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[SOFT PIANO MUSIC PLAYING]
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Some new words out there you probably
need to hurry up and get hip to.
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- Okay.
- Uh, sexting.
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Sexting is out there now.
You familiar with that?
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Explain to those that may not know...
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[BOTH] ...what sexting is.
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Sexting is when you text sexy.
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- You know what I'm saying?
- Like what?
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Like, "Boy, what you got on?"
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"Ooh, I got on something, you know?"
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It's your favorite big booty, Alexis Texas,
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and I wanna sext with all of you.
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The reason I think people engage in sexting
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is the reason that people engage in
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all sorts of electronic
communication behind the screen.
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There's immediacy to it that's great.
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It's like window shopping.
All you do is kind of like,
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"Oh, I like that. I like that." You know.
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It's like, "Oh, I'm just gonna
go ahead and try that on."
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It gets me through the day. It
makes me feel good about myself.
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- It's a form of seduction.
- Exactly! That's what I said.
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"I'm thinking of you."
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"I want you right now,
but you're not here."
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"Can't wait till you get home."
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You know, it's not like,
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we met in an airplane, and now
we're in the bathroom fucking.
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It's all about the build.
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There's a sense of safety. There's
a glass screen in front of you,
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and you don't see the
person at the other end.
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So what you see is a reflection of you.
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It's sexy. Who doesn't like
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hearing or seeing something sexual about
somebody that they're interested in?
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[NINA HARTLEY] The idea
of lovers communicating
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secret little messages
is as old as writing.
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[LARRY ROSEN] Sexting, first of
all, can be either verbal or visual.
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I kinda have a different
feeling about both of them.
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From the verbal side,
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sometimes I think it's good for
people to be able, behind a screen,
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to say things they might not be
able to say to someone's face.
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[NANCY CHEEVER] Most of
the sexting that's going on
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tends to be healthy, in my opinion.
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I think a lot of people are doing
it to keep their love lives active,
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and to let their partners know
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that they're interested
and aroused by them.
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So I think, absolutely, it's healthy.
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Since I just moved from Virginia to here,
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I don't have the connection
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with the person that I was
dealing with at the time.
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So we're constantly, always,
sending little things back and forth
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to each other every day.
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I learned about sexting through
my friends in high school.
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It was, like, not really
an adrenaline rush, I guess.
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I mean, maybe a little bit, but
more of like an approval, too.
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Like, I send a photo, and they send back,
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um, which means that they're interested.
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There's an anticipation aspect to it.
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The back and forth exchange
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instead of having
everything so instantaneous.
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I think it builds arousal
to have that anticipation.
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The idea that men are more visual
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and that women need to be
stimulated through their mind,
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is completely a stereotype.
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Of course, there are women that prefer
to be stimulated more emotionally,
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and there are men that
prefer to see a sexy picture.
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But there's also the
opposite situation as well.
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It's really a per person and
preference based situation.
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I'm not really dating or doing
anything, so it's necessary right now.
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'Cause I'd be so lonely without it.
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I haven't been out on a
date, a real date, since 1984.
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Do you have any advice
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that you can offer me before
I put myself out there?
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Sexting is out there now.
You familiar with that?
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I've heard of it, yes.
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- You've heard of it?
- Yes.
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You're gonna have to participate.
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What's interesting is they're not
finding any profile of the "sexter."
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It's not particularly one kind of person.
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It seems to cut across many ages.
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It cuts across ethnic backgrounds.
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It cuts across everything.
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It's really an activity that I think is
going to start to increase more and more
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as people feel more of a
connection through their devices
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to the rest of their world.
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There's something really fun and sexy
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bringing sexting into a relationship,
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and teasing the person while
they're not allowed to get to you.
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If they're stuck at work,
or something like that.
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And then you waiting in an outfit,
you know, when they come home.
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It's... That's a really nice
way to spark up a relationship.
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The most appealing thing
about sexting is maybe, um...
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It's kind of like going to
Costco and getting a sample.
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You know, I don't wanna buy
the entire Hungry-Man meal,
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but if I can get a little taste of the
macaroni, a little taste of the turkey,
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then, okay, I think I like this.
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We both know it's going to end up here.
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We're going to end up
on bed, doing it. Got it.
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What mood will we be in when we get there?
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Is it pursuit and capture? Are
we gonna be two goofy young kids?
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Are we two sophisticated
people of the world?
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Am I gonna be a World War II
spy, you're gonna be an officer?
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In what way are we gonna
go where we're gonna go?
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When I open the door, it's like, "Whoa!"
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"This amazing person who showed up at
my doorstep is gonna take me away now!"
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And you get to walk in and be
the guy who takes her away now
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because all that boring... The important
yet dull stuff has been handled.
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If you're a really shy person but you
wanna learn how to dirty talk in bed,
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start doing it over a text.
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You know, just little things like that.
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If you're not so confident in the bedroom,
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you wanna be a little more confident,
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doing your own little personal selfie photoshoots
is a great way to do that, you know?
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See, this is an art, and
this is a relationship that
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men and women have had since
the beginning of mobile devices.
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Okay?
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I don't quite know when
I learned about sexting.
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Or when it began.
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Shoot, when did cellphones start?
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Back when I was 14, I was
on my Internet all the time.
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And it would start with chatting,
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but it would end up going to sexting,
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and I didn't realize it was that.
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But definitely IM chatting
turned into some sexual stuff.
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I was really naive at first.
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You know, taking photos. I just
thought I would take a photo,
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I would send it to this
person and that was that.
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Only their eyes would see it.
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I think I was 17 when
I first started sexting.
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I wasn't completely
comfortable with it just yet.
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Like, he would say things,
and it would, like, turn me on,
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but I never knew what to say back.
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I was a teenager when it
became a prevalent thing.
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Um, it's kind of like a rite of
passage with teenagers, I guess.
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I have a funny feeling that
someone said, "Send me a sexy pic."
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You know, and being a girl,
and being young and in her 20s,
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I'm pretty sure that I was
just flattered by the attention
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and wanted to impress
whoever it was asking.
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Really, I first learned
about it through my children.
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My first time was a photo because
I didn't know how to do it.
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I didn't know what to say, or
what would be appropriate to say
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until I sent the photo and
there were words sent back to me,
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and then I started.
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[PATRICK] I had a cheap, uh, I
think it was a Motorola Sliver phone.
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So, uh, you know she couldn't really see the
intricate veins and details of my penis,
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uh, which is probably a good thing.
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There are ways that something
like sexting could be healthy.
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You know, phone sex has
been going on a long time.
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Think about long-distance relationships
where couples might call each other
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and have a sexy conversation.
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It could be arousing. It can be bonding.
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So sexting can be the same thing.
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It's just a different form of medium.
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It's a different medium. It's
a different way to communicate.
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I'm a big fan of using sexting as a tool.
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It's a new and most modern form of
flirtation if it's used correctly.
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Basically, I think the best way to send
a sex message is to be blunt about it.
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The most bluntest thing that you can say,
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you say to see the reaction.
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I'm trying to [BLEEP]. Dot, dot, dot.
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[MAN] First of all, we'd
like to talk about.
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St. Louis region of
the first quarter sales.
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Last quarter, the sales were up...
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[CHILDREN PLAYING]
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[CHRISTINE] First, we started
with the answering machines,
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which was kind of good because if you
really didn't wanna see somebody again,
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you didn't have to call 'em back.
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Then there was caller ID,
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and that was especially good.
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And you really didn't have to
talk to them if you wanted to.
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We didn't have technology, but
we had more personal interaction.
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[PAUL D'ANGELO] Let me give
you the history before...
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You think sexting, nobody did
this before in the old days?
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I'll tell you. First of
all, with the pictures.
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This is what you did.
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When you were a kid,
there was no digital film.
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You couldn't just like, you
know, take a picture of yourself,
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put it on the computer,
something like that.
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It went on a film which means you
had to bring it to the photo matte.
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You bring it to the neighborhood drug store
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and you give it to the
lady behind the drug store
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where you buy all the cold medicine
from, and all that other stuff.
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And you give it to them,
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and you just hope that they don't
look at it before they give it to you.
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And when you go to pick up
your pictures, you are worried.
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And the women at the
back, they go... [SNICKERS]
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And you know that they just saw your dick.
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[MALE VO] To fully understand
the evolution of sexting,
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we have to go all the
way back to the beginning.
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30,000 BC.
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The earliest known example of transmitted
sexual imagery date back to cave paintings
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created in paleolithic times.
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1150 AD. The preferred
method was the carrier pigeon.
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It's not a stretch to imagine two
young lovers exchanging naughty words
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by means of an unsuspecting fowl.
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Although, the months
long wait for a response,
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might have doused the
flames of love just a bit.
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1909 AD.
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A clear proponent of the long-form sext,
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James Joyce was quite well-known for his
saucy correspondence with his spouse, Nora,
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in which he employed similar prose
found in more modern sext messages.
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"Nora, my love for you allows me to pray"
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"to the spirit of eternal beauty
and tenderness mirrored in your eyes."
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"Want to fling you down under
me in that soft belly of yours,"
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"and fuck you up behind
like a hog riding a sow."
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1948 AD.
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With the advent of instant
film and the Polaroid camera,
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the sexter's cause was greatly advanced
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not only by the amount of time saved,
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but also by the lack of
smirks from photo lab workers.
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1970 AD.
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A certain numerical
sequence enjoyed prolific use
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with the invention of the pocket calculator
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beginning in 1970, and was
popular with adolescents
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and less than mature mathematicians.
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The cleverly crafted sext,
8-0-0-8-5, AKA, BOOBS.
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1990 AD.
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Although the technology has
existed since the late '50s,
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it wasn't until the '80s and '90s
that pagers became more widely used.
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And not just for emergencies,
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lustful companions often used them to trade
sexts of the alpha-numeric persuasion.
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1992 AD.
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22-year-old engineer,
Neil Papworth,
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is noteworthy for having sent the
very first text message in history.
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Using his computer to transmit
the message to a colleague's phone,
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he typed "Merry Christmas."
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It's rumored the very next
message was "naughty or nice?"
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But this is unconfirmed.
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2000 to 2002 AD.
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Even though MMS wouldn't be
invented for another two years,
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consumer electronics manufacturer Sharp
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released the first cellphone
with a camera, the J-HSO4 in 2000.
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2004 AD.
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An article aptly named "Textual
Gratification" appearing in "Globe and Mail"
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is believed to contain the first ever
documented use of the term "sext."
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As well, the term was officially
added to the Oxford dictionary.
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In September 2011,
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two Stanford University students
launched the popular app, Snapchat,
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which allows any picture to be
sent to and viewed by friends,
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but only for a pre-determined
length of time before being deleted.
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The mobile phone app, Snapchat, is proving to
be massively popular amongst young people.
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The Electronic Privacy
Information Center claims.
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Snapchat deceives users
promising to delete photos
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but, really, leaving them available.
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At this point in time, Snapchat has
attracted an estimated 82 million users,
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with the majority of them
between the ages of 13 and 25.
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It's the beauty of what you
call, you know, disposable media.
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That's what these instant apps are.
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Snapchat, you know, Secret,
everything like that.
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There's protection in anonymity.
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Snapchat's probably not for me.
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So I don't think I need to do that.
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I'm already Instagramming,
sexting, texting, e-mailing,
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sometimes Facebooking, old school.
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I don't use Snapchat. Let the
kids have it. It's all for them.
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I receive a lot of sexts through Snapchat.
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[FEMALE INTERVIEWER] Like what?
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Uh, you know, dick shots.
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Kind of stuff like that.
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That would be typical
frustration, wouldn't it?
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You finally get the
picture from the one girl,
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and it's the perfect picture.
You're like, "This is awesome!"
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Then it's gone. That's
the story of my life.
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I was married for 11 years.
I know all about that shit.
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When you send a Snapchat,
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you can only open it
once for as many seconds.
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Like, I can take a picture and choose
how long people can view it for.
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Like, I can do it for one
second or like ten seconds,
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and then they can never ever see it again.
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First, Mike, have you
ever sexted on Snapchat?
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[AUDIENCE LAUGHING]
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I'm afraid I can't answer that question.
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Snapchat. What do I think about Snapchat?
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Now that's the thing
where your dick erases.
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Ain't that the thing, like,
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where you put your dick on
and then it just vanishes?
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Hey, you can't do the
time, don't do the crime.
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That's the way I feel about it.
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You know? Look, it's awfully convenient
for you to just, you know, be...
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There are consequences to everything.
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You know, just think if Anthony Weiner
had used Snapchat instead of Twitter,
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we might be calling him Mayor Weiner.
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- Might have. Might have.
- That's it?
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I don't do it too much through
text messages, like actual pictures,
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because then they have it there forever.
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They can show whoever the hell they want.
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Snapchat is my best friend, you know?
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Ten seconds or lower, you know.
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I kinda give them a glimpse, three seconds.
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And they be like, "Oh, send me more."
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And I'm like, "Well,
you gotta send me some."
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Snapchat is definitely one
of the more intense ones.
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'Cause it's gone, so I guess
people feel more comfortable
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and are willing to do more things.
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Whenever I get a Snapchat picture,
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I don't screen-shot it because you can't.
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Then the girl can see
that you screenshot it.
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So, therefore, if she sees that, then
she won't send you another one again.
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See, I need these things, and sometimes
when you can't find your glasses...
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You know what I mean? It's no good.
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I get a great picture. Now you're telling
me it's gonna disappear in five seconds.
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Takes me 20 seconds to get my glasses.
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Use the app for what it's intended for.
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For pictures of sunsets and sexting.
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But a selfie on Snapchat,
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that "ish" disappears. Okay?
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So, like, I really don't
get why you're sending it.
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So that I can go, "Yo. Yo, yo,
remember that one time you looked good"
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"for seven seconds?"
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I'm actually a Tinder fan.
Well, I don't use Snapchat.
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Mostly, it's Tinder. It's usually
Tinder that I usually go through.
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I always get my numbers from Tinder,
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and then all of a sudden,
start sexting from there.
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Sometimes it'll be a fail, sometimes it'll
be a positive, and we'll see what happens.
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[FEMALE NEWSCASTER] A new app called
Tinder is quickly gaining traction.
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For those of you who are a little shy
and need some help breaking the ice,
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this app just might be for you.
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Is Tinder a dating app? Okay.
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Is that what we're gonna "pretend"?
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Tinder is a "dating app?" All right.
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I like the idea of just like, hot,
not, hot, not, hot, not, you know?
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I think random, like,
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"Hey, you're five miles away from
me. Let's meet up and fuck" thing
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is kind of crazy.
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I'm on Tinder right now.
Like, while I was waiting.
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Oh, I shouldn't say that.
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What do I think about Tinder?
I think Tinder's great.
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It's awful.
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Uh, Tinder has taught me that I'm hideous.
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Yes, I'm on Tinder. I've gone
on a couple of Tinder dates,
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and they've been fine, and gone nowhere.
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How are things with you?
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[AMIE HARWICK] The applications
itself is not dangerous.
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It's how people exercise
their behaviors with the app.
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If somebody uses Tinder and meets
somebody right away from the Tinder app.
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They meet at a bar and
they have unprotected sex.
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Is Tinder dangerous? No.
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Is their behavior dangerous
to themselves? Yes.
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There are people that get
relationships off of Tinder,
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but it's an immediate
gratification application.
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An application that caters to
people that wanna meet up right away.
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What does that tell you about our culture?
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[SCHOOL BELL RINGING]
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Okay, so you like this girl?
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- Yeah.
- You want her.
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She wants you back.
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You're gonna sext her what?
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"I'm gonna shove nine inches
of limp dick in your ass."
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[BUZZER BUZZING]
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"Your giant tits make me rock hard."
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[BUZZER BUZZING]
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How about, "You make me
think dirty thoughts"?
