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Enter!

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What's wrong?

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What are you doing?

4
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I just thought if...

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I can sleep here tonight.

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Here? Why?
Why with your room? </ P>

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Is it too hot? Because I just found out
if the AC is right  ...

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No.

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Then why? </ P>

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I just want... < /p>

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Yahh...

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I don't...

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I'm not in good condition...

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I use a fork for breakfast and I...

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I thought it might be good if
we were just... if I...

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It's okay .

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I mean , I... / I'll be back. </ P>

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Thank you. </ P>

19
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6:00? </ P>

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I fry ribs
for our breakfast

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p>

22
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Alright!

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Do you think you can change your marriage?

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Change your marriage?

25
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What do you mean?

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Like you eat a lot on Friday at
then eat again outside?

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or if you swallow each meal ,

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and arrive  you become Cinderella
and Prince Charming...

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quality first

30
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No. No.

31
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You marry who you marry,
you are you. </ P>

32
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Why should it be changed? </ P>

33
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So, if you stay < br /> want it too.

34
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No, I've thought about the incident,
it will definitely be sad...

35
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if someone is willing to risk
everything just to let go that,

36
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then it might not be the way you are.

37
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No, changing it is difficult.
The marriage is not changed.

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Hey, what cooks tonight?
Children  keep coming, right?

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Yeah. Burn ribs. </ P>

40
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Oh, they must like it! </ P>

41
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Huh, Arnold? just want what we need.

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I choose it / Say

43
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So when do you know each other?

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Yeah, 31. What is the prize?
Silver? Ivory? Poster? </ P>

45
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No, this is nothing special.
Only for the end of the year. </ P>

46
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Oh! We each get
new cable TV subscriptions. </ P>

47
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Oh good. </ P>

48
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There must be lots of program events. </ P>

49
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First of all, so much < br /> of you face,

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"Should I just swing it
or do this?"

51
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Kalian bisa belajar untuk
memecahkannya seperti ini.

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Everything that is done only returns the wand,
does not use the wrist at all.

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In fact, in the display below
does the swing look like this,

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the tip of the stick is
outside of the hand here.

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Very, very slow
setting his wrist.

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He can do this, like this
then his body move forward...

57
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while the stick will retreat
and that's how you guys are right......

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Arnold.

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Please turn off the AC here?

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Night / Goodnight.

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I can't tell you
so much...

62
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the question I got about
what makes marriage perfect.

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I see couples who think
their marriage is over.

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Who feels like it's impossible for
to be revived what they once had.

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It's not like that. That's not impossible.
and it's not too late...

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for anyone who is right  
wants it and is willing to try. </ P>

67
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Thank you. </ P>

68
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What do you want? Breakfast? </ P>

69
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No. Me, I...

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What? You're just sitting there? </ P>

71
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Okay. </ P>

72
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What do we have? </ P>

73
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I want to go. </ P>

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"Dr. Bernard Feld,
Intensive Couple Counseling Center. "

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Do you want to go to
intensive partner counseling?

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in Maine / Maine.

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Only half day.

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Every day you can read
and walk around the city.

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4 thousand dollars a week?

80
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Itu sangat intensif/
Pastinya dilapisi emas.

81
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That's why I paid for it.

82
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What?

83
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I used C.D. I /
How can you access your CD?

84
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I called Vince.

85
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You called my officer without telling me.

86
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I made a reservation for us.

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Just cancel it.

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I want to go.

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Have you ever met Dr. Lesser? </ P>

90
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Maybe this has something to do with
with hormonal matters. </ P>

91
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I'm not crazy, Arnold! </ P>

92
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So do I, don't know > what should I say to you.

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Over the years we have been together, I have never... /
Have you ever heard me ask for something?

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Excuse me? Don't we get a new refrigerator because you want...

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that doesn't suit my will. </ P>

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Kau wanita dewasa. Kau bisa pergi
kemanapun kau menginginkannya.

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But I don't go,

98
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So if you want to go to intensive partner counseling alone,

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I'll meet you home later.

100
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Maybe / OK. </ P>

101
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It's possible. </ P>

102
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You won't get
an audit of more than 217 dollars. </ P>

103
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You don't need to. p>

104
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All right! Call Terri
to make the agreement. </ P>

105
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Yes, and thank you. Ah. </ P>

106
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You know, Kay called me.
I want to tell you. </ P>

107
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Nothing. He only
acts too far, that's all. </ P>

108
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Missing? How? /
I don't know. Threaten me. </ P>

109
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What does he want? Car?
Vacation, something? </ P>

110
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No. Yeah, vacation. </ P>

111
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I told you. When Susan threatened me

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Kulakukan apa yang
kita semua ingin lakukan.

113
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Come to Brewsky,
no need to call,

114
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come home late because of drunk,
and shout, "Fuck you."

115
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You see that succeed.

116
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If I do that again,

117
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I will be there with flowers, cards,
dinner maybe even a necklace.

118
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I'll there like "Orkin Man"
and kill it to death.

119
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Maybe at that time
I wasn't in the condo.

120
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Girl  chose the best

121
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I told him that you
really like the ocean.

122
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This is your departure ticket.

123
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Oh come on.

124
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The flight at 10:02

125
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Why with you? What are you trying
to do to us? </ P>

126
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Aku mau pernikahan yang nyata lagi, Arnold.

127
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A real marriage? Is this not a real
marriage after 31 years? Is this not real? </ P>

128
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When was the last time you touched me
not just in the photo? </ P>

129
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When was the last time you kissed me? </ P>

130
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I kissed you every day.

131
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We are no longer 22 years old,
many things have changed.

132
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I can be more... you know. I can...

133
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This doesn't make sense. </ P>

134
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The flight is 10:02 tomorrow.
I'll be there on time. </ P>

135
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Dinner You are on the table.

136
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You don't even... You don't even...

137
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Don't...

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If you're one of the people > who are looking further distances,

139
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What if you do this,
guess what? I don't like your chances. </ P>

140
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Good morning. </ P>

141
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Selamat pagi, Nyonya.
Biar kubawakan ini/ Terimakasih.

142
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Where do we go today? / To the airport.

143
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I hope you're happy.

144
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How far is it?

145
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Only a few hours.

146
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A few hours. That's enough
to take us to Canada. </ P>

147
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I'm so glad you came along, Arnold. </ P>

148
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Yeah? </ P>

149
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You told me we were lost 
and ends in downtown Montreal.

150
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and everyone speaks French.

151
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There is a hotel. Right? </ P>

152
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None. </ P>

153
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We are at Econo Lodge. </ P>

154
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It's in the car, under the seat. </ P>

155
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At what time this starts?

156
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10:30.

157
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We will probably be on time.

158
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Look at the amount of our money.

159
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I will set the alarm .

160
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I won't give
too much extra time for us.

161
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It might be impossible to get lost
in that vast city.

162
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Alright... / Alright...

163
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We, we can...

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p>

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I thought I'd see
how it works.

166
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Damn it! How should this be...

167
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I'll do it. </ P>

168
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Do you think there is a building in this place
who doesn't have a window? </ P>

169
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The whole city seems like
built by Hansel and Gretel.

170
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I thought it was very interesting.

171
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That's why they want you to think about it.
Do you think he did it intentionally? p>

172
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Choosing a remote place that might be...

173
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I mean, you're stuck here.
Like on Alcatraz.

174
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Maybe he just wants people to go.

175
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Do you think you can get an oval plate
anywhere in this zip code?

176
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Oh, there's a...
small place that looks cute.

177
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That place? </ P>

178
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I guarantee that the place
doesn't serve breakfast under 10 dollars. </ P>

179
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You're just a visitor here. </ P>

180
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We're just here a week /
It seems like an airport.

181
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We might be better off trying... /
a week? I'll go bankrupt in a week. </ P>

182
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Come on. Come here. </ P>

183
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A cup of coffee? </ P>

184
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Yes. Thank you. </ P>

185
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Are there foods on this menu that don't
provide lobster in them? </ P>

186
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We see, there are your eggs. </ P>

187
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And, look,
they provide special breakfast.

188
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What's special with only 11.75 dollars?

189
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All right, I want to eat with different contents
on both sides of the egg.

190
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one cow egg,
and one with bacon, fried.

191
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I will make it special.
I'll bring it with...

192
00:18:47,043 --> 00:18:49,544
Nope. A special one dollar more. </ P>

193
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And for you? </ P>

194
00:18:50,963 --> 00:18:53,840
Yes. I just want to eat
fruit and a plate of cheese. </ P>

195
00:18:53,925 --> 00:18:56,134
I have stomach ailments. </ P>

196
00:18:57,553 --> 00:18:59,262
And we are a little rushed because...

197
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You promise at 10:30 a.m. with Bernie.
We will take you on time.

198
00:19:03,100 --> 00:19:04,434
Good luck.

199
00:19:07,897 --> 00:19:09,314
That's it.

200
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Nice nest / Yes

201
00:19:15,988 --> 00:19:19,741
If he says one word
about distressed memories, I go.

202
00:19:22,578 --> 00:19:24,496
Kay and Arnold, I'm glad you are here.

203
00:19:24,747 --> 00:19:26,957
Well, we come together.

204
00:19:28,417 --> 00:19:31,044
So, Arnold, I know
intensive therapy is not your idea.

205
00:19:31,295 --> 00:19:32,587
It's not!

206
00:19:33,047 --> 00:19:34,256
Do you want to come along? </ p >

207
00:19:34,632 --> 00:19:35,674
Yes.

