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(Birds tweet)

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- [Voiceover] We've gotta
aspire to give our children

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what I believe to be the
very best circumstances.

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That's to have a mother and a father.

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(Calm piano music)

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- [Voiceover] Marriage is
between a man and a woman

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because of children.

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Because motherhood and
fatherhood are important.

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- [Voiceover] What a load of rubbish.

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- [Voiceover] Legalising same
sex marriage will institute

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the motherless family,
or the fatherless family.

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It will inflict that
depravation on those children.

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- [Voiceover] Same-sex couples
can't simultaneously provide

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both mothering and fathering skills.

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(Voices overlapping)

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- [Voiceover] I and the Labour
Party have a clear policy.

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- [Voiceover] Who takes
the boy to football?

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Who tells him what's right from
wrong?

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- [Voiceover] If this bill is
passed it'll seriously deter

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mothers putting their
babies up for adoption.

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- [Voiceover] Paedophiles
will one day marry children.

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- [Voiceover] It's just
natural order to do this

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with a biological,
married mother and father.

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- [Gus] I didn't have a dad as you
know,

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I had this thing called a donor.

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A donor when they, a man delivers
sperm

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into the hospital, into a little
container

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and then they freeze it so it's all
fresh

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and then they give it to the womans.

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Two women that can have,
that want to have a baby

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and then they have a baby.

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And we did that

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and now I'm here.

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- [Jamie] Should we just put
all the stockings together Jen?

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Okay, you go-

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One Santa and reindeer, coming up.

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Look at that, that is definitely
reindeer's got in that.

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I know reindeers.

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I know how they eat.

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Like savages.

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And you gotta write the note.

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Didn't you have a note
when you were a kid.

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That's what's wrong with you,

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didn't have a note,
Watch out, to say thanks

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for all the stuff.

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You don't have to even, just spit it
out.

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(Laughs)

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(Sighs)

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(Clock ticks)

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- It's Christmas everybody.

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- [Rory] Look, it's Santa's
footprint!

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- [Jamie] Oh it is too, must
have come down the side.

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- His reindeer's hoof print!

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- Check it out!

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I dunno if Santa's got horseshoes
has he, reindeer shoes?

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- [Gus] It must be the reindeer.

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- No Mum, there was Santa's reindeers

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and this is Santa's foot.

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- You see Rory, they
must have gone from here,

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did a big jump, landed here

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and then they must have started to
fly.

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That's why there isn't
any more footprints,

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am I right Amanda?

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(Sportscasters on TV)

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I love wrestling more than every
teensy little grain of sand

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in the world.

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Then, fly in a spaceship across space

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and scatter them on every single
star,

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and that's how much I like wrestling.

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â™ª Doo doo doo doo doo â™ª

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I was wondering...

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You know when the WWE comes to
Australia?

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- Yeah.

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- Can I go?

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- Do you want this paper?

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- Do not try and change the subject.

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- Can you go to wrestling?

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- Yeah, when it comes to Australia
please.

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- I don't know, we'll have
to discuss it with Jamie.

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- Come on.

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- I'll discuss it.

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- How do you feel about it?

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- Oh I worry that it's just the
worst.

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- I've heard this before.

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- Boofhead, male thing that exists.

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- Or the best boofhead
male thing that exists.

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- Oh dear, the wrestling the
wrestling.

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What are we gonna do
about the wrestling, hm?

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(Baby talk)

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- [Recording] Let's do
a breathing exercise.

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Make sure you keep good posture
throughout

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and breathe deeply into
your abdominal area.

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Your shoulders and your
chest shouldn't move.

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If you become a little dizzy,
just take a short break.

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This one's four sips
in and four hisses out.

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(Rhythmic music)

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In, and out.

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(Hisses)

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- [Ebony] When you're singing,

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you just forget everything else.

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Especially when you're stressed,

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you just start singing and you forget

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that you're angry about something

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and you just listen to the
song and pretend you're there.

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â™ª Too late for second guessing

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â™ª Too late to go back to sleep â™ª

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I really want to get into Newtown.

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It's a really good school.

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If I went there it'd probably be the
place

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where I'd most be accepted.

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- Having two mums you're
probably gonna have

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a better time of it at
Newtown then you would

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in a school out west where
they may not be so tolerant

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of the fact that you have two mums.

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In Newtown no one's even going to
blink

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at the fact that you have two mums,

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so it's probably the
school that's best for you.

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- What high school am I going to

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if I don't get into Newtown?

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- No you're getting into Newtown.

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- How do you know?

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- (Laughs) Because
you'll get into Newtown,

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I have faith in you, you're
gonna get into Newtown.

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- Don't you need a back up plan?

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- Even if it takes us
moving back to Newtown,

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you'll get in Newtown as local.

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(Rhythmic music)

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- [Recording] Now this is the last
one.

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Make it really steady.

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Keep going.

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(People chatter)

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- Mum?

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Um, about AFL.

134
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I've been keeping up
quite a lot on my homework

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and they're enrolling pretty soon.

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And I would like to join

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and I've only got one homework
strike,

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that was 'cause it was over the
weekend.

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But I've learned my lesson

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so now I'm doing every single
bit of homework tonight.

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All be good.

142
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- So when will you be doing AFL?

143
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When are the times for AFL?

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- Sunday.

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- No way mate.

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That's Saturday sports, Sunday
sports.

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We have a right to have a weekend
too.

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So this is not just about you,

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and as a mature young man,

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in year seven,

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your consideration shouldn't
just be for what you want.

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That's my time to visit God,
that's my time to talk to God.

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So for me, that is very important to
me.

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So if your game ends up
being on a Sunday morning

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that means that I'm missing church.

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- [Matt] When I went to
Bible study last Sunday,

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we just read out a passage

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and tried to think of the
meaning of that passage.

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There's a nonbelievers tunnel

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which is very wide and easy to go
through.

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But then there's a believer's tunnel

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which is very thin and
not so easy to go through.

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And the reason why the
believer's tunnel is so thin

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is because one, not many people
choose it

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and two, it's hard to stay on that
track

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once you've chosen it

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because not all good
things in life come easy.

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At our age we have the decision now

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whether or not we believe
or don't believe in God.

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(Church bell rings)

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(TV news plays)

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- Your call man.

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If you can read what the
school lunch is to us,

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then you can have it.

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- The Wednesday special is...

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(Struggles with word)

177
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- ls what?

178
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- Is rav...

179
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- Rav, and what's the next letter.

180
00:10:42,580 --> 00:10:43,422
- Ravin...

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- No, rav-ee.

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O...

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Li...

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- (Gasp) Say it again?

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- Ravioli?

186
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Return to the canteen by Sunday.

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- Okay is it really Sunday?

188
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- Saturday.

189
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- Is that really Saturday?

190
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- Oh, Thursday.

191
00:11:01,500 --> 00:11:03,539
- Is that really Thursday,
'cause I think you.

192
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- I mean Tuesday.

193
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- You guessed four other days.

194
00:11:06,420 --> 00:11:07,660
- Turn it over and spell Tuesday.

195
00:11:07,740 --> 00:11:09,230
- Yeah turn it over and
spell Tuesday for me.

196
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The days of the week
thing has let you down.

197
00:11:14,980 --> 00:11:16,664
- Yeah the days of the week
thing is pretty upsetting,

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I'd say.

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- [Graham] If you don't read,
you'll end up on the street.

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And if you do read you might
become the greatest author

201
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in the world or the
richest man in the world!

202
00:11:39,660 --> 00:11:43,267
Or you could just be a normal
person like everyone else.

203
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Everyone reads.

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(Calming music)

205
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Tomorrow we're leaving

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to go to Fiji.

207
00:12:08,300 --> 00:12:10,826
- Maybe you should wear this on the
plane.

208
00:12:10,900 --> 00:12:12,470
Can you imagine if you
walked up to Fiji in this,

209
00:12:12,540 --> 00:12:13,871
I think you'd be a bit hot.

210
00:12:13,940 --> 00:12:15,271
- I'll wait a bit.

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00:12:15,340 --> 00:12:17,820
We moved to Fiji for dad's work.

212
00:12:23,500 --> 00:12:25,389
We're gonna have different uniforms,

213
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different food, different house.

214
00:12:34,340 --> 00:12:39,301
(Wrestling plays on TV)

215
00:12:40,260 --> 00:12:42,467
- Three, four, five.

216
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I am on the long road to puberty

217
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which is when you become a man.

218
00:12:50,500 --> 00:12:52,741
Most people say

219
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that to be manly,

220
00:12:56,660 --> 00:13:00,062
you have to like work
alone and walk different

221
00:13:00,140 --> 00:13:03,349
and have these really
big muscles and biceps.

222
00:13:07,540 --> 00:13:11,899
But I don't really know when you're
manly.

223
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(Growls)

224
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- Skin a rabbit.

225
00:13:21,180 --> 00:13:23,990
- Ready, one two three, geez come on.

226
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One two three skin a rabbit!

227
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Here one two three.

228
00:13:30,180 --> 00:13:33,229
Miss sunshine, little ray of
sunshine.

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Arms up.

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Careful.

231
00:13:39,340 --> 00:13:40,580
Okay, I'm gonna say the first few
names

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and you have to say the last name.

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John.

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- Michael.

235
00:13:44,980 --> 00:13:46,106
- No that's Sean Michael,

236
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so what about John C, C.

237
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<i>- Cena.</i>

238
00:13:49,100 --> 00:13:50,226
- Cena!

239
00:13:51,140 --> 00:13:52,585
And Cody.

240
00:13:56,740 --> 00:13:58,265
- Cody Rhodes!

241
00:13:58,340 --> 00:13:59,785
- Cody Rhodes!

242
00:14:01,100 --> 00:14:02,181
And Triple.

243
00:14:02,260 --> 00:14:02,909
- H.

244
00:14:02,980 --> 00:14:04,311
- Good girl.

245
00:14:04,380 --> 00:14:06,542
Um, the Un.

246
00:14:06,900 --> 00:14:07,822
- Dertaker.

247
00:14:07,900 --> 00:14:09,231
- Undertaker.

248
00:14:09,300 --> 00:14:10,790
- Please don't indoctrinate your
sister

249
00:14:10,860 --> 00:14:11,941
too much with wrestling.

250
00:14:12,020 --> 00:14:12,748
- Okay.

251
00:14:12,820 --> 00:14:14,584
Um, I'm thinking of someone else.

252
00:14:14,660 --> 00:14:15,821
- [Jamie] I mean it though, Justin.

253
00:14:15,900 --> 00:14:17,140
- Yeah sure Jamie sure.

254
00:14:17,220 --> 00:14:18,142
- [Jamie] Alright.

255
00:14:18,220 --> 00:14:20,268
In five minutes Rory, you need
to quickly wash your face.

256
00:14:20,340 --> 00:14:22,502
- What about the one with the girl?

257
00:14:23,980 --> 00:14:25,903
- Don't forget the girl wrestlers,
Gus.

258
00:14:25,980 --> 00:14:28,142
- Who's gonna be the girl?

259
00:14:28,620 --> 00:14:29,667
- The girls?

260
00:14:29,740 --> 00:14:31,071
- This one!

261
00:14:33,300 --> 00:14:34,665
- I love that you're shopping with me

262
00:14:34,740 --> 00:14:36,469
for your mother's underwear, it's
great.

263
00:14:36,660 --> 00:14:38,549
It's a bit unsexy the
whole lot of it isn't it?

264
00:14:43,860 --> 00:14:45,385
- Stylish.

265
00:14:51,500 --> 00:14:53,821
Make it look like you're the Joker.

266
00:15:00,900 --> 00:15:02,186
- Um, can you not do that please?

267
00:15:02,260 --> 00:15:03,147
- Sure.

268
00:15:03,220 --> 00:15:05,541
- That is really not fair.

269
00:15:08,140 --> 00:15:09,744
Do you want a tissue?

270
00:15:10,300 --> 00:15:11,745
- Oh okay then.

271
00:15:11,820 --> 00:15:13,060
- Thank you.

272
00:15:15,140 --> 00:15:17,108
- If it's a tester you can wear it.

273
00:15:18,140 --> 00:15:20,620
You don't have to wipe it off
just 'cause it freaked her out

274
00:15:20,700 --> 00:15:21,940
because of her gender crisis,

275
00:15:22,020 --> 00:15:24,307
but if it's not a tester
you can't use that though.

276
00:15:24,380 --> 00:15:25,427
- They are testers though.

277
00:15:25,500 --> 00:15:28,106
- Well just tell her it's fine
you like wearing lipstick.

278
00:15:28,180 --> 00:15:29,830
Just apologise for upsetting her

279
00:15:29,900 --> 00:15:31,345
but tell her it's fine to wear
lipstick.

280
00:15:32,380 --> 00:15:34,223
Okay, come and help me clean that off
now.

281
00:15:35,900 --> 00:15:37,231
I'm thinking.

282
00:15:40,020 --> 00:15:41,351
It's okay, doll.

283
00:15:42,220 --> 00:15:43,426
Max, you alright?

284
00:15:43,500 --> 00:15:44,501
I'm thinking this?

285
00:15:44,580 --> 00:15:45,741
What do you think about that

286
00:15:45,820 --> 00:15:47,106
for your mother?

287
00:15:47,180 --> 00:15:48,670
- Uh...

288
00:15:49,540 --> 00:15:51,304
- Is that sexy 'jamas?

289
00:15:52,700 --> 00:15:54,589
I said people don't understand

290
00:15:54,660 --> 00:15:56,264
that boys might want to
wear lipstick as well.