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The dirty thought "I wanna fuck you tits"
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- is still in there.
- Okay.
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But she can be like, "What
kind of dirty thoughts?"
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She says, "You're making me hot, too."
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See? Think dirty things
and text naughty things.
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All right. Okay, well, let's wait.
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- The waiting part is the hardest, isn't it?
- Yeah. Oh, it's so hard.
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I mean, you know, yeah.
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Give her 20% and make her do 80.
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- Okay, Uh...
- So you give her that thought
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and it gets her involved. As opposed
to just being the canvas, it's a...
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- It's a give-and-take. Okay. All right.
- Yes.
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[BOTH] Aah!
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A-ha! Keep that shit to myself.
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She's clearly is into you
having dirty thoughts about her.
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Okay. Okay.
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So, now you just want to keep the
"your tits" or "your ass" here.
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"I wanna paint your vagina
like the Texas tunnel."
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[CRICKET CHIRPING]
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She said, "Are we gonna have
dinner and dessert?" Dot, dot, dot.
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Oh.
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Shit! Yeah. I sent it.
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- You did not.
- I sent it.
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You did not send her a dick pic.
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No!
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"I'll be wearing a carnation..."
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"And you'll be wearing a smile."
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"And you'll be wearing a smile."
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Yes!
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She says, "Yes, I will be
wearing a smile, and so will you."
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[AUDIENCE CHEERING]
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Thank you.
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Now I'm sending the dick pic.
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[HARTLEY] You have to
use proper punctuation.
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Capitalize your first letter.
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In a sense, use a period.
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Maybe it's an age thing. I want
complete grammar in my sexting.
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That lets me know that the person
who's sexting me has a complete mind.
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Less is more. That's what I say.
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People always try to go
on and keep going for it.
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And also, here's... [SCOFFS] When
I say something clever and sexy,
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when you use it back to me, I'm
like, "I just fed you material."
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That irritates the shit out of me.
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Come up with your own stuff.
Keep it tight and simple,
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and always throw in a compliment.
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Words are good. Words are powerful.
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You don't need a picture. Words are good.
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If you're a creative writer,
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you can definitely make
someone, you know, get into it.
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00:20:53,334 --> 00:20:57,706
I find sexting to be a
very powerful foreplay tool.
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00:20:57,738 --> 00:20:59,641
Very powerful. Almost too much.
403
00:20:59,673 --> 00:21:02,142
Almost to the point where
it's like, this is so good,
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the actual act can't hold water,
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which is why I don't really
even do it as much anymore.
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00:21:07,914 --> 00:21:12,286
'Cause it's like, this reality is
disappointing. You know what I mean?
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Sexting is like foreplay.
It's foreplay with your words.
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It's the best way you can verbally turn
someone on without physically being there.
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00:21:20,761 --> 00:21:24,898
I would say if you're new to
sexting, don't, like, go really crazy.
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Like you're gonna choke her, slap
her, spit on her, all those things.
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'Cause you might scare someone away.
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I would lightly, uh, tread first,
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and then, uh, work your way into
those really dirty, dirty messages.
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I think girls are a little hesitant
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to be forward about sexting and stuff.
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They don't wanna be seen
as a slut, or too forward.
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00:21:44,919 --> 00:21:49,224
So if you make her feel comfortable
and give her the go ahead, and tell her,
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"I think it's really sexy when you
sent me back the little flirty text."
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She'll feel more inclined
to keep going with it.
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00:21:57,030 --> 00:21:58,632
Well, I don't send nude.
421
00:21:58,665 --> 00:22:01,235
Um, I don't send my vajayjay.
422
00:22:01,268 --> 00:22:03,505
I use my assets to just...
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00:22:03,537 --> 00:22:05,640
That's mainly me. I'll
just send you a ass shot.
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Like, "Oh, look at these new
jeans," or, "Look at these panties."
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And flirt like that.
Like more of just my ass,
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00:22:11,211 --> 00:22:14,181
or me just being cute and
freaky, like recording something.
427
00:22:14,215 --> 00:22:15,850
Oh, the guy? Oh, yeah,
you can send me whatever.
428
00:22:15,882 --> 00:22:17,418
Oh, yeah. I wanna see it all.
429
00:22:17,450 --> 00:22:22,390
Yeah, there's a certain method before
I, uh, go straight into the dick pics
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00:22:22,422 --> 00:22:24,925
and filthy erotic stories.
431
00:22:24,959 --> 00:22:28,296
Um, you gotta, you know,
kind of test the ground first.
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00:22:28,328 --> 00:22:30,898
You start complimenting her a little bit.
433
00:22:30,931 --> 00:22:34,568
Start with the mind. Work
your way up to the physical.
434
00:22:34,602 --> 00:22:38,206
And then, uh, hopefully she
gives you something in return.
435
00:22:38,238 --> 00:22:39,807
You know, "Oh, I think you're cute."
436
00:22:39,841 --> 00:22:42,177
"Uh, I think you got a nice little figure."
437
00:22:42,209 --> 00:22:45,380
"Oh, yeah. I think you
are kind of hot too."
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00:22:45,412 --> 00:22:48,615
And that's kind of like, you
know, that's a green light.
439
00:22:48,649 --> 00:22:51,018
I'm a pretty dominant, aggressive person.
440
00:22:51,052 --> 00:22:53,988
So I'm initially gonna ask you,
441
00:22:54,020 --> 00:22:57,124
"What do you want to do to me, or what
have you thought about doing to me?"
442
00:22:57,158 --> 00:22:59,761
And if you don't give me a good
enough answer to come off with,
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00:22:59,794 --> 00:23:01,763
then I'm gonna stop the sexting from there.
444
00:23:02,997 --> 00:23:06,567
I have no idea how to maintain a
relationship without texting, you know.
445
00:23:06,601 --> 00:23:07,835
Especially sexting.
446
00:23:07,869 --> 00:23:10,205
It's got pacing to it. You
have to keep up the pace.
447
00:23:10,238 --> 00:23:13,408
You have to be creative. You can't
use the same words over and over again.
448
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,309
You know, you can't stop in the middle.
449
00:23:15,343 --> 00:23:16,510
Ladies.
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[AUDIENCE LAUGHING]
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I might do a boobie,
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00:23:23,484 --> 00:23:27,422
or maybe, you know, a butt shot
or something like that real quick.
453
00:23:27,455 --> 00:23:28,823
And if he's asking for more,
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00:23:28,856 --> 00:23:31,658
then I'll go through some other
avenues and do some other things.
455
00:23:31,691 --> 00:23:33,394
Yeah. Different angles.
456
00:23:33,428 --> 00:23:35,463
[LAUGHING]
457
00:23:35,496 --> 00:23:39,066
I have like... I have like a...
It's not really even a sexting thing.
458
00:23:39,100 --> 00:23:40,935
It's just like a language right now.
459
00:23:40,968 --> 00:23:42,469
It's like, "You gonna be up for a while?"
460
00:23:42,503 --> 00:23:43,738
"Yeah, you wanna come through?"
461
00:23:43,770 --> 00:23:45,873
And that's, uh... Now
we know what's happening.
462
00:23:45,907 --> 00:23:47,909
And it's just, you know, very understood.
463
00:23:47,941 --> 00:23:49,643
It's very grown, so to speak.
464
00:23:49,677 --> 00:23:53,415
But I reserve my sexting for
the people that I'm boning.
465
00:23:53,448 --> 00:23:55,583
I like butt. I like men's butt.
466
00:23:55,615 --> 00:23:58,185
So, they'll send me like...
467
00:23:58,219 --> 00:24:00,054
Nice little picture of the frame.
468
00:24:00,086 --> 00:24:01,488
Yeah, I like that.
469
00:24:01,521 --> 00:24:04,158
I mean, to me, that's
really like, "Oh, sexy."
470
00:24:04,191 --> 00:24:07,295
It gives me a turn on. I like that.
471
00:24:07,327 --> 00:24:09,463
Is there something about
sexting that annoys me?
472
00:24:09,497 --> 00:24:12,100
Yes. It doesn't happen enough in my life.
473
00:24:12,132 --> 00:24:15,903
Uh, other than that girl who
sends me pictures of her boobs.
474
00:24:15,937 --> 00:24:17,238
Those are really good boobs, though.
475
00:24:17,271 --> 00:24:20,441
She likes to send me pictures
of herself naked with the cat.
476
00:24:20,475 --> 00:24:22,276
Like, she's got this really
hot picture she sent me
477
00:24:22,309 --> 00:24:23,310
where she's like arched up,
478
00:24:23,344 --> 00:24:25,145
and her cat's just lying
in the middle of her.
479
00:24:25,179 --> 00:24:27,916
She's like, "Where are
you? My kitty misses you."
480
00:24:27,949 --> 00:24:31,186
Normally, you know, she'll
send a picture of her tits.
481
00:24:31,219 --> 00:24:33,388
I'll send back, you know, one of my pussy.
482
00:24:33,421 --> 00:24:35,824
It's really hot. I keep
'em. I masturbate to 'em.
483
00:24:35,856 --> 00:24:38,392
Very few people know how to sext.
484
00:24:38,426 --> 00:24:39,494
That's just the fact of it.
485
00:24:58,345 --> 00:25:02,016
People who don't know how to talk
dirty also don't know how to sext.
486
00:25:02,048 --> 00:25:04,751
[WHISPERING] I wanna turn this TV off
487
00:25:04,785 --> 00:25:07,889
and turn on your vagina-vision.
488
00:25:07,921 --> 00:25:11,593
I used to try to get guys I
used to date to talk dirty,
489
00:25:11,625 --> 00:25:14,495
and, um, you'd be surprised at how...
490
00:25:14,528 --> 00:25:18,465
If that's not something
that comes to you naturally,
491
00:25:18,498 --> 00:25:20,067
it's a flop every time.
492
00:25:20,101 --> 00:25:23,571
Don't get me wrong. Some people
have the talent to do it right,
493
00:25:23,603 --> 00:25:25,206
and some people don't.
494
00:25:25,238 --> 00:25:28,142
There are some moments when I'm
reading through a text and I'm like,
495
00:25:28,174 --> 00:25:30,511
"Okay. Mm-hmm, mm-hmm,
mm-hmm. Oh, yeah."
496
00:25:30,545 --> 00:25:31,912
And then it's like, wait, what?
497
00:25:40,888 --> 00:25:44,125
Okay, that really threw me for a
loop. Like, that really turned me off.
498
00:25:44,158 --> 00:25:48,496
And then you have other people that like...
It's like reading "50 Shades of Grey."
499
00:25:48,528 --> 00:25:53,701
It's just like a crazy, fuck, sex, romance
novel. And you're like, "Oh, my god."
500
00:26:04,444 --> 00:26:08,849
There are some buzz words, and not
in a good way, that I can't handle.
501
00:26:08,882 --> 00:26:10,451
Like, "suckle."
502
00:26:12,452 --> 00:26:14,221
You wanna suckle my breast?
503
00:26:14,255 --> 00:26:16,157
Uh-huh. You're not my child.
504
00:26:16,190 --> 00:26:17,859
That's not gonna... I can't...
505
00:26:17,892 --> 00:26:21,629
"I wanna watch you pleasure yourself
while I suckle on your breasts."
506
00:26:21,661 --> 00:26:24,533
That's the worst sext ever in existence.
507
00:26:30,004 --> 00:26:31,738
[LISA ANN] There's a time
and a place to understand
508
00:26:31,771 --> 00:26:34,274
somebody could be doing something.
I'll give you an example.
509
00:26:34,307 --> 00:26:37,010
Couple of weeks ago, I
was flying home from a gig.
510
00:26:37,044 --> 00:26:38,145
I'm in first class,
511
00:26:38,179 --> 00:26:40,148
sitting next to an older
dude I've never met before.
512
00:26:40,180 --> 00:26:42,350
And of course, as soon as we
land I'm turning on my phone,
513
00:26:42,382 --> 00:26:43,785
and he's looking at my phone.
514
00:26:43,817 --> 00:26:45,953
Which I think is rude, but whatever.
I don't say anything to people.
515
00:26:45,987 --> 00:26:47,921
I never look at anybody else's phone.
516
00:26:47,955 --> 00:26:49,757
And, of course, it was one of those moments
517
00:26:49,789 --> 00:26:53,894
where one of my dudes thought it'd be a great
idea to send me a picture of his big black cock.
518
00:26:53,928 --> 00:26:55,363
So I opened the picture.
519
00:26:55,395 --> 00:26:58,265
And I leave it open 'cause I know
this old guy is looking at my phone.
520
00:26:58,298 --> 00:27:00,233
He's now horrified. He'll
be like, "Oh, my god."
521
00:27:00,267 --> 00:27:01,869
That was not the time or the place
522
00:27:01,901 --> 00:27:03,770
because that guy knew I
was traveling that day,
523
00:27:03,804 --> 00:27:05,305
and I really didn't
need to see a cock shot.
524
00:27:05,338 --> 00:27:06,873
Just had four-hour layover.
525
00:27:06,907 --> 00:27:08,843
Our other flight was
delayed. It was brutal.
526
00:27:08,875 --> 00:27:10,510
So you have to know time and place.
527
00:27:10,544 --> 00:27:12,947
It has to be in something engaging
528
00:27:12,979 --> 00:27:14,781
where how you got to this point
529
00:27:14,815 --> 00:27:17,184
where you feel it's necessary
right now to send that cock shot.
530
00:27:17,218 --> 00:27:19,320
There's absolutely nowhere I wouldn't sext.
531
00:27:19,353 --> 00:27:20,821
I'm gonna be honest.
532
00:27:20,854 --> 00:27:24,959
Um, because the more inappropriate
the location, the better. You know?
533
00:27:24,991 --> 00:27:28,629
Like, if I'm on a thing with someone,
like, if we're having a sex thing,
534
00:27:28,662 --> 00:27:29,796
like put me in church.
535
00:27:29,830 --> 00:27:32,100
Um, oh, okay. Giving birth.
536
00:27:32,132 --> 00:27:33,601
[BABY CRYING]
537
00:27:33,634 --> 00:27:38,972
If I'm giving birth and the head of
my child is crowning out of my pussy,
538
00:27:39,006 --> 00:27:40,807
I probably wouldn't sext then.
539
00:27:40,841 --> 00:27:45,146
I will say that the most mundane moments
in life are the best time to sext.
540
00:27:45,179 --> 00:27:48,983
You can make any monotonous job fun
541
00:27:49,016 --> 00:27:52,887
just by sneaking a couple
of sex texts from your phone.
542
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:56,690
My favorite time and place to sext
543
00:27:56,723 --> 00:28:00,027
is probably while at home by myself.
544
00:28:00,061 --> 00:28:02,430
[DOROTHY] My favorite
time to sext, typically,
545
00:28:02,462 --> 00:28:05,767
is late afternoon into evening.
546
00:28:05,799 --> 00:28:09,302
When I'm drunk. Um, yeah.
547
00:28:09,335 --> 00:28:10,438
Here's what I say.
548
00:28:10,470 --> 00:28:12,606
You never go to the grocery store hungry,
549
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,175
never text horny.
550
00:28:14,208 --> 00:28:16,544
I sext any time of the day.
551
00:28:16,576 --> 00:28:18,945
In the morning, in the afternoon.
552
00:28:18,978 --> 00:28:20,547
While I'm in the shower.
553
00:28:20,581 --> 00:28:23,418
It's cool too, 'cause my
phone case is waterproof.
554
00:28:23,450 --> 00:28:25,185
So I can, like, just take
my phone in the shower
555
00:28:25,219 --> 00:28:28,922
and send snaps in the shower
to whoever. It's funny.
556
00:28:28,956 --> 00:28:30,391
I get a lot back.
557
00:28:30,423 --> 00:28:34,494
Like, immediately right back,
I'll get snaps. Like, whatever.