208
00:19:35,758 --> 00:19:37,050
All right. And Arnold, you? </ P>

209
00:19:37,134 --> 00:19:39,177
I thought he was crazy. </ P>

210
00:19:39,262 --> 00:19:42,931
We don't classify
the same fees as other patients. </ P>

211
00:19:43,182 --> 00:19:44,432
I thought you'd be surprised.

212
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Even if we are, with all due respect.
I am right  don't see anything important here.

213
00:19:50,815 --> 00:19:52,732
So, you don't think there is
wrong with your marriage

214
00:19:53,192 --> 00:19:56,027
We've been married for 31 years, right?

215
00:19:57,947 --> 00:19:59,614
It's not perfect.

216
00:19:59,782 --> 00:20:02,617
But in your opinion,
works pretty well.

217
00:20:04,954 --> 00:20:06,454
But you want to come along.

218
00:20:08,416 --> 00:20:09,875
You persuaded Arnold?

219
00:20:09,959 --> 00:20:12,168
No. I mean, I paid it. </ P>

220
00:20:14,130 --> 00:20:16,339
with my own money, from savings. </ P>

221
00:20:16,632 --> 00:20:18,508
All right. So this is
really important to you. </ P>

222
00:20:21,304 --> 00:20:22,721
Tell me the reason. </ P>

223
00:20:23,139 --> 00:20:27,601
I want to remarry. </ P>

224
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Lagi?

225
00:20:28,811 --> 00:20:31,104
If we don't get married,
I don't know who did it.

226
00:20:31,188 --> 00:20:34,649
Arnold, so Kay speaks first
and you can answer after that.

227
00:20:34,901 --> 00:20:37,277
Okay. Well. "Again." </ P>

228
00:20:39,322 --> 00:20:41,823
Arnold almost never
touches me.
and my shoulder, just for...

229
00:20:41,908 --> 00:20:45,952
Just for... I don't know,
because he wants it too.

230
00:20:47,204 --> 00:20:50,707
And now is he?

231
00:20:52,043 --> 00:20:54,961
And that bothers you.

232
00:20:55,338 --> 00:20:56,588
Did you touch it?

233
00:20:59,175 --> 00:21:01,301
Not really. He doesn't like it. </ P>

234
00:21:02,637 --> 00:21:04,346
Is he right, Arnold?
Do you like it when he touches you? </ P>

235
00:21:05,222 --> 00:21:07,724
I don't know. </ P>

236
00:21:09,101 --> 00:21:11,353
You don't know? / I don't think about that. </ P>

237
00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,188
Alright. </ P>

238
00:21:13,272 --> 00:21:15,106
There's something else, Kay? </ P>

239
00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:18,777
It feels like we stayed at home
together with two. ..

240
00:21:23,324 --> 00:21:24,366
Ada yang lainnya, Kay?

241
00:21:24,450 --> 00:21:30,205
Rasanya kita tinggal di rumah
bersama-sama dengan dua...

242
00:21:31,958 --> 00:21:34,542
With two workers who
slept in the same room.

243
00:21:36,253 --> 00:21:39,547
Except us...
We are not in the same room.

244
00:21:39,632 --> 00:21:45,011
but just feel like no one
inherited us together — except his house.

245
00:21:45,096 --> 00:21:47,347
Nobody inherited us together
Approximately 31 years from...

246
00:21:48,557 --> 00:21:50,725
From what, Arnold? / Marriage.

247
00:21:52,061 --> 00:21:53,520
What do you mean by that?

248
00:21:53,604 --> 00:21:56,064
This means we have a marriage certificate
and I pay all the bills.

249
00:21:56,148 --> 00:21:58,483
Not yet again we both add more adults...

250
00:21:59,485 --> 00:22:00,902
You really  lost your mind.

251
00:22:01,237 --> 00:22:04,322
Let's try to keep discussing
descriptive and positive.

252
00:22:07,159 --> 00:22:09,035
Kay, please continue.

253
00:22:14,125 --> 00:22:16,001
We never speak anything.

254
00:22:16,085 --> 00:22:19,045
Talk! Why don't you know me more about this? </ P>

255
00:22:19,130 --> 00:22:20,755
About Eileen and the dress she bought,

256
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:24,217
or if he takes back
his little necklace with the Tiki service.

257
00:22:24,301 --> 00:22:25,510
Oh my God.

258
00:22:25,594 --> 00:22:28,430
No, I don't mean... I mean just... 
/> I only interpret it, I'm not

259
00:22:30,891 --> 00:22:34,853
I didn't tell Arnold
how I feel about all that. </ P>

260
00:22:36,188 --> 00:22:38,690
And I don't know how
his feelings about it all .

261
00:22:38,774 --> 00:22:40,692
I told you how I felt
with all this, I hated it.

262
00:22:40,776 --> 00:22:42,652
All right. Sounds good. </ P>

263
00:22:42,737 --> 00:22:43,778
Good. Yeah, good for you. </ P>

264
00:22:43,946 --> 00:22:45,196
The more tears drip,

265
00:22:45,281 --> 00:22:47,866
The more money we are looking for
to pay you back to get us together,

266
00:22:47,950 --> 00:22:51,244
Jesus . You're sadder
than the lawyers. </ P>

267
00:22:52,997 --> 00:22:54,414
I understand your feelings. </ P>

268
00:22:54,498 --> 00:22:55,832
Really? </ P>

269
00:22:55,916 --> 00:22:59,044
You two came here to try
restore intimacy from your marriage.

270
00:22:59,128 --> 00:23:02,922
So that it will be the destination of our session
to focus more together,

271
00:23:03,007 --> 00:23:06,092
To find a mutual way
communicate each other's needs .

272
00:23:06,177 --> 00:23:08,094
To regrow intimacy.

273
00:23:08,179 --> 00:23:12,265
And to develop the means
maintain the progress of intimacy.

274
00:23:17,146 --> 00:23:19,439
The first step in
is to rebuild marriage,

275
00:23:19,523 --> 00:23:23,902
is to throw away some bad impression
who has been fostered for years

276
00:23:24,361 --> 00:23:27,030
This will be very painful,
but very useful.

277
00:23:27,114 --> 00:23:28,490
I like to think about things...

278
00:23:28,574 --> 00:23:33,995
Have a "metaphor" when you have a septum
who deviates and you can't breathe?

279
00:23:34,872 --> 00:23:38,041
You have to rest
the nose to fix it.

280
00:23:43,589 --> 00:23:44,631
Charlatan!

281
00:23:44,715 --> 00:23:48,301
No, he's worse than Charlatan.
He's one of...

282
00:23:48,385 --> 00:23:50,637
Say to him, "The sharpener of the method".
The one thing he honed.

283
00:23:50,721 --> 00:23:54,432
make sure you don't walk
with the problem of marriage-destruction.

284
00:23:54,517 --> 00:23:56,434
You won't go without it.

285
00:23:56,519 --> 00:24:00,480
She's like an eye moisturizer
that makes your eyes dry.

286
00:24:00,564 --> 00:24:03,316
4 thousand dollars. That can be
to buy a new roof! </ P>

287
00:24:03,651 --> 00:24:06,778
Do you see an ID
or just read the brochure if you...

288
00:24:06,862 --> 00:24:07,904
I mean, my God! </ P> p>

289
00:24:08,030 --> 00:24:12,033
Amazing! I want to see
this person's annual tax letter. </ P>

290
00:24:13,035 --> 00:24:17,080
Oh no. Come on, there's no need. </ P>

291
00:24:19,542 --> 00:24:20,959
You have to stop yelling at me. </ P>

292
00:24:21,043 --> 00:24:22,544
I don't shout!
Who shouted? </ P>

293
00:24:22,628 --> 00:24:24,045
Hey. Welcome back. </ P>

294
00:24:24,130 --> 00:24:26,297
I'm Arnold Palmer and tuna. </ P>

295
00:24:26,382 --> 00:24:28,800
Kau yakin sudah siap untuk berkomitmen?

296
00:24:30,553 --> 00:24:33,721
I'll make soup and salad,
please / Okey-dokey.

297
00:24:35,307 --> 00:24:39,894
9 dollars for the meat, this is tuna sardine,
a piece of cheese and toast, </ p >

298
00:24:39,979 --> 00:24:42,105
Feld might bribe him.

299
00:24:43,983 --> 00:24:46,484
I saw a grocery store
near the motel.

300
00:24:46,569 --> 00:24:48,820
We could buy some cut meat,
and just eat it motel.

301
00:24:48,904 --> 00:24:50,905
Are you here told by Bernie?

302
00:24:51,532 --> 00:24:53,575
We come back every year,

303
00:24:53,659 --> 00:24:54,993
For recovery.

304
00:24:57,204 --> 00:25:00,582
The fact is you wonder ,
we never come back.

305
00:25:02,918 --> 00:25:07,297
I mean, if I say
so many sometimes rude words...

306
00:25:07,381 --> 00:25:09,757
Do you want frozen salami or
Do you want something like this here?

307
00:25:09,842 --> 00:25:11,968
I don't care / I mean, my brother, Ralph,

308
00:25:12,094 --> 00:25:14,762
Angela has brought her
to one of the things...

309
00:25:15,222 --> 00:25:18,016
You. I just hope
you remember this next year,

310
00:25:18,100 --> 00:25:20,351
When you want to say that
I never helped and I never...

311
00:25:20,436 --> 00:25:22,395
I will make Limburger,
you don't have to eat it. </ P>

312
00:25:22,479 --> 00:25:23,897
And I tell you one thing,

313
00:25:23,981 --> 00:25:26,858
We will go to Florida and visit
my mother knows ahead for 2 full weeks.