291
00:15:56,340 --> 00:15:57,501
It's not that weird really.

292
00:15:57,580 --> 00:15:58,422
- No.

293
00:15:58,500 --> 00:16:00,104
- Just tell her you're
practising for Mardi Gras.

294
00:16:00,180 --> 00:16:01,261
- Hm.

295
00:16:01,340 --> 00:16:02,546
- I'll tell her.

296
00:16:02,620 --> 00:16:04,748
- No I don't wanna go near her again.

297
00:16:09,140 --> 00:16:10,949
(Car honks)

298
00:16:11,020 --> 00:16:13,022
- Beat the car, beat the car!

299
00:16:20,020 --> 00:16:21,306
- We caught the bus.

300
00:16:21,380 --> 00:16:23,462
- I know, but the car broke down
again.

301
00:16:23,540 --> 00:16:24,348
Again?

302
00:16:24,420 --> 00:16:25,421
- Again.

303
00:16:26,620 --> 00:16:30,147
- I know, we didn't see
you so we started walking.

304
00:16:34,620 --> 00:16:36,622
- In Parramatta I don't know anyone

305
00:16:36,700 --> 00:16:38,509
who has a family like mine.

306
00:16:38,860 --> 00:16:39,782
- Gotta get the baby out the car

307
00:16:39,860 --> 00:16:41,305
and Ang has to drive the
car around for half an hour.

308
00:16:41,380 --> 00:16:42,541
- I gave him my number.

309
00:16:42,620 --> 00:16:43,587
- Did you?

310
00:16:43,660 --> 00:16:45,264
Then you gave him my number.

311
00:16:49,500 --> 00:16:52,982
(Calming music)

312
00:16:54,180 --> 00:16:55,306
- Most of the time when I meet
someone new

313
00:16:55,380 --> 00:16:56,666
I go, oh yeah my parents are gay

314
00:16:56,740 --> 00:16:57,901
and they go, what?

315
00:17:01,860 --> 00:17:04,181
Kind of looking forward to
going to high school finally,

316
00:17:04,260 --> 00:17:06,069
getting out of Parramatta.

317
00:17:10,620 --> 00:17:14,989
- You will be starting
your tutoring on the ninth.

318
00:17:15,580 --> 00:17:16,866
She wants you to learn your song

319
00:17:16,940 --> 00:17:18,066
before you even go there

320
00:17:18,140 --> 00:17:19,904
so you have to have finally picked a
song

321
00:17:19,980 --> 00:17:22,267
that you have to know
your song off by heart

322
00:17:22,340 --> 00:17:23,580
before you even get there so she can
do

323
00:17:23,660 --> 00:17:24,741
as much work with you.

324
00:17:24,820 --> 00:17:25,469
- Off by heart?

325
00:17:25,540 --> 00:17:26,541
- Off by heart.

326
00:17:26,620 --> 00:17:26,984
- Okay.

327
00:17:27,060 --> 00:17:28,186
- The lady says you have to know it

328
00:17:28,260 --> 00:17:29,182
before she can work with you.

329
00:17:29,260 --> 00:17:31,308
So she'll teach you some
techniques and stuff like that.

330
00:17:31,380 --> 00:17:33,826
She'll probably teach you
more breathing techniques

331
00:17:33,900 --> 00:17:35,902
because that's what you had
a little bit of trouble with,

332
00:17:35,980 --> 00:17:37,982
breathing stuff.

333
00:17:38,460 --> 00:17:40,906
So if you don't want to
end up going to Northmead,

334
00:17:40,980 --> 00:17:42,948
you're gonna have to pull your finger
out

335
00:17:43,020 --> 00:17:45,705
and make the effort for Newtown.

336
00:17:45,780 --> 00:17:47,020
- Okay.

337
00:17:48,780 --> 00:17:51,260
We don't really have that much money

338
00:17:52,780 --> 00:17:54,942
'cause neither of them can work

339
00:17:55,020 --> 00:17:57,307
mainly because they have
to look after Ashaan,

340
00:17:57,380 --> 00:18:00,589
who hasn't slept through
the night once in his life,

341
00:18:00,660 --> 00:18:03,743
who has epilepsy and it's just been
hard.

342
00:18:05,020 --> 00:18:06,306
- How's his meds going?

343
00:18:07,220 --> 00:18:09,666
- Oh he was having seizure
after seizure after seizure.

344
00:18:09,740 --> 00:18:12,425
So we've had to get in
touch with a neurologist

345
00:18:12,500 --> 00:18:14,582
and they've upped the dosage.

346
00:18:14,660 --> 00:18:16,344
- You're smashing my head.

347
00:18:16,420 --> 00:18:18,339
- He needs more.

348
00:18:18,340 --> 00:18:20,229
He had, oh you haven't
been on Facebook lately,

349
00:18:20,300 --> 00:18:22,143
he had two seizures
while I was carrying him

350
00:18:22,220 --> 00:18:24,268
in my hiking pack on my back.

351
00:18:24,340 --> 00:18:25,227
- Was he asleep?

352
00:18:25,300 --> 00:18:26,267
- Yeah, asleep.

353
00:18:26,340 --> 00:18:27,387
He's always asleep.

354
00:18:33,500 --> 00:18:34,581
- Have your medicine.

355
00:18:34,660 --> 00:18:35,866
Good boy.

356
00:18:38,260 --> 00:18:39,307
Very good.

357
00:18:40,180 --> 00:18:41,227
(Laughs)

358
00:18:44,540 --> 00:18:46,030
- [Woman] No, he's gonna wanna touch
it.

359
00:18:46,100 --> 00:18:47,022
- Oh no!

360
00:18:47,100 --> 00:18:47,987
Don't.

361
00:18:52,860 --> 00:18:56,342
(Whistles)

362
00:19:02,380 --> 00:19:04,223
It must be a really really good
school

363
00:19:04,300 --> 00:19:06,019
for Mum to go to such extreme
measures

364
00:19:06,020 --> 00:19:07,863
to try and get me in.

365
00:19:12,780 --> 00:19:14,939
Seth hasn't even been able
to go to karate lessons

366
00:19:14,940 --> 00:19:17,546
because you've been spending
so much money on me.

367
00:19:21,140 --> 00:19:23,108
Makes me very grateful.

368
00:19:28,060 --> 00:19:32,419
(Melancholy music)

369
00:19:32,420 --> 00:19:35,185
- [Sandy] Thank you lord, for
the wonderful family we have

370
00:19:35,260 --> 00:19:36,785
and the blessings we have.

371
00:19:37,180 --> 00:19:38,784
For what we are about to receive,

372
00:19:39,060 --> 00:19:41,347
may the lord make us truly thankful.

373
00:19:41,420 --> 00:19:42,660
Amen.

374
00:19:43,020 --> 00:19:44,863
Alright, bon appetite everybody!

375
00:19:46,100 --> 00:19:46,783
(Phone rings)

376
00:19:49,100 --> 00:19:50,670
- Well I'm starting.

377
00:19:52,420 --> 00:19:54,787
- Hello Sandy speaking.

378
00:19:55,740 --> 00:19:58,027
So I'll take Matt on a Thursday,

379
00:19:58,100 --> 00:20:00,023
you take Dylan on a Wednesday.

380
00:20:00,100 --> 00:20:02,139
- [Matt] My mum and dad were very
happy

381
00:20:02,140 --> 00:20:04,746
while they were married.

382
00:20:06,060 --> 00:20:07,630
- Probably looking at a Thursday
night

383
00:20:07,700 --> 00:20:09,907
I've got sprinting, long
distance throws and high jumps.

384
00:20:11,740 --> 00:20:15,461
- [Matt] I think it's when
my brother and I came along

385
00:20:18,260 --> 00:20:21,150
then I guess they just thought it's
better

386
00:20:21,220 --> 00:20:23,746
if they got divorced
because they didn't want.

387
00:20:23,820 --> 00:20:26,903
Dylan and I to hear them
shouting at each other.

388
00:20:29,220 --> 00:20:31,143
My mum met Lou.

389
00:20:32,500 --> 00:20:34,502
Lou's cooked for me,

390
00:20:35,860 --> 00:20:38,943
loved me, done so many things for me

391
00:20:39,020 --> 00:20:43,150
that I never thought
someone who wasn't my parent

392
00:20:43,220 --> 00:20:44,824
or related to me could do.

393
00:20:45,380 --> 00:20:46,791
- I'm getting on with the job

394
00:20:46,860 --> 00:20:48,430
with the strong support of my caucus.

395
00:20:48,500 --> 00:20:50,229
- [Voiceover] And three
same-sex couples heading

396
00:20:50,300 --> 00:20:52,428
to dinner at the lodge with Julia
Gillard.

397
00:20:52,500 --> 00:20:54,548
They're hoping to challenge the PM's
mind

398
00:20:54,620 --> 00:20:55,746
about gay marriage.

399
00:20:55,820 --> 00:20:57,504
- Sandy and Louise are
one of those lucky couples

400
00:20:57,580 --> 00:20:59,025
as Karen mentioned, and
they're looking forward

401
00:20:59,100 --> 00:21:00,101
to their date with the PM.

402
00:21:00,180 --> 00:21:02,421
- We just want to go to
dinner and make her aware

403
00:21:02,500 --> 00:21:05,265
of what our situation
is, what our family is.

404
00:21:05,700 --> 00:21:08,019
- You know that Julia Gillard
said she's against it.

405
00:21:08,020 --> 00:21:11,661
Would you vote for any politician to
be PM

406
00:21:11,740 --> 00:21:13,504
on this one issue.

407
00:21:13,580 --> 00:21:15,264
It that important enough for you

408
00:21:15,340 --> 00:21:16,830
that it would override everything
else?

409
00:21:16,900 --> 00:21:17,901
- Of course it is.

410
00:21:17,980 --> 00:21:19,709
This issue is very important
to us, it's our lives.

411
00:21:19,780 --> 00:21:21,191
And when we go to vote,

412
00:21:21,260 --> 00:21:23,262
we'll vote for the party that aligns

413
00:21:23,340 --> 00:21:25,502
with out interests and our policies

414
00:21:25,580 --> 00:21:28,231
and the way we feel about things
and what's important to us.

415
00:21:28,540 --> 00:21:30,179
Doesn't sound like me.

416
00:21:30,180 --> 00:21:32,547
- Your accent is a bit stronger on TV

417
00:21:32,620 --> 00:21:33,781
but it's not that much stronger.

418
00:21:33,860 --> 00:21:34,941
- Yeah 'cause when I get under stress

419
00:21:35,020 --> 00:21:36,749
my accent comes out more.

420
00:21:37,140 --> 00:21:37,902
- Oh ya.

421
00:21:37,980 --> 00:21:39,744
- Oh ya. (Laughs)

422
00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:42,502
Is it our weekend with
you guys, it is isn't it?

423
00:21:42,580 --> 00:21:43,229
- Yeah.

424
00:21:43,300 --> 00:21:44,381
So we can go on Sunday.

425
00:21:44,460 --> 00:21:45,700
- I've got the church thing on
Sunday.

426
00:21:45,780 --> 00:21:47,509
- Oh yeah.

427
00:21:48,220 --> 00:21:50,179
Are you sure that's what you want,

428
00:21:50,180 --> 00:21:52,387
because I've got a phone call from Bec

429
00:21:52,460 --> 00:21:54,059
she wants to chat with you.

430
00:21:54,060 --> 00:21:56,950
Are you happy to go to
Bible study with her?

431
00:21:57,020 --> 00:21:58,260
- I don't mind.

432
00:21:58,780 --> 00:22:00,748
- Well I think honey if you're
going to make up your mind

433
00:22:00,820 --> 00:22:02,539
about something you need to know the
facts

434
00:22:02,540 --> 00:22:04,827
before you make a decision, yeah?

435
00:22:05,060 --> 00:22:06,664
And at the moment,

436
00:22:06,740 --> 00:22:09,584
you're only focusing on
one thing, aren't you?

437
00:22:10,460 --> 00:22:11,950
- What do you mean one thing?

438
00:22:12,020 --> 00:22:14,227
- Well you know we were talking
about it the other night.

439
00:22:14,300 --> 00:22:16,462
And the conclusion we came to.

440
00:22:16,540 --> 00:22:17,871
- I'm gonna wash up.

441
00:22:25,780 --> 00:22:28,590
- For me, I was brought up with the
Bible.

442
00:22:28,660 --> 00:22:31,345
I listened to stories every single
day.

443
00:22:31,980 --> 00:22:33,982
And for me it was my favourite
storybook.

444
00:22:34,060 --> 00:22:34,822
I loved it.

445
00:22:35,100 --> 00:22:36,226
And it wasn't just a storybook,

446
00:22:36,300 --> 00:22:39,543
it took me a while to realise
the book was actually based on

447
00:22:39,620 --> 00:22:42,703
people's stories of things
that they actually experienced.

448
00:22:43,660 --> 00:22:46,743
- Like, how did we find
out how babies are born?

449
00:22:47,340 --> 00:22:48,619
- How did we?

450
00:22:48,620 --> 00:22:50,384
From people experiencing it.

451
00:22:50,620 --> 00:22:52,543
But how did it first come about?

452
00:22:52,940 --> 00:22:55,181
You know, who made the world?

453
00:22:55,940 --> 00:22:57,863
Who made it, how did
it come into existence?

454
00:22:58,340 --> 00:22:59,227
- Space.

455
00:23:01,020 --> 00:23:03,261
- And how did space come about?

456
00:23:03,700 --> 00:23:05,543
How did it first get there?