558
00:28:34,527 --> 00:28:38,466
I don't, like, designate a
time or a dojo to sext in.
559
00:28:38,498 --> 00:28:40,334
I just kinda sext whenever I want to.
560
00:28:40,366 --> 00:28:43,437
We're really... It's kinda on his lead.
561
00:28:43,470 --> 00:28:45,539
He'll hit me up, or, you
know, talk to him on the phone.
562
00:28:45,573 --> 00:28:48,442
He'll be like, "Baby, send
me a little something later on"
563
00:28:48,476 --> 00:28:52,046
"while I'm at work, so I can look at
it when I'm on my break, or whatever."
564
00:28:52,078 --> 00:28:55,515
So, he'll usually start it out
and it'll get me through the day.
565
00:28:55,548 --> 00:28:58,418
And then I'll start sending
just random stuff just for fun,
566
00:28:58,451 --> 00:29:00,454
to see what his reaction is gonna be.
567
00:29:00,488 --> 00:29:03,356
And do it randomly, pretty much.
568
00:29:03,390 --> 00:29:06,227
Um...
569
00:29:07,561 --> 00:29:09,297
Maybe like...
570
00:29:09,330 --> 00:29:11,766
I have no limits. I don't
care where I'm at, really.
571
00:29:12,866 --> 00:29:16,303
I don't know. I probably
would in a lot of places.
572
00:29:16,336 --> 00:29:20,474
I mean, the only place, probably church
'cause I try not to look at my phone.
573
00:29:20,507 --> 00:29:23,376
I mean, I suppose if you go to
church, you shouldn't sext in church.
574
00:29:23,410 --> 00:29:26,279
But I'm not really a regular
attender, so that doesn't work for me.
575
00:29:26,313 --> 00:29:29,684
But if I'm there at home, oh,
yeah, it's going down. Mm-hmm.
576
00:29:29,717 --> 00:29:32,586
I think you shouldn't...
Maybe when someone's on stage,
577
00:29:32,620 --> 00:29:35,590
and you're supposed to be supporting
someone, or something like that. Maybe.
578
00:29:35,623 --> 00:29:37,592
I don't wanna talk no more
once you say that right.
579
00:29:37,624 --> 00:29:40,728
[INHALES DEEPLY] And I get that little
feeling in my body and it goes up...
580
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:44,065
Yeah, she tingling. Oh,
it's time to go down.
581
00:29:44,097 --> 00:29:46,800
But other than that, I feel like,
yeah, you can probably get it in.
582
00:29:46,834 --> 00:29:48,635
Depends on how fast you are. [LAUGHS]
583
00:29:54,374 --> 00:29:58,211
[SUMMER BRIELLE] I have gotten
surprise dick pics. Yeah, I have.
584
00:29:58,245 --> 00:30:01,181
It's shocking in the worst ways. [LAUGHS]
585
00:30:01,215 --> 00:30:02,884
I wanna see your dick for sure,
586
00:30:02,917 --> 00:30:05,186
but sometimes, the poses, one,
587
00:30:05,219 --> 00:30:08,555
or the places, two, are
the most horrendous things.
588
00:30:08,588 --> 00:30:10,957
Or sometimes the way that your
dick just looks in the picture.
589
00:30:10,990 --> 00:30:13,693
I think it would be funny
to send my flaccid wiener.
590
00:30:13,727 --> 00:30:16,497
Would I do that? Just to everyone?
I would do that to everyone.
591
00:30:16,529 --> 00:30:20,033
Dick pics are like the modern day flashing.
592
00:30:20,066 --> 00:30:23,703
So, usually flashers are like turned on
593
00:30:23,737 --> 00:30:25,339
because they know that
they've got something,
594
00:30:25,372 --> 00:30:27,408
you know, between their
legs that they're like,
595
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:31,411
"There's nothing up here. There's nothing
here. There's nothing in my wallet."
596
00:30:31,444 --> 00:30:34,347
"So let me show you, you
know, what god gave me."
597
00:30:34,381 --> 00:30:38,319
If you leave, I'll send everyone
your nude photos you sent me.
598
00:30:39,786 --> 00:30:41,523
You wouldn't dare!
599
00:30:42,555 --> 00:30:46,160
Oh, look, you as a sexy Ash Ketchum.
600
00:30:46,192 --> 00:30:50,530
What would your mother think
if she saw your Pokeballs?
601
00:30:50,564 --> 00:30:52,800
Damn it, Claire! That
was our little secret.
602
00:30:52,833 --> 00:30:55,836
I'm in a phase right now where I
have been masturbating to dick pics,
603
00:30:55,870 --> 00:30:57,004
but, like, huge ones.
604
00:30:57,036 --> 00:31:01,475
Like, eight-and-a-half, nine
inches, and, like, thick.
605
00:31:01,507 --> 00:31:04,845
Like... Like that,
606
00:31:04,879 --> 00:31:06,948
and like that.
607
00:31:06,980 --> 00:31:11,518
You know what? I would take a
picture off the Internet and send that
608
00:31:11,552 --> 00:31:13,921
instead of my thing, and
just let them be disappointed
609
00:31:13,953 --> 00:31:16,223
when it's too late and they
can't do anything about it.
610
00:31:16,257 --> 00:31:17,592
I don't need a picture of your cock.
611
00:31:17,624 --> 00:31:19,594
It's not all that. When I see
it in person, that's awesome.
612
00:31:19,626 --> 00:31:23,063
But I also don't send any
graphic photos of myself.
613
00:31:23,096 --> 00:31:24,998
Because I know what guys do with them.
614
00:31:25,032 --> 00:31:26,534
They just show 'em to their friends.
615
00:31:26,566 --> 00:31:28,702
And you can get enough photos of me online.
616
00:31:28,736 --> 00:31:31,005
I just say, be like
everybody else. Google me.
617
00:31:31,037 --> 00:31:35,041
I don't think that pussy shots
or dick pics are necessarily sexy.
618
00:31:35,075 --> 00:31:37,844
You know, genitals are the weirdest
looking things I've ever seen.
619
00:31:37,878 --> 00:31:42,350
Probably 80% of women are like,
"Don't send me a picture of your dick."
620
00:31:42,382 --> 00:31:45,920
And then the size queens are like,
"Yeah, send me a picture!" You know?
621
00:31:45,952 --> 00:31:48,788
Men are out there texting women
622
00:31:48,822 --> 00:31:51,459
photos of their penis, all the time.
623
00:31:51,491 --> 00:31:53,627
You wanna see something
amazing? Watch this.
624
00:31:53,661 --> 00:31:55,595
Clap if you are a woman in the audience.
625
00:31:55,629 --> 00:32:00,834
[AUDIENCE CLAPPING]
626
00:32:00,867 --> 00:32:04,971
Okay. Now clap if a dude has
sent you a dick photo before.
627
00:32:05,005 --> 00:32:07,708
[AUDIENCE CLAPPING]
628
00:32:07,740 --> 00:32:11,411
Was there even any
difference in the applause?
629
00:32:11,444 --> 00:32:15,382
Now, dick pics... Dick pics
are a whole other thing.
630
00:32:15,415 --> 00:32:18,118
As a woman who's had a lot of
sex, I can look a dick and go,
631
00:32:18,151 --> 00:32:21,988
"Oh, my gosh. I would do this position, that
position. This would be perfect for that."
632
00:32:22,021 --> 00:32:23,356
So I can tell how you're gonna...
633
00:32:23,390 --> 00:32:25,325
I can tell, from looking at an erection,
634
00:32:25,359 --> 00:32:27,194
how I'm gonna like having it inside of me.
635
00:32:27,227 --> 00:32:30,898
I had a dude, one time, get a nut.
636
00:32:30,930 --> 00:32:34,334
I mean, show me before it even busted.
637
00:32:34,367 --> 00:32:37,337
He was talking to me. "It's
coming, Kim. It's coming."
638
00:32:37,371 --> 00:32:40,941
And I swear to god, through
the whole thing, pop, pop, pop.
639
00:32:40,975 --> 00:32:45,880
I had three or four pictures of
an exploding penis. Yeah. [LAUGHS]
640
00:32:45,912 --> 00:32:47,147
So that was kinda surprising,
641
00:32:47,180 --> 00:32:49,749
'cause I didn't think you can
hold a phone at the same time
642
00:32:49,783 --> 00:32:52,119
while you're jacking off. I
didn't think you could do it.
643
00:32:52,151 --> 00:32:53,386
But it can be done.
644
00:32:53,420 --> 00:32:54,822
So here are my tips
645
00:32:54,854 --> 00:32:56,856
as to how to take a good dick picture.
646
00:32:56,890 --> 00:33:00,061
First one being, make sure
you have good lighting.
647
00:33:00,094 --> 00:33:02,228
Just make sure you look
presentable down there.
648
00:33:02,261 --> 00:33:04,030
You know, not all guys like to shave.
649
00:33:04,064 --> 00:33:06,600
If you guys just trim,
trim it up a little bit.
650
00:33:06,632 --> 00:33:09,603
Three, is it's all about the
angles. Just like on MySpace.
651
00:33:09,635 --> 00:33:14,307
I like to get it from like down here
at the base, you know what I'm sayin'?
652
00:33:14,341 --> 00:33:17,645
So even if you're not big, it
just looks triumphant and powerful.
653
00:33:17,678 --> 00:33:19,914
You never know when
you're gonna get a picture.
654
00:33:19,947 --> 00:33:22,717
And I'm not really big on
the pictures to be honest.
655
00:33:22,749 --> 00:33:26,219
Like, if you ask me for
a picture, I'll send it,
656
00:33:26,253 --> 00:33:28,055
and I'd like the same courtesy back.
657
00:33:28,087 --> 00:33:30,490
Which means that if I'd
like a picture, I'll ask.
658
00:33:30,524 --> 00:33:32,493
Why are you sending me all these dick pics?
659
00:33:32,526 --> 00:33:35,363
Like, I had this guy... I do
not know who this person is.
660
00:33:35,395 --> 00:33:37,330
And they send me this pictures,
661
00:33:37,363 --> 00:33:40,433
and this guy has this dick,
it's this big. Not exaggerating.
662
00:33:40,467 --> 00:33:42,335
Whenever it starts to get into that realm,
663
00:33:42,369 --> 00:33:44,438
I always get scared.
Like, when's it coming?
664
00:33:44,470 --> 00:33:46,172
When's the dick pic coming? You know?
665
00:33:46,206 --> 00:33:49,642
And, you know, to be
honest, they're never good.
666
00:33:49,676 --> 00:33:53,247
He drew a spider web
on the head of his cock,
667
00:33:53,279 --> 00:33:57,084
and he's like, "Look at this funny
little dick. Isn't this hilarious?"
668
00:33:57,116 --> 00:33:58,284
"Isn't this blah, blah, blah?"
669
00:33:58,317 --> 00:34:00,086
And I open it, and it's this dude's dick.
670
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:01,488
And I'm like, "Oh, my god."
671
00:34:01,521 --> 00:34:05,158
For the most part, it's
an unflattering picture
672
00:34:05,191 --> 00:34:07,094
of something that I typically enjoy.
673
00:34:07,126 --> 00:34:09,897
I'm as self-conscious as
any other guy out there.
674
00:34:09,930 --> 00:34:14,167
Um, I want to have a
little bit of assurance
675
00:34:14,201 --> 00:34:17,905
that she likes what she sees
before she sees it in person.
676
00:34:17,937 --> 00:34:19,706
I would just send dick pictures to...
677
00:34:19,739 --> 00:34:22,676
Dude, I would just send them up
a storm. That's the thing to do.
678
00:34:22,709 --> 00:34:25,879
It's like, it's either a body picture or
a dick pic. It's gonna be one of the two.
679
00:34:25,913 --> 00:34:29,717
The Captain Morgan picture. [LAUGHS]
680
00:34:29,750 --> 00:34:32,152
It's my favorite stance,
the Captain Morgan.
681
00:34:32,185 --> 00:34:34,287
I don't know. Now that I think
about it, it's kinda shitty.
682
00:34:34,321 --> 00:34:35,221
[MALE INTERVIEWER] Yeah?
683
00:34:35,256 --> 00:34:38,392
'Cause all of my junk is just out there.
684
00:34:38,424 --> 00:34:43,229
When you send your junk
through Gmail, for example,
685
00:34:43,263 --> 00:34:44,531
the NSA got a copy of that.
686
00:34:44,564 --> 00:34:49,335
The good news is there's no
program named the Dick Pic program.
687
00:34:49,368 --> 00:34:52,038
The worst is when they, like,
take dick pics on the toilet.
688
00:34:52,071 --> 00:34:54,642
Do not take dick pics on the toilet.
689
00:34:54,674 --> 00:34:57,577
Like I think, like, "What are you
doing that you have to do that?"
690
00:34:57,611 --> 00:34:59,480
Men who are not gay
691
00:34:59,513 --> 00:35:03,584
are socialized to only think about
their dick as a source of pleasure.
692
00:35:03,616 --> 00:35:04,584
Giving or receiving.
693
00:35:04,618 --> 00:35:06,320
A guy sending a picture of his dick going,
694
00:35:06,352 --> 00:35:10,223
"Me happy. Share fun
you? Me toy fun share?"
695
00:35:10,256 --> 00:35:12,592
And the woman goes, "Eek, what?"
696
00:35:12,625 --> 00:35:14,361
You know, men want in.
697
00:35:20,399 --> 00:35:22,435
Hi. My name is Janet,
698
00:35:22,468 --> 00:35:25,371
and everybody is talking about dick pics.
699
00:35:25,404 --> 00:35:27,475
I've never received a dick pic.
700
00:35:27,507 --> 00:35:32,513
Uh, so my friends put together
this slide show of 89 dick pics.
701
00:35:32,546 --> 00:35:34,248
And, uh, we're gonna take a look at them.
702
00:35:34,281 --> 00:35:36,183
I'm gonna see what this is all about.
703
00:35:36,216 --> 00:35:37,351
So here we go.
704
00:35:37,384 --> 00:35:39,786
This does not look like
a person, I don't think.
705
00:35:39,819 --> 00:35:42,522
And this is a... Okay, so I know
this is an uncircumcised one.
706
00:35:42,556 --> 00:35:43,958
I don't know if this is erect.
707
00:35:43,991 --> 00:35:45,926
This is like a sort of moodier one.
708
00:35:45,959 --> 00:35:49,964
I'm not a size queen or
anything, but this is very short.
709
00:35:49,997 --> 00:35:53,567
This is a big, round lollipop dick.
710
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,236
Oh...
711
00:35:57,004 --> 00:36:00,975
It's like... Yeah, he's like, bleh.
712
00:36:01,007 --> 00:36:03,977
[SQUEAMISHLY] I don't know what this is.
713
00:36:04,011 --> 00:36:05,379
Curve.
714
00:36:05,411 --> 00:36:08,616
I mean, I guess he could be
tugging his own ball sack, right?
715
00:36:08,649 --> 00:36:11,685
Or... But it seems he maybe
fingering his butt hole.
716
00:36:11,718 --> 00:36:14,187
Hmm, makes me wonder what
you could do with that.
717
00:36:16,489 --> 00:36:18,692
[SHOUTS] Yes! Yes!
718
00:36:18,725 --> 00:36:20,795
This is the one I would wanna receive.
719
00:36:21,694 --> 00:36:24,397
I don't... And I add,
I don't believe it's real
720
00:36:24,431 --> 00:36:25,766
because it's too good.
721
00:36:26,866 --> 00:36:29,102
This one, I'm sure, is real.
722
00:36:29,136 --> 00:36:31,038
So, guys, women are complicated,
723
00:36:31,071 --> 00:36:35,209
and even though you think you're
just sending a picture of your penis,
724
00:36:35,241 --> 00:36:40,747
we're constantly trying to put
together the clues about you,
725
00:36:40,781 --> 00:36:42,850
the man behind the dick.