314
00:25:26,942 --> 00:25:29,569
You have lost your right to complain.

315
00:25:29,653 --> 00:25:31,529
Gosh! I only think of you for...

316
00:25:31,614 --> 00:25:34,282
Go from the door! / I leave! </ P>

317
00:25:38,162 --> 00:25:39,287
What happened to you? </ P>

318
00:25:39,371 --> 00:25:41,331
I have to do that > and hold it down.

319
00:25:41,415 --> 00:25:44,834
Oh, me too! It's broken,
And the kid, he's playing badly. </ P>

320
00:26:22,957 --> 00:26:25,291
That's a course at the University. </ P>

321
00:26:25,668 --> 00:26:27,543
The Beginning of Accounting. </ P>

322
00:26:27,628 --> 00:26:30,338
And Arnold as a teaching assistant.

323
00:26:30,422 --> 00:26:32,215
What is your first impression on Kay, Arnold?

324
00:26:32,299 --> 00:26:35,343
She's beautiful. Very beautiful. </ P>

325
00:26:36,011 --> 00:26:39,472
What else? / He might not have to be
experts in accounting

326
00:26:42,851 --> 00:26:46,562
And Thanksgiving passed,
there were no rings. </ P>

327
00:26:47,022 --> 00:26:50,483
And my father said,
"you chose the horse wrongly." </ P>

328
00:26:51,026 --> 00:26:53,027
But two days later,
I found it. </ P>

329
00:26:53,112 --> 00:26:56,114
He swelled his ring,
in cinnamon buns.

330
00:26:57,449 --> 00:26:59,158
I was very surprised.

331
00:26:59,243 --> 00:27:00,785
What held you back, Arnold?

332
00:27:00,869 --> 00:27:04,080
It's not like buying a car.

333
00:27:09,670 --> 00:27:12,338
And in winter,
Arnold threw it back out. </ P>

334
00:27:12,423 --> 00:27:14,424
I only helped Brad
paint his room and...

335
00:27:14,508 --> 00:27:17,552
He said it would be more comfortable 
I sleep alone.

336
00:27:17,678 --> 00:27:18,970
It hurts me very much.

337
00:27:19,054 --> 00:27:21,681
But then,
he gets better again.

338
00:27:21,765 --> 00:27:23,766
But still makes me a little angry a little.
And also me...

339
00:27:23,851 --> 00:27:26,978
He snores. / I really have trouble sleeping.

340
00:27:27,062 --> 00:27:29,355
So he sleeps
in the living room after that

341
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:30,690
Yeah.

342
00:27:31,066 --> 00:27:32,734
Do you ask for it to go back?

343
00:27:33,861 --> 00:27:36,487
No. I don't think he will...

344
00:27:38,490 --> 00:27:39,741
No.

345
00:27:41,744 --> 00:27:44,245
So this has been very long
since you slept in the same room. </ P>

346
00:27:46,165 --> 00:27:47,874
When was the last times
you have sex?

347
00:27:50,085 --> 00:27:51,419
Yeah.

348
00:27:54,381 --> 00:27:57,759
I don't know / If so,
we try to think about that.

349
00:28:10,272 --> 00:28:13,274
Four years ago,
almost five years. September. </ P>

350
00:28:14,318 --> 00:28:16,778
When Brad moved after college. </ P>

351
00:28:16,862 --> 00:28:22,867
September 22. I remember thinking,
"Brad's move on the first day of autumn." </ P>

352
00:28:22,951 --> 00:28:24,702
We take the photo, okay? </ P>

353
00:28:24,787 --> 00:28:26,913
Makes you uncomfortable for
talking about it, right?

354
00:28:26,997 --> 00:28:28,748
Claim me because
I don't want to talk about...

355
00:28:28,832 --> 00:28:31,209
about having sex with my wife
in front of a very strange person.

356
00:28:31,293 --> 00:28:32,960
Do you want to talk about all that?

357
00:28:39,635 --> 00:28:42,136
What else do you remember that day, kay?

358
00:28:42,596 --> 00:28:44,472
How do you make love?

359
00:28:44,598 --> 00:28:45,848
How?

360
00:28:45,974 --> 00:28:49,435
What is a general position? Arnold above? </ P>

361
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:50,728
Oh, yeah. </ P>

362
00:28:50,813 --> 00:28:52,897
Is he always in a general position? /
Oh, that's right. </ P>

363
00:28:52,981 --> 00:28:54,899
Most of it, huh.

364
00:28:55,192 --> 00:28:58,319
Are there certain things
when you enjoy it?

365
00:29:02,574 --> 00:29:04,492
Most of it is the same.

366
00:29:05,077 --> 00:29:06,911
Is your sex life satisfying?

367
00:29:06,995 --> 00:29:09,705
okay? Yeah. Okay. </ P>

368
00:29:11,834 --> 00:29:13,084
Okay. </ P>

369
00:29:14,253 --> 00:29:16,462
I want to set your first practice. </ P>

370
00:29:17,339 --> 00:29:18,965
What... What kind of...

371
00:29:19,049 --> 00:29:22,343
Tonight , I want you to spend
time holding hands.

372
00:29:23,595 --> 00:29:26,514
What is... Why?

373
00:29:27,015 --> 00:29:31,144
Because I want you to remember
how it feels the same - touch each other.

374
00:29:31,395 --> 00:29:33,563
Do you think you can do it?

375
00:29:35,149 --> 00:29:37,817
Arnold? / Maybe because of that...

376
00:29:37,901 --> 00:29:40,027
I mean, forcing intimacy...
If that's true......

377
00:29:40,112 --> 00:29:42,864
That isn't forcing intimacy /
Sounds like that.

378
00:29:42,948 --> 00:29:45,283
What? We should be honest here /
You yourself. </ P>

379
00:29:45,534 --> 00:29:48,953
Even though... as I said
if I don't think about this exercise,

380
00:29:49,037 --> 00:29:51,289
or whatever you call it, < That sounds like something...

381
00:29:51,373 --> 00:29:52,874
It's not coercion /
If I do that...

382
00:29:52,958 --> 00:29:54,917
just because someone
told me, what's the point?

383
00:29:55,002 --> 00:29:58,796
I don't think I like the idea
of someone who told me...

384
00:29:58,881 --> 00:30:03,301
Maksudku, semua ide tentang
latihan ini benar� konyol bagiku

385
00:30:03,385 --> 00:30:05,553
I'm not a trained monkey!

386
00:30:05,679 --> 00:30:07,263
You're indeed a bully! / What is

387
00:30:07,389 --> 00:30:11,017
Since you were here,
everything you do makes me feel... </ p >

388
00:30:11,101 --> 00:30:13,895
Kay? Kay /... so bad. </ P>

389
00:30:14,938 --> 00:30:16,189
I understand that. </ P>

390
00:30:17,566 --> 00:30:19,066
Kay! </ P>

391
00:30:28,035 --> 00:30:30,620
Kay. Kay. </ P>

392
00:30:32,122 --> 00:30:33,998
Kay, come on. This is baby. </ P>

393
00:30:34,082 --> 00:30:35,833
I thought you were the girl! </ P>

394
00:30:35,918 --> 00:30:37,543
Listen... Where are you going? </ P>

395
00:30:38,170 --> 00:30:39,462
This is crazy. </ P>

396
00:30:39,546 --> 00:30:41,130
No, it's not crazy!

397
00:30:42,424 --> 00:30:44,008
Where do you want to go?

398
00:31:28,428 --> 00:31:30,846
You can enter. We don't bite. </ P>

399
00:31:35,477 --> 00:31:37,311
What can I take? </ P>

400
00:31:41,900 --> 00:31:45,319
Do you have
red wine or white wine? </ P>

401
00:31:45,821 --> 00:31:47,321
Do you like red wine? </ P>

402
00:31:47,698 --> 00:31:48,739
Do you like red wine? </ P>

403
00:31:48,824 --> 00:31:50,449
p>

404
00:32:05,007 --> 00:32:10,177
Yeah.

405
00:32:10,679 --> 00:32:11,971
Then I bring the white one.

406
00:32:12,055 --> 00:32:14,223
Trying to get back
the magic of the past?

407
00:32:14,308 --> 00:32:15,558
Yeah.

408
00:32:16,518 --> 00:32:17,685
Have you ever got it?

409
00:32:26,945 --> 00:32:30,323
Do you want a trip recording? 
It costs 4.95 dollars. </ P>

410
00:32:34,578 --> 00:32:36,287
The problem is...

411
00:32:37,706 --> 00:32:40,416
We really do not have sex, most of it. </ P>

412
00:32:41,543 --> 00:32:43,169
So far.

413
00:32:43,295 --> 00:32:44,587
That's it?

414
00:32:48,675 --> 00:32:51,218
All right. Who is here
not having sex? </ P>

415
00:32:52,554 --> 00:32:53,554
Not me. </ P>

416
00:32:54,473 --> 00:32:56,891
Mike, I know you didn't get it. </ P>

417
00:33:03,231 --> 00:33:05,149
It's free from us / Thank you.

418
00:33:26,505 --> 00:33:28,631
I'm back! / I know that.

419
00:33:33,220 --> 00:33:35,304
I go to the museum / Oh yeah?

420
00:33:35,389 --> 00:33:37,682
What is interesting? / Very.

