,318 --> 00:35:33,688 All right, you're gonna love this next move. 552 00:35:34,321 --> 00:35:36,791 - I think I'm going to raise you one candy. - Gross, get a fork. 553 00:35:37,258 --> 00:35:39,595 One, two, three. 554 00:35:39,794 --> 00:35:43,962 - Huh. Not bad. - Not bad. Yeah. 555 00:35:43,964 --> 00:35:46,702 Oh, your grandma and I used to take a lot of road trips. 556 00:35:47,102 --> 00:35:50,870 She loves road trips. This time we're going straight down to Florida, 557 00:35:50,872 --> 00:35:52,671 then we're going across the country, 558 00:35:52,673 --> 00:35:54,642 be up by you in time for Mary's wedding. 559 00:35:55,377 --> 00:35:56,645 What? 560 00:35:58,046 --> 00:36:00,712 - What are you, Thelma and Louise? - Shh. You're going to wake mom. 561 00:36:00,714 --> 00:36:03,915 She does great in Florida, Nicholas, every year she's better. 562 00:36:03,917 --> 00:36:05,685 - No, she isn't. - Yes. 563 00:36:05,687 --> 00:36:06,953 - No. - How do you know? 564 00:36:06,955 --> 00:36:08,254 Because that's not how it works. 565 00:36:08,256 --> 00:36:10,055 How it works is she gets worse. 566 00:36:10,057 --> 00:36:12,258 No matter where you take her, every year she gets worse. 567 00:36:12,260 --> 00:36:13,426 - Okay? - Who? 568 00:36:13,428 --> 00:36:14,797 - Who, honey? - Nobody, Mom. 569 00:36:15,129 --> 00:36:16,763 - Nobody, Mom. - Nobody, sweetheart. 570 00:36:16,765 --> 00:36:17,964 Why don't you go back to bed? 571 00:36:17,966 --> 00:36:19,966 No. I don't wanna go to bed. 572 00:36:19,968 --> 00:36:22,267 - I want to stay here. - I'll take you, Grandma. Come on. 573 00:36:22,269 --> 00:36:23,336 - Come. - No, hold on. 574 00:36:23,338 --> 00:36:24,872 - Why? - Come, come. 575 00:36:30,444 --> 00:36:31,877 - Who's that? - Nick. 576 00:36:31,879 --> 00:36:33,046 - Nicky. - Oh, what is that? 577 00:36:33,048 --> 00:36:34,279 Do you know who that is? 578 00:36:34,281 --> 00:36:35,984 Of course she does. 579 00:36:36,785 --> 00:36:38,821 You know who I am, sweetheart. 580 00:36:40,821 --> 00:36:42,624 He's my boyfriend. 581 00:36:43,425 --> 00:36:45,258 - See? - What do you mean see? 582 00:36:45,260 --> 00:36:47,225 You're her boyfriend? Is that what you are? 583 00:36:47,227 --> 00:36:49,761 - Well, he's not, not her boyfriend. - No, he isn't! 584 00:36:49,763 --> 00:36:51,163 - Well, he kinda is. - No. 585 00:36:51,165 --> 00:36:53,700 - Who? - He is not. Emma, for Chrissake. 586 00:36:53,702 --> 00:36:55,133 Yes, he is, Nicky! 587 00:36:55,135 --> 00:36:58,738 - She knows who I am. - Who are you talking about? 588 00:36:58,740 --> 00:37:00,138 You, sweetheart. 589 00:37:00,140 --> 00:37:02,140 - Dad. - He's your husband, Grandma. 590 00:37:02,142 --> 00:37:04,711 - Don't tell her, damn it. - She knows I'm her husband. 591 00:37:04,713 --> 00:37:05,944 I know I'm his husband. 592 00:37:05,946 --> 00:37:08,314 - You're my husband! - No, you don't, Mom. 593 00:37:08,316 --> 00:37:09,881 - I do. - Yes, she does. 594 00:37:09,883 --> 00:37:11,283 - Now you're telling her. - No, I'm not. 595 00:37:11,285 --> 00:37:12,250 Yes, you are! 596 00:37:12,252 --> 00:37:13,785 You just told her 597 00:37:13,787 --> 00:37:15,721 that she didn't know I was her husband. 598 00:37:15,723 --> 00:37:16,988 Because she doesn't! 599 00:37:16,990 --> 00:37:19,325 She just told you she did! 600 00:37:19,327 --> 00:37:21,060 Because Emma told her! 601 00:37:21,062 --> 00:37:22,897 Answer the phone somebody. 602 00:37:23,198 --> 00:37:25,834 - I'm getting it. - Thanks, honey. Answer that. 603 00:37:26,501 --> 00:37:28,000 - I mean, she's... - Hello? 604 00:37:28,002 --> 00:37:31,303 she's flipping people off in church, Dad. 605 00:37:31,305 --> 00:37:34,108 - She's drinking the holy water. - So? 606 00:37:34,475 --> 00:37:38,012 What do you mean so? You're the one... Oh, Goddamn it. 607 00:37:38,312 --> 00:37:40,312 - You're a kid for Chrissake. - Hey, come on. 608 00:37:40,314 --> 00:37:42,948 - Calm down. - This damn thing doesn't work. 609 00:37:42,950 --> 00:37:45,984 You said you'd fix it a hundred times, you turkey. 610 00:37:45,986 --> 00:37:47,923 It's not working. 611 00:37:48,490 --> 00:37:49,857 - Grandma. - What? 612 00:37:50,959 --> 00:37:52,361 It's a stapler. 613 00:37:52,827 --> 00:37:53,896 It's a staple. 614 00:37:54,495 --> 00:37:55,963 A stapler. 615 00:38:07,242 --> 00:38:09,508 What the hell am I doing with this? 616 00:38:13,180 --> 00:38:14,282 Oh, God. 617 00:38:16,316 --> 00:38:18,119 Yeah, yuk it up. 618 00:38:19,086 --> 00:38:24,225 It really is pretty hilarious, life's just one big riot. 619 00:38:31,533 --> 00:38:37,139 Just ship me out. Put me on a canoe and ship me out to the ice float. 620 00:38:41,810 --> 00:38:43,011 Shit. 621 00:38:44,879 --> 00:38:46,348 - Hey. - What? 622 00:38:46,914 --> 00:38:48,548 Hey, come back. Come here. 623 00:38:48,550 --> 00:38:50,017 No. 624 00:38:51,285 --> 00:38:53,021 You know what? Let me ask you something. 625 00:38:54,522 --> 00:38:57,359 What'd you fly all the way out here for? Why? 626 00:38:58,091 --> 00:38:59,558 Because Mom was missing. 627 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,863 No, because I asked you to. 628 00:39:03,064 --> 00:39:05,298 Isn't that right? I asked you to. 629 00:39:05,300 --> 00:39:08,470 I never do that, okay. But I need some help. 630 00:39:09,236 --> 00:39:11,904 - I'm working on it, Nicky. - There's no time to work on it. 631 00:39:11,906 --> 00:39:14,473 Jimmy Laciak is holding these spots. That's a big ass deal, 632 00:39:14,475 --> 00:39:17,112 and he was supposed to have the paperwork two days ago. 633 00:39:18,245 --> 00:39:20,379 - Okay. - You just rip the Band-Aid off 634 00:39:20,381 --> 00:39:23,886 and say, "Guess what, we're coming in with moving boxes." 635 00:39:24,318 --> 00:39:25,219 Okay. 636 00:40:03,457 --> 00:40:04,926 Emma. 637 00:40:05,325 --> 00:40:06,828 Emma. 638 00:40:08,196 --> 00:40:09,097 What? 639 00:40:09,464 --> 00:40:10,432 Come for a run with me. 640 00:40:11,298 --> 00:40:13,432 You'll feel great afterward, I'm telling you... 641 00:40:49,169 --> 00:40:52,206 I'm casting my vote for you. 642 00:40:57,312 --> 00:40:59,145 Well, there's my baby! 643 00:40:59,147 --> 00:41:00,712 No, sit down. 644 00:41:00,714 --> 00:41:02,348 You've got dye all over you. 645 00:41:02,350 --> 00:41:04,549 Drink your protein drink, sweetheart. 646 00:41:04,551 --> 00:41:07,289 Meet my boyfriend, Mr. Bossy. 