726
00:36:42,882 --> 00:36:45,319
But your wieners are fine.
727
00:36:45,352 --> 00:36:47,821
Put your dick out there
and be fucking proud of it.
728
00:36:47,853 --> 00:36:49,355
If you sent it, you meant it.
729
00:36:49,388 --> 00:36:51,257
I'm gonna text my ex.
Probably shouldn't, right?
730
00:36:51,290 --> 00:36:52,392
I'm gonna do it anyway.
731
00:36:52,426 --> 00:36:54,795
Could we get some blow? I
desperately need some blow.
732
00:36:54,828 --> 00:36:56,363
But first,
733
00:36:56,395 --> 00:36:57,464
let me take a dick pic.
734
00:36:57,497 --> 00:37:04,004
[ELECTRONIC MUSIC PLAYING]
735
00:37:04,036 --> 00:37:04,872
Let me take a dick pic.
736
00:37:04,904 --> 00:37:06,439
Mystery's gone.
737
00:37:06,473 --> 00:37:09,810
I guess people don't want mystery anymore.
738
00:37:09,843 --> 00:37:11,913
I'd rather be surprised.
739
00:37:17,884 --> 00:37:20,221
Should the elderly sext?
740
00:37:20,254 --> 00:37:23,089
Yes, but keep it to themselves.
741
00:37:23,122 --> 00:37:26,459
People still want to
have sex at 50, 60, 70.
742
00:37:26,493 --> 00:37:29,763
So it's kinda natural
that that would happen.
743
00:37:29,796 --> 00:37:32,065
I wouldn't do it myself.
744
00:37:32,098 --> 00:37:35,736
No. Nope, Let's just nip
that right there. Nope.
745
00:37:35,768 --> 00:37:37,370
No. They can send
e-mails. I mean, come on.
746
00:37:37,404 --> 00:37:40,407
It's been my experience with elderly people
747
00:37:40,439 --> 00:37:43,876
that they really can't
even get to their contacts,
748
00:37:43,910 --> 00:37:46,312
you know, and their phone very well, so...
749
00:37:46,346 --> 00:37:47,648
Fuck yeah.
750
00:37:47,681 --> 00:37:48,716
Hell yeah!
751
00:37:48,748 --> 00:37:50,283
They need it more than anyone.
752
00:37:50,317 --> 00:37:53,687
Who the hell wants to look at an elderly...
753
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,555
[MUMBLES]
754
00:37:55,589 --> 00:37:57,558
No. Nope. E-mail.
Stick with e-mail.
755
00:37:57,591 --> 00:37:58,993
I don't know if Viagra...
756
00:37:59,026 --> 00:38:02,562
You know, people should've been
not having sex for a long time.
757
00:38:02,596 --> 00:38:05,899
Like, should've been done, retired from
having sex, all of a sudden, having sex.
758
00:38:05,931 --> 00:38:08,502
And you know, they leave things around.
759
00:38:08,535 --> 00:38:11,805
You know, so their phone's gonna
be left... You don't want, like,
760
00:38:11,837 --> 00:38:14,707
the grandkids to find the
phone, and then it's like, ugh.
761
00:38:14,741 --> 00:38:18,178
If you're an old person,
and you have a cellphone,
762
00:38:18,210 --> 00:38:20,446
and you know how to text,
763
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,850
uh, yeah, go ahead, knock yourselves out.
764
00:38:22,882 --> 00:38:28,288
Look, we got parental
blocks all over the world.
765
00:38:28,321 --> 00:38:31,591
I think it's about time we put some
grandparental blocks on some things,
766
00:38:31,625 --> 00:38:34,261
and sexting might be the first
and foremost to put it on.
767
00:38:34,294 --> 00:38:36,730
Some guy's going, "Hey, look at this."
768
00:38:36,763 --> 00:38:38,665
"It's going to work. It's going to work."
769
00:38:38,698 --> 00:38:42,535
The woman's going, "That might be
going to work, but my pussy's retired."
770
00:38:42,569 --> 00:38:44,337
"So, I'm sorry. It's gonna
have to call in sick."
771
00:38:44,370 --> 00:38:45,905
E-mail at maximum.
772
00:38:45,939 --> 00:38:48,375
Maybe a family picture sent.
773
00:38:48,408 --> 00:38:51,377
But sexting, no way. No one
wants to see those wrinkle sticks.
774
00:38:51,410 --> 00:38:57,150
You can't make "Don't sit under the
apple tree with anyone else but me" sexy.
775
00:38:57,183 --> 00:38:58,752
You can't.
776
00:38:58,785 --> 00:39:01,788
Well, you know, with Viagra,
777
00:39:01,821 --> 00:39:03,756
I suppose, you know, why
should they be left out of it?
778
00:39:03,790 --> 00:39:06,860
But that's like putting a new
flagpole on a condemned building.
779
00:39:06,893 --> 00:39:08,129
I mean, what the fuck?
780
00:39:15,502 --> 00:39:18,105
[MALE NEWSCASTER] Breaking news just
in to our newsroom in New York City.
781
00:39:18,138 --> 00:39:20,641
The New York mayoral
candidate, Anthony Weiner,
782
00:39:20,674 --> 00:39:25,212
now admits he sent additional explicit
photos and texts to a woman online.
783
00:39:25,245 --> 00:39:27,114
For the past few years,
I have engaged in several
784
00:39:27,147 --> 00:39:29,917
inappropriate conversations
conducted over Twitter,
785
00:39:29,950 --> 00:39:32,352
Facebook, e-mail, and
occasionally on the phone
786
00:39:32,386 --> 00:39:33,754
with women I had met online.
787
00:39:33,788 --> 00:39:37,591
What about the gods opening up
the clouds and giving us that one?
788
00:39:37,623 --> 00:39:40,426
But it was just so easy,
you couldn't even touch it.
789
00:39:40,460 --> 00:39:42,463
No pun intended.
790
00:39:42,495 --> 00:39:45,064
Anthony Weiner, perfect example.
791
00:39:45,098 --> 00:39:47,500
Sent a picture of himself
792
00:39:47,533 --> 00:39:49,535
to somebody he really didn't know,
793
00:39:49,569 --> 00:39:53,407
and had conversations with that
person electronically he didn't know.
794
00:39:53,439 --> 00:39:54,340
And look what happens.
795
00:39:54,375 --> 00:39:56,710
He tried to... As far as I can remember,
796
00:39:56,743 --> 00:39:58,379
he tried to deny that it was him.
797
00:39:58,411 --> 00:39:59,812
Then people were, "It's
kind of a big dick."
798
00:39:59,846 --> 00:40:01,148
He goes, "Oh, yeah. That is me."
799
00:40:01,181 --> 00:40:04,585
The craziest part of the whole
Anthony Weiner thing is...
800
00:40:04,618 --> 00:40:06,553
the guy never met
you face-to-face.
801
00:40:06,585 --> 00:40:07,853
No, he never met me.
802
00:40:07,888 --> 00:40:09,590
[HOWARD STERN] But I've had
more contact with you already.
803
00:40:09,622 --> 00:40:12,458
You had to say to yourself "This
guy is one sick puppy," right?
804
00:40:12,491 --> 00:40:16,062
Oh, totally. Especially after the
first scandal had already happened.
805
00:40:16,096 --> 00:40:18,098
Brett Favre, the same thing.
806
00:40:18,131 --> 00:40:20,100
[MALE NEWSCASTER] Jen Sterger,
the New York Jets TV host
807
00:40:20,132 --> 00:40:22,569
caught up in a sexting
scandal with Brett Favre.
808
00:40:22,602 --> 00:40:25,004
It was all investigated
by the NFL last fall.
809
00:40:25,038 --> 00:40:27,141
They concluded Jenn did nothing wrong,
810
00:40:27,174 --> 00:40:29,309
but fined Favre $50,000
811
00:40:29,341 --> 00:40:31,177
for failing to fully
cooperate with the probe.
812
00:40:31,210 --> 00:40:34,046
Oh, my god. You guys saw
Brett Favre's dick pic?
813
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,315
He had fucking Crocs on, and
his dick was not even hard.
814
00:40:36,348 --> 00:40:37,484
That's the worst thing you can do,
815
00:40:37,517 --> 00:40:39,319
is to be wearing Crocs
and have a small dick.
816
00:40:39,352 --> 00:40:41,221
Before sexting,
817
00:40:41,254 --> 00:40:44,190
Congressman Foley had an
instant message conversation
818
00:40:44,223 --> 00:40:46,125
with a page, where he said things.
819
00:40:46,158 --> 00:40:48,728
Stupidly thinking that
instant message conversations
820
00:40:48,761 --> 00:40:50,363
just sort of disappear when you're done.
821
00:40:50,397 --> 00:40:54,802
Not knowing that the person was copying
and pasting everything that he said.
822
00:40:54,835 --> 00:40:55,903
He lost his job.
823
00:40:55,935 --> 00:40:57,537
[FEMALE NEWSCASTER] It
turns out that James Franco
824
00:40:57,571 --> 00:41:01,275
was trying to pick up a teenager on
Instagram, in case you haven't heard.
825
00:41:01,308 --> 00:41:05,478
The Oscar-nominated actor was busted
for flirting with a 17-year-old.
826
00:41:05,511 --> 00:41:07,747
You can hear him saying to the girl,
827
00:41:07,781 --> 00:41:09,549
"Tag me on Instagram" in that.
828
00:41:09,582 --> 00:41:11,285
'Cause he, obviously, thought she was hot,
829
00:41:11,317 --> 00:41:13,687
and wanted to be able to
find where this person was.
830
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:18,792
Then they Instagram messaged back and
forth, and then it flowed into texts.
831
00:41:18,825 --> 00:41:20,761
And then he said, "Well, do
you want me to come over?"
832
00:41:20,794 --> 00:41:24,730
Uh, you know, I'm embarrassed, and I, uh...
833
00:41:24,763 --> 00:41:28,935
I guess I'm just a model of, you
know, how social media is tricky.
834
00:41:28,968 --> 00:41:33,072
I used bad judgment,
and I learned my lesson.
835
00:41:33,105 --> 00:41:35,374
I think we need to manage our expectations
836
00:41:35,408 --> 00:41:37,444
of celebrities and politicians
a little bit better.
837
00:41:37,477 --> 00:41:39,846
The reality is that
these people are humans.
838
00:41:39,879 --> 00:41:41,047
They're people.
839
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:44,718
We need to have realistic
expectations on their behaviors.
840
00:41:44,750 --> 00:41:47,053
I think we expect people in those positions
841
00:41:47,087 --> 00:41:49,957
to almost be inhuman sometimes.
842
00:41:49,989 --> 00:41:53,227
And then we shame them for these behaviors.
843
00:41:53,259 --> 00:41:57,196
And I think this should be looked
at as a symptom of our culture.
844
00:41:57,230 --> 00:42:01,435
[FEMALE NEWSCASTER] Hollywood actress, Eva
Longoria, caught her NBA husband sexting.
845
00:42:01,468 --> 00:42:05,571
Sexting can lead to divorce just
like cheating leads to divorce.
846
00:42:05,605 --> 00:42:07,007
And as a matter of fact,
847
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:11,178
sexting might be used as
evidence in a divorce case.
848
00:42:18,752 --> 00:42:20,454
[CELLPHONE BUZZING]
849
00:42:27,928 --> 00:42:30,830
Sure. Sounds good.
850
00:42:34,100 --> 00:42:37,136
How does eggplant Parmesan sound? LOL.
851
00:42:38,305 --> 00:42:40,073
Okay. Shit.
852
00:42:43,276 --> 00:42:45,712
[CURTLY] LOL. Whatever you like.
853
00:42:51,618 --> 00:42:54,855
Ah. This just doesn't work.
854
00:42:56,689 --> 00:42:57,557
[EXHALES DISAPPOINTEDLY]
855
00:43:01,995 --> 00:43:03,998
Come on, that is a foul. Clearly.
856
00:43:13,138 --> 00:43:14,607
Eggplant is fine!
857
00:43:18,078 --> 00:43:19,213
[EXHALES ANGRILY]
858
00:43:22,815 --> 00:43:24,817
Again with the eggplant.
859
00:43:24,850 --> 00:43:28,521
Um, yes, eggplant is fine.
860
00:43:31,123 --> 00:43:32,826
Wait, wait. "At attention"?
861
00:43:32,859 --> 00:43:36,029
At attention? Uh, yes it will.
862
00:43:36,062 --> 00:43:37,764
Oh, sorry. Too late.
863
00:43:37,797 --> 00:43:39,632
I think I just started my period.
864
00:43:42,167 --> 00:43:44,604
Hmm, okay.
865
00:43:44,638 --> 00:43:46,774
[SARCASTICALLY] It's gonna be
fun to deal with that later.
866
00:43:52,946 --> 00:43:55,248
[ROSEN] One of the things
we've already started to see
867
00:43:55,281 --> 00:43:58,451
in this era of electronic communication
868
00:43:58,484 --> 00:44:01,921
is that some people, for some reason,
869
00:44:01,955 --> 00:44:06,660
don't pay attention to the
possible problems that can crop up
870
00:44:06,692 --> 00:44:09,895
from sending something from
your phone to someone else.
871
00:44:09,928 --> 00:44:14,334
I think that one of the problems
of this being such a great tool
872
00:44:14,366 --> 00:44:16,836
is that then people
will rely on it too much.
873
00:44:16,870 --> 00:44:21,375
And then you find that people will end
up having almost entire relationships
874
00:44:21,408 --> 00:44:22,643
just using this.
875
00:44:22,676 --> 00:44:25,779
You lose so much in just sexting
876
00:44:25,812 --> 00:44:28,915
because you don't have the
tone of somebody's voice,
877
00:44:28,948 --> 00:44:31,283
or you can't tell what someone's feeling.
878
00:44:31,317 --> 00:44:35,656
And so those really
simple subtleties are lost.
879
00:44:35,689 --> 00:44:37,623
Things get just misconstrued,
880
00:44:37,656 --> 00:44:39,925
where, you know, someone says something.
881
00:44:39,959 --> 00:44:41,527
You get a text and you're like,
882
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,597
"What did that mean? Did he mean it
like this? Or did he mean it like this?"
883
00:44:44,631 --> 00:44:47,167
And then, something gets
taken completely out of context
884
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:51,103
and a fight gets started just
because of how something's said.
885
00:44:51,136 --> 00:44:55,341
You lose the art of actually socializing.
886
00:44:55,375 --> 00:44:57,944
You know, people aren't going out as much.
887
00:44:57,977 --> 00:45:00,881
You know, you end up doing
this really weird thing
888
00:45:00,913 --> 00:45:04,051
where you're at home
isolating to find somebody.
889
00:45:04,084 --> 00:45:06,719
The exhilaration, the excitement
890
00:45:06,752 --> 00:45:09,890
from a possible encounter or
to see where something goes,
891
00:45:09,922 --> 00:45:13,660
far outweighs the threat of danger.
892
00:45:13,692 --> 00:45:15,629
[MALE NEWSCASTER] Today,
a Nova Scotia woman
893
00:45:15,661 --> 00:45:17,830
is speaking out about a tragic tale.
894
00:45:17,864 --> 00:45:20,600
She shares her story of her
teenage daughter's suicide,
895
00:45:20,632 --> 00:45:22,768
and the bullying she encountered.
896
00:45:22,801 --> 00:45:25,771
Rehtaeh's mother says Rehtaeh
experienced months of torment
897
00:45:25,805 --> 00:45:28,642
after a revealing photo was circulated.
898
00:45:28,674 --> 00:45:31,611
That night, she says, four
boys raped her daughter.