421
00:33:38,183 --> 00:33:41,018
Of course. If you want to leave.
You have to do it yourself. </ P>

422
00:33:41,103 --> 00:33:43,145
I'm ready to sleep. </ P>

423
00:33:53,824 --> 00:33:56,033
Where do you want to go this afternoon? </ P>

424
00:33:57,452 --> 00:33:59,120
Hanya jalan�.

425
00:33:59,621 --> 00:34:02,164
I think you want to do that.

426
00:34:02,290 --> 00:34:05,501
But if you don't want to do it,
I don't care either.

427
00:34:06,628 --> 00:34:09,004
All right. I go to bed. </ P>

428
00:34:09,506 --> 00:34:10,798
I want to do it. </ P>

429
00:34:19,141 --> 00:34:21,392
I think we can do it there. </ P>

430
00:34:42,998 --> 00:34:47,334
I thought I would come in. </ P>

431
00:35:11,777 --> 00:35:13,778
Maybe this is enough. </ P>

432
00:35:30,837 --> 00:35:32,713
Yeah, maybe. </ P>

433
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,890
I'll turn off the lights. </ P>

434
00:36:57,090 --> 00:37:00,885
Then we practice... /
Yeah, you have to...

435
00:37:00,969 --> 00:37:03,053
... and we wake up / Yeah.

436
00:37:04,598 --> 00:37:06,307
And we are in the same bed.

437
00:37:06,433 --> 00:37:09,643
Yeah, that's just... Yep / 
/> It will be very comfortable. </ P>

438
00:37:13,356 --> 00:37:15,774
This is good. That's right. </ P>

439
00:37:16,985 --> 00:37:21,071
By taking some time for yourself,
you are able to have a good relationship as a partner. </ P>

440
00:37:21,156 --> 00:37:22,573
And you two do it
without trial.

441
00:37:22,657 --> 00:37:25,367
Dia ingin menghabiskan waktu
yang hilang/ Yeah. Aku sangat nakal.

442
00:37:25,452 --> 00:37:27,328
Naughty like a wet cat.

443
00:37:28,663 --> 00:37:30,623
But, you know,
it's really fun, isn't it?

444
00:37:30,707 --> 00:37:33,334
Doing something
at your will, you know.

445
00:37:33,752 --> 00:37:35,461
Good, you two. That's right. </ P>

446
00:37:35,545 --> 00:37:37,504
I'm happy with the
progress you've made. </ P>

447
00:37:37,589 --> 00:37:41,717
And I think that will make it much easier
to move on to the next step.

448
00:37:41,843 --> 00:37:43,469
The next step. That's great.
Let's listen. </ P>

449
00:37:43,553 --> 00:37:46,388
I mean, we do it well.
We might get out of here early. </ P>

450
00:37:46,473 --> 00:37:48,098
Okay, the next step . What is that? </ P>

451
00:37:48,183 --> 00:37:50,893
Writing poetry? Hold hands
in public? Sing serenade? </ P>

452
00:37:51,186 --> 00:37:52,645
Sex. </ P>

453
00:37:55,565 --> 00:37:58,984
We will talk extensively
about your sex history. </ P>

454
00:37:59,069 --> 00:38:02,154
Kapan memulainya. Apa yang termasuk.
Yang tidak termasuk.

455
00:38:02,948 --> 00:38:06,116
If you get an orgasm,
the woman or the previous one.

456
00:38:06,868 --> 00:38:10,496
If you have a problem
about sexuality or performance.

457
00:38:11,665 --> 00:38:14,458
Are you talking about 
about sex during that time.

458
00:38:14,542 --> 00:38:15,793
What you fantasize about.

459
00:38:16,044 --> 00:38:17,670
If you ever
do it with fantasy.

460
00:38:17,754 --> 00:38:21,799
Bring toys  or sex games
to the bedroom. Bring sex outside the bedroom. </ P>

461
00:38:21,883 --> 00:38:25,135
And after we explore all that stuff,
I'll give you the first sex,

462
00:38:25,220 --> 00:38:27,471
not sex, but sexuality, practice. </ P> p>

463
00:38:30,684 --> 00:38:32,393
All right?

464
00:38:32,602 --> 00:38:34,353
We start.

465
00:38:35,438 --> 00:38:37,064
Arnold, will you start?

466
00:38:38,900 --> 00:38:40,651
Do you...

467
00:38:41,194 --> 00:38:44,196
I think we have to stop
right now before...

468
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,865
We just have to fix
our problem and do it.

469
00:38:52,205 --> 00:38:54,581
I'm just the first.
Will I did

470
00:38:54,749 --> 00:38:56,125
Good.

471
00:38:56,501 --> 00:38:57,876
Extraordinary.

472
00:38:57,961 --> 00:38:59,253
Alright.

473
00:38:59,337 --> 00:39:03,632
Kay, let's talk about
what you like sexually.

474
00:39:14,436 --> 00:39:16,270
Are you having sex < br /> fun for you?

475
00:39:16,938 --> 00:39:18,605
Sometimes .

476
00:39:20,233 --> 00:39:22,067
Do you get an orgasm?

477
00:39:24,821 --> 00:39:26,280
Sometimes .

478
00:39:26,781 --> 00:39:28,782
Do you masturbate / No .

479
00:39:29,034 --> 00:39:30,367
No more.

480
00:39:30,785 --> 00:39:32,244
Why not?

481
00:39:32,328 --> 00:39:34,288
Because at some point, I just...

482
00:39:35,582 --> 00:39:40,419
I don't think I want think of sex
or about Arnold, though.

483
00:39:41,212 --> 00:39:45,966
It just makes me sad to think of
about what I miss and...

484
00:39:50,180 --> 00:39:52,431
What about your fantasy life?

485
00:39:54,184 --> 00:39:55,601
Have you ever fantasized?

486
00:39:57,937 --> 00:39:59,188
What?

487
00:40:01,316 --> 00:40:05,360
My fantasy, you know,
we renew our promise.

488
00:40:07,322 --> 00:40:11,533
Only small ceremony and, on the beach, maybe.

489
00:40:11,618 --> 00:40:12,868
Right.

490
00:40:12,994 --> 00:40:14,578
Maybe with kids  there

491
00:40:15,914 --> 00:40:20,000
Right. And do you get sexual fantasies? </ P>

492
00:40:23,963 --> 00:40:25,672
Imagine the scenario? </ P>

493
00:40:26,925 --> 00:40:31,261
Make love at the top of the mountain
or dress all in leather? </ P>

494
00:40:36,184 --> 00:40:37,684
That's funny once.

495
00:40:38,019 --> 00:40:39,394
So why not.

496
00:40:39,604 --> 00:40:43,190
What I especially think about Arnold
and everything we do.

497
00:40:47,821 --> 00:40:52,574
You never have fantasy < br /> about things you have never done?

498
00:40:53,409 --> 00:41:00,499
No.

499
00:41:07,841 --> 00:41:09,216
Okay. Okay. </ P>

500
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:13,303
All right. Arnold,
let's talk about you. </ P>

501
00:41:14,973 --> 00:41:17,015
Do you enjoy sexually? </ P>

502
00:41:17,100 --> 00:41:19,977
Sex / I will ask you more specifically. </ P>

503
00:41:20,061 --> 00:41:21,436
Okay, alright.

504
00:41:21,521 --> 00:41:23,981
So you enjoyed the real
sex act? Relationship? </ P>

505
00:41:24,065 --> 00:41:25,190
Yeah. </ P>

506
00:41:25,650 --> 00:41:27,484
General style. </ P>

507
00:41:29,571 --> 00:41:32,573
Apa kau lebih suka untuk,
katakanlah, seks oral?

508
00:41:34,993 --> 00:41:36,577
I think so.

509
00:41:37,370 --> 00:41:40,080
Is oral sex a choice? What is it
something that you do regularly? </ P>

510
00:41:40,165 --> 00:41:43,083
No, I, me, me, I don't... no. </ P>

511
00:41:43,168 --> 00:41:45,127
I really don't... me. ..

512
00:41:46,212 --> 00:41:47,921
I'm so uncomfortable talking about that.

513
00:41:49,382 --> 00:41:50,924
Giving or receiving?

514
00:41:56,347 --> 00:41:58,015
I don't know. Both, I guess. </ P>

515
00:41:58,308 --> 00:42:01,685
Okay. So, now you, Arnold,
will be open to that. </ P>

516
00:42:01,769 --> 00:42:05,355
Then what's the problem?
He just said that was not an option. </ P>

517
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:06,773
What about the problem in bedroom?

518
00:42:07,275 --> 00:42:10,402
Have you ever experienced erectile dysfunction?

519
00:42:11,321 --> 00:42:12,362
No.

520
00:42:12,447 --> 00:42:14,948
Use alternative medicine
like Viagra? / No.

521
00:42:15,450 --> 00:42:17,451
Our age, sometimes , it could be...

522
00:42:17,911 --> 00:42:19,244
Successful.

523
00:42:21,289 --> 00:42:23,665
Apa yang kau katakan itu
berhasil di hubungan seks mu...

524
00:42:23,750 --> 00:42:25,375
when you do it together?

525
00:42:25,460 --> 00:42:27,628
For example, until it reaches a climax? / Yeah.

526
00:42:28,254 --> 00:42:31,131
Are there other things you want to do,
but don't want it ?

527
00:42:32,175 --> 00:42:33,967
You're kidding, right?

528
00:42:34,636 --> 00:42:36,011
So?

529
00:42:36,137 --> 00:42:37,346
I mean, who will reject it?