457
00:23:06,220 --> 00:23:07,426
- There, I dunno.

458
00:23:07,900 --> 00:23:09,664
- It just was there.

459
00:23:11,380 --> 00:23:12,939
You're entitled to your own beliefs

460
00:23:12,940 --> 00:23:15,625
and to not believe in God,
if that is what you want.

461
00:23:16,460 --> 00:23:19,350
But, I want you to learn
more about the Bible

462
00:23:20,180 --> 00:23:22,387
so that you have the facts.

463
00:23:27,740 --> 00:23:29,390
- My mum has told me a few stories

464
00:23:29,460 --> 00:23:31,224
about the priests at church telling
us

465
00:23:31,300 --> 00:23:33,906
that mum is a sin against God.

466
00:23:38,060 --> 00:23:42,668
And they're saying that God
created a man and a woman

467
00:23:42,740 --> 00:23:44,663
so they could be together

468
00:23:45,340 --> 00:23:48,549
and make new generations and
everything.

469
00:23:56,060 --> 00:23:58,222
Personally I think that God made
everyone

470
00:23:58,300 --> 00:23:59,586
to be who they are.

471
00:24:01,220 --> 00:24:02,381
Moses Moses Moses.

472
00:24:16,340 --> 00:24:18,911
- This is my third time
moving to my third house.

473
00:24:27,340 --> 00:24:28,546
- [Recording] Please take the time

474
00:24:28,620 --> 00:24:30,543
to familiarise yourself
with your nearest exit,

475
00:24:30,620 --> 00:24:33,510
remembering that it might be behind
you.

476
00:24:41,300 --> 00:24:44,668
- [Graham] My second
one was just a carer one

477
00:24:45,300 --> 00:24:47,459
the third one is Matt and Pete,

478
00:24:47,460 --> 00:24:50,384
and this is the fourth move to Fiji.

479
00:24:53,980 --> 00:24:58,941
(Adventurous music)

480
00:25:01,540 --> 00:25:04,219
When I was five I couldn't speak

481
00:25:04,220 --> 00:25:07,861
because my first family didn't teach
me.

482
00:25:12,660 --> 00:25:16,426
(People chatter)

483
00:25:33,100 --> 00:25:35,944
- So the boys are gonna
be here on your visa.

484
00:25:36,020 --> 00:25:37,545
So you're the father.

485
00:25:37,620 --> 00:25:41,989
So how are we explaining me to this
world?

486
00:25:44,860 --> 00:25:47,864
- You could be a babysitter. (Laughs)

487
00:25:49,100 --> 00:25:50,750
- I think that Matt's right.

488
00:25:51,180 --> 00:25:53,547
Guys I think in this culture
we have to be careful

489
00:25:53,620 --> 00:25:59,104
about how we introduce the
fact that you have two dads.

490
00:26:00,140 --> 00:26:02,029
So the idea is Matt's and my
relationship,

491
00:26:02,100 --> 00:26:03,465
that's private.

492
00:26:04,060 --> 00:26:07,143
So no one needs to know that
relationship.

493
00:26:07,620 --> 00:26:09,190
- Like if people say oh that's your
dad,

494
00:26:09,260 --> 00:26:10,499
who's that other guy?

495
00:26:10,500 --> 00:26:11,581
You say oh, - He's a friend.

496
00:26:11,660 --> 00:26:14,311
- He lives with us too and
he helps look after us.

497
00:26:14,380 --> 00:26:15,461
- He's a friend.

498
00:26:24,700 --> 00:26:27,351
- Whoa, that's a big tooth Graham.

499
00:26:28,340 --> 00:26:30,099
Is that a baby tooth?

500
00:26:30,100 --> 00:26:31,670
It is a baby tooth.

501
00:26:31,740 --> 00:26:33,099
Pretty cool.

502
00:26:33,100 --> 00:26:35,182
Can you go put it in a glass of
water.

503
00:26:40,380 --> 00:26:42,587
- Love you honey, we'll
see you in the morning.

504
00:26:51,940 --> 00:26:55,308
(Heavy rainfall)

505
00:26:55,660 --> 00:26:57,389
- Did you hear the rain this morning?

506
00:26:57,460 --> 00:26:58,621
- [Graham] Yes.

507
00:26:58,700 --> 00:26:59,861
- Lots of rain this morning.

508
00:27:02,260 --> 00:27:04,831
- Boys, we have two
things to plan for today.

509
00:27:05,420 --> 00:27:08,742
- Generous friend and such.

510
00:27:11,460 --> 00:27:13,110
- Oh what's this?

511
00:27:13,380 --> 00:27:14,541
- What is it?

512
00:27:14,860 --> 00:27:17,779
Oh she much have dropped
it on my bedside table.

513
00:27:17,780 --> 00:27:20,863
- (Laughs) Liar.

514
00:27:21,300 --> 00:27:23,701
- So hold on, the tooth
fairy not only brought you

515
00:27:23,780 --> 00:27:26,659
one dollar Australian
instead of one dollar Fijian,

516
00:27:26,660 --> 00:27:30,551
she dropped the tooth on
my bedside table. (Laughs)

517
00:27:30,620 --> 00:27:32,349
- You're the tooth fairy!

518
00:27:32,580 --> 00:27:34,548
He's the tooth fairy.

519
00:27:34,620 --> 00:27:35,781
- Okay, Michael, Graham,

520
00:27:35,860 --> 00:27:38,067
you don't believe, you
don't receive, okay?

521
00:27:38,140 --> 00:27:40,711
I can't believe the tooth
fairy dropped the tooth

522
00:27:40,780 --> 00:27:43,147
on my bedside table in
the middle of the night.

523
00:27:45,180 --> 00:27:46,591
(Laughs)

524
00:27:46,900 --> 00:27:49,301
- [Graham] Lying is sometimes
good and sometimes bad.

525
00:27:59,500 --> 00:28:02,743
If someone says, oh have
you ate your lunch today

526
00:28:02,980 --> 00:28:05,347
and you say yes but you actually
didn't,

527
00:28:05,420 --> 00:28:06,945
that's a bad lie.

528
00:28:14,220 --> 00:28:17,827
And a good lie is, oh I have ate
that,

529
00:28:19,460 --> 00:28:23,670
and he's looking after me and
the other one's just a carer.

530
00:28:29,860 --> 00:28:31,430
And that's a good lie.

531
00:28:36,860 --> 00:28:38,908
- So these are a little
tricky to get open and closed

532
00:28:38,980 --> 00:28:42,063
so you need to make sure you
push all different areas of it.

533
00:28:43,380 --> 00:28:47,988
- [Graham] I think it's okay
to lie about having two dads.

534
00:28:52,060 --> 00:28:58,830
Because Fiji is not
really keen on gay people.

535
00:29:05,660 --> 00:29:07,185
- [Dad] I don't think you'll need
your hat

536
00:29:07,260 --> 00:29:08,261
in the classroom, Graham.

537
00:29:22,700 --> 00:29:26,500
(Children recite letters)

538
00:29:35,300 --> 00:29:38,224
- [Graham] if you can't
read, the letters will be

539
00:29:38,300 --> 00:29:40,871
like A A B B all over the page,

540
00:29:40,940 --> 00:29:43,784
like what's that, what's that.

541
00:29:48,820 --> 00:29:51,221
Sometimes it don't make sense for me.

542
00:29:57,580 --> 00:30:02,188
- The OMG oh my god moment
was not what you saw.

543
00:30:02,260 --> 00:30:06,663
It was a short time after that,

544
00:30:06,740 --> 00:30:10,586
it was when the epic match
between the undertaker and myself.

545
00:30:10,700 --> 00:30:12,862
- [Gus] Before I liked
wrestling I was all like

546
00:30:14,180 --> 00:30:17,502
fluffy and flowery and stuff.

547
00:30:24,540 --> 00:30:25,905
(Grunts)

548
00:30:25,980 --> 00:30:29,507
And then I liked wrestling and
I became more rough and tough

549
00:30:29,580 --> 00:30:30,945
and mean?

550
00:30:36,780 --> 00:30:38,430
(Grunts)

551
00:30:43,300 --> 00:30:47,988
(Dramatic music)

552
00:30:50,500 --> 00:30:53,663
Jesse J was then carried
out by the paramedics!

553
00:31:03,140 --> 00:31:04,665
- Just buy the cheap seats

554
00:31:04,740 --> 00:31:07,027
and he can sit there and
have the whole experience

555
00:31:07,100 --> 00:31:08,625
and just be up in the
stalls with every other kid

556
00:31:08,700 --> 00:31:09,781
that can't afford to bloody.

557
00:31:10,420 --> 00:31:11,342
You know?

558
00:31:11,420 --> 00:31:12,501
Really go.

559
00:31:15,020 --> 00:31:16,510
(Grunts)

560
00:31:17,540 --> 00:31:19,622
- The smack down!

561
00:31:22,180 --> 00:31:24,945
- What I worry about is
that the wrestling men

562
00:31:25,380 --> 00:31:27,030
are such jerky men.

563
00:31:27,100 --> 00:31:27,987
. HEY-

564
00:31:32,220 --> 00:31:35,539
- That they're, that they're
a bit, basically hate women.

565
00:31:35,540 --> 00:31:36,099
- What?

566
00:31:36,100 --> 00:31:37,226
- That they're anti-gay.

567
00:31:37,420 --> 00:31:38,342
- No.

568
00:31:38,820 --> 00:31:40,788
- I worry that you start thinking
that

569
00:31:40,860 --> 00:31:43,979
that's the way you be an interesting
man

570
00:31:43,980 --> 00:31:45,789
or that's the way you be a sexy man

571
00:31:45,860 --> 00:31:47,659
or that's the way you be a popular
man

572
00:31:47,660 --> 00:31:49,105
or something like that.

573
00:31:49,820 --> 00:31:51,788
I quite like rough and tumble.

574
00:31:52,340 --> 00:31:53,785
I think it's fun.

575
00:31:53,860 --> 00:31:55,589
But I have a problem with the men
doing

576
00:31:55,660 --> 00:31:58,550
that awful kind of thing
and the way they talk

577
00:31:58,620 --> 00:32:00,031
about women as if they're...

578
00:32:00,100 --> 00:32:01,431
- Mum, they never talk about women.

579
00:32:01,500 --> 00:32:03,343
They never do it.

580
00:32:03,420 --> 00:32:04,831
They never talk about women.

581
00:32:04,900 --> 00:32:06,584
- But you told me there
was something where

582
00:32:06,660 --> 00:32:08,185
some guy insulted some woman,

583
00:32:08,260 --> 00:32:10,581
and some man was going
out with her and her twin

584
00:32:10,660 --> 00:32:13,823
and he came straight away
and he flattened the guy.

585
00:32:13,900 --> 00:32:17,302
Like he didn't, as if that
is some kind of solution

586
00:32:17,380 --> 00:32:18,461
to someone being.

587
00:32:18,540 --> 00:32:19,701
- No he talked to the guy

588
00:32:19,780 --> 00:32:22,511
and um, the guy wouldn't stop
and the guy just slapped him

589
00:32:22,580 --> 00:32:24,859
and then he flattened the guy.

590
00:32:24,860 --> 00:32:28,148
- Well, doesn't sound great, does it?

591
00:32:28,220 --> 00:32:31,303
He just slapped him and
then he flattened him.

592
00:32:31,420 --> 00:32:32,910
- That was one thing that happened.

593
00:32:32,980 --> 00:32:35,539
That is not, nothing like
that has ever happened before.

594
00:32:35,540 --> 00:32:37,907
- But baby there's nothing
that ever happens on it

595
00:32:37,980 --> 00:32:40,984
that's about peace or about
friendship

596
00:32:41,060 --> 00:32:42,949
or about caring for people.

597
00:32:43,020 --> 00:32:44,299
- There's heaps of friendship
and there's heaps of caring!

598
00:32:44,300 --> 00:32:45,540
- Or about democracy.

599
00:32:45,940 --> 00:32:46,827
- I don't know what 'mocracy is, but.

600
00:32:46,900 --> 00:32:49,949
- Democracy, it's where people sit
down

601
00:32:50,020 --> 00:32:52,068
and they talk about what everybody
wants

602
00:32:52,140 --> 00:32:53,949
and they work problems out by
talking.

603
00:32:54,020 --> 00:32:54,828
- What?

604
00:32:55,620 --> 00:32:56,348
- Democracy.

605
00:32:56,940 --> 00:32:58,544
- No, there's no democracy.

606
00:32:58,620 --> 00:33:00,349
- No there's no democracy, it's
all about flattening people

607
00:33:00,420 --> 00:33:02,104
and just smashing their heads in.

608
00:33:02,180 --> 00:33:03,147
- No.

609
00:33:03,780 --> 00:33:05,509
What about tag-team matches?

610
00:33:06,100 --> 00:33:07,101
They're friends.

611
00:33:08,220 --> 00:33:09,949
What about contract signing?

612
00:33:10,460 --> 00:33:12,383
They sit down and talk.

613
00:33:14,020 --> 00:33:15,590
(Sighs)

614
00:33:28,380 --> 00:33:30,701
- [Sandy] It is your job to
argue and reuse questions,

615
00:33:30,780 --> 00:33:32,464
it's his job to listen.

616
00:33:35,460 --> 00:33:38,270
- My mum basically wants
me to have a meeting

617
00:33:38,340 --> 00:33:41,310
with the pastor to have
a little chat about God.

618
00:33:45,940 --> 00:33:49,342
I just think that the meetings
gonna be a bit strange.