899
00:45:31,643 --> 00:45:34,381
[LEAH PARSONS] While one of the
guys was having sex with her,
900
00:45:34,413 --> 00:45:36,515
another guy said, "Take a
picture. Take a picture."
901
00:45:36,549 --> 00:45:38,351
And she heard the picture click.
902
00:45:38,384 --> 00:45:40,420
[FEMALE INTERVIEWER] What did it show?
903
00:45:40,453 --> 00:45:44,024
[MALE] It showed a guy having sex with her.
904
00:45:44,056 --> 00:45:46,058
[WOMAN] It's scary.
905
00:45:46,091 --> 00:45:48,728
[MALE NEWSCASTER] Her story is
similar to the case of Amanda Todd.
906
00:45:48,761 --> 00:45:51,131
The BC team who put up a video on YouTube
907
00:45:51,163 --> 00:45:53,633
detailing how she was
bullied over a graphic photo.
908
00:45:56,236 --> 00:45:58,038
[CHEEVER] A lot of the messages
909
00:45:58,071 --> 00:46:02,476
are not just confined
to one person's phone.
910
00:46:02,509 --> 00:46:04,844
There may even be a group of people
911
00:46:04,877 --> 00:46:09,281
who are sending the
messages back and forth.
912
00:46:09,314 --> 00:46:12,251
And you don't know, really,
who you're talking to.
913
00:46:12,285 --> 00:46:15,689
I was talking to a guy that I met
at a high school football game.
914
00:46:15,721 --> 00:46:17,424
And we would just text, like every day.
915
00:46:17,457 --> 00:46:18,859
Like, flirt and whatnot.
916
00:46:18,892 --> 00:46:21,460
And, um, one night, we were texting,
917
00:46:21,493 --> 00:46:25,631
and like in the middle of the
conversation, I got a random text.
918
00:46:25,665 --> 00:46:28,869
And it was back when I was
younger, so I had the flip phone.
919
00:46:28,902 --> 00:46:32,205
And I opened it, and it's like, "Would
you like to download the picture message?"
920
00:46:32,238 --> 00:46:34,107
And so I was like, yeah.
It totally downloaded,
921
00:46:34,140 --> 00:46:37,710
and I just got a picture of his dick.
922
00:46:37,743 --> 00:46:40,079
Just a full shot of
the dick and everything.
923
00:46:40,113 --> 00:46:42,248
And I was, like, traumatized and shocked.
924
00:46:42,281 --> 00:46:43,482
'Cause I was only in seventh grade,
925
00:46:43,515 --> 00:46:46,218
and it was the first
time I'd ever seen a dick.
926
00:46:46,252 --> 00:46:48,054
And it was just like gnarly for me.
927
00:46:48,087 --> 00:46:50,157
If you're, say, a teenager
or even a pre-teen,
928
00:46:50,189 --> 00:46:52,825
your brain is not completely developed
929
00:46:52,859 --> 00:46:55,629
to the sense that you can
make a good decision there.
930
00:46:55,661 --> 00:46:59,466
And so, the kinds of
decisions you make are faulty.
931
00:46:59,498 --> 00:47:00,933
And so, you go ahead and go,
932
00:47:00,966 --> 00:47:03,402
"Oh, I think I'll take this picture
and send it to somebody." Boom.
933
00:47:03,435 --> 00:47:05,372
And it's gone before
you've thought about it.
934
00:47:05,404 --> 00:47:10,142
I really don't think the parents are
getting involved as much as they should.
935
00:47:10,176 --> 00:47:12,145
And I think you have to start young.
936
00:47:12,178 --> 00:47:16,616
Like, nine and ten, and say,
"Look, just don't set yourself up."
937
00:47:16,649 --> 00:47:20,587
Especially for women. They're
jeopardizing themselves.
938
00:47:20,620 --> 00:47:24,558
I wish younger people would not send
sex pictures of themselves to each other
939
00:47:24,591 --> 00:47:27,426
because of the consequences
they cannot yet understand.
940
00:47:27,460 --> 00:47:29,596
I'm not a parent, but
I used to be a teenager,
941
00:47:29,629 --> 00:47:32,933
and I totally get the desire to...
942
00:47:32,966 --> 00:47:34,366
"Am I attractive?"
943
00:47:34,399 --> 00:47:37,136
What kind of, you know... "Am I sexy?"
944
00:47:37,169 --> 00:47:39,104
I mean, 'cause when you're body's changing,
945
00:47:39,138 --> 00:47:41,107
you wanna know, "Am I sexy? What is sexy?"
946
00:47:41,140 --> 00:47:42,308
And you're still discovering that.
947
00:47:42,341 --> 00:47:45,077
My father used to tell me
actions have consequences.
948
00:47:45,111 --> 00:47:47,714
And when it comes to teenage sexting,
949
00:47:47,747 --> 00:47:49,950
actions have consequences
they can't even contemplate.
950
00:47:49,982 --> 00:47:51,051
They don't have any experience.
951
00:47:51,084 --> 00:47:52,451
It's not that they're not smart.
952
00:47:52,486 --> 00:47:55,154
They just don't know enough to
know what the consequences can be.
953
00:47:55,187 --> 00:47:56,655
Forget Mom being mad at me.
954
00:47:56,689 --> 00:47:59,725
And yet, all the horror stories,
that this picture got spread around,
955
00:47:59,759 --> 00:48:00,861
the girl got slut shamed.
956
00:48:00,893 --> 00:48:02,796
It still doesn't seem to stop young people.
957
00:48:02,828 --> 00:48:04,397
Because it's not gonna happen to them,
958
00:48:05,163 --> 00:48:08,368
the magical thinking, the
invincible shield of being 16.
959
00:48:08,401 --> 00:48:12,973
It's gotta sink in that people don't care,
960
00:48:13,006 --> 00:48:17,277
and they're gonna send those
pictures to whoever they want to.
961
00:48:17,310 --> 00:48:21,014
And that's what sets
people up for bullying.
962
00:48:21,047 --> 00:48:26,920
You really don't want kids under the age of
18 sexting because it's child pornography.
963
00:48:26,953 --> 00:48:28,421
And that's illegal.
964
00:48:28,455 --> 00:48:31,290
And it's also not healthy because they
are not at a developed mental level
965
00:48:31,323 --> 00:48:32,558
to be able to handle it.
966
00:48:32,591 --> 00:48:35,995
And also, kids younger than 18
tend to be much more free about
967
00:48:36,029 --> 00:48:38,864
distributing messages to
everybody, all their friends.
968
00:48:38,897 --> 00:48:41,033
And you really don't want
naked pictures of you,
969
00:48:41,067 --> 00:48:44,603
or nasty talk to get spread
to a bunch of teenagers.
970
00:48:44,636 --> 00:48:46,071
It's probably not a good thing.
971
00:48:46,105 --> 00:48:49,709
If you take a clever picture,
and it's one wrong button,
972
00:48:49,741 --> 00:48:50,776
then you're in big trouble.
973
00:48:50,810 --> 00:48:52,478
I mean, it doesn't even go to the NSA.
974
00:48:52,511 --> 00:48:54,513
It goes to your Aunt Lorraine
975
00:48:54,547 --> 00:48:56,149
who doesn't like those pictures.
976
00:48:56,181 --> 00:49:00,286
You know, I think that any time we talk
about teenagers or children and sexuality,
977
00:49:00,319 --> 00:49:02,087
it becomes such a taboo subject.
978
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:05,491
But the reality is, our sexuality develops
979
00:49:05,524 --> 00:49:07,526
since we were very small children.
980
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:10,630
Some people really have difficulty
talking to their children about sex.
981
00:49:10,663 --> 00:49:12,365
And that's a cultural issue as well.
982
00:49:12,397 --> 00:49:13,866
We need more support with parents.
983
00:49:13,899 --> 00:49:16,535
We need to teach them how to
talk about sex to their kids.
984
00:49:16,569 --> 00:49:19,773
How to appropriately give
their kids technology.
985
00:49:19,806 --> 00:49:21,274
Are these kids being monitored?
986
00:49:21,306 --> 00:49:22,808
You know, a lot of kids
come home from school
987
00:49:22,841 --> 00:49:24,743
and they sit down on their
computers with no supervision.
988
00:49:24,777 --> 00:49:27,147
They have cellphones. The
parents aren't watching.
989
00:49:27,180 --> 00:49:29,049
And then trouble happens.
990
00:49:35,955 --> 00:49:38,024
Well, especially to the girls.
991
00:49:38,056 --> 00:49:43,629
Um, I don't think the
message is communicated enough
992
00:49:43,663 --> 00:49:45,398
that they can say no.
993
00:49:45,431 --> 00:49:47,834
[HARWICK] You know, I think
that the emphasis of abstinence
994
00:49:47,866 --> 00:49:51,904
or abstaining from sexualized
conversation with teenagers and children
995
00:49:51,937 --> 00:49:53,939
only hurts us. It doesn't help us.
996
00:49:53,973 --> 00:49:56,343
So let's talk about it.
Why are these kids doing it?
997
00:49:56,375 --> 00:49:59,144
Their sex drives are going up.
They're going through adolescence.
998
00:49:59,178 --> 00:50:02,382
The reality is that they're
becoming sexual humans.
999
00:50:02,415 --> 00:50:04,617
How do we deal with
that and teach these kids
1000
00:50:04,649 --> 00:50:06,752
responsibility with what they're doing?
1001
00:50:06,785 --> 00:50:08,587
Are their parents monitoring their phones?
1002
00:50:08,620 --> 00:50:10,990
You know, it's up to the parents
1003
00:50:11,024 --> 00:50:13,993
to monitor and teach these children
1004
00:50:14,027 --> 00:50:15,395
how to conduct themselves.
1005
00:50:15,428 --> 00:50:17,196
That's the issue.
1006
00:50:17,230 --> 00:50:18,832
Parents have called it dangerous,
1007
00:50:18,864 --> 00:50:21,368
and new tonight, a west
Michigan sex offender
1008
00:50:21,401 --> 00:50:24,504
is speaking out about the app called Kik.
1009
00:50:24,536 --> 00:50:28,207
[MAN] Wow, I can be whoever I wanna be.
1010
00:50:28,241 --> 00:50:30,677
I can get anybody I want.
1011
00:50:30,710 --> 00:50:36,082
I can achieve my sexual
glorification through this app.
1012
00:50:36,114 --> 00:50:38,752
That's when I said, "You know
what? I have to stop this."
1013
00:50:38,785 --> 00:50:42,689
Please make sure to take
Kik off your kids' phone.
1014
00:50:42,721 --> 00:50:46,292
[ROSEN] Our thinking is still
stuck back in the pre-Internet days,
1015
00:50:46,325 --> 00:50:48,727
that if we say something to somebody,
1016
00:50:48,761 --> 00:50:50,497
if we send a picture to somebody,
1017
00:50:50,529 --> 00:50:52,598
it's private between the two of us.
1018
00:50:52,631 --> 00:50:54,800
It's not private. In
fact, nothing's private.
1019
00:50:54,834 --> 00:50:59,638
We have a really sort of uneasy
relationship with this concept of privacy.
1020
00:50:59,672 --> 00:51:01,841
It's sort of an exchange here.
1021
00:51:01,873 --> 00:51:05,544
We've exchanged privacy for
the ultimate connectivity.
1022
00:51:05,578 --> 00:51:10,016
We're willing to give up privacy so that
we can stay connected anywhere, anytime,
1023
00:51:10,049 --> 00:51:12,252
to whoever, whenever, whatever.
1024
00:51:12,285 --> 00:51:13,853
That's the new Worldwide Web.
1025
00:51:13,886 --> 00:51:16,189
If you post something on Facebook
1026
00:51:16,221 --> 00:51:19,725
and you decide five seconds later,
"Oh, I shouldn't have said that,"
1027
00:51:19,759 --> 00:51:20,894
and you delete it,
1028
00:51:20,926 --> 00:51:24,029
somebody may very well have copied it down
1029
00:51:24,062 --> 00:51:28,000
tweeted it, re-posted
it, shared it, whatever.
1030
00:51:28,033 --> 00:51:30,002
And there's no guarantee of privacy.
1031
00:51:30,035 --> 00:51:34,006
In fact, one of the rules in this
world right now is nothing is private.
1032
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:38,545
My advice to a friend sending a naughty
picture would probably be not to do it.
1033
00:51:38,578 --> 00:51:41,047
Um, it's not really a good idea,
1034
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,482
especially if it's not
someone that you know.
1035
00:51:43,515 --> 00:51:48,921
Like, I've only ever sent pictures
of myself in a revealing situation
1036
00:51:48,955 --> 00:51:51,790
to my boyfriend. Someone who I know
is not gonna share that with anybody.
1037
00:51:51,823 --> 00:51:54,359
She's not gonna share that with
someone she trusts that much.
1038
00:51:54,393 --> 00:51:55,762
Don't do it. It's not worth it.
1039
00:51:55,794 --> 00:51:58,197
Don't put your face in it.
1040
00:51:58,230 --> 00:51:59,631
'Cause you don't know where it's gonna go,
1041
00:51:59,665 --> 00:52:04,204
and seriously, think about...
And no identifying features.
1042
00:52:04,236 --> 00:52:08,040
So if you have very distinctive
hand jewelry, take off the jewelry.
1043
00:52:08,073 --> 00:52:10,876
Make sure you're in front of a plain
background that could be any place.
1044
00:52:10,910 --> 00:52:13,279
Not, "Oh, my god. That's Sally's kitchen."
1045
00:52:13,312 --> 00:52:17,450
"I totally recognize that magnet her
mother brought her back from Barcelona."
1046
00:52:17,482 --> 00:52:18,316
Bad.
1047
00:52:18,350 --> 00:52:19,718
Make her send you the picture first.
1048
00:52:19,752 --> 00:52:20,853
Easy as that.
1049
00:52:20,886 --> 00:52:22,555
So make sure she sends
you the picture first.
1050
00:52:22,587 --> 00:52:23,989
Because if she sends you the picture first,
1051
00:52:24,022 --> 00:52:25,825
and he sent her a dick pic,
1052
00:52:25,857 --> 00:52:27,693
and if she tries to go viral with that,
1053
00:52:27,727 --> 00:52:29,929
you got some back up plan. You
go viral with her naked picture.
1054
00:52:29,962 --> 00:52:30,997
Easy as that.
1055
00:52:31,029 --> 00:52:32,966
Often what happens is
you break up with someone,
1056
00:52:32,998 --> 00:52:34,500
the breakup is nasty.
1057
00:52:34,533 --> 00:52:36,736
The person who's hurt the most
1058
00:52:36,768 --> 00:52:40,339
then sends off the nasty pictures,
1059
00:52:40,372 --> 00:52:42,274
and boom, you're in real trouble.
1060
00:52:42,308 --> 00:52:43,910
[JESSA RHODES] I come
from a really small town,
1061
00:52:43,942 --> 00:52:45,944
and things got around really quickly.
1062
00:52:45,977 --> 00:52:50,482
And, um, I just remember one
girl sent a photo of herself.
1063
00:52:50,515 --> 00:52:52,351
Like, a full nude with her face in it,
1064
00:52:52,384 --> 00:52:55,087
to a guy that she liked in our high school.
1065
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:58,357
And immediately, like, that
morning, everyone had it.
1066
00:52:58,390 --> 00:53:00,692
So, I kind of like learned my
lesson vicariously through her.
1067
00:53:00,725 --> 00:53:04,730
Then I was like, "Maybe I should
be more careful about this."
1068
00:53:04,763 --> 00:53:08,767
That cock shot, or those nude
shots can incriminate you later.
1069
00:53:08,801 --> 00:53:10,069
So if someone breaks up with you,
1070
00:53:10,102 --> 00:53:11,471
wants to show it to all their friends,
1071
00:53:11,504 --> 00:53:14,140
or send them to your job,
or anything like that,
1072
00:53:14,172 --> 00:53:15,375
you've gotta be concerned with that.