647 00:41:08,488 --> 00:41:11,057 - Do you need anything, honey? - No thanks. I'm fine, Mom. 648 00:41:11,059 --> 00:41:13,692 She doesn't need anything. Drink your protein drink. 649 00:41:13,694 --> 00:41:15,296 My protein... Ugh. 650 00:41:17,097 --> 00:41:20,098 Oh, come on. It's just like a chocolate malt. 651 00:41:20,100 --> 00:41:23,472 Oh, yeah. You wouldn't know a chocolate malt if it bit you in the hiney. 652 00:41:24,138 --> 00:41:26,441 Because I was a fountain girl. 653 00:41:26,707 --> 00:41:29,310 I was a good fountain girl. 654 00:41:30,577 --> 00:41:31,676 In... 655 00:41:31,678 --> 00:41:33,314 - Amboy. - Amboy, yeah. 656 00:41:34,448 --> 00:41:35,316 My... 657 00:41:36,383 --> 00:41:40,185 My father, consequently, works on the trains, 658 00:41:40,187 --> 00:41:43,122 - and he's a... - Engineer. 659 00:41:43,124 --> 00:41:45,290 An engineer, that's right, 660 00:41:45,292 --> 00:41:47,325 and he was an engineer and he would get off the train 661 00:41:47,327 --> 00:41:50,331 and he would bring me chocolate malts. 662 00:41:51,631 --> 00:41:53,232 Yeah. 663 00:41:53,234 --> 00:41:56,569 Oh, boy. Because I was sick. Yeah, I had... 664 00:41:56,571 --> 00:41:57,602 You had Polio. 665 00:41:57,604 --> 00:42:00,141 Polio. Yeah, I had Polio. 666 00:42:00,441 --> 00:42:05,611 And then that's all I did all day was drink those chocolate malts, 667 00:42:05,613 --> 00:42:07,779 and consequently I... 668 00:42:07,781 --> 00:42:09,216 - Got fat. - Fat! 669 00:42:09,649 --> 00:42:11,252 - Dad. - What? 670 00:42:11,752 --> 00:42:13,084 She wasn't fat. 671 00:42:13,086 --> 00:42:14,088 She was very fat. 672 00:42:14,354 --> 00:42:17,258 Yeah, I was very, very fat. 673 00:42:17,792 --> 00:42:20,362 And then I was a housewife, 674 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:24,263 - You were not. - No, you were a career woman, Ruth. 675 00:42:24,265 --> 00:42:28,136 You were two-time Administrator of the Year. 676 00:42:29,037 --> 00:42:30,305 Holy shit. 677 00:42:31,638 --> 00:42:33,207 I knew that. 678 00:42:36,077 --> 00:42:37,479 How do you two know each other? 679 00:42:39,546 --> 00:42:42,117 She's our daughter, for Chrissake, Ruth. 680 00:42:45,586 --> 00:42:47,189 I'm gonna get my purse. 681 00:42:49,624 --> 00:42:51,122 Don't touch anything. 682 00:42:51,124 --> 00:42:52,792 I'm not gonna touch anything. 683 00:42:52,794 --> 00:42:54,396 I'm getting my purse. 684 00:42:57,330 --> 00:42:59,468 We're going to Edna's for dinner tonight. 685 00:43:02,269 --> 00:43:03,771 You feel like doing me a favor? 686 00:43:04,805 --> 00:43:07,138 Here give me your hand. 687 00:43:07,140 --> 00:43:08,510 - It's your turn. - Wait. 688 00:43:08,810 --> 00:43:10,542 In here? 689 00:43:10,544 --> 00:43:12,278 Rub that in your hair. 690 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,448 Yeah. There you go. 691 00:43:15,615 --> 00:43:17,716 Don't get soap in your eyes, Mom. 692 00:43:17,718 --> 00:43:19,250 Close your eyes. 693 00:43:19,252 --> 00:43:22,457 You're so nice to do this for me. 694 00:43:23,191 --> 00:43:24,559 You did it for me. 695 00:43:25,792 --> 00:43:28,694 - Yeah. I did, didn't I? - Yeah. 696 00:43:28,696 --> 00:43:31,366 Oh, God. 697 00:43:32,566 --> 00:43:37,569 Nicky hated the bath. He would kick and scream. 698 00:43:37,571 --> 00:43:40,408 Ah! Then I said, "Oh, to hell with it." 699 00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,476 I just let him be dirty. 700 00:43:42,877 --> 00:43:45,047 But you were a good girl. 701 00:43:48,548 --> 00:43:50,651 I should've been a better mother. 702 00:43:52,586 --> 00:43:54,121 You are a great mom. 703 00:43:59,727 --> 00:44:01,727 Do I need to wash my hair? 704 00:44:01,729 --> 00:44:03,229 No, you already did, you're done. 705 00:44:03,231 --> 00:44:04,729 Wash your who-who. 706 00:44:04,731 --> 00:44:06,100 Who-who. 707 00:44:06,734 --> 00:44:10,472 Well, you got a cute little tushie. 708 00:44:11,671 --> 00:44:13,207 Where's... give me that. 709 00:44:16,743 --> 00:44:18,379 Do you have a boyfriend? 710 00:44:19,747 --> 00:44:21,283 I have a husband. 711 00:44:23,618 --> 00:44:25,087 Are you happy? 712 00:44:27,854 --> 00:44:29,223 I'm lonely. 713 00:44:32,426 --> 00:44:34,129 Do I need to wash my hair? 714 00:44:34,495 --> 00:44:37,696 No, here. Mom, rinse your who-who. 715 00:44:37,698 --> 00:44:39,367 - My who-who. - Yeah. 716 00:44:48,276 --> 00:44:50,145 Oh, I don't wanna upset her. 717 00:44:50,377 --> 00:44:52,343 - Who? - Whoever's shoes those are. 718 00:44:52,345 --> 00:44:53,779 Those are your shoes, Mom. Here. 719 00:44:53,781 --> 00:44:55,480 They are not. I... 720 00:44:55,482 --> 00:44:58,185 Those are the ugliest things I've seen in my life. 721 00:44:58,653 --> 00:45:01,352 Come on, Mom. Put your shoes on. Marion is waiting for you. 722 00:45:01,354 --> 00:45:02,787 Marion. I'm going with you? 723 00:45:02,789 --> 00:45:04,656 Yeah. Hey, doll. 724 00:45:04,658 --> 00:45:05,794 Good. Hi. 725 00:45:06,394 --> 00:45:08,761 Get the folder. Get the folder. 726 00:45:08,763 --> 00:45:10,531 Just let me get dressed. 727 00:45:20,941 --> 00:45:23,611 Did you go into my computer and log into my school account? 728 00:45:26,214 --> 00:45:26,948 Somebody did. 729 00:45:27,582 --> 00:45:29,348 Somebody went in and signed me up 730 00:45:29,350 --> 00:45:31,486 for a bunch of random classes. That wasn't you? 731 00:45:31,752 --> 00:45:32,687 No. 732 00:45:33,955 --> 00:45:35,257 Liar. 733 00:45:37,624 --> 00:45:38,592 How does it feel? 734 00:45:39,693 --> 00:45:42,396 You lied to me about filling out your dorm application. 735 00:45:42,796 --> 00:45:44,696 Because I didn't want you on me. Okay? 736 00:45:44,698 --> 00:45:47,601 I didn't feel like dealing with your crazy hovering. 737 00:45:48,568 --> 00:45:49,771 Were you ever going to do it? 738 00:45:51,839 --> 00:45:52,805 Huh? 739 00:45:52,807 --> 00:45:54,509 - Yes. - When? 740 00:45:56,711 --> 00:45:58,847 When I decided whether or not I was going back. 741 00:45:59,446 --> 00:46:00,745 - Okay? - Where's the... 742 00:46:00,747 --> 00:46:02,615 Doesn't anybody know how to knock? 743 00:46:02,617 --> 00:46:04,450 - Do you mind? - Hey, I'm not looking. Where's the folder? 744 00:46:04,452 --> 00:46:06,187 - Nick. Why would you do that? - Come on. 745 00:46:06,386 --> 00:46:09,323 - Would you get out here, Bitty. Damn it. - Just give me a minute! 