619
00:33:53,820 --> 00:33:56,619
I'm talking to people
that have believed in God

620
00:33:56,620 --> 00:33:59,544
since they were like five years old.

621
00:34:04,140 --> 00:34:07,861
It's almost like telling a
child that Santa's not real.

622
00:34:09,780 --> 00:34:11,623
- So you don't really believe in God.

623
00:34:11,700 --> 00:34:12,462
- No.

624
00:34:12,540 --> 00:34:13,302
- Yeah.

625
00:34:14,100 --> 00:34:17,104
What are the things that
make you disbelieve God.

626
00:34:18,740 --> 00:34:24,827
- They've just made this book
Where everything is perfect

627
00:34:24,900 --> 00:34:28,541
and this is how they
think everyone should live

628
00:34:28,620 --> 00:34:32,750
and if you follow this,
you have to live like this.

629
00:34:32,820 --> 00:34:35,824
You can't marry someone that's not,

630
00:34:35,900 --> 00:34:37,311
you can't marry the same-sex.

631
00:34:37,380 --> 00:34:38,222
- Mm.

632
00:34:38,300 --> 00:34:40,268
- And all that kind of stuff.

633
00:34:40,340 --> 00:34:41,421
- Mm.

634
00:34:43,420 --> 00:34:45,787
The issue under that,
in your life for you,

635
00:34:45,860 --> 00:34:49,706
is that, is the question
about, who's to say that

636
00:34:49,780 --> 00:34:52,829
who should marry who and things like
that.

637
00:34:52,900 --> 00:34:55,028
That's the big question?

638
00:34:55,980 --> 00:34:56,629
- Yeah.

639
00:34:57,060 --> 00:34:57,709
- Yeah.

640
00:34:57,780 --> 00:35:01,262
That's really great with your mum and
Lou

641
00:35:01,340 --> 00:35:04,822
that we can say, look, we
really think the Bible says this

642
00:35:04,900 --> 00:35:07,551
but we love you, and love you to be
here,

643
00:35:07,620 --> 00:35:09,304
which you know is true.

644
00:35:09,380 --> 00:35:11,747
So it's not always easy,
because we really do disagree

645
00:35:11,820 --> 00:35:14,824
on something that's very
important to both of us.

646
00:35:16,340 --> 00:35:18,024
Were you worried I'd be embarrassed

647
00:35:18,100 --> 00:35:19,147
if you asked that question?

648
00:35:19,220 --> 00:35:19,979
- No.

649
00:35:19,980 --> 00:35:20,981
- Really?

650
00:35:21,060 --> 00:35:24,143
You know, it's a gutsy question.

651
00:35:25,540 --> 00:35:28,783
Any question I like, all
questions are good questions.

652
00:35:30,140 --> 00:35:31,062
Yeah.

653
00:35:38,620 --> 00:35:40,384
- Um, why do you go to a church

654
00:35:41,140 --> 00:35:44,508
Where everyone thinks
you're a sin against God?

655
00:35:44,580 --> 00:35:46,264
When you could just go to a church

656
00:35:46,340 --> 00:35:47,830
Where everyone thinks that you're
normal.

657
00:35:52,340 --> 00:35:54,820
- For me, it's not
about what people think.

658
00:35:55,700 --> 00:35:58,988
It's what I believe my God believes

659
00:35:59,060 --> 00:36:01,267
and what he thinks about us.

660
00:36:02,580 --> 00:36:04,821
You think that we should
go to a different church.

661
00:36:05,660 --> 00:36:06,741
- No, it's just.

662
00:36:06,820 --> 00:36:07,946
- Where we're accepted.

663
00:36:08,100 --> 00:36:11,379
- No, I'm just curious
Why you chose this church

664
00:36:11,380 --> 00:36:13,144
instead of another one.

665
00:36:14,100 --> 00:36:17,183
- Is your disbelief in God got
anything to do with the fact

666
00:36:17,260 --> 00:36:20,309
that Lou and Mummy are in a
relationship?

667
00:36:20,740 --> 00:36:22,310
And that that is a sin against God,

668
00:36:22,380 --> 00:36:23,506
as the Bible says.

669
00:36:23,580 --> 00:36:25,821
- That's a bit of it.

670
00:36:26,980 --> 00:36:27,947
- Okay.

671
00:36:37,660 --> 00:36:40,140
- Alright, I'm just gonna
be another ten minutes

672
00:36:40,220 --> 00:36:41,665
because I'm still with my other
students.

673
00:36:41,740 --> 00:36:43,822
Sorry I don't really have
any referees here (Laughs)

674
00:36:43,900 --> 00:36:45,026
so just give me a sec.

675
00:36:45,380 --> 00:36:46,029
- Okay.

676
00:36:49,900 --> 00:36:53,268
When I first found out my mums were
gay

677
00:36:53,980 --> 00:36:57,143
and they were going on like
together together and stuff,

678
00:36:57,220 --> 00:36:59,499
I was kind of, I don't know,

679
00:36:59,500 --> 00:37:01,946
I wasn't that accepting at first.

680
00:37:06,940 --> 00:37:09,546
- Your legs look so short in those
pants.

681
00:37:10,220 --> 00:37:12,143
(Chatter)

682
00:37:12,780 --> 00:37:14,339
- I was the kind of person who'd go,

683
00:37:14,340 --> 00:37:16,308
haha you're gay, you suck, you're
gay-

684
00:37:16,380 --> 00:37:18,826
Who'd make jokes about it.

685
00:37:24,660 --> 00:37:27,140
- Leave her alone, I'm doing her
socks up.

686
00:37:28,060 --> 00:37:29,744
- [Ebony] People would slowly find
out

687
00:37:29,820 --> 00:37:33,188
and I'd just kind of be like,
yeah and kind of run off.

688
00:37:36,740 --> 00:37:38,939
(Giggling)

689
00:37:38,940 --> 00:37:41,339
It's not normal, you're
not normal and stuff,

690
00:37:41,340 --> 00:37:44,549
the kind of things that would
go around my head at the time.

691
00:37:44,620 --> 00:37:48,227
(Laughs)

692
00:37:54,020 --> 00:37:55,067
- Hello again.

693
00:37:55,140 --> 00:37:55,499
- Hi.

694
00:37:55,500 --> 00:37:57,070
- It's gonna be a very
crowded room tonight.

695
00:37:57,380 --> 00:37:59,144
- I just want to see her a little bit

696
00:37:59,220 --> 00:38:02,508
then we'll give you the space.

697
00:38:02,860 --> 00:38:04,146
- Do you want to have a sing through?

698
00:38:04,220 --> 00:38:05,107
Are you warmed up and ready to go?

699
00:38:05,180 --> 00:38:06,499
Have you done any singing this
afternoon?

700
00:38:06,500 --> 00:38:07,501
- Not today.

701
00:38:07,620 --> 00:38:08,419
- Not today, alright,

702
00:38:08,420 --> 00:38:10,468
let's do a little bit of singing
today.

703
00:38:10,580 --> 00:38:12,184
Might need to get rid of the chewing
gum.

704
00:38:12,260 --> 00:38:13,625
There's tissue up the
top of the shelf there.

705
00:38:14,100 --> 00:38:15,431
Alright, so are you guys both staying

706
00:38:15,500 --> 00:38:17,150
or are you gonna...

707
00:38:17,220 --> 00:38:19,029
- Don't you wanna listen to her
singing?

708
00:38:19,100 --> 00:38:20,784
- Oh you wanna hear her sing first.

709
00:38:20,900 --> 00:38:22,265
Alright no worries.

710
00:38:22,340 --> 00:38:25,105
- I'll have a little
listen and then I'll go.

711
00:38:25,820 --> 00:38:30,667
(Piano music)

712
00:38:33,540 --> 00:38:36,908
- What about if we look at,
let's get that out for a second.

713
00:38:37,180 --> 00:38:38,545
Let's time this.

714
00:38:42,260 --> 00:38:44,831
When you sing it at home,
how much louder is it?

715
00:38:44,900 --> 00:38:47,379
- Quite a bit louder.

716
00:38:47,380 --> 00:38:49,906
- Quite a bit louder, is it? (Laughs)

717
00:38:49,980 --> 00:38:52,219
So do you think maybe we
should have a crack at

718
00:38:52,220 --> 00:38:55,030
trying to get it a quite a
bit louder in here as well?

719
00:38:55,180 --> 00:38:56,227
- Maybe.

720
00:38:56,300 --> 00:38:57,904
- We'll have a go at it eh?

721
00:39:02,620 --> 00:39:05,385
- I sing better in my room, in the
shower,

722
00:39:05,460 --> 00:39:08,145
not in front of a crowd of people.

723
00:39:10,940 --> 00:39:14,945
(Singing)

724
00:39:36,900 --> 00:39:39,062
- How are you, come on through.

725
00:39:39,140 --> 00:39:41,871
- [Ebony] I'm very nervous
about the audition.

726
00:39:45,340 --> 00:39:47,627
I'm scared that I don't get in.

727
00:39:53,700 --> 00:39:56,351
- Ebony come here, Ebony.

728
00:39:56,420 --> 00:39:58,184
Have a practise song.

729
00:40:04,100 --> 00:40:05,139
Please?

730
00:40:05,140 --> 00:40:05,948
- No.

731
00:40:06,020 --> 00:40:07,624
- You need the practise, go on.

732
00:40:11,060 --> 00:40:12,585
You need to get over your nerves.

733
00:40:14,020 --> 00:40:15,829
Practise what you're gonna
do for your audition.

734
00:40:18,580 --> 00:40:20,579
- Actually they're afraid
of everybody laughing.

735
00:40:20,580 --> 00:40:21,866
- No one's gonna laugh.

736
00:40:21,940 --> 00:40:23,066
Just your little brother.

737
00:40:23,140 --> 00:40:25,666
And that's okay, I'll
put a hand over his mouth

738
00:40:25,740 --> 00:40:27,185
and you'll be fine.

739
00:40:28,460 --> 00:40:29,859
- Don't wanna do it.

740
00:40:29,860 --> 00:40:30,782
- Why?

741
00:40:35,260 --> 00:40:36,227
That's ridiculous.

742
00:40:37,300 --> 00:40:38,381
Come on, please?

743
00:40:38,460 --> 00:40:40,303
Just go brush your teeth
and go pop on to bed.

744
00:40:40,380 --> 00:40:41,791
Off you go.

745
00:40:43,620 --> 00:40:45,065
Night, chicken!

746
00:40:45,140 --> 00:40:46,301
- Night.

747
00:40:49,500 --> 00:40:51,939
- She needs to build
up some more confidence

748
00:40:51,940 --> 00:40:53,908
and do things that make
her feel uncomfortable.

749
00:40:53,980 --> 00:40:57,179
She chucked tantrums at her teachers

750
00:40:57,180 --> 00:41:00,343
and stood there at Riverside Theatre,

751
00:41:00,420 --> 00:41:02,343
where she's performing
in a combined choir,

752
00:41:02,420 --> 00:41:04,059
with her arms crossed looking pissed
off

753
00:41:04,060 --> 00:41:05,505
because she didn't want to sing a
song.

754
00:41:06,580 --> 00:41:08,070
Not because she didn't want to sing,

755
00:41:08,140 --> 00:41:09,585
because she didn't like the song.

756
00:41:09,780 --> 00:41:11,111
She needs to be pushed to do things

757
00:41:11,180 --> 00:41:12,705
that make her feel a
little bit uncomfortable.

758
00:41:13,580 --> 00:41:15,708
â™ª To those who ground me

759
00:41:15,780 --> 00:41:18,943
â™ª Take a message back from me

760
00:41:20,100 --> 00:41:23,024
â™ª And nobody in all of Oz

761
00:41:23,100 --> 00:41:26,579
â™ª No wizard that there is or was

762
00:41:26,580 --> 00:41:33,589
â™ª is ever gonna bring me down â™ª

763
00:41:37,140 --> 00:41:38,107
(Child cries)

764
00:41:38,780 --> 00:41:40,059
What's wrong with him?

765
00:41:40,060 --> 00:41:41,550
(Child cries)

766
00:41:41,620 --> 00:41:43,065
What's happened?

767
00:41:43,140 --> 00:41:44,630
- He's just had a seizure.

768
00:41:50,900 --> 00:41:52,470
- It's okay.

769
00:41:52,540 --> 00:41:54,144
Your sissie's got you.

770
00:41:55,580 --> 00:41:58,345
(Loud cries)

771
00:42:20,820 --> 00:42:22,390
- It's alright, go do your practise.

772
00:42:22,460 --> 00:42:24,224
- Go do your practise, it's alright.

773
00:42:27,060 --> 00:42:28,099
- Guh guh ood.

774
00:42:28,100 --> 00:42:29,784
- Okay Graham, honey,

775
00:42:31,300 --> 00:42:31,869
what are our three rules.

776
00:42:31,940 --> 00:42:34,864
- Slow down, don't guess, read
until the end of the word.

777
00:42:34,940 --> 00:42:35,659
- Right.

778
00:42:35,660 --> 00:42:37,310
What's the last letter there
at the end of the word there?

779
00:42:38,420 --> 00:42:39,148
Is it a D?

780
00:42:39,980 --> 00:42:41,220
- N.

781
00:42:42,300 --> 00:42:44,223
- Okay Graham, the word is diet.

782
00:42:44,300 --> 00:42:45,745
- Diet, his diet.

783
00:42:45,820 --> 00:42:47,584
- It's not his at all, it's this.

784
00:42:47,660 --> 00:42:49,071
- This diet gave him.

785
00:42:49,140 --> 00:42:50,141
- Slow, stop.