1073
00:53:15,408 --> 00:53:17,009
I mean, I know some people would say, like,
1074
00:53:17,042 --> 00:53:20,846
"Well, don't let him,
you know, film your face."
1075
00:53:20,879 --> 00:53:22,881
You know, but that's hard
when you're giving a blowjob.
1076
00:53:22,915 --> 00:53:27,353
You hear a lot of stuff about
people's pictures getting put online,
1077
00:53:27,386 --> 00:53:30,623
and things like that. Actually,
somebody stole some of my pictures
1078
00:53:30,656 --> 00:53:33,726
and put them on a Craigslist thing.
1079
00:53:33,759 --> 00:53:37,697
And they were trying to act like
they were me with my pictures.
1080
00:53:37,730 --> 00:53:40,466
A friend of mine showed it to
me. I'm like, "Wow, that is me."
1081
00:53:40,498 --> 00:53:43,736
But they blacked out my eyes with
a black bar. It's interesting.
1082
00:53:43,768 --> 00:53:46,906
My first piece of advice
would be, don't show your face.
1083
00:53:46,939 --> 00:53:48,908
'Cause you could end up on a website.
1084
00:53:48,940 --> 00:53:51,310
Ex-girlfriend Revenge.
1085
00:53:51,343 --> 00:53:53,679
The dirty... I mean, you'd end
up somewhere you don't wanna be.
1086
00:53:53,712 --> 00:53:56,015
So always make sure when you're sexting
1087
00:53:56,047 --> 00:53:58,551
to maybe not show your face.
1088
00:53:58,584 --> 00:54:00,419
When you put these photos out there,
1089
00:54:00,453 --> 00:54:02,822
there's a chance it's gonna
end up on the Internet.
1090
00:54:02,855 --> 00:54:06,559
And I've had a bunch of girls
send me some naked photos.
1091
00:54:06,591 --> 00:54:08,227
I've even recorded a sex tape,
1092
00:54:08,261 --> 00:54:09,829
but I've deleted them now
1093
00:54:09,861 --> 00:54:13,599
because I don't want the stigma
of being responsible for a girl,
1094
00:54:13,632 --> 00:54:16,935
uh, having her naked photos
posted on the Internet.
1095
00:54:16,968 --> 00:54:19,371
I mean, it's one thing
for me to look at it,
1096
00:54:19,404 --> 00:54:22,174
but a million horny guys looking at her,
1097
00:54:22,207 --> 00:54:25,144
I don't think that's what she signed
up for when she sent me her tits.
1098
00:54:26,145 --> 00:54:29,015
[FEMALE NEWSCASTER] A man accused
of setting up a revenge porn site
1099
00:54:29,047 --> 00:54:31,084
is now facing extortion charges.
1100
00:54:31,116 --> 00:54:34,086
It's a site where,
basically, people would put up
1101
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:36,455
like, inappropriate pictures of their exes.
1102
00:54:36,489 --> 00:54:38,157
Like, sex texting and that kind of thing.
1103
00:54:38,189 --> 00:54:41,560
[MALE NEWSCASTER] Hunter Moore
is a 26-year-old web renegade,
1104
00:54:41,593 --> 00:54:44,029
and his website, isanyoneup,
1105
00:54:44,062 --> 00:54:47,232
was designed for public
humiliation on a scale
1106
00:54:47,265 --> 00:54:49,167
only the Internet can offer.
1107
00:54:49,201 --> 00:54:54,540
They can come to my site, submit all
the pictures you sent, um, in a "sext,"
1108
00:54:54,573 --> 00:54:58,176
along with your Facebook, or
you Twitter, your LinkedIn,
1109
00:54:58,210 --> 00:55:00,680
or any kind of social
networking profile that you have,
1110
00:55:00,712 --> 00:55:04,584
and we would link it directly to that.
1111
00:55:04,616 --> 00:55:07,053
[FEMALE NEWSCASTER] Officials released
a 15-count indictment against Moore
1112
00:55:07,085 --> 00:55:10,089
that said he and a co-conspirator
hacked into victims' computers
1113
00:55:10,122 --> 00:55:11,424
and stole nude photos.
1114
00:55:11,457 --> 00:55:14,893
A month before that, the FBI
arrested Kevin Christopher Bollaert
1115
00:55:14,926 --> 00:55:18,263
who operated yougotposted.com.
1116
00:55:18,297 --> 00:55:21,634
He was charged with conspiracy,
identity theft and extortion.
1117
00:55:21,667 --> 00:55:23,603
She had never sent the picture to anyone.
1118
00:55:23,636 --> 00:55:27,306
She had taken the pictures alone in her
room with her cellphone in the mirror,
1119
00:55:27,339 --> 00:55:31,544
and sent them through her e-mail to get them to
her computer 'cause she wanted to save them.
1120
00:55:31,576 --> 00:55:35,281
And one was topless 'cause she had
over 100 clothed pictures in that batch.
1121
00:55:35,314 --> 00:55:38,250
[MALE NEWSCASTER] The photos came
from ex-boyfriends or were hacked.
1122
00:55:38,283 --> 00:55:40,486
All of them included the woman's full name,
1123
00:55:40,518 --> 00:55:43,922
location, age, and Facebook profile link.
1124
00:55:43,955 --> 00:55:47,093
When women would complain, they
were sent to Bollaert's other site.
1125
00:55:47,125 --> 00:55:50,997
[FEMALE NEWSCASTER] Bollaert
then charged women up to $350
1126
00:55:51,029 --> 00:55:56,102
to have the photos removed through his second
website called changemyreputation.com.
1127
00:55:57,236 --> 00:56:01,107
There was a situation
where, um, I was in a long...
1128
00:56:01,140 --> 00:56:04,810
Well, not a long-distance
relationship, but I was traveling a lot.
1129
00:56:04,843 --> 00:56:07,913
And, um, we had a very rocky relationship.
1130
00:56:07,946 --> 00:56:09,515
There wasn't a lot of trust,
1131
00:56:09,547 --> 00:56:14,720
and, um, we would just, sort of,
breaking up on and off all the time.
1132
00:56:14,754 --> 00:56:16,355
It wasn't the best.
1133
00:56:16,388 --> 00:56:18,423
Our relationship was lacking a lot of,
1134
00:56:18,457 --> 00:56:21,661
you know, love, passion
and respect, unfortunately.
1135
00:56:21,694 --> 00:56:24,564
Um, I wish things could've been
different, but they weren't.
1136
00:56:24,596 --> 00:56:27,132
Um, however, every now and then,
1137
00:56:27,165 --> 00:56:29,868
he would ask me to send a
picture of myself to him.
1138
00:56:29,902 --> 00:56:32,271
And I'd just be like, "Oh,
babe, I look like crap."
1139
00:56:32,303 --> 00:56:34,606
"I don't have makeup on. I look gross.
1140
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:38,243
"I feel gross. I'm tired. I'm just
gonna go to bed." Something like that.
1141
00:56:38,277 --> 00:56:40,880
And then I would get a
text message back saying,
1142
00:56:40,913 --> 00:56:43,850
"I know that you're probably...
You probably just don't love me."
1143
00:56:43,882 --> 00:56:45,350
"You're probably with somebody else."
1144
00:56:45,384 --> 00:56:47,620
And that was the kind of
guilt trip I would get.
1145
00:56:47,652 --> 00:56:51,823
And I just like, [EXHALES
SHARPLY] click, you know.
1146
00:56:51,857 --> 00:56:53,025
"Here you go, babe."
1147
00:56:53,058 --> 00:56:54,927
I was dating a guy for a year.
1148
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:57,463
We moved really fast. I moved in with him,
1149
00:56:57,495 --> 00:57:02,000
um, and, you know, even
we didn't sext before
1150
00:57:02,033 --> 00:57:03,769
we even got into the relationship.
1151
00:57:03,803 --> 00:57:05,638
That wasn't even, like, part of it.
1152
00:57:05,671 --> 00:57:09,142
Uh, we didn't even have sex until
a few months into our relationship.
1153
00:57:09,174 --> 00:57:11,877
Once I felt more comfortable,
I was like, "Eh, why not?"
1154
00:57:11,910 --> 00:57:17,015
You know, I literally sent him just
of ton of, you know, photos of me
1155
00:57:17,049 --> 00:57:19,317
while he was at work and stuff like that.
1156
00:57:19,350 --> 00:57:22,788
[KRISTEN LINGMAN] I ended up
on a revenge site for exes.
1157
00:57:22,821 --> 00:57:26,425
It's one that's specifically designed for
people to submit pictures of their exes,
1158
00:57:26,459 --> 00:57:29,728
or people that, you
know, they have beef with.
1159
00:57:29,761 --> 00:57:31,296
And of their private parts.
1160
00:57:31,330 --> 00:57:33,933
Your social media addresses are up there.
1161
00:57:33,966 --> 00:57:35,301
They can't put your phone number.
1162
00:57:35,334 --> 00:57:38,136
They can't put your address,
and things like that up there,
1163
00:57:38,169 --> 00:57:40,138
but they can put photos of your face.
1164
00:57:40,172 --> 00:57:41,774
Photos of your body.
1165
00:57:41,806 --> 00:57:43,810
And then they can give
a little description,
1166
00:57:43,843 --> 00:57:46,379
say anything that they want about you.
1167
00:57:46,411 --> 00:57:48,080
Anything at all.
1168
00:57:48,113 --> 00:57:52,350
After we broke up, um, he made
a fake profile of me online,
1169
00:57:52,384 --> 00:57:56,489
and actually showed all of my nude
photos and sent them out to everyone.
1170
00:57:56,522 --> 00:57:59,292
My family members, my friends.
1171
00:57:59,325 --> 00:58:01,560
Basically, just everyone on there,
1172
00:58:01,593 --> 00:58:03,662
It was just really humiliating for me.
1173
00:58:03,696 --> 00:58:06,065
Especially after finding that I...
1174
00:58:06,098 --> 00:58:08,868
I was getting texts from
different people saying like,
1175
00:58:08,901 --> 00:58:12,370
"Oh, we received your, you
know, photos and stuff."
1176
00:58:12,404 --> 00:58:16,209
I was in love with this guy.
I trusted him with everything
1177
00:58:16,241 --> 00:58:18,377
when I sent those photos as well.
1178
00:58:18,410 --> 00:58:20,712
I didn't even think that after we broke up
1179
00:58:20,745 --> 00:58:24,282
that he would, you know, make that
profile and put those photos up there.
1180
00:58:24,315 --> 00:58:26,252
At the time...
1181
00:58:26,285 --> 00:58:28,687
At the time, I was out of town,
1182
00:58:28,721 --> 00:58:32,757
and [SNIFFLES] when I kept getting
all these links from people,
1183
00:58:32,790 --> 00:58:35,026
these strange men on Facebook.
1184
00:58:35,060 --> 00:58:38,364
And they were telling me
my pictures were up there.
1185
00:58:38,397 --> 00:58:41,534
[CRIES] I, um... I wanted to die.
1186
00:58:41,567 --> 00:58:45,905
[SNIFFLES] Like, I just couldn't
believe that this had happened to me,
1187
00:58:45,937 --> 00:58:48,507
and now my life was over,
1188
00:58:48,540 --> 00:58:52,477
and people were, you know,
not gonna take me seriously.
1189
00:58:52,511 --> 00:58:57,149
I won't ever have, like, a future with
a guy who'll take me seriously now.
1190
00:58:57,181 --> 00:58:59,384
I called a couple of
friends and talked to them
1191
00:58:59,417 --> 00:59:00,952
so that they could talk me off the ledge.
1192
00:59:00,986 --> 00:59:03,154
Not that I was actually gonna kill myself,
1193
00:59:03,187 --> 00:59:05,857
but it was something I was contemplating.
1194
00:59:05,890 --> 00:59:07,893
I, honestly, after that situation,
1195
00:59:07,926 --> 00:59:10,062
I locked myself in my
room for days at a time.
1196
00:59:10,094 --> 00:59:11,897
I didn't wanna go out and stuff like that.
1197
00:59:11,931 --> 00:59:15,668
But I think if, you know, you're
in high school or junior high,
1198
00:59:15,701 --> 00:59:18,704
um, you have to show up to school
and you have to face those people.
1199
00:59:18,736 --> 00:59:22,541
That emotional toll, I can't even
like wrap my mind around that.
1200
00:59:22,575 --> 00:59:24,143
How am I gonna find love
1201
00:59:24,176 --> 00:59:28,915
when the man that would want to marry
me or be with me has to see that,
1202
00:59:28,948 --> 00:59:30,817
or has to deal with it, too?
1203
00:59:39,792 --> 00:59:43,962
"I have a lady coming to paint
kids' faces and do balloon anals."
1204
00:59:43,995 --> 00:59:48,334
"I mean, balloon animals,
not balloon anals. OMG."
1205
00:59:48,366 --> 00:59:50,370
"I don't want a balloon anal."
1206
00:59:52,270 --> 00:59:55,575
You know, you can have a really
good job doing a balloon anal.
1207
00:59:55,607 --> 00:59:57,642
From Mexico to Utah.
1208
00:59:57,676 --> 00:59:59,245
This one, it's a good one.
1209
00:59:59,277 --> 01:00:01,613
"You should come over
and play with my titties."
1210
01:00:01,647 --> 01:00:02,782
"I'm coming over."
1211
01:00:02,814 --> 01:00:05,817
Five exclamation points
and a big, old smiley face.
1212
01:00:05,850 --> 01:00:07,953
"Kitties. I meant kitties."
1213
01:00:07,986 --> 01:00:10,488
"Damn, Autocorrect, you
just ruined my life."
1214
01:00:10,522 --> 01:00:13,859
That's a big-time failure
of Autocorrect right there.
1215
01:00:13,892 --> 01:00:16,428
Got his hopes all up, next thing you know,
1216
01:00:16,462 --> 01:00:18,797
he's got kittens instead of titties.
1217
01:00:18,830 --> 01:00:20,632
See, that would be my sexting experience.
1218
01:00:20,665 --> 01:00:22,033
I'd get it all wrong.
1219
01:00:22,067 --> 01:00:23,935
I'd get all excited about the
titties, I end up with the kitties.
1220
01:00:23,968 --> 01:00:26,071
That's why I'm not big
into sexting, right there.
1221
01:00:26,105 --> 01:00:30,943
"My god! All I can think about is
nuzzling my nose and mouth in your pussy,"
1222
01:00:30,975 --> 01:00:33,478
"and plunging my coco in your honey bowl."
1223
01:00:34,812 --> 01:00:38,316
I like that "coco" is the
problem they had with this one.
1224
01:00:38,350 --> 01:00:41,453
Like, "honey bowl," no problem with that.
1225
01:00:41,486 --> 01:00:45,223
"Nuzzling my nose into your pussy"?
1226
01:00:45,256 --> 01:00:47,726
"Plunging my cock into your honey bowl"?
1227
01:00:47,759 --> 01:00:49,160
Honey bowl?
1228
01:00:49,194 --> 01:00:51,230
Honey bowl? I can't...
1229
01:00:51,263 --> 01:00:53,498
"No, seriously, tie me down."
1230
01:00:53,531 --> 01:00:55,567
"I also want some sort of pie."
1231
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:58,537
"Like, dessert pie. Can we
also have some whipped cream?"
1232
01:00:59,705 --> 01:01:02,475
"I'll tie you down and rub
cherry pie all over you."
1233
01:01:02,507 --> 01:01:06,911
"I'm gonna shove a cheesecake so
deep inside of you, you'll moo."
1234
01:01:06,944 --> 01:01:10,115
"Now I realize why I feel off kilter."