746 00:46:09,723 --> 00:46:10,624 God. 747 00:46:11,959 --> 00:46:14,328 I am a grown up, okay? 748 00:46:14,861 --> 00:46:17,662 God, you make me feel like there's something wrong with me. 749 00:46:17,664 --> 00:46:19,733 - There's nothing wrong with you. - Yeah, I know. 750 00:46:22,937 --> 00:46:26,272 I would have given anything to go to college, Emma. 751 00:46:26,274 --> 00:46:27,305 I know. 752 00:46:27,307 --> 00:46:29,210 You have no perspective. 753 00:46:29,709 --> 00:46:32,213 You have no idea how lucky you are. 754 00:46:34,814 --> 00:46:36,784 Do you think I'm trying to hate school? 755 00:46:37,017 --> 00:46:39,484 You think I don't want to get out of bed in the morning? 756 00:46:39,486 --> 00:46:44,022 That I like lying there feeling like a piece of shit for blowing it, 757 00:46:44,024 --> 00:46:45,559 for wasting Dad's money? 758 00:46:46,026 --> 00:46:48,493 Laying there thinking about how much you wanted to go 759 00:46:48,495 --> 00:46:51,863 until I wanna throw myself out the window because I can't take it, 760 00:46:51,865 --> 00:46:53,634 you think that's fun for me? 761 00:46:53,934 --> 00:46:56,338 Honey. Why didn't you tell me? 762 00:46:58,205 --> 00:46:59,370 'Cause you would just try to get me to go 763 00:46:59,372 --> 00:47:00,774 on one of your stupid runs. 764 00:47:01,475 --> 00:47:03,511 Like you're not a fucking mess. 765 00:47:04,312 --> 00:47:05,647 I am not a mess. 766 00:47:08,515 --> 00:47:11,917 This is ridiculous, Dad. Come on, This is silly. I know it's hard, 767 00:47:11,919 --> 00:47:16,992 but I'm begging you, okay? This is the best memory care in Chicago! 768 00:47:17,390 --> 00:47:18,792 Let me tell you something, 769 00:47:19,459 --> 00:47:21,593 those pictures on the tree in there, 770 00:47:21,595 --> 00:47:23,395 tell her how she takes her coffee, 771 00:47:23,397 --> 00:47:25,064 how many ice cubes she likes in her scotch. 772 00:47:25,066 --> 00:47:26,468 That's memory care. 773 00:47:27,635 --> 00:47:29,600 I was there for every memory she made in last 60 years, 774 00:47:29,602 --> 00:47:32,604 and if I wasn't there, I heard about it at least 37 times, 775 00:47:32,606 --> 00:47:35,542 so I am the best memory care in Chicago! 776 00:47:35,843 --> 00:47:37,542 I bathe her, I feed her, 777 00:47:37,544 --> 00:47:39,712 I give her her pills, I wipe her ass 778 00:47:39,714 --> 00:47:42,348 and I do it a hell of a lot better than some aide, 779 00:47:42,350 --> 00:47:43,816 who does not give one goddamn hoot 780 00:47:43,818 --> 00:47:46,287 about over who she spent 60 years becoming! 781 00:47:46,687 --> 00:47:48,354 Put some clothes on, we're late. 782 00:47:48,356 --> 00:47:49,888 And get rid of that thing. 783 00:47:49,890 --> 00:47:52,661 I don't want your mother to see it. Goddamn it! 784 00:47:56,097 --> 00:47:58,464 You couldn't have waited one minute, Nick? 785 00:47:58,466 --> 00:48:02,133 Couldn't wait? Couldn't wait? What! What the fuck am I even doing? 786 00:48:03,504 --> 00:48:05,006 Ah, Jesus. 787 00:48:05,606 --> 00:48:07,075 What's the matter with you, huh? 788 00:48:07,707 --> 00:48:10,311 - It's sad! - It's sad, Nicky, God! 789 00:48:15,615 --> 00:48:16,850 Hey, hey, hey. 790 00:48:17,450 --> 00:48:18,619 Calm down. 791 00:48:18,852 --> 00:48:21,419 Just what are you, dead inside? 792 00:48:21,421 --> 00:48:22,490 Almost. 793 00:48:24,557 --> 00:48:27,859 I don't want to go to Edna's. I hate Edna. 794 00:48:27,861 --> 00:48:30,162 All she ever does is talk about her stupid hip replacement. 795 00:48:30,164 --> 00:48:31,700 Well then don't go. 796 00:48:35,935 --> 00:48:37,504 Wanna stay with me? 797 00:48:38,004 --> 00:48:39,707 - No. - Come on. 798 00:48:42,510 --> 00:48:44,845 I'll just tell Dad you got menopause. 799 00:49:30,825 --> 00:49:33,428 Hi. Is this Hoffsteader Construction? 800 00:49:33,928 --> 00:49:38,566 Oh, yeah. Is this Gerry? Hi, it's Bitty. 801 00:49:38,798 --> 00:49:43,405 Yeah. Hi. Hi, yeah, listen... 802 00:49:43,771 --> 00:49:47,408 You guys don't happen to do locks, do you? 803 00:50:41,028 --> 00:50:42,163 Shit. 804 00:50:43,129 --> 00:50:45,296 I was thinking about a lock with the key, 805 00:50:45,298 --> 00:50:47,265 but with the key on the inside, you know? 806 00:50:47,267 --> 00:50:49,968 Yeah, yeah, all right. So, you know, you lock the door, 807 00:50:49,970 --> 00:50:51,270 - hide the key from her. - Yeah, exactly. 808 00:50:51,272 --> 00:50:53,138 Got it. It's smart. Uh... 809 00:50:53,140 --> 00:50:55,540 Okay, yeah. Do you want this, back door, too? 810 00:50:55,542 --> 00:50:56,741 - Yes, that would be great. - Okay. 811 00:50:56,743 --> 00:50:58,877 If you have time, I don't want... 812 00:50:58,879 --> 00:51:01,583 I got, for you, all the time in the world. 813 00:51:01,948 --> 00:51:04,818 Uh, I mean, it's not gonna take all day. 814 00:51:05,553 --> 00:51:08,020 - Okay. - It'll be like, about half hour. 815 00:51:08,022 --> 00:51:09,557 - Okay. - Each. 816 00:51:10,323 --> 00:51:12,124 - Um... - So, yeah. 817 00:51:12,126 --> 00:51:14,560 Hey, do you want a... There's a sandwich... 818 00:51:14,562 --> 00:51:17,162 There's corned beef from Marion-Down-The-Hall. 819 00:51:17,164 --> 00:51:18,964 There's a lot of leftovers, 820 00:51:18,966 --> 00:51:21,169 and I don't know, coffee or something. 821 00:51:22,202 --> 00:51:25,736 - Yes. - Okay. Great. I'll just... I'll get it. 822 00:51:27,575 --> 00:51:31,078 He's a fantastic guy. He really... 823 00:51:32,046 --> 00:51:33,181 He really is. 824 00:51:33,948 --> 00:51:36,518 It's just, you know. He's a checklist guy. 825 00:51:37,084 --> 00:51:39,584 College, check. Corporate law, check. 826 00:51:39,586 --> 00:51:40,919 Wife, kids, check, check, check. 827 00:51:40,921 --> 00:51:44,658 Which is fine, you know, but I'm not. 828 00:51:45,091 --> 00:51:49,060 And so, I'm sorry. I shouldn't be telling you all this stuff, 829 00:51:49,062 --> 00:51:50,328 I just don't... 830 00:51:50,330 --> 00:51:52,897 I don't... What is... What's... 831 00:51:52,899 --> 00:51:54,001 Here. 832 00:52:01,774 --> 00:52:04,676 I mean, I was 20 when we got married. 833 00:52:04,678 --> 00:52:06,214 - Good God. - Yeah. 834 00:52:06,946 --> 00:52:10,084 Oh, my... That's Emma's age. 835 00:52:10,751 --> 00:52:13,021 - Yeah. - And she can barely tie her shoes. 836 00:52:14,220 --> 00:52:15,556 And Mary. 837 00:52:15,823 --> 00:52:18,189 Mary at 20, she thought she was a lesbian. 838 00:52:18,191 --> 00:52:22,093 Now she's out in Sacramento with her fiancé. 839 00:52:22,095 --> 00:52:23,564 Hey, you want... 840 00:52:24,330 --> 00:52:26,064 - Want a cigarette? - Absolutely. 