786
00:42:50,220 --> 00:42:51,949
Start at the beginning, slow down

787
00:42:52,020 --> 00:42:53,829
and don't guess.

788
00:42:53,900 --> 00:42:54,628
- His.

789
00:42:54,700 --> 00:42:56,543
- It's not his honey, it's this.

790
00:42:57,260 --> 00:42:59,467
- This diet gave him a

791
00:42:59,540 --> 00:43:04,228
tuh, tummy ache

792
00:43:04,620 --> 00:43:09,945
and a breath tempoor...

793
00:43:10,300 --> 00:43:12,906
- So his diet gave him a beastly
temper.

794
00:43:12,980 --> 00:43:13,742
Alright?

795
00:43:13,820 --> 00:43:14,867
Okay, let's keep going.

796
00:43:15,220 --> 00:43:17,587
Just, okay my thoughts are

797
00:43:18,140 --> 00:43:20,905
to start inquiring about
the resources we might need.

798
00:43:21,220 --> 00:43:23,951
And if that's a teacher that's
retired

799
00:43:24,020 --> 00:43:26,219
or a young teacher at the university,
or.

800
00:43:26,220 --> 00:43:26,948
- Yeah.

801
00:43:27,740 --> 00:43:28,309
- Someone.

802
00:43:28,860 --> 00:43:30,464
Someone who's studying teaching,

803
00:43:30,540 --> 00:43:32,508
someone who's studying speech
therapy,

804
00:43:32,580 --> 00:43:35,231
someone who's studying learning,
whatever.

805
00:43:35,300 --> 00:43:36,819
- And we just need to let them know

806
00:43:36,820 --> 00:43:41,621
that he just couldn't speak
when he came to live with us.

807
00:43:41,700 --> 00:43:44,579
That all he had were
vowel sounds, you know,

808
00:43:44,580 --> 00:43:46,184
and like hand signals.

809
00:43:46,820 --> 00:43:49,107
But it's important that
they know that it was

810
00:43:49,700 --> 00:43:53,421
that extreme and that he's done so
well

811
00:43:53,500 --> 00:43:57,824
but that he really was
at this real disadvantage

812
00:43:57,900 --> 00:44:03,270
without being about to speak
at age five or whatever.

813
00:44:10,660 --> 00:44:14,870
- They proudly sang their song,
proudly.

814
00:44:25,740 --> 00:44:30,507
(Melancholy music)

815
00:44:43,100 --> 00:44:44,147
- Yeah.

816
00:44:44,220 --> 00:44:45,460
Who's the taxi?

817
00:44:45,540 --> 00:44:46,507
- How's school?

818
00:44:46,580 --> 00:44:47,263
- Eh.

819
00:44:50,100 --> 00:44:52,865
When I saw my test score I was a bit
sad

820
00:44:52,940 --> 00:44:55,591
because it was a bit low.

821
00:45:00,300 --> 00:45:05,431
I got like, five, no four wrong.

822
00:45:05,500 --> 00:45:06,740
That's all.

823
00:45:06,820 --> 00:45:08,310
- You got four wrong out of six.

824
00:45:08,380 --> 00:45:09,427
- Yeah.

825
00:45:09,500 --> 00:45:10,467
- That's a lot.

826
00:45:10,540 --> 00:45:11,746
- I know that is, but.

827
00:45:11,820 --> 00:45:13,231
- What subject was it.

828
00:45:14,180 --> 00:45:19,186
- It was, like you read it
then you answer questions.

829
00:45:19,260 --> 00:45:20,779
It's like there's book.

830
00:45:20,780 --> 00:45:21,781
- Reading comprehension.

831
00:45:21,860 --> 00:45:22,543
- Yeah.

832
00:45:24,620 --> 00:45:26,224
- And do you just have to fill in a
word

833
00:45:26,300 --> 00:45:27,381
or do you write sentences?

834
00:45:27,460 --> 00:45:28,188
- Sentences.

835
00:45:30,060 --> 00:45:31,619
- Okay, it sounds like.

836
00:45:31,620 --> 00:45:33,110
- I only got like, two correct.

837
00:45:33,180 --> 00:45:36,468
- It sounds like that's
really a hard thing to do,

838
00:45:36,540 --> 00:45:37,462
is that right?

839
00:45:37,540 --> 00:45:38,302
- Mhm.

840
00:45:40,060 --> 00:45:41,141
It doesn't care Dad.

841
00:45:41,220 --> 00:45:42,585
It's not that much.

842
00:45:43,660 --> 00:45:44,579
- Okay.

843
00:45:44,580 --> 00:45:46,469
And what about the other
kids in your class?

844
00:45:46,660 --> 00:45:48,264
Is it a hard thing for
them, do you reckon?

845
00:45:48,340 --> 00:45:50,422
- No, I don't know.

846
00:45:51,060 --> 00:45:53,301
'Cause we had to do it separately.

847
00:45:53,820 --> 00:45:55,663
- You don't know how
the other kids scored?

848
00:45:55,740 --> 00:45:57,390
- No one got the top marks, no.

849
00:45:57,460 --> 00:45:59,144
- Do you know how the other kids
scored?

850
00:46:00,420 --> 00:46:04,061
- Miss said put your hand up if you
know,

851
00:46:04,140 --> 00:46:06,142
if I say your score.

852
00:46:08,660 --> 00:46:10,310
- So were you the lowest
score in the class?

853
00:46:10,380 --> 00:46:11,302
- Yeah kind of.

854
00:46:11,940 --> 00:46:12,827
- More than kind of, like yes.

855
00:46:12,900 --> 00:46:13,901
- Yeah.

856
00:47:46,300 --> 00:47:47,381
- Really, I like that.

857
00:47:47,460 --> 00:47:48,029
Graham likes that as well.

858
00:47:57,340 --> 00:47:58,785
- The first time time we found out

859
00:47:58,860 --> 00:48:02,069
about our mum having
dinner with Julia Gillard,

860
00:48:03,460 --> 00:48:05,739
she'd only have it if I'm okay with
it,

861
00:48:05,740 --> 00:48:08,471
because I'm going to a
Catholic high school next year.

862
00:48:11,780 --> 00:48:13,979
And the first thing I said was, Mum,

863
00:48:13,980 --> 00:48:17,951
there's nearly 5,000 kids in Waverley

864
00:48:18,020 --> 00:48:20,939
and not all 5,000 can bully me.

865
00:48:20,940 --> 00:48:24,342
It'll only be about, hopefully none.

866
00:48:27,540 --> 00:48:31,704
Kids sometimes can come up
with better ideas than adults.

867
00:48:32,260 --> 00:48:34,419
They discriminate
against my family, myself

868
00:48:34,420 --> 00:48:36,263
and all other gay families in
Australia.

869
00:48:36,340 --> 00:48:37,830
Does that make sense?

870
00:48:39,180 --> 00:48:41,865
I think that one of mine or Dyl's
ideas

871
00:48:41,940 --> 00:48:44,784
are gonna really move the prime
minister.

872
00:48:47,700 --> 00:48:50,431
And maybe even make gay marriage
legal.

873
00:48:58,300 --> 00:49:01,827
- [Sandy] Dear Lord, please
keep us safe through the night

874
00:49:01,900 --> 00:49:05,268
and please watch over us as
we fly to Canberra tomorrow.

875
00:49:06,900 --> 00:49:10,382
Make sure that all the
conditions are good,

876
00:49:10,460 --> 00:49:12,906
that we don't get hurt.

877
00:49:13,620 --> 00:49:16,464
And that Matthew finds the
answers that he's looking for.

878
00:49:28,660 --> 00:49:29,786
(Camera click)

879
00:49:30,540 --> 00:49:31,871
- Thank you.

880
00:49:35,700 --> 00:49:39,421
- Hi, my name is Matthew
and I am 12 years old.

881
00:49:42,980 --> 00:49:45,221
I have two mums and I am proud.

882
00:49:49,540 --> 00:49:52,828
My school teaches me that you
should never judge someone

883
00:49:52,900 --> 00:49:54,823
just 'cause they don't look like you.

884
00:49:57,860 --> 00:50:01,581
I say this because they call
my mums a sin against God.

885
00:50:02,460 --> 00:50:04,064
- Yes, my darling.

886
00:50:05,580 --> 00:50:08,550
- [Matthew] We have two
loving mums and a loving dad.

887
00:50:09,220 --> 00:50:11,109
- Should I do up my top button?

888
00:50:11,900 --> 00:50:13,743
- I bought this cross when Pop died.

889
00:50:13,820 --> 00:50:14,582
- I know.

890
00:50:14,660 --> 00:50:17,789
- So Pop's coming to the prime
minister's office with me.

891
00:50:17,860 --> 00:50:19,271
- He'd like that.

892
00:50:19,540 --> 00:50:20,268
Are you ready?

893
00:50:20,340 --> 00:50:20,909
- Mhm.

894
00:50:20,980 --> 00:50:21,629
- Sure?

895
00:50:21,700 --> 00:50:22,986
- I've got my phone in my pocket.

896
00:50:23,060 --> 00:50:24,107
- Don't you know I love you.

897
00:50:24,180 --> 00:50:24,783
- Mhm.

898
00:50:24,860 --> 00:50:27,386
I'm gonna send Dad a
text saying wish me luck.

899
00:50:28,620 --> 00:50:31,146
They've all taught us manners,

900
00:50:31,220 --> 00:50:34,030
acceptance of all others no matter
what,

901
00:50:34,100 --> 00:50:36,102
stand up for what we believe.

902
00:50:40,500 --> 00:50:41,547
- You ready?

903
00:50:41,620 --> 00:50:43,384
- No, not at all.

904
00:50:44,460 --> 00:50:45,905
- Don't be nervous,

905
00:50:45,980 --> 00:50:47,709
remember she's just a
person like anybody else.

906
00:50:50,660 --> 00:50:51,821
(Door buzzes)

907
00:50:54,260 --> 00:50:56,388
- [Recording] Let's do
a breathing exercise.

908
00:50:56,460 --> 00:50:58,383
Make sure you keep good posture
throughout

909
00:50:58,460 --> 00:51:00,940
and breathe deeply into
your abdominal area.

910
00:51:01,020 --> 00:51:03,671
Your shoulders and your
chest shouldn't move.

911
00:51:05,060 --> 00:51:10,021
(Child cries loudly)

912
00:51:11,300 --> 00:51:15,271
(Rhythmic music)

913
00:51:16,820 --> 00:51:19,187
(Cries)

914
00:51:19,860 --> 00:51:21,783
- It's just his seizures
were so violent last night

915
00:51:21,860 --> 00:51:23,908
that he has to be held down.

916
00:51:26,820 --> 00:51:28,982
Well it seems I talked to you last
time

917
00:51:29,060 --> 00:51:30,789
and we increased the medicine.

918
00:51:30,860 --> 00:51:32,908
Actually seizures have gotten worse

919
00:51:32,980 --> 00:51:36,826
and last night he had the
worst ones that he'd had.

920
00:51:36,900 --> 00:51:40,268
And they were so violent
that our 12 year old

921
00:51:40,340 --> 00:51:43,901
was holding him to stop
him from throwing himself off

922
00:51:43,980 --> 00:51:45,869
like a little cot.

923
00:51:46,220 --> 00:51:47,259
Yeah.

924
00:51:47,260 --> 00:51:49,467
Okay, thanks.

925
00:51:49,900 --> 00:51:50,742
Bye.

926
00:51:51,620 --> 00:51:53,304
He's gotta get admitted.

927
00:51:54,660 --> 00:51:55,741
And he's gotta stay admitted

928
00:51:55,820 --> 00:51:57,788
'til they can get him into a scan.

929
00:51:57,860 --> 00:51:59,862
They're changing his medication

930
00:52:00,380 --> 00:52:02,064
because it's probably his medication

931
00:52:02,140 --> 00:52:04,142
that's making things worse.

932
00:52:04,700 --> 00:52:06,509
And, yeah.

933
00:52:09,700 --> 00:52:11,702
Um, so I don't know how we're.

934
00:52:11,780 --> 00:52:13,589
- We just have to go in
now, he's being admitted.

935
00:52:13,660 --> 00:52:15,310
- He's being admitted

936
00:52:15,380 --> 00:52:16,950
while they change his medication

937
00:52:17,020 --> 00:52:19,022
because they can't take him off
Figertol

938
00:52:19,100 --> 00:52:22,468
without him being admitted
because he'll have more seizures.

939
00:52:22,540 --> 00:52:26,989
So he's, I'm gonna pack some stuff.

940
00:52:38,380 --> 00:52:40,542
- I'm sorry mum, I should
have timed it exactly.

941
00:52:40,620 --> 00:52:41,462
- No no no.

942
00:52:41,540 --> 00:52:42,951
Not your fault.

943
00:53:14,820 --> 00:53:17,790
(Child screams)

944
00:53:17,860 --> 00:53:19,510
- Listen, sit down.

945
00:53:20,020 --> 00:53:21,510
Sit down!

946
00:53:21,580 --> 00:53:24,265
Don't piss me off by not
looking at me with respect,

947
00:53:24,340 --> 00:53:27,105
you know you're making that
funny eye thing and grinning.

948
00:53:27,180 --> 00:53:28,989
Now listen, both of you.

949
00:53:30,900 --> 00:53:33,267
Listen up, sit up, okay?

950
00:53:33,340 --> 00:53:34,671
This involves you too.

951
00:53:34,740 --> 00:53:35,502
Look at me.

952
00:53:35,580 --> 00:53:37,309
I can't see, it that where
the piano was getting you?