1235
01:01:10,149 --> 01:01:11,350
"Why?"
1236
01:01:11,384 --> 01:01:14,987
"My office cock has not been
adjusted for the time change."
1237
01:01:15,020 --> 01:01:19,825
"OMFG, my office dock. Ha, ha, ha."
1238
01:01:19,857 --> 01:01:21,660
"Mom's cell."
1239
01:01:21,694 --> 01:01:23,161
"Hi, Dan, guess what?"
1240
01:01:23,194 --> 01:01:26,732
"The deer are in the
back yard. I just fed..."
1241
01:01:29,134 --> 01:01:31,637
"I just fed one of them out of my vagina."
1242
01:01:31,669 --> 01:01:33,438
[IN A HIGH-PITCHED VOICE]
"Ignore that last sentence."
1243
01:01:33,471 --> 01:01:36,676
"I just fed one of the
deer out of my vagina."
1244
01:01:36,709 --> 01:01:40,245
"Out of my veranda. My
phone won't let me spell it."
1245
01:01:40,279 --> 01:01:42,481
"LOL. Be careful, Mom."
1246
01:01:42,513 --> 01:01:44,816
Uh, okay. A couple of
things about this one.
1247
01:01:44,850 --> 01:01:48,520
Uh, she typed it twice. She
meant to say vagina. Right?
1248
01:01:48,553 --> 01:01:51,289
Two, no one says "veranda."
1249
01:01:51,323 --> 01:01:54,225
This isn't 15th century Italy.
1250
01:01:54,259 --> 01:01:56,262
You don't have a veranda.
You have a fucking porch.
1251
01:01:56,294 --> 01:01:59,397
"Don't do too much
today. Stay home and rest."
1252
01:01:59,431 --> 01:02:02,702
"I left orange juice and
chicken soup in the fridge."
1253
01:02:02,734 --> 01:02:08,073
"And I put tissues by the bed in case
you need to blow your load. Love, Mom."
1254
01:02:08,107 --> 01:02:11,678
God, that is just such a great
mom. Happy Mother's Day to her.
1255
01:02:14,413 --> 01:02:17,248
[BRIELLE] I do. I please myself
when I interact with my fans.
1256
01:02:17,281 --> 01:02:22,053
I use social media, and I take
pictures on my cellphone for them.
1257
01:02:22,087 --> 01:02:23,222
[MALE INTERVIEWER] You use Twitter?
1258
01:02:23,254 --> 01:02:25,323
Mm-hmm. Absolutely I use Twitter.
1259
01:02:25,357 --> 01:02:30,863
I get the most comments and interaction
with my fans when I take selfies,
1260
01:02:30,895 --> 01:02:33,899
as opposed to professional
pictures from my shoots.
1261
01:02:35,033 --> 01:02:39,205
Hey, guys, it's Summer
Brielle, and I'm here on set
1262
01:02:39,238 --> 01:02:42,373
shooting some brand-new
sexy stuff for you.
1263
01:02:42,406 --> 01:02:45,276
Hope you like my little outfit.
1264
01:02:45,310 --> 01:02:47,680
[CHUCKLES PROVOCATIVELY]
1265
01:02:47,712 --> 01:02:50,048
You know, if I'm on set or
if I am out of the shower,
1266
01:02:50,082 --> 01:02:51,317
I like to take little teaser pictures
1267
01:02:51,350 --> 01:02:53,585
and, you know, post them on Twitter.
1268
01:02:53,618 --> 01:02:56,387
You know, I like to
get in on... What is it?
1269
01:02:56,421 --> 01:03:01,259
Thirsty Thursdays and, you know, Wet
Wednesdays, and all that fun stuff.
1270
01:03:01,292 --> 01:03:04,997
I noticed there's something
about the personal interaction
1271
01:03:05,029 --> 01:03:07,767
of the selfies. Guys love them.
1272
01:03:07,799 --> 01:03:09,968
I mean, I hope they beat their
little brains out to them.
1273
01:03:10,002 --> 01:03:11,737
I mainly get asked for selfies by fans.
1274
01:03:11,770 --> 01:03:14,273
No one who knows me in person has ever
been like, "Hey, can I have a pic?"
1275
01:03:14,306 --> 01:03:16,475
And, you know, for a fan, it's personal.
1276
01:03:16,507 --> 01:03:19,611
It's something that I
probably made just for them.
1277
01:03:19,645 --> 01:03:22,413
I feel like social media, sometimes,
1278
01:03:22,446 --> 01:03:25,785
are haters against us
girls in the adult industry
1279
01:03:25,817 --> 01:03:27,852
because of the racy
things that some people...
1280
01:03:27,886 --> 01:03:29,321
They don't follow guidelines and stuff.
1281
01:03:29,353 --> 01:03:32,390
But then you get fans that have like,
1282
01:03:32,424 --> 01:03:34,860
either me getting fucked,
or something as their avie.
1283
01:03:34,893 --> 01:03:36,428
And I'm like, "How can
you get away with this?"
1284
01:03:36,460 --> 01:03:37,930
Or they'll send you a dick picture.
1285
01:03:37,962 --> 01:03:42,433
I'm like, "How do you get that,
and I get flagged or reported?"
1286
01:03:42,466 --> 01:03:45,203
Life of a pornstar. What're you gonna do?
1287
01:03:45,236 --> 01:03:49,174
I think that cellphones have impacted...
1288
01:03:49,207 --> 01:03:52,777
And Twitter, and Instagram,
and Facebook have impacted
1289
01:03:52,810 --> 01:03:54,312
the adult industry in a huge way.
1290
01:03:54,346 --> 01:03:57,882
And I think, definitely, having
personal interaction with our fans,
1291
01:03:57,915 --> 01:04:00,652
and them feeling like they can
connect with us more personally
1292
01:04:00,685 --> 01:04:02,488
is more important than ever.
1293
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:05,323
And it's only gonna be more important.
1294
01:04:05,357 --> 01:04:07,359
It's not gonna back away from that.
1295
01:04:07,392 --> 01:04:12,131
A more intimate relationship with
our fans as a result of cellphones,
1296
01:04:12,163 --> 01:04:15,366
and I think it's only gonna
grow more in that direction.
1297
01:04:15,399 --> 01:04:17,135
I have Snapchat I've used.
1298
01:04:17,169 --> 01:04:18,971
Um, it's fun to send little videos,
1299
01:04:19,004 --> 01:04:20,873
but I actually work with a company
1300
01:04:20,906 --> 01:04:22,541
that sells access to my Snapchat.
1301
01:04:22,573 --> 01:04:23,975
So that was my first time ever using it.
1302
01:04:25,444 --> 01:04:27,379
Hi. Does this make you horny?
1303
01:04:27,411 --> 01:04:29,381
Are you gonna come play with me later?
1304
01:04:30,848 --> 01:04:34,085
You know, I try to create
content that goes with that.
1305
01:04:34,118 --> 01:04:36,855
Half kind of getting to know me
better and half "this is dirty."
1306
01:04:36,888 --> 01:04:38,356
Um, it's kinda hot.
1307
01:04:38,390 --> 01:04:40,425
It's kinda hot being able to take
your phone and being able to be like,
1308
01:04:40,459 --> 01:04:43,361
"All right, I got 10 seconds to
waste. I'll do 10 seconds on my phone."
1309
01:04:43,395 --> 01:04:47,733
Yeah, InstaDM has definitely,
um, made a lot of dick pics
1310
01:04:47,765 --> 01:04:50,101
happen in my life the
last couple of months.
1311
01:04:50,134 --> 01:04:53,372
So, um, I've seen some interesting
things to say the least.
1312
01:04:53,404 --> 01:04:55,274
And the funny part with that is that
1313
01:04:55,306 --> 01:04:57,776
they can actually see
when you see their picture,
1314
01:04:57,808 --> 01:05:00,245
but I never comment
back, which is hilarious.
1315
01:05:00,279 --> 01:05:02,581
And they're always like,
"Come on, I know you saw it."
1316
01:05:02,614 --> 01:05:05,551
And I'm like, "I don't care.
I'm just laughing at you."
1317
01:05:05,584 --> 01:05:09,254
Sometimes you may correspond
with someone you may never meet.
1318
01:05:09,288 --> 01:05:14,894
So it's really fun to have that person
you text once a day something dirty.
1319
01:05:14,926 --> 01:05:17,796
And then, you know, you
go on with your life.
1320
01:05:17,828 --> 01:05:19,765
You're not expecting to
actually meet this person.
1321
01:05:19,797 --> 01:05:21,933
You don't have a planned date
where you're gonna meet this person
1322
01:05:21,966 --> 01:05:23,401
and have sex with this person.
1323
01:05:23,435 --> 01:05:26,572
But you might have a couple of times
a day where you text this person.
1324
01:05:26,605 --> 01:05:28,274
You maybe in another country.
1325
01:05:28,306 --> 01:05:29,975
You know, she maybe in another country.
1326
01:05:30,007 --> 01:05:35,413
Always constantly posting
pictures on Twitter and Instagram,
1327
01:05:35,446 --> 01:05:37,348
but mostly Twitter, nude ones.
1328
01:05:37,381 --> 01:05:39,918
Especially before I'm gonna do Skype shows,
1329
01:05:39,951 --> 01:05:43,955
or I'm gonna jump on cam and stuff,
1330
01:05:43,989 --> 01:05:46,058
but I'm always posting sexy pictures.
1331
01:05:46,091 --> 01:05:49,996
I'm just in the shower... The bathtub.
1332
01:05:52,464 --> 01:05:57,270
I'm gonna get all nice and wet for you.
1333
01:05:58,636 --> 01:06:01,606
Just thought you'd
appreciate a little video.
1334
01:06:02,808 --> 01:06:05,576
I had Snapchat before, but I got rid of it
1335
01:06:05,609 --> 01:06:08,948
'cause, um, the only person that was
Snapchatting me was my best friend.
1336
01:06:08,980 --> 01:06:11,482
And she was Snapchatting me
pictures of food all the time.
1337
01:06:11,515 --> 01:06:13,318
So it didn't work out.
1338
01:06:19,790 --> 01:06:22,193
[MITCH STINSON] There's
no more, uh, innuendo.
1339
01:06:22,227 --> 01:06:25,129
There's no more, uh, real man's flirtation.
1340
01:06:25,163 --> 01:06:28,667
It's right in your face. It's right on
your phone, and you can show your buddies.
1341
01:06:28,700 --> 01:06:31,169
We've just evolved, you know.
1342
01:06:31,203 --> 01:06:34,873
Evolved to a Retina Display
that can show intricate details,
1343
01:06:34,906 --> 01:06:39,678
and you can really make out what a penis
looks like and what comes out of it.
1344
01:06:39,710 --> 01:06:41,980
A new app called Sex With Google Glass
1345
01:06:42,013 --> 01:06:43,716
is set to hit your face in the near future,
1346
01:06:43,748 --> 01:06:47,752
and the makers hope you'll indulge as
a way to see sex from a new perspective.
1347
01:06:47,785 --> 01:06:50,121
- What are those things on your face?
- These? This is Google Glass.
1348
01:06:50,154 --> 01:06:51,357
You want to try 'em?
1349
01:06:51,390 --> 01:06:53,125
- Absolutely.
- Okay.
1350
01:06:55,527 --> 01:06:56,996
That's pretty cool.
1351
01:06:57,029 --> 01:06:58,897
What type of apps are
you guys doing for this?
1352
01:06:58,930 --> 01:07:00,533
Pornify everything.
1353
01:07:03,667 --> 01:07:07,439
[MACALA WRIGHT] Our obsession
with imagery right now is 10X.
1354
01:07:07,471 --> 01:07:12,643
It's why we have to make such grand
experiential things and go bigger and bigger.
1355
01:07:12,676 --> 01:07:15,314
Because with the consumers
expecting more and more of that,
1356
01:07:15,346 --> 01:07:16,915
they want to fall into fantasy.
1357
01:07:16,948 --> 01:07:19,518
And so we have to build the
construct in what they live.
1358
01:07:19,551 --> 01:07:22,187
I mean, it's very Matrix like if anything.
1359
01:07:22,219 --> 01:07:24,355
Giving out tips. Are you kidding me?
1360
01:07:24,388 --> 01:07:25,823
- I know.
- It's more than just that.
1361
01:07:25,857 --> 01:07:27,125
I can see all sorts of stuff.
1362
01:07:27,158 --> 01:07:29,460
In my fucking cunt.
1363
01:07:29,493 --> 01:07:30,895
Yeah.
1364
01:07:30,928 --> 01:07:33,798
- Oh, the definition of cunt just popped up.
- Oh, wow.
1365
01:07:33,832 --> 01:07:38,737
[WRIGHT] Even Ashley Madison has
it's own casual sex finder app.
1366
01:07:38,770 --> 01:07:40,538
And I think what that shows
1367
01:07:40,571 --> 01:07:43,307
is a shift in the online dating market.
1368
01:07:43,341 --> 01:07:46,578
So is it gonna be too much of a surprise
1369
01:07:46,611 --> 01:07:50,582
to see eHarmony, to
see Match, or even JDate
1370
01:07:50,614 --> 01:07:53,685
start their own mobile dating apps
1371
01:07:53,718 --> 01:07:57,056
based off of location and NFC capabilities?
1372
01:07:57,089 --> 01:07:58,123
Not at all.
1373
01:07:58,156 --> 01:07:59,924
In order to keep paid users,
1374
01:07:59,957 --> 01:08:04,462
they're gonna have to evolve to
where their users are now going.
1375
01:08:04,495 --> 01:08:09,634
I think I read recently that it's
one in eight couples that marry
1376
01:08:09,667 --> 01:08:12,036
meet on online dating sites.
1377
01:08:12,069 --> 01:08:13,571
Which is pretty extraordinary.
1378
01:08:13,605 --> 01:08:15,808
Literally, there is something
for everybody out there.
1379
01:08:15,841 --> 01:08:17,876
There are so many people that are out there
1380
01:08:17,908 --> 01:08:20,078
that felt like there was
something wrong with them,
1381
01:08:20,112 --> 01:08:23,916
because they felt like there was
no one else like them out there,
1382
01:08:23,948 --> 01:08:25,550
and now they can go online
1383
01:08:25,584 --> 01:08:27,586
and they can type in
whatever their fetish is,
1384
01:08:27,618 --> 01:08:29,921
or their kink, or something,
1385
01:08:29,955 --> 01:08:31,989
and they can find like-minded people.
1386
01:08:32,023 --> 01:08:35,560
Hinge, Skout, and even Pure
1387
01:08:35,594 --> 01:08:38,764
allow people to find casual sex,
1388
01:08:38,796 --> 01:08:42,201
BDSM hookups, threesomes,
1389
01:08:42,233 --> 01:08:46,704
and a host of other things
that fit their sexual needs.
1390
01:08:46,737 --> 01:08:48,272
You know, the recession is over.
1391
01:08:48,305 --> 01:08:49,808
The economy is coming back.
1392
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:53,178
People have been restricted in what
they spend, what they indulge in.
1393
01:08:53,211 --> 01:08:55,714
And we're about to get a little
bit more hedonistic these days.
1394
01:08:55,746 --> 01:08:59,050
Technology and sexuality
really go hand in hand.
1395
01:08:59,084 --> 01:09:02,121
And I think the bigger question
is, the chicken or the egg?
1396
01:09:02,153 --> 01:09:07,191
Is the technology there and it
causes people to behave more sexually?
1397
01:09:07,224 --> 01:09:09,127
Or are we sexual people
1398
01:09:09,161 --> 01:09:12,498
and that technology is being
created to cater to our sexuality?
1399
01:09:12,531 --> 01:09:15,134
When we used to look at technology use,
1400
01:09:15,166 --> 01:09:17,635
um, we used to think that
they would eventually...