841 00:52:26,066 --> 00:52:28,236 Oh, God. I haven't had a cigarette in like 20 years. 842 00:52:28,635 --> 00:52:30,037 - These are my daughter's. - Thank you. 843 00:52:30,336 --> 00:52:33,640 - I don't really drink either. - Don't jack 'em. 844 00:52:37,711 --> 00:52:39,111 You really don't smoke. 845 00:52:39,113 --> 00:52:40,245 Oh. I'm sorry. 846 00:52:40,247 --> 00:52:41,716 Mm-hmm. 847 00:52:44,718 --> 00:52:45,920 That's a trick. 848 00:52:47,720 --> 00:52:50,857 - Mmm. Here. Yeah. - Thank you. 849 00:52:54,894 --> 00:52:57,598 You know, everyone thinks being alone is so bad. 850 00:52:58,131 --> 00:53:01,668 So... lonely. Mmm. 851 00:53:03,403 --> 00:53:05,005 You know what's lonely? 852 00:53:06,205 --> 00:53:09,142 Lying awake in the middle of the night thinking, "This is it. 853 00:53:09,977 --> 00:53:13,011 This is the rest of my life, this is as good as it gets." 854 00:53:13,013 --> 00:53:15,147 And then looking over at the man you've been married to 855 00:53:15,149 --> 00:53:19,721 for the last 20 years and thinking, he must be awake, too. 856 00:53:20,053 --> 00:53:20,821 Right? 857 00:53:21,622 --> 00:53:24,258 He must be feeling the same way I am. 858 00:53:24,758 --> 00:53:28,830 But looking over at him to see him sleeping like a baby? 859 00:53:29,729 --> 00:53:32,766 That. That is lonely. 860 00:53:36,035 --> 00:53:36,937 Yeah. 861 00:53:46,312 --> 00:53:47,347 I get it. 862 00:53:47,781 --> 00:53:50,118 - I'm divorced, too. - Oh. Um... 863 00:53:50,783 --> 00:53:52,854 - I'm sorry. Listen I'm... - God you smell good. 864 00:53:53,754 --> 00:53:55,656 You always fucking smell so good. 865 00:53:56,156 --> 00:53:57,191 What? Oh. 866 00:53:58,091 --> 00:53:59,491 - Wait, I'm sorry. - Hey, Ger! 867 00:53:59,493 --> 00:54:01,663 What? Oh! 868 00:54:03,097 --> 00:54:04,031 Whoops. 869 00:54:05,298 --> 00:54:06,865 - 'Sup, Nick. - Hey. 870 00:54:06,867 --> 00:54:08,403 What happened with Edna? 871 00:54:08,836 --> 00:54:10,671 - She died. - What? 872 00:54:10,970 --> 00:54:12,873 Yeah. She died this morning. 873 00:54:14,006 --> 00:54:16,341 Nah, I'm just screwing with you. She's in the hospital. 874 00:54:16,343 --> 00:54:19,944 Did you change the locks? Everybody's standing at the front door. 875 00:54:19,946 --> 00:54:21,178 You should let them in. 876 00:54:21,180 --> 00:54:22,684 Oh, shit. 877 00:54:23,149 --> 00:54:24,251 Yup. 878 00:54:29,323 --> 00:54:33,060 Shit. I'm just gonna get the door. 879 00:54:40,133 --> 00:54:42,834 Hi. I'm sorry. I couldn't hear you, I had music on. 880 00:54:42,836 --> 00:54:45,006 - The heck's going on in here? - Sorry, Dad. 881 00:54:45,972 --> 00:54:47,471 - Smoking in here? - No. 882 00:54:47,473 --> 00:54:49,943 - Are you my baby? - Smoking in my house? 883 00:54:50,943 --> 00:54:52,877 - You are too smoking in my house. - No, I'm not, Dad. 884 00:54:52,879 --> 00:54:55,383 - I am so happy to see you. - Oh, you, too. 885 00:54:56,115 --> 00:54:57,482 What the heck are you wearing? 886 00:54:57,484 --> 00:54:59,153 - Who? - Oh, I... 887 00:54:59,787 --> 00:55:01,051 Is that your mother's good blouse? 888 00:55:01,053 --> 00:55:02,386 - I got hot. - Whose mother? 889 00:55:02,388 --> 00:55:03,821 I only had that sweater. You know? Hi, honey. 890 00:55:03,823 --> 00:55:05,256 I just got it dry cleaned. 891 00:55:05,258 --> 00:55:07,394 Who's that? Who is that? 892 00:55:07,827 --> 00:55:08,826 - Who? - Who's who? 893 00:55:08,828 --> 00:55:09,763 This. 894 00:55:10,897 --> 00:55:13,767 That's Gerry Hoffsteader. Remember, Dad? From Mass. 895 00:55:14,001 --> 00:55:15,836 Nice to see you again, Mr. Everhardt. 896 00:55:16,403 --> 00:55:19,837 Dad, it's Gerry. Hoffsteader. He's a construction guy. 897 00:55:19,839 --> 00:55:23,475 He did... Did you see the Hoffsteader Construction truck outside? 898 00:55:23,477 --> 00:55:28,382 He's a construction guy. We haven't seen each other since, I don't know, like... 899 00:55:28,981 --> 00:55:30,549 - Was it junior high? Right? - Yeah, junior high. 900 00:55:30,551 --> 00:55:33,852 Yeah. Well except for Mass where you saw him. Where we all... 901 00:55:36,022 --> 00:55:37,888 - What is so funny? - You're wearing Mom's blouse. 902 00:55:37,890 --> 00:55:40,058 - We were just hanging out... - That's sexy. 903 00:55:40,060 --> 00:55:41,493 ...after he put the locks in. 904 00:55:41,495 --> 00:55:43,395 Hey, you know Dad just got that dry cleaned. 905 00:55:43,397 --> 00:55:45,162 ...which is why I called him, was to put in locks 906 00:55:45,164 --> 00:55:47,031 like they have at the Reminisce community. 907 00:55:47,033 --> 00:55:48,200 No, it's a neighborhood. 908 00:55:48,202 --> 00:55:50,435 So when you put that in, you know, 909 00:55:50,437 --> 00:55:52,169 you lock it and you put the key, 910 00:55:52,171 --> 00:55:53,939 you hide the key and that way she can't get out. 911 00:55:53,941 --> 00:55:56,010 And then you guys can stay. 912 00:55:56,577 --> 00:55:58,042 - What? - For now. 913 00:55:58,044 --> 00:56:00,178 Well, as long as you don't go to Florida. 914 00:56:00,180 --> 00:56:03,415 I know, you're the husband! 915 00:56:03,417 --> 00:56:05,584 - Good, good. - No. 916 00:56:05,586 --> 00:56:07,084 That's not... 917 00:56:07,086 --> 00:56:08,319 Look everybody, look who I found. 918 00:56:08,321 --> 00:56:09,587 - That's not the husband, Ruth. - Jesus. 919 00:56:09,589 --> 00:56:10,888 That's not going to fix it. 920 00:56:10,890 --> 00:56:11,990 Is he staying for dinner? 921 00:56:11,992 --> 00:56:13,058 - Emma... - That's fine. 922 00:56:13,060 --> 00:56:14,426 Yeah, I need to get going. 923 00:56:14,428 --> 00:56:17,028 Hey, Gerry, thank you for your service. 924 00:56:17,030 --> 00:56:18,529 Thanks for the service, Gerry. 925 00:56:18,531 --> 00:56:19,865 Nice going. 926 00:56:19,867 --> 00:56:20,868 I feel a lot safer now. 927 00:56:21,834 --> 00:56:22,933 - Who was smoking in the house? - Emma! 928 00:56:22,935 --> 00:56:24,236 Was it you? 929 00:56:24,238 --> 00:56:26,270 No, Dad. I just came home with you. 930 00:56:26,272 --> 00:56:28,540 - Emma. - Somebody was smoking in the house. 931 00:56:28,542 --> 00:56:31,575 - Who was it? The guy? - Emma. 932 00:56:31,577 --> 00:56:33,814 Or Princess Charming over there? 933 00:56:35,481 --> 00:56:37,184 What do I owe you? 934 00:56:39,519 --> 00:56:41,022 So you're not divorced. 935 00:56:42,356 --> 00:56:43,825 No. 936 00:56:48,528 --> 00:56:50,131 Five hundred, please. 937 00:56:54,167 --> 00:56:55,837 Includes materials. 