530
00:42:37,764 --> 00:42:39,389
Right. Then continue. </ P>

531
00:42:39,474 --> 00:42:40,974
What, do you want all the lists? </ P>

532
00:42:41,142 --> 00:42:42,351
Sure. </ P>

533
00:42:51,486 --> 00:42:54,279
I'm right  don't understand everything. </ P>

534
00:42:55,823 --> 00:42:58,200
Nothing wrong answer here.

535
00:43:02,914 --> 00:43:04,289
So...

536
00:43:05,416 --> 00:43:09,127
If you can have anything you want
in your sex life with Kay, what is that?

537
00:43:11,756 --> 00:43:16,218
Do you have a fantasy that you feel
uncomfortable to say to Kay? </ P>

538
00:43:16,302 --> 00:43:17,552
Of course. </ P>

539
00:43:21,015 --> 00:43:25,143
I think I used it to think
about Kay giving me... .

540
00:43:31,067 --> 00:43:33,402
Give me Oral...

541
00:43:34,862 --> 00:43:36,321
You know...

542
00:43:37,699 --> 00:43:40,200
When working. Under the table. </ P>

543
00:43:41,869 --> 00:43:43,328
When paying taxes. </ P>

544
00:43:44,872 --> 00:43:46,331
So, in a public place. </ P>

545
00:43:46,416 --> 00:43:48,083
No, not only in public places. </ P>

546
00:43:48,167 --> 00:43:50,711
No ? Okay. Good, good.
Very good. </ P>

547
00:43:54,757 --> 00:43:55,966
What's more? </ P>

548
00:43:58,636 --> 00:43:59,845
"threesome." </ P>

549
00:44:02,140 --> 00:44:03,932
With? / Neighbors. </ P>

550
00:44:04,225 --> 00:44:05,475
> Helen? </ P>

551
00:44:06,269 --> 00:44:07,477
No, Carol. </ P>

552
00:44:08,062 --> 00:44:09,313
Carol? </ P>

553
00:44:10,732 --> 00:44:12,524
Carol with the "corgis dog"? </ P>

554
00:44:18,656 --> 00:44:20,949
Very good, Arnold. You two. </ P>

555
00:44:22,827 --> 00:44:25,787
I'll give you a second follow-up exercise. </ P>

556
00:44:28,291 --> 00:44:31,168
Do you think we're sitting alone isn't enough? </ P>

557
00:44:31,544 --> 00:44:32,753
Well,

558
00:44:35,423 --> 00:44:37,299
might lie down

559
00:44:46,267 --> 00:44:48,101
Do you want the first one?

560
00:44:48,644 --> 00:44:50,437
Do you want me too?

561
00:44:51,105 --> 00:44:52,689
Six of one,
half a dozen for others.

562
00:45:09,749 --> 00:45:11,750
Is that okay?? / Fine  only.

563
00:45:18,633 --> 00:45:20,050
Is it feeling good?

564
00:45:20,134 --> 00:45:22,677
It feels like it's stroked by a dog.

565
00:45:41,989 --> 00:45:44,282
Tick it. Don't... /
Sorry. Okay. </ P>

566
00:45:44,367 --> 00:45:46,493
Don't hold it there / I'm sorry. </ P>

567
00:45:54,836 --> 00:45:57,254
I'm right... don't see the essence of...

568
00:45:58,381 --> 00:46:00,382
I mean, Dr. This feld,

569
00:46:02,176 --> 00:46:06,346
you think he has another legitimate doctor
who agrees with him here,

570
00:46:07,682 --> 00:46:11,768
or thinks he could be
some kind of rebel? </ P>

571
00:46:16,190 --> 00:46:20,527
You, I mean, well, we,

572
00:46:21,195 --> 00:46:25,782
flat, everyone, you can just be treated by someone who is psychotic.

573
00:46:27,952 --> 00:46:34,332
or maybe someone who
just above the mean,

574
00:46:36,586 --> 00:46:39,463
or even the practitioner below the level.

575
00:46:55,646 --> 00:46:57,230
I think we better stop.

576
00:46:57,356 --> 00:46:58,815
What?

577
00:47:01,110 --> 00:47:03,653
Are you sure? / Yeah, I thought I was just...

578
00:47:07,074 --> 00:47:08,742
I went to the bedroom. </ P>

579
00:48:24,485 --> 00:48:28,863
Jadi, kalian berdua tadi malam
latihan saling menyentuh.

580
00:48:30,908 --> 00:48:32,200
How does it feel?

581
00:48:35,830 --> 00:48:37,414
What do you think?

582
00:48:41,961 --> 00:48:44,713
Okay, let's talk about this. Arnold. </ P>

583
00:48:45,881 --> 00:48:48,300
What does it feel like Kay touches you? /
Okay, I guess. </ P>

584
00:48:48,426 --> 00:48:50,010
What does it feel like? </ P>

585
00:48:50,469 --> 00:48:52,304
What is it that stimulates you? </ P>

586
00:48:53,514 --> 00:48:56,391
What do you feel? / aroused.

587
00:48:56,684 --> 00:48:58,643
What about you, Kay?
What do you feel?

588
00:48:59,020 --> 00:49:01,771
I'm aroused, too /
Are you know that, Arnold?

589
00:49:01,856 --> 00:49:05,442
How can I know what
what he thinks and feels?

590
00:49:07,278 --> 00:49:09,696
What about you, Kay,
when Arnold touches you? </ p >

591
00:49:09,780 --> 00:49:11,865
We can't continue.

592
00:49:11,949 --> 00:49:15,869
Why not? Why? /
Because we stopped it. </ P>

593
00:49:16,537 --> 00:49:18,830
We practice. It's finished.
We do it. </ P>

594
00:49:18,914 --> 00:49:22,542
Latihan itu adalah untuk menghabiskan
jangka waktu saling menyentuh sensualitas.

595
00:49:22,627 --> 00:49:25,462
Sounds like Kay touched you
but you stopped it.

596
00:49:25,546 --> 00:49:27,380
Do you want to talk about it?

597
00:49:28,466 --> 00:49:29,674
Who stopped it?

598
00:49:29,759 --> 00:49:32,886
That's my idea , okay. I just want
to stop. I want...

599
00:49:32,970 --> 00:49:34,971
Alright. Okay /
I don't want to do it again. </ P>

600
00:49:35,056 --> 00:49:37,641
All right. Let's go deeper. </ P>

601
00:49:37,725 --> 00:49:38,808
It's better not to. </ P>

602
00:49:38,893 --> 00:49:40,977
It's not enough just to be here.
You should try it. </ P>

603
00:49:41,062 --> 00:49:44,939
Don't I try it ? I flew 1,500 miles
here for this and I didn't try it? </ P>

604
00:49:45,024 --> 00:49:47,025
All right. Then,
Let's try to find out. </ P>

605
00:49:47,109 --> 00:49:49,819
Why do you want Kay to stop? /
I want her to stop because...

606
00:49:51,489 --> 00:49:54,407
Are you afraid? / No!
Why am I afraid? </ P>

607
00:49:54,533 --> 00:49:56,993
Ketakutan... Hey, kembali terlibat bisa.../
Aku tidak takut dengan istriku sendiri.

608
00:49:57,078 --> 00:49:59,996
Good. That's nothing. That's okay.
Feeling scared is normal. </ P>

609
00:50:00,081 --> 00:50:01,164
I don't feel scared! </ P>

610
00:50:01,248 --> 00:50:03,083
Then why did you stop Kay holding you? </ P>

611
00:50:03,167 --> 00:50:05,627
Let me tell you something. I finished
with all this for today. </ P>

612
00:50:05,711 --> 00:50:08,588
I'm done. I'll meet you later at the motel. </ P>

613
00:51:09,817 --> 00:51:10,984
Kay? </ P>

614
00:51:14,989 --> 00:51:16,781
What are you doing? </ P>

615
00:51:16,866 --> 00:51:19,659
Dr. Feld said
he would return the fee. </ P>

616
00:51:20,119 --> 00:51:21,661
How many percent? </ P>

617
00:51:23,456 --> 00:51:24,414
What? </ P>

618
00:51:24,498 --> 00:51:27,917
Did he say he returned
all the payments, or...

619
00:51:29,003 --> 00:51:30,670
Half / Half.

620
00:51:33,716 --> 00:51:35,717
I don't know your way of thinking
with everything that happens here.

621
00:51:35,801 --> 00:51:37,469
What are you...

622
00:51:37,970 --> 00:51:42,140
I mean, there's no pill or ajaibi stick
or..., he's just an office guy.

623
00:51:43,267 --> 00:51:45,393
This is ridiculous. You come here,
you spend a week...

624
00:51:45,478 --> 00:51:48,980
and you expect for, what,
have a new marriage? </ P>

625
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:52,233
This is a rule. <

626
00:51:53,235 --> 00:51:56,029
Then you feel bad for failing.
You know that, right?

627
00:51:57,406 --> 00:51:58,948
You can't win.

628
00:52:04,205 --> 00:52:05,705
Why do you bring us here?

629
00:52:08,667 --> 00:52:11,586
You know what you think
always goes to something?

630
00:52:11,670 --> 00:52:15,089
You think, "When we get married,"
or, "When we have children,"

631
00:52:15,174 --> 00:52:18,551
or, "When the child goes away
and only the two of us..."

632
00:52:21,889 --> 00:52:25,350
You know, there is always something < br /> to see our purpose in the future too.

633
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:30,772
And one day, I realized that
there would be nothing we were going to.

634
00:52:30,898 --> 00:52:35,610
And I guess I'm just not willing to
let go of those things even better.