953
00:53:37,380 --> 00:53:38,108
- Yes.

954
00:53:38,180 --> 00:53:40,626
- Okay, I'm putting a ban on
you wrestling with your sister.

955
00:53:40,700 --> 00:53:42,065
- And Rory, I'm putting a ban.
- Fine.

956
00:53:42,140 --> 00:53:44,108
- Listen, no, I'm not finished, okay?

957
00:53:44,180 --> 00:53:46,467
This is not the first time, okay?

958
00:53:46,540 --> 00:53:49,020
She's the one that always ends up
crying.

959
00:53:49,100 --> 00:53:51,341
I'm not saying it's always
you trying to hurt her,

960
00:53:51,420 --> 00:53:52,706
I'm just saying Gus,

961
00:53:52,780 --> 00:53:55,226
that you wrestle her like
you wrestle your friends

962
00:53:55,300 --> 00:53:58,224
and I know she's quite strong,
but you're much bigger,

963
00:53:58,300 --> 00:54:00,906
you're much stronger and you're
much more skilful at it.

964
00:54:00,980 --> 00:54:02,903
Sit down or go to bed!

965
00:54:02,980 --> 00:54:04,186
- I will go to bed.

966
00:54:04,260 --> 00:54:05,341
- Okay, goodnight, okay?

967
00:54:05,420 --> 00:54:07,866
Jen, Gus is going to bed for the
night.

968
00:54:07,940 --> 00:54:08,509
- Enough.

969
00:54:08,580 --> 00:54:10,309
- No I'm saying enough, okay?

970
00:54:10,380 --> 00:54:12,348
Now listen, no more
wrestling with your brother,

971
00:54:12,420 --> 00:54:14,149
don't you make him wrestle you.

972
00:54:14,220 --> 00:54:15,506
(Cries)

973
00:54:15,580 --> 00:54:16,911
Do you understand?

974
00:54:16,980 --> 00:54:18,061
Don't make him wrestle you.

975
00:54:18,140 --> 00:54:19,107
I don't want you to be hurt,

976
00:54:19,180 --> 00:54:20,705
I don't want you to hurt him,

977
00:54:20,780 --> 00:54:23,260
you're too rough with
it, okay, both of you

978
00:54:23,340 --> 00:54:25,342
and it's not okay anymore.

979
00:54:25,420 --> 00:54:27,502
Okay, do you understand mum?

980
00:54:27,580 --> 00:54:29,423
Do you understand me?

981
00:54:29,500 --> 00:54:32,549
Everyday I have to stop you being
hurt

982
00:54:32,620 --> 00:54:34,782
because you wrestle.

983
00:54:35,340 --> 00:54:36,910
(Cries)

984
00:54:36,980 --> 00:54:38,470
Okay?

985
00:54:44,620 --> 00:54:46,349
Okay Gus, I'm just reiterating

986
00:54:46,420 --> 00:54:47,945
that there is a wrestling ban.

987
00:54:48,020 --> 00:54:48,942
(Gus moans)

988
00:54:49,020 --> 00:54:50,909
There is a wrestling ban in this
house

989
00:54:50,980 --> 00:54:52,311
on you and your sister.

990
00:54:52,380 --> 00:54:54,144
Don't you silence me son

991
00:54:54,220 --> 00:54:55,904
or you'll bloody be grounded for a
week.

992
00:54:55,980 --> 00:54:57,584
Put your head out there

993
00:54:57,660 --> 00:54:59,981
and look at me so I can
tell you what's going on.

994
00:55:00,060 --> 00:55:01,300
- Tell me now.

995
00:55:01,380 --> 00:55:03,826
- I'm saying there is a ban on
wrestling

996
00:55:03,900 --> 00:55:05,425
between you and your sister.

997
00:55:05,500 --> 00:55:06,422
- You told me that.

998
00:55:06,500 --> 00:55:07,626
- Okay, do you understand it?

999
00:55:07,700 --> 00:55:08,383
Yes!

1000
00:55:08,460 --> 00:55:09,029
- Is that clear?

1001
00:55:09,100 --> 00:55:09,703
Yes!

1002
00:55:09,780 --> 00:55:10,588
- Will you abide by that?

1003
00:55:10,660 --> 00:55:11,070
Yes!

1004
00:55:11,140 --> 00:55:12,630
- Right, now come and
do your piano practise.

1005
00:55:12,700 --> 00:55:13,622
(Gus shouts)

1006
00:55:13,700 --> 00:55:15,350
Okay then you stay there
and go to bed for the night.

1007
00:55:15,420 --> 00:55:15,989
- Fine!

1008
00:55:16,060 --> 00:55:17,300
I'm reading!

1009
00:55:17,380 --> 00:55:18,905
I wanna read!

1010
00:55:20,300 --> 00:55:22,382
- Don't speak to me like that Gus.

1011
00:55:22,460 --> 00:55:24,622
Do not talk over the top of me, okay?

1012
00:55:24,700 --> 00:55:27,271
I'm angry, I get upset every day

1013
00:55:27,340 --> 00:55:29,547
I have to adjudicate this rumbling.

1014
00:55:29,620 --> 00:55:32,146
Now I know you don't mean it, okay?

1015
00:55:32,220 --> 00:55:33,710
But you're too big.

1016
00:55:33,780 --> 00:55:35,509
You're too big to wrestle with her

1017
00:55:35,580 --> 00:55:37,230
unless you can do it in a playful way

1018
00:55:37,300 --> 00:55:40,031
Where you're very careful,
it's not gonna happen anymore.

1019
00:55:40,100 --> 00:55:41,226
Okay?

1020
00:55:41,300 --> 00:55:43,746
So over and out with the bloody
wrestling.

1021
00:55:48,180 --> 00:55:50,467
Jen do you have an
opinion on that or what?

1022
00:55:50,540 --> 00:55:51,701
Am I overreacting or what?

1023
00:55:51,780 --> 00:55:52,463
I'm sick of it, you know,

1024
00:55:52,540 --> 00:55:53,871
someone's gonna break something.

1025
00:55:53,940 --> 00:55:57,501
It would be good if you
actually contributed your say.

1026
00:55:58,580 --> 00:56:01,106
- Okay, I agree with you darling.

1027
00:56:01,180 --> 00:56:03,990
It is true, they're too rough.

1028
00:56:05,580 --> 00:56:09,665
Rory need to stop because
she also talks Gus into.

1029
00:56:09,740 --> 00:56:11,868
- No I know she does.
- Just saying.

1030
00:56:11,940 --> 00:56:14,102
- That's what I was saying to her,
enough,

1031
00:56:14,180 --> 00:56:15,944
enough from everybody.

1032
00:56:17,020 --> 00:56:18,784
(Knocks)

1033
00:56:23,580 --> 00:56:24,627
- [GUS] Rory.

1034
00:56:25,260 --> 00:56:25,829
- What.

1035
00:56:25,900 --> 00:56:27,470
- What do you want?

1036
00:56:34,460 --> 00:56:35,791
Yeah?

1037
00:56:49,580 --> 00:56:51,264
- [Mum] Stay here and behave
yourself.

1038
00:56:51,340 --> 00:56:52,019
- Okay.

1039
00:56:52,020 --> 00:56:53,260
- Behave self.

1040
00:56:53,340 --> 00:56:54,705
Beehive.

1041
00:56:58,700 --> 00:57:03,308
(Dramatic music)

1042
00:57:08,020 --> 00:57:10,990
(Chatter)

1043
00:57:17,620 --> 00:57:20,464
- But if like, if there's an accident

1044
00:57:20,540 --> 00:57:23,430
or someone with a bigger emergency

1045
00:57:23,500 --> 00:57:25,980
then he'll get bumped to Tuesday.

1046
00:57:26,060 --> 00:57:31,021
But they're taking him
in until he has his MRI.

1047
00:57:43,460 --> 00:57:45,542
- [Ebony] Mum doesn't cry often

1048
00:57:45,620 --> 00:57:47,270
but she got me worried.

1049
00:57:51,300 --> 00:57:53,109
One or two of the doctors are saying

1050
00:57:53,180 --> 00:57:56,263
that it might not be epilepsy
because he's too intelligent,

1051
00:57:56,340 --> 00:57:59,583
he's right handed instead of left
handed.

1052
00:58:02,380 --> 00:58:04,542
Only thing that really
fits in with the epilepsy

1053
00:58:04,620 --> 00:58:06,543
is that he's having seizures.

1054
00:58:15,980 --> 00:58:17,266
- [Jamie] Do we have a family
agreement

1055
00:58:17,340 --> 00:58:18,910
to look after each other differently?

1056
00:58:19,580 --> 00:58:20,388
Yeah?

1057
00:58:20,780 --> 00:58:21,827
- No wrestling.

1058
00:58:21,900 --> 00:58:23,106
- No wrestling?

1059
00:58:23,180 --> 00:58:24,466
Okay, shazaam.

1060
00:58:24,700 --> 00:58:27,624
- I don't think anyone, I
don't think Rory and Gus,

1061
00:58:27,700 --> 00:58:29,623
are committed to no wrestling.

1062
00:58:29,700 --> 00:58:30,826
Am I right or wrong?

1063
00:58:31,100 --> 00:58:32,465
- I think rumbling is really nice

1064
00:58:32,540 --> 00:58:34,622
- but Gus gets her in headlocks.
- I know!

1065
00:58:34,700 --> 00:58:35,747
- Which I constantly worry about.

1066
00:58:35,820 --> 00:58:39,142
- Rory is constantly attacking
him and wanting to wrestle.

1067
00:58:39,220 --> 00:58:41,985
I think it's really hard to
have an absolute blanket rule.

1068
00:58:42,060 --> 00:58:44,745
I think what we want is smaller
rules,

1069
00:58:44,820 --> 00:58:47,664
like no arms around the head.

1070
00:58:47,740 --> 00:58:50,664
Doing absolutely nothing
like picking her up

1071
00:58:50,740 --> 00:58:53,220
which can put the weight on her neck.

1072
00:58:54,700 --> 00:58:56,225
- No punching!

1073
00:58:56,300 --> 00:58:57,028
No punching, just hitting.

1074
00:58:58,180 --> 00:58:59,750
- [Gus] No weapons.

1075
00:59:00,260 --> 00:59:02,024
- [Jen] No punching's good.

1076
00:59:02,100 --> 00:59:04,421
- No punching, just hitting. (Laughs)

1077
00:59:04,500 --> 00:59:05,865
That's not a great rule.

1078
00:59:05,940 --> 00:59:07,465
You shouldn't punch or hit anyway.

1079
00:59:07,540 --> 00:59:08,621
- Like this.

1080
00:59:08,700 --> 00:59:10,668
- What about tickling instead
of hitting or punching?

1081
00:59:10,740 --> 00:59:11,423
- [Gus] Alright.

1082
00:59:11,500 --> 00:59:13,901
- So Gus, what are the rules for you
now?

1083
00:59:13,980 --> 00:59:16,426
- Um, I'm not allowed to
have my hand around her neck.

1084
00:59:17,740 --> 00:59:20,186
- Absolutely not, and?

1085
00:59:21,380 --> 00:59:24,384
- And I'm not allowed
to put her on her head.

1086
00:59:24,900 --> 00:59:26,231
- [Rory] I got a great rule!

1087
00:59:26,900 --> 00:59:27,981
No pinching.

1088
00:59:29,580 --> 00:59:31,344
- Well you wouldn't
pinch anyway, would you.

1089
00:59:31,420 --> 00:59:32,831
- [Gus] Rory you're the one who
pinches.

1090
00:59:32,900 --> 00:59:35,744
- [Jen] Rory does pinch so
let her add rules to the list.

1091
00:59:35,820 --> 00:59:38,061
No pinching, that's a good rule.

1092
00:59:38,140 --> 00:59:39,266
Anything else?

1093
00:59:39,340 --> 00:59:41,342
- Do you know when you
play with your big brother.

1094
00:59:41,420 --> 00:59:42,581
- No kicking?

1095
00:59:42,660 --> 00:59:43,900
- And when you play
with your little sister

1096
00:59:43,980 --> 00:59:48,269
it's gotta be fun and fair
and kind to each other, okay?

1097
00:59:48,340 --> 00:59:51,549
- The biggest person has
to take responsibility

1098
00:59:51,620 --> 00:59:54,703
for the littlest person getting hurt.

1099
00:59:55,940 --> 00:59:58,784
(Giggling)

1100
01:00:01,580 --> 01:00:03,184
- Do the kitty, walk,

1101
01:00:03,260 --> 01:00:04,830
kick me and then do the kitty.

1102
01:00:07,540 --> 01:00:09,861
Oh my god, kick cat!

1103
01:00:09,940 --> 01:00:11,908
Do another kick cat roll.

1104
01:00:13,420 --> 01:00:14,990
- I'm doing it again.

1105
01:00:19,260 --> 01:00:21,501
- One two three.

1106
01:00:24,820 --> 01:00:26,822
Winner, kitty!

1107
01:00:30,740 --> 01:00:32,788
- Okay, I'm gonna wake Ebony up.

1108
01:00:32,860 --> 01:00:33,747
- Yeah!

1109
01:00:33,820 --> 01:00:34,742
- Yep.

1110
01:00:39,940 --> 01:00:41,624
(Yawns)

1111
01:00:41,700 --> 01:00:43,384
Yeah, it's time to wake up.

1112
01:00:43,460 --> 01:00:44,905
- I know.