938 00:56:58,238 --> 00:57:00,408 - It's Gerry with a G. - Yeah. 939 00:57:02,975 --> 00:57:04,211 Thank you. 940 00:57:19,059 --> 00:57:21,062 - Chemically sensitive, huh? - Shut up. 941 00:57:21,528 --> 00:57:24,428 - Let me in, I'm freezing. - That's a nice bra, is that Ma's, too? 942 00:57:24,430 --> 00:57:26,131 - Let me in. - No. 943 00:57:26,133 --> 00:57:28,002 They can stay? 944 00:57:28,568 --> 00:57:32,002 Hey! They can stay? 945 00:57:32,004 --> 00:57:33,540 Yeah. For now. 946 00:57:34,140 --> 00:57:35,506 When did you come up with that? 947 00:57:35,508 --> 00:57:37,341 For now. God. 948 00:57:37,343 --> 00:57:38,211 What? 949 00:57:39,011 --> 00:57:42,082 Hey! Who the hell do you think you are, huh? 950 00:57:42,950 --> 00:57:44,482 Queen Bitty, ladies and gentlemen, 951 00:57:44,484 --> 00:57:48,890 she comes to town, spends three days, three fucking days, 952 00:57:49,289 --> 00:57:52,323 throws in a lock, problem solved, what a genius! 953 00:57:52,325 --> 00:57:54,459 Oh, boy! Why didn't I think of that? 954 00:57:54,461 --> 00:57:56,160 Who do you think you are? 955 00:57:56,162 --> 00:57:57,562 I'm not off the plane ten minutes 956 00:57:57,564 --> 00:57:59,397 and you're telling me what I have to do 957 00:57:59,399 --> 00:58:00,732 before I had a chance to evaluate the situation. 958 00:58:00,734 --> 00:58:02,036 Who am I? Who am I? 959 00:58:02,301 --> 00:58:05,203 I'm the one who's here. Okay? 960 00:58:05,205 --> 00:58:07,504 - I'm the one who gets the call... - God, get out of my face. 961 00:58:07,506 --> 00:58:11,176 ...in the middle of the night. I'm the one with the geriatrician on speed dial 962 00:58:11,178 --> 00:58:14,044 The fact that you got power of attorney 963 00:58:14,046 --> 00:58:19,386 is the biggest, stinkiest pile of favoritist bullshit I ever heard. 964 00:58:19,653 --> 00:58:21,187 Damn it. 965 00:58:21,555 --> 00:58:22,990 Hey. 966 00:58:25,691 --> 00:58:27,928 You don't even know the code, that's funny. 967 00:58:28,428 --> 00:58:30,995 - Fuck. - Hey, why don't we get Gerry back here? 968 00:58:30,997 --> 00:58:33,598 He can change the locks, and then I'll take Emma to the mall 969 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,136 and you two can go at it. 970 00:58:36,303 --> 00:58:38,336 - You know why I got power of attorney? - Why? 971 00:58:38,338 --> 00:58:42,741 Because you're an asshole, that's why. You are an asshole. 972 00:58:42,743 --> 00:58:44,478 Uh-uh. 973 00:58:45,345 --> 00:58:48,982 You got power of attorney 'cause you're a chicken shit. 974 00:58:49,682 --> 00:58:51,117 He knew you'd never use it. 975 00:58:52,285 --> 00:58:53,752 You been letting him tell you what to do your whole life. 976 00:58:53,754 --> 00:58:55,522 - I have not. - Oh, yeah? 977 00:58:56,455 --> 00:58:59,059 Let me ask you something. Why did you marry Eddie? 978 00:59:00,794 --> 00:59:03,164 Because I didn't know who I was. Okay? 979 00:59:03,763 --> 00:59:07,298 And Mom had her big career, and I was the housekeeper. 980 00:59:07,300 --> 00:59:09,100 - Oh, my goodness. - Who do you think 981 00:59:09,102 --> 00:59:12,506 got food on the table, huh? Who ironed your... 982 00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:15,673 - Fenwick shirts? - Who put a gun to your head? 983 00:59:15,675 --> 00:59:20,578 Somebody had to do it. Somebody had to fucking do it Nick, and I was the girl. 984 00:59:20,580 --> 00:59:24,518 No, Bitty, you're not a victim, all right? You're not a martyr. 985 00:59:24,718 --> 00:59:28,386 Nobody forced you to obey, okay? You got to grow up 986 00:59:28,388 --> 00:59:31,192 and don't be so terrified. Stop being a liar. 987 00:59:31,490 --> 00:59:33,792 - I am not a liar. - You've been lying for so long 988 00:59:33,794 --> 00:59:36,326 that you don't even know the difference between the truth, 989 00:59:36,328 --> 00:59:39,033 and what you want everybody to think is the truth. 990 00:59:41,834 --> 00:59:43,301 Our parents live here. 991 00:59:43,303 --> 00:59:44,605 She doesn't know the code. 992 00:59:44,838 --> 00:59:47,404 You ought to visit them once in a while. 993 00:59:47,406 --> 00:59:49,573 - Who are you, the guilt monger? - Nicky. 994 00:59:49,575 --> 00:59:54,115 I know you. You're the one who smokes so close to my rosebushes. 995 00:59:54,414 --> 00:59:56,548 Go sit on your rosebushes. 996 00:59:56,550 --> 00:59:58,316 Nicky. I'm so sorry. 997 00:59:58,318 --> 01:00:00,553 For what? What are you sorry for? 998 01:00:02,089 --> 01:00:03,520 - Shut up. - Shame on him. 999 01:00:03,522 --> 01:00:05,126 - I'm so sorry. - It was rude. 1000 01:00:05,691 --> 01:00:07,527 I can't believe this. So rude. 1001 01:00:07,827 --> 01:00:09,593 At least I don't bulldoze people. 1002 01:00:09,595 --> 01:00:12,096 I'm not some bully telling everyone what to do, 1003 01:00:12,098 --> 01:00:14,432 saying, "You, you, you, let me tell you what's wrong with you 1004 01:00:14,434 --> 01:00:16,037 so you never see what's wrong with me!" 1005 01:00:16,435 --> 01:00:18,837 At least I don't blame Mom and Dad for all my bullshit. 1006 01:00:18,839 --> 01:00:22,874 Excuse me? Didn't you just blame them for your entire shitty 20-year marriage? 1007 01:00:22,876 --> 01:00:25,745 At least I had the guts to try, 1008 01:00:26,379 --> 01:00:29,583 to try to love somebody, to let somebody love me. 1009 01:00:30,316 --> 01:00:31,850 At least I have something. 1010 01:00:31,852 --> 01:00:33,750 Oh, I got plenty, honey, believe me. 1011 01:00:33,752 --> 01:00:35,189 - Yeah. - Mm-hmm. 1012 01:00:35,589 --> 01:00:37,091 You got a bar. 1013 01:00:38,191 --> 01:00:40,327 Get in the house. 1014 01:00:43,463 --> 01:00:45,332 I can hear you all the way down the hall. 1015 01:00:45,765 --> 01:00:47,167 Why don't you tell me the truth? 1016 01:00:47,434 --> 01:00:49,202 Why did you give Bit the power of attorney? 1017 01:00:49,502 --> 01:00:52,372 Because you're a hothead like your mother. 1018 01:00:52,638 --> 01:00:55,742 No, no, no. No, it's because you're selfish. 1019 01:00:56,475 --> 01:00:58,412 You know why they get better in memory care? 1020 01:00:58,845 --> 01:01:01,912 Because they don't have people in their face all the time 1021 01:01:01,914 --> 01:01:05,149 saying, "Don't forget me, please don't forget me, 1022 01:01:05,151 --> 01:01:06,386 you're losing your mind." 1023 01:01:07,453 --> 01:01:09,354 The one blessing of this disease 1024 01:01:09,356 --> 01:01:11,189 is that they don't remember that they don't remember. 