635
00:52:37,029 --> 00:52:38,404
Still not.

636
00:52:38,572 --> 00:52:41,699
Maybe you just don't have a choice,

637
00:52:42,952 --> 00:52:44,202
You know?

638
00:52:44,286 --> 00:52:48,581
Maybe you just don't have a choice.
Don't forget your razor in the bathroom.

639
00:52:52,461 --> 00:52:53,878
You're back.

640
00:52:54,463 --> 00:52:56,256
Let's we talked about it / No need.

641
00:52:56,340 --> 00:52:58,925
Let's just... I'm back, okay?
Maybe that's enough.

642
00:52:59,009 --> 00:53:00,510
Not really, actually.

643
00:53:00,594 --> 00:53:02,470
>

644
00:53:02,596 --> 00:53:06,516
What do you want from me, blood?

645
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:09,018
You're always angry , Arnold.
What are you thinking about until you do that?

646
00:53:09,103 --> 00:53:11,312
I'm angry with everything. < br /> I'm angry here.

647
00:53:11,397 --> 00:53:13,898
Why? What do you fear that will happen? </ P>

648
00:53:14,441 --> 00:53:15,775
Do you want to know what that is? Well

649
00:53:15,860 --> 00:53:18,319
is the possibility that happened
in every office of this fucking therapist,

650
00:53:18,445 --> 00:53:20,363
Every time a troubled couple is there.

651
00:53:20,447 --> 00:53:22,907
You say whatever the problem is,
because someone like you...

652
00:53:22,992 --> 00:53:25,493
who dragged him out of their trouble
and then you can't take it back.

653
00:53:25,578 --> 00:53:28,830
There are things in this life that you don't
say because there's a reason.

654
00:53:28,914 --> 00:53:30,331
What is it like?
What are you going to say?

655
00:53:34,545 --> 00:53:35,753
Tell me.

656
00:53:37,506 --> 00:53:39,799
I just want to know.
I just curious.

657
00:53:40,634 --> 00:53:43,219
Even worse if you don't know
there are things that you hold back.

658
00:53:43,304 --> 00:53:45,388
You didn't say it because
you thought I was too fragile.

659
00:53:45,472 --> 00:53:49,058
No, it's not like that. Only... /
Something I can't hear. </ P>

660
00:53:49,143 --> 00:53:51,060
Alright, fine! All right. </ P>

661
00:53:53,314 --> 00:53:54,814
Dia mempunyai cara.../
Katakanlah pada Kay.

662
00:53:55,482 --> 00:53:59,527
You have a way to
say everything,

663
00:53:59,612 --> 00:54:02,864
and when I make a decision
there is something you don't like,

664
00:54:02,948 --> 00:54:06,075
you don't actually say anything,
But you're sure you got points there.

665
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,287
I can say, I don't like...
Is this my turn?

666
00:54:10,664 --> 00:54:16,336
I don't like the way that always < br /> we do it at Christmas or Birthday.

667
00:54:16,420 --> 00:54:20,298
give gifts to each other at home,
like a water heater.

668
00:54:20,382 --> 00:54:24,135
You want that water heater / <br / > Yes, but you too. Your shower

669
00:54:24,303 --> 00:54:26,554
Is that a special gift for me? </ P>

670
00:54:28,182 --> 00:54:31,935
And I hate watching golf.
Indeed. I thought it was boring. </ P>

671
00:54:32,311 --> 00:54:35,146
And the program that tells
all the things about golf, is ugly. </ P>

672
00:54:35,230 --> 00:54:37,732
It's like getting married to ESPN. </ P>

673
00:54:39,026 --> 00:54:41,778
And your breath smell,
when you eat wheat chips,

674
00:54:41,862 --> 00:54:43,613
I like wheat crackers.

675
00:54:43,864 --> 00:54:48,284
And I hate when you kill me,
like you just hope with what I do.

676
00:54:48,369 --> 00:54:49,619
"Come on, let's go."

677
00:54:49,703 --> 00:54:52,121
Gosh, that's the point. I'm afraid
to make things run even more. </ P>

678
00:54:52,206 --> 00:54:54,123
If I want to try kissing you so much...

679
00:54:54,208 --> 00:54:56,334
You never kiss me. </ P>

680
00:54:56,877 --> 00:54:59,754
You don't want kiss me,
you just want "that"

681
00:54:59,838 --> 00:55:01,089
Not me.

682
00:55:02,341 --> 00:55:05,718
You know. He always keeps his eyes closed as if depressed. </ P>

683
00:55:10,224 --> 00:55:12,475
It's not me. You just want "that." </ P>

684
00:55:12,559 --> 00:55:16,312
Gosh, yes, I want "that." You can
risk your life, I want "it"...

685
00:55:16,397 --> 00:55:19,524
... do it with someone
who doesn't want to do it.

686
00:55:20,150 --> 00:55:23,069
Dan, kau tahu, itu tidaklah menyenangkan...

687
00:55:24,238 --> 00:55:26,364
... melakukannya dengan seorang
yang tidak ingin melakukannya.

688
00:55:28,534 --> 00:55:30,410
But you never see me...

689
00:55:32,079 --> 00:55:33,413
What?

690
00:55:34,248 --> 00:55:35,415
Continue, Arnold.

691
00:55:35,499 --> 00:55:37,709
I'm not complaining because
Kay doesn't want sex .

692
00:55:38,085 --> 00:55:41,004
Love. Because that's what I want.
Not just sex. </ P>

693
00:55:42,256 --> 00:55:43,881
I want you. </ P>

694
00:55:44,842 --> 00:55:47,844
What about years ,
I want you? </ P>

695
00:55:48,137 --> 00:55:50,555
Everyone has years. </ P>

696
00:55:54,226 --> 00:55:56,060
And I'm not having an affair. </ P>

697
00:55:56,603 --> 00:55:58,312
I'm not looking for a prostitute. </ P>

698
00:55:58,439 --> 00:56:00,690
I sometimes see porn,
but who never ?

699
00:56:00,941 --> 00:56:03,568
I'm fine.
I did the right things.

700
00:56:04,069 --> 00:56:06,154
Now you bring me here to...

701
00:56:10,743 --> 00:56:13,911
You're the one who stopped it, not me.

702
00:56:15,873 --> 00:56:19,208
Yeah, for the moment I stopped,
yes, but you stopped too.

703
00:56:19,626 --> 00:56:22,128
Kau melakukannya. Kau berhenti.

704
00:56:22,838 --> 00:56:25,548
You don't need to start
and finish it, you know?

705
00:56:26,633 --> 00:56:29,135
Maybe if it's finished,
will be finished.

706
00:56:34,975 --> 00:56:36,017
Done.

707
00:56:44,985 --> 00:56:46,986
I want you to do something for me.

708
00:56:48,238 --> 00:56:50,531
You want to tell me about
the best sex you've ever done.

709
00:56:51,408 --> 00:56:54,994
The time you remember is the best.
Wrong one of you.

710
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:58,498
Even though it's not very good
or also sickening.

711
00:56:59,083 --> 00:57:00,541
The best time you remember.

712
00:57:04,630 --> 00:57:05,880
Then...

713
00:57:09,551 --> 00:57:12,011
I remember once.

714
00:57:13,847 --> 00:57:15,014
When Kay got pregnant.

715
00:57:15,432 --> 00:57:17,767
Where were you? / In the kitchen.

716
00:57:19,603 --> 00:57:21,104
She was cooking soup.

717
00:57:21,188 --> 00:57:25,566
She was cooking soup.

718
00:57:27,194 --> 00:57:30,196
She was cooking soup. p>

719
00:57:31,031 --> 00:57:32,490
And I came to her and Kay kept saying
she had to stir the soup.

720
00:57:35,619 --> 00:57:39,330
Soon, she forgot the soup.

721
00:57:44,086 --> 00:57:45,837
And slowly ,

722
00:57:53,512 --> 00:57:57,557
He... he put some
napkins behind my head.

723
00:57:57,641 --> 00:57:59,142
so my head doesn't hit...

724
00:57:59,226 --> 00:58:02,478
no lumps affected by the bottom of the closet.

725
00:58:03,313 --> 00:58:04,814
That's what happened.

726
00:58:10,654 --> 00:58:13,364
Arnold, what else
do you remember that?

727
00:58:14,575 --> 00:58:20,913
Just wanted it.

728
00:58:23,834 --> 00:58:26,085
Stand in the kitchen there.

729
00:58:27,838 --> 00:58:29,088
Be happy.

730
00:58:30,465 --> 00:58:32,008
It's beautiful.

731
00:58:33,635 --> 00:58:38,389
He has a small apron that starts
makes it very small because...

732
00:58:40,434 --> 00:58:42,518
His stomach began to grow.

733
00:58:43,437 --> 00:58:45,605
You were very interested in him at that time.

734
00:58:46,481 --> 00:58:48,524
Yeah, sure, and...

735
00:58:48,609 --> 00:58:50,234
Do you still like that?

736
00:58:53,197 --> 00:58:55,781
I don't... I don't know.

737
00:58:55,866 --> 00:58:58,618
It's been a long time since we...

738
00:58:58,702 --> 00:59:01,871
I don't look like I'm the one who
did it at that time / No, that's not it.

739
00:59:01,955 --> 00:59:03,998
No. I've never
reduced my weight. </ P>

740
00:59:04,082 --> 00:59:08,544
You just look good.
I just didn't think of that way anymore. </ P>

741
00:59:08,837 --> 00:59:10,254
About him like that again.