1401
01:09:17,669 --> 01:09:20,471
Any technology there
would become a backlash,
1402
01:09:20,505 --> 01:09:22,875
and people would start to use it too much,
1403
01:09:22,907 --> 01:09:25,042
and then go, "Oh, no. That's enough."
1404
01:09:25,076 --> 01:09:27,913
And yet, we haven't seen that
with any of the major technologies.
1405
01:09:33,285 --> 01:09:35,319
[DANIELLE STEWART] I
text with a lot of people.
1406
01:09:35,353 --> 01:09:39,056
Women have never sent me, like...
1407
01:09:39,090 --> 01:09:40,926
What are they called? Emoticons or emojis?
1408
01:09:40,959 --> 01:09:42,126
Is that what they're called, emojis?
1409
01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:44,696
Women don't send emojis. Dudes send emojis.
1410
01:09:44,729 --> 01:09:46,999
Which is really disturbing.
1411
01:09:47,032 --> 01:09:48,834
I don't like them.
1412
01:09:48,867 --> 01:09:50,702
Um, I think they're weird,
1413
01:09:50,734 --> 01:09:55,473
and they definitely should not
be involved in a sext situation.
1414
01:09:55,506 --> 01:09:57,442
Like, um,
1415
01:09:57,474 --> 01:09:59,044
my boyfriend sends me eggplants.
1416
01:10:00,912 --> 01:10:03,649
Purple eggplants, as if
he has a big black dick.
1417
01:10:03,681 --> 01:10:05,817
It's like, you don't have an eggplant.
1418
01:10:05,849 --> 01:10:07,486
I like you and everything,
1419
01:10:07,519 --> 01:10:10,222
but you're Canadian. Like, there's
no eggplants involved in this.
1420
01:10:11,790 --> 01:10:14,926
Okay, so this is like the
Rorschach test of emojis.
1421
01:10:20,465 --> 01:10:23,435
"Let's get drunk, and make out,
and listen to music at the beach"?
1422
01:10:23,468 --> 01:10:25,336
I don't know what that is.
1423
01:10:25,370 --> 01:10:28,940
It's like, "I'm gonna get you drunk
and take you to a Micheal Bolton concert"
1424
01:10:28,974 --> 01:10:30,943
"and fuck you while the sun goes down."
1425
01:10:30,975 --> 01:10:34,813
"Let's drink. Let's fuck to
music till the sun comes up"?
1426
01:10:34,845 --> 01:10:37,381
"Don't whine while I'm
having sex with you."
1427
01:10:37,415 --> 01:10:39,117
Sexy time?
1428
01:10:39,149 --> 01:10:40,352
That's what I said.
1429
01:10:40,385 --> 01:10:42,020
That, that's a "sexy time"?
1430
01:10:42,053 --> 01:10:44,389
Why don't they just
write fucking "sexy time"?
1431
01:10:44,421 --> 01:10:45,957
Sexy time. Okay.
1432
01:10:45,991 --> 01:10:47,559
Oh, I get it.
1433
01:10:47,591 --> 01:10:48,727
Well, where's the wine?
1434
01:10:50,394 --> 01:10:51,996
[DAVID ROSENBERG] That's a lot of blowjobs.
1435
01:10:52,029 --> 01:10:54,800
All I can tell is that's a lot of blowjobs.
1436
01:10:54,832 --> 01:10:56,734
Is that what it is? It's a lot of blowjobs?
1437
01:10:56,768 --> 01:10:59,203
Oh, that's an "O" face. You
had five orgasms. Good for you.
1438
01:10:59,237 --> 01:11:03,475
"Five faces of people..."
1439
01:11:03,507 --> 01:11:05,577
You know what? I know what that is.
1440
01:11:05,609 --> 01:11:07,645
You see what that is? Five
people with their mouths going...
1441
01:11:07,679 --> 01:11:09,480
[INHALES] "What the fuck
are you talking about?"
1442
01:11:09,514 --> 01:11:12,618
[INHALES] "I can't believe...
This is horrifying."
1443
01:11:12,651 --> 01:11:13,452
That's what that says.
1444
01:11:13,484 --> 01:11:14,486
[MALE INTERVIEWER] Blowjob.
1445
01:11:14,519 --> 01:11:16,421
"Blowjob"?
1446
01:11:16,453 --> 01:11:18,623
It's a fucking job to
figure out what that says.
1447
01:11:18,657 --> 01:11:20,759
[PEYTON CLARKSON] All right. Now,
I see those two peaches again.
1448
01:11:20,791 --> 01:11:22,294
It's somebody clapping.
1449
01:11:22,327 --> 01:11:23,695
"Make it clap."
1450
01:11:23,728 --> 01:11:25,029
"Make it clap."
1451
01:11:25,063 --> 01:11:27,299
That thing where they
put their butts together.
1452
01:11:27,331 --> 01:11:29,634
Uh, the single butt. One butt. Is that it?
1453
01:11:30,702 --> 01:11:32,838
Okay. Double ass... Double penetration.
1454
01:11:32,871 --> 01:11:38,042
Double... Oh, oh. "Let's DP and then pray."
1455
01:11:38,076 --> 01:11:41,846
Okay. Now, this is two
peaches and a fortune cookie.
1456
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:43,982
[CHUCKLES] Is that a fortune cookie?
1457
01:11:44,014 --> 01:11:46,718
Two hands? Oh, those are two hands.
1458
01:11:46,751 --> 01:11:49,388
Um, you know, who the fuck thought that up?
1459
01:11:49,420 --> 01:11:50,688
I mean, Jesus, second base.
1460
01:11:50,721 --> 01:11:52,890
Why don't just put a
fucking baseball diamond
1461
01:11:52,924 --> 01:11:56,161
and put a base in second base?
1462
01:11:56,193 --> 01:11:57,729
I mean, why two peaches?
1463
01:12:00,665 --> 01:12:01,966
It's the end of the world, you know.
1464
01:12:04,001 --> 01:12:05,903
Is that a piece of pizza?
1465
01:12:05,937 --> 01:12:08,273
'Cause if it is, I'm
in with the purple dick.
1466
01:12:08,305 --> 01:12:11,143
I would eat the pizza before I took
care of the dick. That's what I would do.
1467
01:12:11,175 --> 01:12:13,245
Now, here's my old friend, the eggplant.
1468
01:12:13,278 --> 01:12:16,648
"Every time's a good time
when your shit's out"?
1469
01:12:16,680 --> 01:12:17,948
[MALE INTERVIEWER] Good sex.
1470
01:12:17,982 --> 01:12:19,818
Good sex?
1471
01:12:19,850 --> 01:12:21,585
Do people believe this?
1472
01:12:21,618 --> 01:12:23,455
Good sex. Okay. You know what?
1473
01:12:23,487 --> 01:12:25,456
Some people keep it simple, you know?
1474
01:12:25,489 --> 01:12:28,527
Seems like it would be
quicker to write "good sex."
1475
01:12:28,559 --> 01:12:31,763
[LAPPING]
1476
01:12:31,795 --> 01:12:33,764
That's a smiley happy face,
1477
01:12:33,797 --> 01:12:36,501
but also, the tongue
looks like a lady's vagina.
1478
01:12:36,533 --> 01:12:39,804
So, I... [STUTTERS]
1479
01:12:39,837 --> 01:12:42,006
Eating a girl out? It's
eating five girls out.
1480
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:43,442
It's five happy vaginas.
1481
01:12:46,944 --> 01:12:49,980
That one says "Make sure
you bathe before we bump",
1482
01:12:50,014 --> 01:12:51,350
"and bathe afterwards again."
1483
01:12:51,382 --> 01:12:52,617
They must be Catholic.
1484
01:12:52,649 --> 01:12:55,487
"Wash your pussy"
1485
01:12:55,519 --> 01:12:58,556
"before I stick my eggplant"
1486
01:12:58,590 --> 01:13:03,261
"in that big fucking tub of yours."
1487
01:13:03,294 --> 01:13:07,398
You know what? "I'm gonna take a
bath with an eggplant up my ass."
1488
01:13:07,431 --> 01:13:10,202
[ALL LAUGHING]
1489
01:13:11,301 --> 01:13:15,506
Tub, dick, pussy, shower.
1490
01:13:15,540 --> 01:13:18,377
Um, oh! "Piss on me."
1491
01:13:22,179 --> 01:13:24,715
All right. Now you're
getting into my wheel house.
1492
01:13:24,748 --> 01:13:26,451
There's a hand clapping and a horse.
1493
01:13:26,483 --> 01:13:27,752
This is some Alabama shit.
1494
01:13:27,786 --> 01:13:29,788
Um, nope. Whatever it is, I'm not doing it.
1495
01:13:29,821 --> 01:13:31,323
Looks like there's a
horse in the situation.
1496
01:13:31,355 --> 01:13:33,392
There's an eggplant, a peach,
1497
01:13:33,425 --> 01:13:36,528
a party hat, a star...
1498
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:38,263
You know what? I'm gonna
tell you what this means.
1499
01:13:38,295 --> 01:13:40,264
This means "I'm so fucking stupid"
1500
01:13:40,297 --> 01:13:41,966
"that I can't call somebody up and say,"
1501
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:43,667
"'Listen, I wanna have sex with you."
1502
01:13:43,701 --> 01:13:46,238
"'I have to send you a bunch
of fucking hieroglyphics"
1503
01:13:46,270 --> 01:13:48,607
"'hoping that you can understand
what I'm saying to you,"
1504
01:13:48,639 --> 01:13:52,042
"'and if you do, then you're
just as fucking stupid as I am,"
1505
01:13:52,076 --> 01:13:53,511
"'and we should not have kids.'"
1506
01:14:01,486 --> 01:14:05,122
[RHODES] I would say now that
I've started to enjoy sexting,
1507
01:14:05,156 --> 01:14:07,893
I'm definitely well on my way
of becoming addicted to it.
1508
01:14:07,925 --> 01:14:11,095
I am addicted to sexting. I am.
1509
01:14:11,129 --> 01:14:12,898
[MALE INTERVIEWER] Why do you think that?
1510
01:14:12,930 --> 01:14:17,169
Because I do it a lot, and I
have fun with it, and I enjoy it.
1511
01:14:17,202 --> 01:14:20,772
I'm not addicted, but I'd
probably do it once a week.
1512
01:14:20,804 --> 01:14:23,040
I probably actually do it
once a week. Is that an addict?
1513
01:14:23,073 --> 01:14:25,309
I think so. If there's a term of addiction,
1514
01:14:25,343 --> 01:14:27,045
and if it's not drug, it would be that.
1515
01:14:27,077 --> 01:14:29,714
[MALE INTERVIEWER] So would you
say you're addicted to sexting?
1516
01:14:29,746 --> 01:14:31,282
Absolutely.
1517
01:14:31,315 --> 01:14:32,216
- Absolutely?
- Yeah.
1518
01:14:32,250 --> 01:14:35,720
If so, why? Why would you say that?
1519
01:14:35,752 --> 01:14:36,987
It's easy money.
1520
01:14:37,020 --> 01:14:40,157
I wouldn't say I'm addicted to sexting.
1521
01:14:40,190 --> 01:14:42,359
Um, I think there's a
lot of people out there
1522
01:14:42,393 --> 01:14:45,730
who have worse addictions than I do.
1523
01:14:45,763 --> 01:14:47,966
I'm not addicted to sexting.
1524
01:14:47,998 --> 01:14:49,468
I can go without sexting,
1525
01:14:49,501 --> 01:14:51,536
but I definitely couldn't
tweet without sexting.
1526
01:14:51,568 --> 01:14:53,170
So, I don't know.
1527
01:14:53,203 --> 01:14:57,509
I guess I might have to admit
my addiction, right here, now.
1528
01:14:57,541 --> 01:14:59,777
Addiction is a bio-chemical issue.
1529
01:14:59,810 --> 01:15:02,781
It's the brain's need for dopamine.
1530
01:15:02,813 --> 01:15:05,549
And so, we see it, for
example, with video game players
1531
01:15:05,582 --> 01:15:08,553
that they play to get a squirt
of dopamine in their head
1532
01:15:08,586 --> 01:15:10,222
to make them feel pleasure.
1533
01:15:10,255 --> 01:15:13,757
[WRIGHT] The Internet
itself is neural stimuli.
1534
01:15:13,791 --> 01:15:16,928
It can ensnare you in a dopamine loop.
1535
01:15:16,961 --> 01:15:19,764
Whether you're on something
as simple as Pinterest,
1536
01:15:19,796 --> 01:15:22,867
which you pin and pin
and react and act and act,
1537
01:15:22,901 --> 01:15:24,301
and you're falling down a rabbit hole
1538
01:15:24,335 --> 01:15:25,703
because it's stimulating your mind.
1539
01:15:28,072 --> 01:15:30,075
[CHEEVER] An addiction is only an addiction
1540
01:15:30,108 --> 01:15:32,177
if it's interfering with
other parts of your life.
1541
01:15:32,210 --> 01:15:35,714
When we talk about
sexting or any technology,
1542
01:15:35,746 --> 01:15:41,452
there's really no, uh, disorder
for technological addiction.
1543
01:15:41,486 --> 01:15:44,656
We suggest that people take
breaks from their devices.
1544
01:15:44,688 --> 01:15:46,991
Even turn them off for a while.
1545
01:15:47,024 --> 01:15:49,693
Definitely not have them on
in the middle of the night,
1546
01:15:49,727 --> 01:15:53,931
so that you're not getting alerts and
rings, you know, while you're sleeping.
1547
01:15:53,965 --> 01:15:56,535
And during the day, try to minimize
1548
01:15:56,568 --> 01:15:58,970
the number of times that
you're checking your phone.
1549
01:15:59,002 --> 01:16:01,639
If it's not a problem,
don't treat it as a problem.
1550
01:16:01,672 --> 01:16:05,277
So if people are sexting and there's
no negativity about it in their lives
1551
01:16:05,309 --> 01:16:06,443
and they're happy about it,
1552
01:16:06,477 --> 01:16:08,078
it's something they don't
need to be focused on.
1553
01:16:08,112 --> 01:16:10,582
[ROSEN] If sexting makes you feel pleasure
1554
01:16:10,614 --> 01:16:14,786
and you're doing it because you constantly
need that replenishment of pleasure,
1555
01:16:14,818 --> 01:16:17,589
but you can only get it through
sexting, then it's problematic.
1556
01:16:17,621 --> 01:16:20,925
And so, if you're addicted to the
sexting part, that's not a good thing.
1557
01:16:20,959 --> 01:16:25,363
Because that means you're not carrying
it over into your sexual relationship,
1558
01:16:25,395 --> 01:16:27,465
and it's a tool in and of itself.
1559
01:16:27,497 --> 01:16:33,537
For many people, particularly their
smart phone is an object of obsession.
1560
01:16:33,571 --> 01:16:35,273
We're noticing in our research,
1561
01:16:35,305 --> 01:16:38,576
more and more people are carrying
their phone in their hand all day long.
1562
01:16:38,609 --> 01:16:40,578
Not relegating it to their pocket anymore,
1563
01:16:40,612 --> 01:16:42,380
but carrying it close at hand
1564
01:16:42,412 --> 01:16:44,448
so they can feel that buzz, that vibration.
1565
01:16:44,482 --> 01:16:46,350
So they can get it immediately.
1566
01:16:46,384 --> 01:16:48,453
What we're really seeing, as a race,
1567
01:16:48,486 --> 01:16:50,354
being totally consumed
1568
01:16:50,388 --> 01:16:53,123
by our ability to connect to another person
1569
01:16:53,157 --> 01:16:56,328
through a little box we carry 24/7, 365.
1570
01:17:01,331 --> 01:17:04,335
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1571
01:17:04,359 --> 01:17:13,059
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1572
01:17:13,083 --> 01:17:29,083
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