1025 01:01:11,191 --> 01:01:12,557 Until you go and tell them. 1026 01:01:12,559 --> 01:01:14,292 You think you're a doctor or something? 1027 01:01:14,294 --> 01:01:15,926 - What the hell do you know? - Oh, my God. 1028 01:01:15,928 --> 01:01:17,595 You're a goddamn bartender... 1029 01:01:17,597 --> 01:01:19,430 - I'm a bar... - ...who almost graduated from college. 1030 01:01:19,432 --> 01:01:22,102 - Almost. - I'm a bar owner, Dad. 1031 01:01:22,334 --> 01:01:26,240 - You tend the bar? - I own the bar. I own it. 1032 01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:28,640 - You tend it or not? - Yeah. Yeah. 1033 01:01:28,642 --> 01:01:33,912 - I tend it! I tend the bar that I own. - You're a bartender. 1034 01:01:33,914 --> 01:01:37,348 Okay? I know it's a real bummer, 1035 01:01:37,350 --> 01:01:38,783 I hear you loud and clear, Pop, 1036 01:01:38,785 --> 01:01:40,785 it's a real shit deal you have to admit that 1037 01:01:40,787 --> 01:01:42,287 to your fucking poker players. 1038 01:01:42,289 --> 01:01:44,354 - Watch your language. - Watch my language? 1039 01:01:44,356 --> 01:01:46,259 - Yes. - All right. 1040 01:01:48,827 --> 01:01:50,296 You know what? 1041 01:01:51,497 --> 01:01:53,501 She hit on me the other night. 1042 01:01:54,801 --> 01:01:56,437 Yeah, Mom. 1043 01:01:57,937 --> 01:02:02,242 She hit on me. I had to sit there and explain to her that I was her son. 1044 01:02:02,876 --> 01:02:05,379 You should have seen the look on her face. 1045 01:02:15,589 --> 01:02:19,527 I'm done. They're all yours, Bit. Godspeed. 1046 01:03:16,850 --> 01:03:19,386 There's a man in my bed. 1047 01:03:21,687 --> 01:03:22,689 It's Dad. 1048 01:03:24,790 --> 01:03:26,727 I sleep with our dad? 1049 01:03:29,361 --> 01:03:30,630 Yeah. 1050 01:03:31,897 --> 01:03:33,267 Oh. 1051 01:03:53,952 --> 01:03:55,722 Stay in bed, honey. 1052 01:03:57,089 --> 01:03:58,725 You're a turkey. 1053 01:04:00,426 --> 01:04:03,430 Mmm. You're a turkey. 1054 01:04:38,430 --> 01:04:42,669 Hi, um, your father just called me. 1055 01:04:43,435 --> 01:04:47,874 He said you're coming home tonight? Give me a call. 1056 01:04:57,117 --> 01:04:58,718 Is that my baby? 1057 01:05:10,729 --> 01:05:11,995 I don't want it. 1058 01:05:11,997 --> 01:05:12,965 It's coffee. 1059 01:05:13,533 --> 01:05:15,732 I don't want it! 1060 01:05:15,734 --> 01:05:18,636 - Of course you want it. Have it. - I am a grown-up! 1061 01:05:18,638 --> 01:05:21,004 If I don't want the coffee, I don't want the coffee! 1062 01:05:21,006 --> 01:05:22,642 All right. 1063 01:05:24,611 --> 01:05:25,746 What did you tell him? 1064 01:05:26,044 --> 01:05:27,447 Who? 1065 01:05:28,147 --> 01:05:29,749 - Nobody, sweetheart. - It's okay, Mom. 1066 01:05:30,582 --> 01:05:31,918 Go watch Popeye, honey. 1067 01:05:33,352 --> 01:05:36,154 I told him I bought you plane tickets and to pick you up at the airport. 1068 01:05:36,156 --> 01:05:37,758 That's what I told him. 1069 01:05:38,624 --> 01:05:41,060 Floozin' around with some construction bozo. 1070 01:05:41,593 --> 01:05:43,127 I don't even know who you are! 1071 01:05:43,129 --> 01:05:46,533 He put locks in, and you're welcome by the way. 1072 01:05:47,100 --> 01:05:48,902 What am I, some kind of horse's ass? 1073 01:05:49,968 --> 01:05:52,770 Eddie is as much a son to me as your brother is. 1074 01:05:52,772 --> 01:05:54,839 You know, I think you like Eddie more than you like me, 1075 01:05:54,841 --> 01:05:56,774 or my brother for that matter. 1076 01:05:56,776 --> 01:05:59,780 For Chrissake, Bitty, what kind of thing is that to say? 1077 01:06:00,446 --> 01:06:02,782 Get dressed. We're leaving in an hour. 1078 01:06:18,798 --> 01:06:21,499 All my life you've been telling me there's no bells and whistles. 1079 01:06:21,501 --> 01:06:22,533 There's no bells and whistles. 1080 01:06:22,535 --> 01:06:23,667 There isn't. 1081 01:06:23,669 --> 01:06:24,937 How can you say that? 1082 01:06:25,772 --> 01:06:28,008 You have more bells and whistles than anybody. 1083 01:06:28,540 --> 01:06:32,646 I mean, she's losing her mind and you still can't live without her. 1084 01:06:33,479 --> 01:06:34,712 Didn't you want that for me? 1085 01:06:34,714 --> 01:06:36,513 Of course I wanted that for you, 1086 01:06:36,515 --> 01:06:37,848 that's all I want for you. 1087 01:06:37,850 --> 01:06:39,952 Why do you think I'm sending you home? 1088 01:06:41,488 --> 01:06:42,252 Dad. 1089 01:06:42,254 --> 01:06:43,523 Bit. 1090 01:06:43,957 --> 01:06:48,095 Love is commitment, you work at it. 1091 01:06:48,660 --> 01:06:51,962 Go home to your husband and ask yourself why you married him in the first place. 1092 01:06:51,964 --> 01:06:54,232 I married him because you told me I couldn't do better. 1093 01:06:54,234 --> 01:06:57,069 You couldn't! Eddie is a home run! 1094 01:06:57,569 --> 01:06:59,636 Your wedding was the best day of my life, 1095 01:06:59,638 --> 01:07:03,709 walking you down the aisle to a man who I thought might deserve you. 1096 01:07:05,711 --> 01:07:07,544 You know what your problem is? 1097 01:07:07,546 --> 01:07:08,481 California! 1098 01:07:08,814 --> 01:07:11,249 That's what. Everybody out there, 1099 01:07:11,251 --> 01:07:15,622 flowin' in the wind, reinventing. What the heck is that? 1100 01:07:15,921 --> 01:07:21,191 You are who you are. I am a father, a husband, a Catholic. 1101 01:07:21,193 --> 01:07:24,160 I know it because I am it. I never had to think about it. 1102 01:07:24,162 --> 01:07:29,669 But there is no reason to be unhappy with a perfectly good marriage. 1103 01:07:32,671 --> 01:07:34,607 I don't have what you have. 1104 01:07:35,073 --> 01:07:35,907 Yes, you do. 1105 01:07:37,010 --> 01:07:39,646 Don't you think we had rough periods? 1106 01:07:40,914 --> 01:07:42,812 You ought to go talk to a priest! 1107 01:07:42,814 --> 01:07:44,517 I'm not a Catholic anymore. 1108 01:07:45,051 --> 01:07:47,754 Well, there's your problem right there. 1109 01:07:48,021 --> 01:07:49,490 How do you know? 1110 01:07:49,888 --> 01:07:53,260 How do you always know what my problem is? 1111 01:07:53,926 --> 01:07:56,160 Do I do that to you? Did I march in here and say, 1112 01:07:56,162 --> 01:07:58,631 "She's going in a home, if you don't like it, go talk to a priest?" 1113 01:07:59,031 --> 01:08:01,232 I listened to you, Dad. I asked you what you wanted 1114 01:08:01,234 --> 01:08:03,868 and I fought like hell to get it for you because you matter to me. 1115 01:08:03,870 --> 01:08:08,642 What you want matters to me. Why don't I matter to you? 1116 01:08:11,877 --> 01:08:13,877 Mom was a feminist, for Chrissake. 