742
00:59:10,422 --> 00:59:12,715
Of course, I...

743
00:59:12,799 --> 00:59:15,176
No, it's not "of course."

744
00:59:15,594 --> 00:59:19,931
Sometimes  if the connection is broken,
we forget what what we want.

745
00:59:22,643 --> 00:59:24,143
Do you still want Kay?

746
00:59:25,646 --> 00:59:27,063
Yes!

747
00:59:27,147 --> 00:59:28,522
Do you still fantasize about it?

748
00:59:30,567 --> 00:59:32,235
You mean, now?

749
00:59:35,906 --> 00:59:37,198
Today.

750
00:59:38,325 --> 00:59:39,450
I don't know.

751
00:59:39,826 --> 00:59:41,452
I'm not... I...

752
00:59:44,122 --> 00:59:45,498
I have one.

753
00:59:48,335 --> 00:59:49,710
I have one.

754
00:59:54,508 --> 00:59:56,008
I have a fantasy.

755
00:59:56,635 --> 00:59:59,679
What is that...

756
01:00:02,975 --> 01:00:06,352
That is...
That is... it is...

757
01:00:06,436 --> 01:00:10,773
As you said.
That is just the two of us,

758
01:00:10,857 --> 01:00:13,317
Something we've never done before.

759
01:00:14,820 --> 01:00:16,320
Something new.

760
01:00:28,292 --> 01:00:31,335
I will ask you to keep believing
as confident and trying something .

761
01:00:31,878 --> 01:00:36,549
This is one way that allows you
to get out of your pleasure area.

762
01:00:37,884 --> 01:00:40,344
Try to think about things that...

763
01:00:41,471 --> 01:00:44,473
remind you of metaphors 
from a broken nose?

764
01:00:44,558 --> 01:00:46,058
It's about the nose.

765
01:00:48,228 --> 01:00:51,272
You can't break your nose softly,
right?

766
01:00:58,989 --> 01:01:02,783
Of course there is a problem with
the Popcorn Cooker.

767
01:01:04,745 --> 01:01:05,953
Thank you.

768
01:01:06,038 --> 01:01:08,122
I don't see why you didn't
tell me what you planned.

769
01:01:08,206 --> 01:01:10,249
Because of him say
it will be fine ini just this way.

770
01:01:10,334 --> 01:01:13,002
It just makes me uncomfortable to
find out what I will ask to do.

771
01:01:13,086 --> 01:01:15,212
If it's your turn,
you can do what you want.

772
01:01:15,297 --> 01:01:19,967
What if we don't practice anymore?
We run it quickly here. Okay. </ P>

773
01:01:20,052 --> 01:01:21,510
This is your "ball" game. </ P>

774
01:01:23,263 --> 01:01:25,056
I told you one thing. </ P>

775
01:01:25,140 --> 01:01:29,060
You never invited me to see
French films if we were at home

776
01:01:46,495 --> 01:01:48,245
This is very good.

777
01:02:05,514 --> 01:02:06,931
Sorry.

778
01:02:45,345 --> 01:02:47,930
I'm sorry, I can't see!

779
01:02:50,475 --> 01:02:52,685
You just need to slow down.
Pay attention to his teeth!

780
01:02:52,769 --> 01:02:56,147
I'm sorry. Sorry,
I didn't mean... / It's okay

781
01:02:56,523 --> 01:02:58,357
I can't see. </ P>

782
01:02:59,276 --> 01:03:01,110
Yes, Lord. </ P>

783
01:03:14,749 --> 01:03:16,876
Hey, you can hurt someone!

784
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:19,378
I'm sorry!
I can't do this.

785
01:03:19,463 --> 01:03:21,172
Kay. Kay. Kay. </ P>

786
01:03:22,048 --> 01:03:24,508
Kay, it's fine   /
That's not okay  ! </ P>

787
01:03:25,010 --> 01:03:26,552
Itu bukannya tidak apa�.

788
01:03:30,557 --> 01:03:32,057
Kay, listen.

789
01:03:32,142 --> 01:03:35,019
Kay, this is not a big problem /
I should...

790
01:03:35,479 --> 01:03:36,854
I should...

791
01:03:36,938 --> 01:03:38,814
I'm not good at anything. </ P>

792
01:03:38,899 --> 01:03:42,485
There's nothing to be good at! /
I don't know how to be better for anything. </ P>

793
01:03:42,611 --> 01:03:44,612
Listen, wait / I'm not sexy!

794
01:03:44,696 --> 01:03:46,906
Wait. Yes, you are very...

795
01:03:47,282 --> 01:03:49,283
What? Yes, What? </ P>

796
01:03:49,409 --> 01:03:51,619
Maybe you just can't...

797
01:03:51,703 --> 01:03:55,706
There might be certain things
that are not your experience. </ P>

798
01:03:57,751 --> 01:03:58,751
Kay!

799
01:04:05,717 --> 01:04:07,927
I look really stupid!

800
01:04:08,803 --> 01:04:10,679
But how do you feel?

801
01:04:11,431 --> 01:04:12,932
Like a fake.

802
01:04:13,850 --> 01:04:17,853
I just don't... I...
I can't do that.

803
01:04:18,063 --> 01:04:19,855
All that work
is very dangerous,

804
01:04:19,940 --> 01:04:22,775
with people  holding the glass,
and behind the chair forward .

805
01:04:22,859 --> 01:04:25,194
and go back and forth in a narrow space,

806
01:04:25,278 --> 01:04:28,030
concrete floors, lots of people everywhere.

807
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:30,199
It's not me.

808
01:04:30,283 --> 01:04:35,287
I just can't be people
who commit illegal acts in theaters.

809
01:04:36,498 --> 01:04:39,959
That's just... is that right 
what should I do?

810
01:04:40,961 --> 01:04:42,211
It's not about being a sex object.

811
01:04:42,295 --> 01:04:45,756
It's about pleasing the person you
you love and let it please you.

812
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:47,758
I don't even know
how to do that!

813
01:04:47,842 --> 01:04:50,261
On finally, I think you should ask yourself.

814
01:04:50,345 --> 01:04:53,305
"Is this person more valuable to me
than my pride?"

815
01:04:53,682 --> 01:04:55,516
Oh yeah. I mean...

816
01:04:56,434 --> 01:04:57,476
Yes.

817
01:04:57,811 --> 01:05:00,813
Kay puts everything in the limit here.
What do you put in the boundary?

818
01:05:00,981 --> 01:05:02,439
Everything. </ p >

819
01:05:03,984 --> 01:05:05,734
He's everything.

820
01:05:09,155 --> 01:05:10,864
But I'm really lonely.

821
01:05:12,909 --> 01:05:14,535
And I think...

822
01:05:16,663 --> 01:05:20,082
To be with someone and
really not with him...

823
01:05:25,505 --> 01:05:28,674
I thought maybe a little lonely
if I was alone. </ P>

824
01:05:29,551 --> 01:05:31,343
Do you want to be alone? / No! </ P>

825
01:05:32,512 --> 01:05:34,013
I don't know. </ P>

826
01:05:37,851 --> 01:05:42,730
You don't think it will be very it's hard
just touching someone you love.

827
01:05:46,401 --> 01:05:48,527
Because of that. That's right. It's hard. </ P>

828
01:05:56,036 --> 01:05:57,911
Okay. You know what? </ P>

829
01:05:58,955 --> 01:06:02,625
I'll give you something...

830
01:06:04,169 --> 01:06:07,338
that might help with your anxiety. </ P>

831
01:06:10,258 --> 01:06:12,468
You can take it in the city. </ P>

832
01:06:34,783 --> 01:06:36,617
Hey / Hai. Hello. </ P>

833
01:06:40,372 --> 01:06:44,833
We have a discount for trade novels
in front, if you are interested. </ P>

834
01:06:45,085 --> 01:06:47,961
Are you looking for something special? / Not really. </ P>

835
01:06:48,046 --> 01:06:50,172
Okay, just curious. </ P>

836
01:06:55,929 --> 01:06:57,971
Apa kau punya daftarnya, nona?

837
01:06:59,099 --> 01:07:01,308
No, no... I'm just...

838
01:07:01,685 --> 01:07:03,977
I'm just saying that you have a list,
I can ask first

839
01:07:04,062 --> 01:07:08,399
Our display space is very small here,
so we keep a lot of stuff behind.

840
01:07:08,483 --> 01:07:11,360
Actually, I'm looking for...

841
01:07:11,444 --> 01:07:15,322
"Sex Tips for Lugu Women
from a Homo Man . "

842
01:07:17,701 --> 01:07:20,744
Oh, yeah. Dr. Feld told us to save the stock. </ P>

843
01:07:22,872 --> 01:07:24,123
Okay. </ P>

844
01:07:24,874 --> 01:07:26,500
Can I pay cash? </ P>

845
01:07:26,584 --> 01:07:27,751
Yeah, it's okay. </ P>

846
01:07:28,128 --> 01:07:30,254
There are two reasons for the couple who met me. </ P>

847
01:07:30,338 --> 01:07:33,132
Help save
their marriage, or...

848
01:07:33,425 --> 01:07:34,717
Or what? </ P>

849
01:07:35,301 --> 01:07:36,677
Or help them end it.

850
01:07:39,347 --> 01:07:41,223
When one of them is unhappy,

851
01:07:41,307 --> 01:07:45,018
the marriage must be returned
to be balanced, or...

852
01:07:45,979 --> 01:07:48,647
Or what? Are you trying to tell me
if my marriage is over? </ P>

853
01:07:48,732 --> 01:07:50,649
Because I won't pay you
for more than one session...