1113
01:00:56,420 --> 01:01:01,267
(Rhythmic pop music)

1114
01:01:01,340 --> 01:01:03,820
â™ª One and two and three and four and
five

1115
01:01:03,900 --> 01:01:06,221
â™ª and six and seven and eight and
nine

1116
01:01:06,300 --> 01:01:09,622
â™ª and 10 and 11 and 12 and 13 â™ª

1117
01:01:17,100 --> 01:01:21,742
- Come here, I want you
to wear this special thing

1118
01:01:21,820 --> 01:01:23,788
for good luck.

1119
01:01:24,220 --> 01:01:25,984
It's an ankh.

1120
01:01:33,020 --> 01:01:34,624
You excited?

1121
01:01:34,700 --> 01:01:35,826
You nervous?

1122
01:01:35,900 --> 01:01:38,221
- I'm too tired to be anything.

1123
01:01:41,220 --> 01:01:46,181
(Melancholy piano music)

1124
01:02:11,900 --> 01:02:13,743
- It's already on the application.

1125
01:02:13,820 --> 01:02:17,222
So tell them because you've got two
mums.

1126
01:02:20,180 --> 01:02:23,423
(Engine sputters)

1127
01:02:28,460 --> 01:02:31,782
You guys might just have
to get out and walk down.

1128
01:02:44,380 --> 01:02:46,701
Because I've run out of gas.

1129
01:02:55,020 --> 01:02:56,670
- It was doing so well.

1130
01:02:56,740 --> 01:03:00,984
- Yeah it's just that I have
to change it while I'm driving.

1131
01:03:14,020 --> 01:03:16,059
(Dramatic piano)

1132
01:03:16,060 --> 01:03:20,861
â™ª There's a fire starting in my heart

1133
01:03:20,940 --> 01:03:25,582
â™ª Reaching a fever pitch and
it's bringing me out the dark

1134
01:03:25,660 --> 01:03:30,109
â™ª Maybe I have no story to be told

1135
01:03:30,180 --> 01:03:32,581
â™ª But I've heard one of you

1136
01:03:32,660 --> 01:03:35,470
â™ª And it's gonna make your head burn

1137
01:03:35,540 --> 01:03:40,068
â™ª The scars of your love remind me of
us

1138
01:03:40,140 --> 01:03:44,509
â™ª They keep me thinking
that we almost had it all

1139
01:03:44,580 --> 01:03:49,188
â™ª We could have had it all

1140
01:03:49,260 --> 01:03:53,788
â™ª Rolling in the deep

1141
01:03:53,860 --> 01:03:58,661
â™ª You had my heart and soul in your
hands

1142
01:03:58,740 --> 01:04:02,059
â™ª But you played it you
played it you played it

1143
01:04:02,060 --> 01:04:06,702
â™ª Played it to the beat â™ª

1144
01:04:09,300 --> 01:04:12,588
(People chatter)

1145
01:04:26,740 --> 01:04:31,701
(Sweet music)

1146
01:04:40,780 --> 01:04:42,623
- Okay bye!

1147
01:04:44,940 --> 01:04:48,911
- Now your third homework
is your writing homework.

1148
01:04:49,020 --> 01:04:50,670
Read the first batch.

1149
01:04:51,260 --> 01:04:55,151
(Children speak together)

1150
01:04:57,820 --> 01:05:00,346
Now you're going to write about you.

1151
01:05:00,420 --> 01:05:03,708
You can write about how
you were brought up,

1152
01:05:03,780 --> 01:05:05,862
your parents, right?

1153
01:05:05,940 --> 01:05:07,351
- Yes.

1154
01:05:07,420 --> 01:05:09,468
- Because in the morning,

1155
01:05:09,540 --> 01:05:11,542
first thing we'll do
when we come to school,

1156
01:05:11,620 --> 01:05:14,624
we'll sit, we'll be prepared to
listen

1157
01:05:14,700 --> 01:05:16,748
to each and every one,

1158
01:05:16,820 --> 01:05:20,302
to stand up here, read
about what you've written.

1159
01:05:25,780 --> 01:05:28,351
- [Dad] Don't you wanna do homework?

1160
01:05:28,420 --> 01:05:29,706
- Yeah.

1161
01:05:38,340 --> 01:05:42,948
(Sad music)

1162
01:05:51,460 --> 01:05:54,384
- Dad and I are desperate for you

1163
01:05:54,460 --> 01:05:57,384
to be the best kid that you can be.

1164
01:05:58,340 --> 01:06:00,946
And the best student that you can be.

1165
01:06:01,940 --> 01:06:05,069
We think that you're a clever, smart
boy

1166
01:06:05,140 --> 01:06:08,622
who when he tries hard,
he gets great results.

1167
01:06:10,420 --> 01:06:11,546
Alright?

1168
01:06:12,020 --> 01:06:13,226
Come on.

1169
01:06:13,300 --> 01:06:14,631
- I have a desk in there.

1170
01:06:14,700 --> 01:06:16,748
- You do, why don't you go in there.

1171
01:06:16,820 --> 01:06:18,549
And if you wanted to really be
pedantic,

1172
01:06:18,620 --> 01:06:20,622
which means give a lot of detail.

1173
01:06:20,700 --> 01:06:21,587
- I know that.

1174
01:06:21,660 --> 01:06:23,947
- You can say things
like I have hazel eyes.

1175
01:06:24,020 --> 01:06:24,669
- I have two dads.

1176
01:06:24,740 --> 01:06:26,583
- And I'm this tall
and I weigh this much.

1177
01:06:26,660 --> 01:06:28,071
- And I have two dads?

1178
01:06:28,140 --> 01:06:29,744
- Well you could say that.

1179
01:06:29,820 --> 01:06:31,709
Do you want to say that?

1180
01:06:31,780 --> 01:06:33,020
- Sometimes, but.

1181
01:06:33,100 --> 01:06:33,783
- That's alright.

1182
01:06:33,860 --> 01:06:34,543
- Nah.

1183
01:06:34,620 --> 01:06:36,509
- You don't need to tell people
anything

1184
01:06:36,580 --> 01:06:38,662
that they don't need to know,
alright?

1185
01:06:38,740 --> 01:06:41,107
It's called a need to know basis,
Graham.

1186
01:06:41,180 --> 01:06:43,786
And this is important
for you to understand.

1187
01:06:43,860 --> 01:06:46,511
There are things that are appropriate

1188
01:06:46,580 --> 01:06:49,629
to tell people at particular times.

1189
01:06:50,260 --> 01:06:53,104
And sometimes that's
age-appropriate, alright,

1190
01:06:53,180 --> 01:06:55,387
like when we were foster carers
there were certain things

1191
01:06:55,460 --> 01:06:59,909
that we knew about your
history that we were not,

1192
01:06:59,980 --> 01:07:04,827
that we did not discuss
with you, because it wasn't.

1193
01:07:04,900 --> 01:07:06,106
- What was it.

1194
01:07:06,180 --> 01:07:07,705
- It wasn't age-appropriate.

1195
01:07:07,780 --> 01:07:09,066
Well we've discussed everything with
you

1196
01:07:09,140 --> 01:07:10,551
at the appropriate ages.

1197
01:07:10,620 --> 01:07:11,951
And there'll be things that we'll
discuss

1198
01:07:12,020 --> 01:07:13,465
with you when you're 18

1199
01:07:13,540 --> 01:07:16,066
that we haven't discussed
with you up to that point.

1200
01:07:16,140 --> 01:07:18,142
So do you see what I'm saying?

1201
01:07:18,220 --> 01:07:20,427
There's certain things
that are important to tell

1202
01:07:20,500 --> 01:07:23,424
and there's certain things
that are not important to tell.

1203
01:07:23,500 --> 01:07:25,025
- Yes, let's start writing.

1204
01:07:25,100 --> 01:07:26,465
All about me.

1205
01:07:26,540 --> 01:07:28,429
Name.

1206
01:07:35,380 --> 01:07:36,541
- Good.

1207
01:07:37,380 --> 01:07:39,382
- Funny.

1208
01:07:46,140 --> 01:07:47,710
- That's beautiful handwriting.

1209
01:07:49,140 --> 01:07:52,986
Oh is O, uh is U.

1210
01:07:56,860 --> 01:08:00,182
Listen again, ih.

1211
01:08:03,660 --> 01:08:04,388
Her.

1212
01:08:04,460 --> 01:08:05,143
- ER.

1213
01:08:05,220 --> 01:08:06,506
- Yes.

1214
01:08:08,860 --> 01:08:13,627
(Sweet music)

1215
01:08:23,380 --> 01:08:27,590
- The word is adjective,
you chose that word.

1216
01:08:47,340 --> 01:08:48,944
- They're in bed.

1217
01:08:50,220 --> 01:08:52,541
You're looking at a screen.

1218
01:08:54,580 --> 01:08:56,708
Fore pool or swim pool?

1219
01:08:56,780 --> 01:08:57,827
Swim pool.

1220
01:08:57,900 --> 01:08:59,550
Let's go. (Laughs)

1221
01:09:27,580 --> 01:09:30,709
- Now, did you do your writing
homework?

1222
01:09:30,780 --> 01:09:31,986
- Yes.

1223
01:09:32,060 --> 01:09:36,304
- All about me, okay?

1224
01:09:36,380 --> 01:09:37,666
All about me.

1225
01:09:37,740 --> 01:09:41,019
You should have enjoyed that
time writing about yourself.

1226
01:09:41,020 --> 01:09:42,704
Let me give the honour

1227
01:09:42,780 --> 01:09:45,386
of the very first person to come up
here.

1228
01:09:45,460 --> 01:09:47,747
It will be Graham.

1229
01:09:47,820 --> 01:09:52,781
(Clapping)

1230
01:09:58,540 --> 01:10:01,146
- Hello class and teachers.

1231
01:10:01,220 --> 01:10:02,745
- Hello Graham.

1232
01:10:11,820 --> 01:10:14,585
- My name is Graham Wilkinson
and I'm 12 years old.

1233
01:10:14,660 --> 01:10:18,631
I am funny, bouncy,
excitable, happy, friendly and

1234
01:10:26,700 --> 01:10:28,111
(Children laugh)

1235
01:10:28,180 --> 01:10:29,909
My favourite sport is soccer.

1236
01:10:29,980 --> 01:10:32,301
The first time I played
soccer was six years ago.

1237
01:10:32,380 --> 01:10:35,145
My team was in Sydney, the Red
Devils.

1238
01:10:35,220 --> 01:10:36,506
I told you I was evil.

1239
01:10:36,580 --> 01:10:37,911
(Children laugh)

1240
01:10:37,980 --> 01:10:41,541
I wish I had a dog because
it would protect me

1241
01:10:43,780 --> 01:10:48,342
and I would care for it
and feed it and wash it

1242
01:10:48,420 --> 01:10:53,301
and play with it, it
will be called Destroyer.

1243
01:10:53,580 --> 01:10:55,299
(Laughs)

1244
01:10:55,300 --> 01:10:59,271
The favourite part of my life
is playing on computers:

1245
01:10:59,580 --> 01:11:02,629
Wii, Xbox and iPad.

1246
01:11:03,660 --> 01:11:06,982
My favourite game is
Minecraft and Terreria.

1247
01:11:07,900 --> 01:11:11,905
Thank you for listening,
class and teachers.

1248
01:11:11,980 --> 01:11:14,381
I'm happy to live in Fiji.

1249
01:11:15,700 --> 01:11:20,228
(Clapping)

1250
01:11:25,180 --> 01:11:27,387
(Giggling)

1251
01:11:27,460 --> 01:11:29,189
Hold on.

1252
01:11:35,340 --> 01:11:37,069
- Thank you, have a nice night.

1253
01:11:39,260 --> 01:11:40,341
- How was that?

1254
01:11:40,420 --> 01:11:41,467
- It was good.

1255
01:11:41,540 --> 01:11:42,541
- Yeah, feeling good?

1256
01:11:42,620 --> 01:11:43,906
- Do you think she was nice?

1257
01:11:43,980 --> 01:11:45,470
- Yeah, really nice.

1258
01:11:46,020 --> 01:11:48,705
- Well when I first saw
her I stuttered a bit

1259
01:11:48,780 --> 01:11:51,545
so I didn't say what I
was actually going to say.

1260
01:11:51,620 --> 01:11:55,386
So I just said hi, I'm
Matthew and then we gave her

1261
01:11:55,460 --> 01:11:58,589
her letter, the flowers and the
chocolate

1262
01:11:58,660 --> 01:12:01,584
and she said thank you, and yeah.

1263
01:12:01,660 --> 01:12:05,107
What I wanted to say to her at
the start after I greeted her

1264
01:12:05,180 --> 01:12:08,389
I wanted to say that, to tell
you the truth Miss Gillard,

1265
01:12:08,460 --> 01:12:10,986
I'm really honoured to
be here, but then again

1266
01:12:11,060 --> 01:12:13,825
I think it's pretty stupid
to be here right now

1267
01:12:13,900 --> 01:12:17,461
because this argument, this debate,

1268
01:12:17,540 --> 01:12:19,304
shouldn't have even been started out.

1269
01:12:19,380 --> 01:12:22,384
It should have just been,
it shouldn't have been a law

1270
01:12:22,460 --> 01:12:25,111
that two people that are
in a same-sex relationship

1271
01:12:25,180 --> 01:12:27,262
can't get married.

1272
01:12:29,220 --> 01:12:30,710
- Thanks boys.

1273
01:12:31,980 --> 01:12:34,108
- [Sandy] He's just growing
up too fast at the moment.

1274
01:12:34,180 --> 01:12:35,944
These funny little
habits, like you give him,

1275
01:12:36,020 --> 01:12:38,261
undress and give his dirty
clothes to put in the laundry.