1117 01:08:13,879 --> 01:08:16,749 Why didn't anyone ever ask me what I wanted? 1118 01:08:18,318 --> 01:08:21,855 Honey. We did ask you what you wanted. 1119 01:08:22,154 --> 01:08:24,857 You said you couldn't wait to be a mother. 1120 01:08:29,796 --> 01:08:30,963 Is Grandma in here? 1121 01:08:31,196 --> 01:08:33,699 - No. - Oh, shit. 1122 01:08:34,232 --> 01:08:35,535 What? 1123 01:08:39,038 --> 01:08:41,675 Oh, Goddamn it! 1124 01:08:43,141 --> 01:08:44,778 Damn it! 1125 01:08:46,812 --> 01:08:48,781 Maybe she's upstairs. I'll go check. 1126 01:08:49,649 --> 01:08:50,816 Ruth! 1127 01:08:54,654 --> 01:08:55,955 Ruth! 1128 01:09:00,392 --> 01:09:01,761 Mom! 1129 01:09:02,227 --> 01:09:03,163 I got her. 1130 01:09:04,230 --> 01:09:05,598 She's at Marion's. 1131 01:09:09,235 --> 01:09:10,137 Dad! 1132 01:09:12,372 --> 01:09:14,106 Dad! 1133 01:09:14,774 --> 01:09:16,840 Dad. Are you okay? 1134 01:09:16,842 --> 01:09:18,945 Is it your heart? Dad? 1135 01:09:32,124 --> 01:09:34,194 Come on. Come on. 1136 01:09:39,332 --> 01:09:40,867 Okay. 1137 01:09:49,976 --> 01:09:51,044 I'll stay. 1138 01:09:53,145 --> 01:09:54,714 I'll stay and help. 1139 01:10:29,082 --> 01:10:32,883 So, I'll come back at the end of the month to help you get moved. 1140 01:10:32,885 --> 01:10:35,452 Thank you, Bitty. You bet. We'll be fine. 1141 01:10:35,454 --> 01:10:36,920 Am I going with you? 1142 01:10:36,922 --> 01:10:39,859 You're coming out here to give me a hug. 1143 01:10:41,060 --> 01:10:42,062 Ah. 1144 01:10:43,361 --> 01:10:44,929 Where should we... 1145 01:10:44,931 --> 01:10:47,100 Here. What's wrong? 1146 01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:49,903 I'm going to see you in a couple weeks. 1147 01:10:50,269 --> 01:10:52,004 I won't be here. 1148 01:10:52,204 --> 01:10:54,207 Yeah? Where are you going? 1149 01:10:56,109 --> 01:10:58,945 I expect my mother will want me back by then. 1150 01:10:59,979 --> 01:11:02,716 Yeah? Don't you think? 1151 01:11:04,182 --> 01:11:06,052 Hop in, Ruth, it's cold. 1152 01:11:10,890 --> 01:11:12,225 Here, here's your seatbelt. 1153 01:11:13,092 --> 01:11:16,329 My shoes don't match my purse. 1154 01:11:16,796 --> 01:11:17,897 Love you, Bit. 1155 01:11:18,498 --> 01:11:19,833 Love you, Dad. 1156 01:11:21,100 --> 01:11:22,235 Bye, Mom. 1157 01:11:28,775 --> 01:11:30,243 So, how was it? 1158 01:11:33,178 --> 01:11:34,213 Fine. 1159 01:11:36,248 --> 01:11:37,416 Hmm. 1160 01:11:38,717 --> 01:11:42,855 And your dad's all set? He's got all the paperwork signed? 1161 01:11:44,156 --> 01:11:45,124 Yeah. 1162 01:11:46,425 --> 01:11:47,994 Mom moves in the first. 1163 01:11:48,561 --> 01:11:49,996 Good. 1164 01:11:52,899 --> 01:11:54,999 Nick's got to be happy, 1165 01:11:55,001 --> 01:11:57,904 being right for the first time in his life. 1166 01:11:58,303 --> 01:11:59,739 Poor guy. 1167 01:12:03,242 --> 01:12:04,410 Did you, um... 1168 01:12:05,011 --> 01:12:07,047 You register for classes? 1169 01:12:08,146 --> 01:12:09,315 Mm-hmm. 1170 01:12:09,882 --> 01:12:12,352 Good. Good. 1171 01:12:44,316 --> 01:12:46,584 - What are you doing? - Just let me. 1172 01:13:05,570 --> 01:13:06,939 I'm sorry. 1173 01:13:10,075 --> 01:13:13,212 I just look at you and all I see is my baby. 1174 01:13:17,216 --> 01:13:18,251 I know. 1175 01:13:24,123 --> 01:13:26,393 You don't have to go back if you don't want. 1176 01:13:31,631 --> 01:13:33,266 I can't stay here, Mom. 1177 01:13:37,637 --> 01:13:39,072 I know. 1178 01:14:11,369 --> 01:14:13,038 Do a Manhattan? 1179 01:14:14,239 --> 01:14:15,207 Yeah. 1180 01:15:49,068 --> 01:15:51,404 Damn good Manhattan, Nicholas. 1181 01:16:05,217 --> 01:16:08,054 Is it, is it Christmas? 1182 01:16:08,654 --> 01:16:10,254 You got drunk at Christmas. 1183 01:16:10,256 --> 01:16:14,293 - I did not. - Yes you did. Grab those presents... 1184 01:16:15,127 --> 01:16:17,530 - and come on over. - Oh! 1185 01:16:18,263 --> 01:16:20,165 - Here. - Yes. 1186 01:16:21,266 --> 01:16:22,601 There you go. 1187 01:16:23,302 --> 01:16:27,537 And now we, we'll have Christmas. I'll go first? 1188 01:16:27,539 --> 01:16:28,574 Yeah. 1189 01:16:29,575 --> 01:16:32,311 - Uh, what could this be? - Who gave that to you? 1190 01:16:32,845 --> 01:16:34,446 You did, you turkey. 1191 01:16:35,780 --> 01:16:37,716 - Yeah, all right. - I... 1192 01:16:38,217 --> 01:16:40,020 - There it is. - I'll help. 1193 01:16:40,285 --> 01:16:41,751 - I'll help, too. - There we go. 1194 01:16:41,753 --> 01:16:43,252 I... 1195 01:16:43,254 --> 01:16:45,592 There we are, you're good at that. 1196 01:16:45,857 --> 01:16:47,691 - Look what it is! - Oh! 1197 01:16:47,693 --> 01:16:49,225 - Macadamias. - You like those. 1198 01:16:49,227 --> 01:16:52,261 - My favorite kind, too. - Yeah. 1199 01:16:52,263 --> 01:16:54,566 Thank you, honey. Thank you. 1200 01:16:57,168 --> 01:16:59,405 Okay, all right, you're next. 1201 01:17:01,473 --> 01:17:03,506 - Here. - It's from you. 1202 01:17:03,508 --> 01:17:04,577 Yes, it is. 1203 01:17:08,646 --> 01:17:10,050 There you go. 1204 01:17:10,716 --> 01:17:12,352 Okay, open it up. 1205 01:17:13,252 --> 01:17:14,486 Go ahead. 1206 01:17:16,187 --> 01:17:18,658 Oh! 1207 01:17:21,860 --> 01:17:23,462 Oh. 1208 01:17:24,730 --> 01:17:27,634 And I want you to look inside because 1209 01:17:28,434 --> 01:17:30,102 there's something here. 1210 01:17:33,204 --> 01:17:34,606 You know who that is? 1211 01:17:40,678 --> 01:17:44,180 Oh, yes. It's you and me. 1212 01:17:44,182 --> 01:17:47,753 It's you and me. So... 1213 01:17:48,354 --> 01:17:51,356 in the new place, when you forget, 1214 01:17:51,690 --> 01:17:55,227 just look at it. 1215 01:17:56,529 --> 01:17:57,564 All right? 1216 01:18:03,369 --> 01:18:05,368 I'm so sorry, Bertie. 1217 01:18:05,370 --> 01:18:11,308 Oh, sweet baby, don't... don't worry about it. 1218 01:18:13,546 --> 01:18:18,318 Don't worry a bit. Don't. I'm fine. 1219 01:18:20,519 --> 01:18:22,122 I'm fine. 1220 01:18:26,824 --> 01:18:28,193 Hey. 1221 01:18:33,332 --> 01:18:34,734 Who is Gerry Hoffsteader? 1222 01:18:36,936 --> 01:18:38,371 Who? 1223 01:18:39,605 --> 01:18:42,839 You didn't write him a check for 500 bucks? 1224 01:18:42,841 --> 01:18:45,509 Oh, yes. He's a construction guy. 1225 01:18:45,511 --> 01:18:49,682 He did, um... he put locks in my parents' place. 1226 01:18:51,417 --> 01:18:54,283 What, he change every lock in the whole building? 1227 01:18:54,285 --> 01:18:59,626 I know. He was... It was expensive. I'm sorry. 1228 01:19:01,793 --> 01:19:03,695 I got you a little something. 1229 01:19:13,739 --> 01:19:15,208 Thank you. 1230 01:19:26,752 --> 01:19:28,488 Oh. Um... 1231 01:19:30,588 --> 01:19:32,658 I think you got this for me before. 1232 01:19:33,659 --> 01:19:36,596 No, no, I... they said that one's different. 1233 01:19:37,329 --> 01:19:38,531 Open it. 1234 01:20:06,859 --> 01:20:08,093 Thank you. 1235 01:20:11,963 --> 01:20:13,830 I thought if I upgraded the diamond, 1236 01:20:13,832 --> 01:20:18,771 you would stop leaving it with the pennies in the car. 1237 01:23:27,559 --> 01:23:28,761 Shit. 1238 01:23:32,263 --> 01:23:33,598 Hello? 1239 01:23:37,970 --> 01:23:38,870 Yeah. 1240 01:23:50,114 --> 01:23:51,583 Nicky? 1241 01:23:55,887 --> 01:23:56,752 Oh. 1242 01:24:55,113 --> 01:24:58,717 This looks like a wake. Is this... Is this a wake? 1243 01:25:01,052 --> 01:25:04,022 Yeah, that's what... that's what I thought it was. 1244 01:25:09,628 --> 01:25:12,932 And I think that maybe... Excuse me. 1245 01:25:19,770 --> 01:25:23,041 Hey. How we doing? 1246 01:25:26,211 --> 01:25:27,810 Should we take her home? 1247 01:25:27,812 --> 01:25:30,716 - Do you want to go? - No. I... 1248 01:25:32,985 --> 01:25:39,592 I cannot figure out, for the life of me, whose... whose wake is it. 1249 01:25:42,093 --> 01:25:43,828 I can't. 1250 01:25:49,301 --> 01:25:50,703 "Norbert." 1251 01:26:03,382 --> 01:26:05,184 How could I have forgotten that? 1252 01:26:22,034 --> 01:26:23,636 Oh. 1253 01:26:24,436 --> 01:26:27,940 Pretty. What's the matter? 1254 01:26:35,212 --> 01:26:40,719 My dad grew up on a farm in a small town called Amboy. 1255 01:26:41,218 --> 01:26:46,324 He met Ruth O'Shea at an ice cream social 1256 01:26:47,025 --> 01:26:50,363 and had a thing for her ever since. 1257 01:26:50,796 --> 01:26:53,699 Even though she wouldn't give him the time of day. 1258 01:26:54,900 --> 01:26:58,167 After high school, he went off to Korea 1259 01:26:58,169 --> 01:27:02,104 and when he took leave and came home, 1260 01:27:02,106 --> 01:27:05,942 his mom told him that poor Ruthie O'Shea had gotten polio 1261 01:27:05,944 --> 01:27:08,848 and hadn't been out of bed for six months. 1262 01:27:09,480 --> 01:27:13,818 So, he marched over there and picked her up 1263 01:27:14,418 --> 01:27:19,057 right out of bed. And carried her in his arms. 1264 01:27:19,824 --> 01:27:21,760 - To the movies. - To the movies. 1265 01:27:22,793 --> 01:27:23,995 To the movies. 1266 01:27:32,404 --> 01:27:33,939 He never let her go. 1267 01:27:38,909 --> 01:27:40,410 He couldn't live without her. 1268 01:29:11,436 --> 01:29:13,339 This was the perfect time. 1269 01:29:15,873 --> 01:29:17,309 Any later... 1270 01:29:18,877 --> 01:29:20,780 I'd have forgotten him. 1271 01:29:23,214 --> 01:29:26,785 Any earlier, I'd have missed him too much. 1272 01:29:28,285 --> 01:29:30,189 Right now is perfect. 1273 01:29:32,156 --> 01:29:34,894 I'll hardly ever know the difference. 1274 01:30:03,488 --> 01:30:05,087 You hate the car. 1275 01:30:05,089 --> 01:30:07,226 All right. That's horseshit. I don't hate the car. 1276 01:30:12,596 --> 01:30:15,400 I mean, how the hell would you even get it to California? 1277 01:30:15,633 --> 01:30:17,235 I'm going to drive it. 1278 01:30:17,968 --> 01:30:19,337 With Mom. 1279 01:30:22,673 --> 01:30:25,010 What? 1280 01:30:28,012 --> 01:30:29,247 It's my turn. 1281 01:30:30,515 --> 01:30:32,514 I found a great place near me. 1282 01:30:32,516 --> 01:30:35,386 It's hard, Bit. It's really, really hard, you know? 1283 01:30:37,422 --> 01:30:41,093 It's harder than having your hands in raw poultry all day. 1284 01:30:42,159 --> 01:30:45,196 I know. That's why it's my turn. 1285 01:30:50,068 --> 01:30:52,303 Well, I hope you have AAA. 1286 01:31:12,556 --> 01:31:16,158 I was a fountain girl all my life. 1287 01:31:16,160 --> 01:31:19,364 My father would bring me chocolate malts. 1288 01:31:20,332 --> 01:31:21,499 Yum. 1289 01:31:24,601 --> 01:31:26,335 I had polio. 1290 01:31:26,337 --> 01:31:27,269 Yeah. 1291 01:31:27,271 --> 01:31:31,443 And consequently, I got... 1292 01:31:32,209 --> 01:31:34,346 - Fat? - Fat! Yeah! 1293 01:31:35,180 --> 01:31:36,915 Who lives here? 1294 01:31:37,414 --> 01:31:38,516 You. 1295 01:31:41,052 --> 01:31:42,288 Look at that. 1296 01:31:47,659 --> 01:31:53,933 Who's missing? Somebody's missing. Somebody's missing. 1297 01:31:59,169 --> 01:32:00,471 Look at this. 1298 01:32:05,142 --> 01:32:07,078 That's my boyfriend. 1299 01:32:08,613 --> 01:32:12,415 He's at home. He's waiting. He's waiting for me. 1300 01:32:12,417 --> 01:32:16,387 He's always hanging around. That turkey. 1301 01:32:17,521 --> 01:32:19,091 You got a boyfriend? 1302 01:32:20,525 --> 01:32:21,460 No. 1303 01:32:24,529 --> 01:32:26,098 Well, he's out there. 1304 01:32:27,399 --> 01:32:28,334 You watch out. 1305 01:32:29,367 --> 01:32:33,571 Once he's found you, he's never gonna let you go. 1306 01:32:37,409 --> 01:32:40,076 - Oh, yeah. - You follow that sign. 1307 01:32:40,078 --> 01:32:42,377 They were pretty. Do you see how they light up? 1308 01:32:42,379 --> 01:32:44,246 - Yeah. - Different looking. 1309 01:32:44,248 --> 01:32:48,251 Where are we? Where are we going? Where's my purse? 1310 01:32:48,253 --> 01:32:49,588 I have your purse. 1311 01:32:50,187 --> 01:32:51,323 I have it. 1312 01:32:59,064 --> 01:33:01,300 - Love you. - Love you. 1313 01:33:03,267 --> 01:33:05,535 Oh, is that my baby? 1314 01:33:05,537 --> 01:33:07,172 Hi, Ms. Ruth. 1315 01:33:11,275 --> 01:33:13,276 Do you have a boyfriend? 1316 01:33:13,278 --> 01:33:14,713 Mine, mine, mine... 1317 01:33:15,579 --> 01:33:18,714 Oh, look at that little one. 1318 01:33:18,716 --> 01:33:22,151 - Hi, baby. - Waiting for the bus. It's coming. 1319 01:33:22,153 --> 01:33:24,687 - Almost home. - Yeah. You look great. 1320 01:33:24,689 --> 01:33:25,790 You too. 1321 01:33:26,824 --> 01:33:31,160 She's so nice. I used to go to school with her. 1322 01:33:31,162 --> 01:33:32,428 You know what? 1323 01:33:32,430 --> 01:33:34,796 I think if your boyfriend comes in 1324 01:33:34,798 --> 01:33:37,099 when my boyfriend comes in, 1325 01:33:37,101 --> 01:33:40,702 we could have fun. We could have a party. What do you think? 1326 01:33:40,704 --> 01:33:42,240 Hello. 1327 01:34:39,313 --> 01:34:44,313 **Like, Share and Follow our Instagram @Layarkaca21indo.id for Support**