1276
01:12:38,340 --> 01:12:39,865
I had to leave the room.

1277
01:12:39,940 --> 01:12:41,101
- He's 12.

1278
01:12:41,180 --> 01:12:42,864
- Going past that stage, I know,

1279
01:12:42,940 --> 01:12:44,829
but he's just growing up too fast.

1280
01:12:46,620 --> 01:12:49,385
- What's wrong, you don't get
naked in front of your mum?

1281
01:12:50,340 --> 01:12:51,865
Yeah but I just thought
we had a few more years,

1282
01:12:51,940 --> 01:12:53,863
15 at least, before we got to that
stage.

1283
01:12:55,260 --> 01:12:57,149
What's it gotta be like when you're
12?

1284
01:12:58,740 --> 01:12:59,741
- Hairy.

1285
01:13:00,300 --> 01:13:02,223
(Laughs)

1286
01:13:18,500 --> 01:13:20,343
- There are definitely a few things

1287
01:13:20,420 --> 01:13:21,859
that we have got in common.

1288
01:13:21,860 --> 01:13:23,669
But with religion,

1289
01:13:23,740 --> 01:13:27,904
I think we're two
different people with that.

1290
01:13:30,980 --> 01:13:33,142
- That's really nice, that's great.

1291
01:13:33,220 --> 01:13:34,904
Big smiles for me boys!

1292
01:13:34,980 --> 01:13:36,141
Yeah that's great.

1293
01:13:38,900 --> 01:13:41,221
- [Matt] if I really, really
don't wanna do something,

1294
01:13:41,300 --> 01:13:43,951
then I will stand up to
her and I will say Mum,

1295
01:13:44,020 --> 01:13:46,671
I really don't want to do this.

1296
01:13:56,020 --> 01:13:59,388
Not going to church every Sunday

1297
01:13:59,460 --> 01:14:02,430
it's just one of those
things that, I don't know,

1298
01:14:02,500 --> 01:14:04,150
we just don't go to anymore.

1299
01:14:05,300 --> 01:14:09,703
(Boys shouting)

1300
01:14:10,580 --> 01:14:12,662
I definitely think she's
strong about her religion.

1301
01:14:12,740 --> 01:14:15,584
But I don't think her not
going to church is gonna,

1302
01:14:15,660 --> 01:14:19,267
she's not losing her faith anymore.

1303
01:14:21,420 --> 01:14:25,903
It's just, I don't know,
she just wants to put like,

1304
01:14:27,660 --> 01:14:29,742
the family first.

1305
01:14:49,700 --> 01:14:51,702
- The eight's big, I need
it in like a middle size

1306
01:14:51,780 --> 01:14:53,464
or a six longer.

1307
01:14:56,180 --> 01:14:58,387
- You haven't done these
shoelaces up properly.

1308
01:14:58,460 --> 01:14:59,507
- I know.

1309
01:14:59,580 --> 01:15:02,902
I like thicker shoelaces, they tie
easy.

1310
01:15:04,060 --> 01:15:06,142
- There, is that better?

1311
01:15:08,940 --> 01:15:12,467
- Yeah, not so big on
being a singer anymore.

1312
01:15:13,780 --> 01:15:16,067
Just seems too out of reach.

1313
01:15:19,300 --> 01:15:22,429
Newtown isn't that big
a thing anymore, so.

1314
01:15:23,100 --> 01:15:24,226
I dunno.

1315
01:15:27,340 --> 01:15:29,104
(Laughs)

1316
01:15:32,580 --> 01:15:34,901
- Aw, oh it looks good.

1317
01:15:34,980 --> 01:15:36,664
Looks very good.

1318
01:15:36,740 --> 01:15:38,424
You look so old.

1319
01:15:38,700 --> 01:15:40,699
- What, you want me to look six
again?

1320
01:15:40,700 --> 01:15:41,986
- (Laughs) That'd be good.

1321
01:15:43,460 --> 01:15:47,510
- I reckon it's just made me
mature up a bit about music.

1322
01:15:49,700 --> 01:15:51,862
I reckon I'm a bit more self-aware
now

1323
01:15:51,940 --> 01:15:54,910
and understand what's going on around
me.

1324
01:15:56,380 --> 01:15:58,099
Bit more grown up.

1325
01:15:58,100 --> 01:16:00,580
- [Seth] Ebony, you look
like a actual teenager.

1326
01:16:03,900 --> 01:16:05,982
- What are you doing on your head?

1327
01:16:06,660 --> 01:16:08,822
- Look at her, she looks so grown up.

1328
01:16:12,420 --> 01:16:14,149
- [Ebony] I was a little bit anxious

1329
01:16:14,220 --> 01:16:16,461
that they wouldn't accept my gay
parents.

1330
01:16:19,020 --> 01:16:20,385
- Give me a kiss.

1331
01:16:22,100 --> 01:16:23,261
- Bye Ma.

1332
01:16:23,540 --> 01:16:25,622
- [Ebony] if they have a problem with
it

1333
01:16:25,700 --> 01:16:27,270
they're not worth it.

1334
01:16:33,140 --> 01:16:34,551
Try and harass me there,

1335
01:16:34,900 --> 01:16:36,390
I'll kick their butt.

1336
01:16:40,500 --> 01:16:42,219
- [Jen] But whatever school you go
to,

1337
01:16:42,220 --> 01:16:44,541
part of it is you know that
you have to do debating

1338
01:16:44,620 --> 01:16:46,299
this year, or join the orchestra.

1339
01:16:46,300 --> 01:16:47,825
- I don't want to do either of those

1340
01:16:47,900 --> 01:16:48,819
and you cannot make me.

1341
01:16:48,820 --> 01:16:49,503
- I can make you.

1342
01:16:49,580 --> 01:16:50,547
- You can't make me.

1343
01:16:50,700 --> 01:16:51,383
- Of course I can.

1344
01:16:51,460 --> 01:16:52,029
- No you can't.

1345
01:16:52,100 --> 01:16:52,703
- Of course I can.

1346
01:16:52,780 --> 01:16:54,623
That's the whole point of being a
parent.

1347
01:16:55,940 --> 01:16:58,750
- It doesn't let you force
things onto your child.

1348
01:16:58,820 --> 01:17:01,869
- It does, actually,
that's the whole point.

1349
01:17:01,940 --> 01:17:03,819
That's why everyone's
cranky with their parents,

1350
01:17:03,820 --> 01:17:05,822
'cause their parents force things on
them.

1351
01:17:05,900 --> 01:17:07,629
It's really what's allowed.

1352
01:17:08,460 --> 01:17:10,349
- I'll call the police right now Mum.

1353
01:17:10,900 --> 01:17:12,948
- No they can only work
on child abuse, baby.

1354
01:17:13,020 --> 01:17:15,591
And having to do orchestra or
debating is not child abuse.

1355
01:17:15,660 --> 01:17:17,339
- That is definitely child abuse.

1356
01:17:17,340 --> 01:17:19,069
- It's not! It's sending
a child to school.

1357
01:17:19,140 --> 01:17:21,029
- Because in debate it's so boring

1358
01:17:21,100 --> 01:17:23,179
so I'll get bored and
I'll fall off my chair,

1359
01:17:23,180 --> 01:17:25,308
then I'll quit and everything
around me will be bad

1360
01:17:25,380 --> 01:17:26,950
and then I'll commit suicide.

1361
01:17:27,020 --> 01:17:29,099
I'm dead, you killed me.

1362
01:17:29,100 --> 01:17:34,266
And then in music, you're
trying to make me deaf

1363
01:17:34,340 --> 01:17:37,099
so I can't hear anything and I
can't hear the traffic lights

1364
01:17:37,100 --> 01:17:39,148
and then I die because I go into the
road.

1365
01:17:39,260 --> 01:17:40,341
Killed me.

1366
01:17:40,420 --> 01:17:41,831
- Gus that's not a good argument.

1367
01:17:41,900 --> 01:17:43,550
Neither of those arguments are very
good.

1368
01:17:43,620 --> 01:17:44,064
- Great argument.

1369
01:17:44,140 --> 01:17:46,019
- Not a great argument,
they're terrible arguments.

1370
01:17:46,020 --> 01:17:48,910
- See that's why I
shouldn't go into debating.

1371
01:17:48,980 --> 01:17:50,266
- That's why you should go to
debating,

1372
01:17:50,340 --> 01:17:51,865
you'd be better at it.

1373
01:17:54,660 --> 01:17:57,709
- [Gus] I just love the way
Jen is, how she teases me

1374
01:17:57,780 --> 01:18:00,147
about not liking wrestling,

1375
01:18:00,700 --> 01:18:02,623
I just wouldn't want to change that.

1376
01:18:08,460 --> 01:18:11,862
I think it would be boring if
everybody had the same opinion

1377
01:18:11,940 --> 01:18:13,385
in the world.

1378
01:18:13,460 --> 01:18:16,225
I think that it would be totally
awesome

1379
01:18:16,300 --> 01:18:20,305
if every single person had
their own opinion about stuff.

1380
01:18:50,220 --> 01:18:53,941
(Cheers)

1381
01:19:06,020 --> 01:19:10,981
(Uplifting music)

1382
01:19:25,260 --> 01:19:29,663
(Crowd chatter)

1383
01:19:57,140 --> 01:20:00,269
(Raucous cheers)

1384
01:20:04,340 --> 01:20:07,742
(Fireworks boom)

1385
01:20:16,780 --> 01:20:20,068
(Joyful cheers)

1386
01:20:38,220 --> 01:20:40,587
- [Ebony] I don't really
think it actually makes me

1387
01:20:40,660 --> 01:20:42,867
that unique, that I have two mums.

1388
01:20:46,500 --> 01:20:49,629
It's just different for
every person growing up.

1389
01:20:55,860 --> 01:20:58,227
The people who raise you and
make you who you are today

1390
01:20:58,300 --> 01:20:59,586
are your family.

1391
01:21:02,220 --> 01:21:07,021
(Uplifting music)

1392
01:21:54,100 --> 01:21:58,708
(Inspiring pop music)

1393
01:22:05,380 --> 01:22:10,341
â™ª Lonely light you shine so lyrically

1394
01:22:10,580 --> 01:22:15,541
â™ª Please not be my own and
light my woes predictably

1395
01:22:15,700 --> 01:22:18,431
â™ª Cause I walk with difference

1396
01:22:18,500 --> 01:22:21,265
â™ª To sing my song with pride

1397
01:22:21,340 --> 01:22:26,301
â™ª There's nothing left in me
to find but what I feel inside

1398
01:22:26,420 --> 01:22:29,708
â™ª And I don't fight the feeling

1399
01:22:29,780 --> 01:22:32,909
â™ª 'Cause feelings they just need to
grow

1400
01:22:32,980 --> 01:22:35,586
â™ª It's the only expression

1401
01:22:35,660 --> 01:22:38,470
â™ª I need to know

1402
01:22:38,540 --> 01:22:41,020
â™ª I've got to find the feeling

1403
01:22:41,100 --> 01:22:44,991
â™ª I want these feelings to grow

1404
01:22:45,060 --> 01:22:46,903
â™ª It's all that I believe in

1405
01:22:46,980 --> 01:22:49,221
â™ª Just let my feelings show

1406
01:22:49,300 --> 01:22:53,589
â™ª Strike a chord on the rough of my
face

1407
01:22:53,660 --> 01:22:57,142
â™ª The tears they burn like fire

1408
01:22:57,220 --> 01:22:59,905
â™ª But boy I like the way they taste

1409
01:22:59,980 --> 01:23:04,941
â™ª Who knows whose meaning
really feels my song

1410
01:23:05,420 --> 01:23:10,381
â™ª When on this page is all
for some and some for anyone

1411
01:23:11,100 --> 01:23:14,388
â™ª So I don't fight the feeling

1412
01:23:14,460 --> 01:23:17,145
â™ª 'Cause feelings they just need to
grow

1413
01:23:17,220 --> 01:23:19,826
â™ª It's the only expression

1414
01:23:19,900 --> 01:23:22,870
â™ª I need to know

1415
01:23:22,940 --> 01:23:25,830
â™ª It's so irresistible

1416
01:23:28,020 --> 01:23:32,947
â™ª To place what you
find in lonely miracles

1417
01:23:33,820 --> 01:23:37,029
â™ª But you don't need approval

1418
01:23:39,340 --> 01:23:43,868
â™ª Just take what you do
and make it beautiful

1419
01:23:44,820 --> 01:23:47,505
â™ª So I don't fight the feeling

1420
01:23:47,580 --> 01:23:50,265
â™ª 'Cause I just let my feelings show

1421
01:23:50,340 --> 01:23:52,911
â™ª It's the only expression

1422
01:23:52,980 --> 01:23:55,790
â™ª I need to know

1423
01:23:55,860 --> 01:23:58,261
â™ª I got to find the feeling

1424
01:23:58,340 --> 01:24:01,389
â™ª I want these feelings to grow

1425
01:24:01,460 --> 01:24:03,428
â™ª It's all that I believe in

1426
01:24:03,500 --> 01:24:06,106
â™ª It's all that I believe in

1427
01:24:10,700 --> 01:24:15,581
â™ª I want these, I want these,
I want these, I want these,

1428
01:24:29,460 --> 01:24:31,622
â™ª So I don't fight the feeling

1429
01:24:31,700 --> 01:24:34,351
â™ª Yeah I just let my feelings show

1430
01:24:34,420 --> 01:24:37,708
â™ª Yeah I just let my feelings show â™ª