854
01:07:50,734 --> 01:07:52,609
just because you threatened me, < Br /> You arrogant little bastard!

855
01:07:54,863 --> 01:07:58,031
Arnold, your wife is very  unhappy.

856
01:07:59,075 --> 01:08:01,660
And I didn't say
that she would leave soon.

857
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:05,998
I just don't want you to do
something to regret that...

858
01:08:09,085 --> 01:08:11,837
I just said
what is now here,

859
01:08:11,921 --> 01:08:15,507
and you can ask yourself,
"Did I do everything I could?"

860
01:08:16,342 --> 01:08:17,885
Can you, Arnold?

861
01:08:18,887 --> 01:08:21,346
Is this the only best
that can do you?

862
01:08:50,668 --> 01:08:52,336
I'm sorry, there...

863
01:08:52,420 --> 01:08:56,632
Listen, I can... maybe a little
tips to help, you know.

864
01:08:57,550 --> 01:09:00,177
Do you want to buy a table? /
I need it.

865
01:09:00,303 --> 01:09:02,471
So whatever it is...

866
01:09:02,555 --> 01:09:03,847
Look, I need it.

867
01:09:03,932 --> 01:09:09,937
Listen I really regret
whatever happened to your marriage,

868
01:09:10,021 --> 01:09:12,564
but I don't think dinner
won't save her.

869
01:09:12,649 --> 01:09:14,149
I need a table.

870
01:09:14,234 --> 01:09:18,529
I need it, and I won't
leave here until I get it.

871
01:09:50,019 --> 01:09:51,854
We will need
more space here,

872
01:09:51,938 --> 01:09:54,106
so I want you to push
further to the wall. Right? </ P>

873
01:09:55,608 --> 01:09:57,234
All right. </ P>

874
01:10:17,881 --> 01:10:19,590
Hello, Captain Jack. </ P>

875
01:10:22,051 --> 01:10:26,263
Sorry I didn't hear that, Mr. Fletcher.
What time is that? </ P>

876
01:10:27,599 --> 01:10:29,141
All right. </ P>

877
01:10:29,225 --> 01:10:33,478
Thank you for contacting. I hope
you come and visit us often

878
01:10:33,563 --> 01:10:35,355
Thank you very much. Ah. </ P>

879
01:10:36,983 --> 01:10:38,650
Baiklah.

880
01:10:39,527 --> 01:10:41,111
It's hard to finish

881
01:10:47,118 --> 01:10:48,368
So?

882
01:10:48,453 --> 01:10:51,413
There's a waiting list and
must contact them.

883
01:10:51,497 --> 01:10:55,667
Do you have a waiting list? You're going to
give me the table, so help me God! </ P>

884
01:11:10,183 --> 01:11:11,516
Are you ready? </ P>

885
01:11:12,352 --> 01:11:14,186
I'm almost ready. </ P>

886
01:11:51,265 --> 01:11:53,850
You're right? Ready?
Because I don't want to be late.

887
01:11:55,603 --> 01:11:57,646
Yes, I'm right siap ready.

888
01:11:57,730 --> 01:11:59,564
Very beautiful / Thank you.

889
01:12:00,233 --> 01:12:02,150
You also look right an handsome /
Yeah, of course.

890
01:12:02,235 --> 01:12:03,735
You're a handsome devil.

891
01:12:07,323 --> 01:12:11,410
Oh, Arnold. Very beautiful! </ P>

892
01:12:24,257 --> 01:12:25,799
I just can't
get more than that! </ P>

893
01:12:26,300 --> 01:12:27,384
Do you like it? </ P>

894
01:12:28,553 --> 01:12:30,929
It's the same...

895
01:12:31,014 --> 01:12:33,098
is a little different from
at Econo Lodge?

896
01:12:34,851 --> 01:12:36,852
Very  different.

897
01:12:39,647 --> 01:12:42,774
That place reminds me when
we go there to visit your mother,

898
01:12:42,859 --> 01:12:44,234
before we get married.

899
01:12:44,986 --> 01:12:47,279
And we live in that little place...

900
01:12:49,282 --> 01:12:51,116
You know, that's the only place that is open,

901
01:12:52,243 --> 01:12:53,660
It's a truck stop. </ P>

902
01:12:55,496 --> 01:12:57,122
In Albuquerque? </ P>

903
01:12:57,206 --> 01:12:59,958
Oh, I remember that.
The orange wall. </ P>

904
01:13:01,377 --> 01:13:02,419
Yeah. </ P>

905
01:13:03,296 --> 01:13:05,297
That's the first time you said that.

906
01:13:07,300 --> 01:13:09,509
The first time you said you loved me.

907
01:13:09,594 --> 01:13:10,969
At that little motel.

908
01:13:16,017 --> 01:13:18,143
You know, before you say it...

909
01:13:20,480 --> 01:13:23,398
I don't want to be the first person
say that first time.

910
01:13:23,483 --> 01:13:26,359
But I just... I can say that!

911
01:13:26,778 --> 01:13:29,279
So every time
we talk by telephone.

912
01:13:29,363 --> 01:13:33,325
I always say it on the phone
after we close it!

913
01:13:33,493 --> 01:13:34,576
Really?

914
01:13:34,660 --> 01:13:36,703
Yes, I right  do that.

915
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:40,248
I thought that if I ever said
like that, you would walk away.

916
01:13:40,875 --> 01:13:41,958
What?

917
01:13:42,585 --> 01:13:44,920
You can choose your choice.

918
01:13:46,839 --> 01:13:50,300
I am not think
you ever want me.

919
01:13:51,677 --> 01:13:54,304
I never want anything else.

920
01:14:04,565 --> 01:14:07,859
What I don't understand is how
he remembers to say it like that.

921
01:14:09,529 --> 01:14:13,156
"Consideration of the metaphor of his nose."

922
01:14:14,283 --> 01:14:16,118
I know. It must be very difficult for him. </ P>

923
01:14:16,202 --> 01:14:18,954
I want to know if he spoke
to his wife like that / It could be...

924
01:14:19,038 --> 01:14:21,873
"Mildred, I think it will be very interesting > if you are naked "

925
01:14:28,589 --> 01:14:29,714
Can I get something else?

926
01:14:30,007 --> 01:14:31,925
Are you... / No, I'm fine

927
01:14:32,009 --> 01:14:33,093
Okay. no, just check.

928
01:14:33,177 --> 01:14:35,220
Unless you want it too

929
01:14:38,808 --> 01:14:40,809
Maybe it's cold on the way home.

930
01:14:42,478 --> 01:14:44,020
It's getting colder at night.

931
01:14:46,899 --> 01:14:48,984
The problem is, I...

932
01:14:50,194 --> 01:14:52,737
I don't know how
you will say it,

933
01:14:53,447 --> 01:14:55,115
but I got
a room for us.

934
01:14:57,410 --> 01:14:58,451
Here.

935
01:14:59,787 --> 01:15:01,204
You did it?

936
01:15:01,998 --> 01:15:05,333
There is a toothbrush at the front desk.
I ask them.

937
01:15:08,254 --> 01:15:11,423
I thought maybe just for one night,
it could be...

938
01:15:12,175 --> 01:15:13,758
You might want to...

939
01:15:16,846 --> 01:15:17,888
So,

940
01:15:19,098 --> 01:15:21,558
after this, we can only...

941
01:15:31,319 --> 01:15:32,611
Like this?

942
01:15:33,112 --> 01:15:34,446
Gosh!

943
01:15:35,239 --> 01:15:37,282
Oh, my God.

944
01:15:41,704 --> 01:15:43,246
Look at this.

945
01:15:50,213 --> 01:15:51,546
Look at this!

946
01:15:53,633 --> 01:15:55,508
Strawberry.

947
01:15:56,469 --> 01:15:57,761
You have to try it,

948
01:15:58,888 --> 01:15:59,971
So here they are.

949
01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:02,349
>

950
01:16:02,934 --> 01:16:03,975
By the way, do you want to?

951
01:16:07,063 --> 01:16:08,104
Strawberries.

952
01:16:08,314 --> 01:16:12,067
Yeah, me too. And they know that.
This is a gift, really, you spend 15...

953
01:16:12,151 --> 01:16:15,487
It's nothing. You know, I think
I can bring some. </ P>

954
01:16:16,030 --> 01:16:17,489
Yeah? / Yeah. </ P>

955
01:16:18,157 --> 01:16:19,157
Okay. </ P>

956
01:16:24,163 --> 01:16:26,623
Do you want to eat it on the table? / Okay. </ P>

957
01:16:26,707 --> 01:16:29,417
Or we can eat it
in front of a bonfire / Okay. </ P>

958
01:16:29,543 --> 01:16:30,585
Okay. </ P>

959
01:16:42,974 --> 01:16:44,182
So sweet. </ P>

960
01:16:55,403 --> 01:16:56,987
Is that delicious? </ P>

961
01:16:57,113 --> 01:16:58,947
Delicious. Still fresh. </ P>

962
01:16:59,031 --> 01:17:00,365
Good. </ P>

963
01:17:00,616 --> 01:17:02,534
Very tasty / delicious. </ P>

964
01:17:07,748 --> 01:17:09,749
Do you want more? / There is champagne, if you want. </ P>

965
01:17:10,418 --> 01:17:11,543
Yeah. I know... /
I'm sorry. Take it. </ P>

966
01:17:11,627 --> 01:17:13,086
No, you took it. </ P>

967
01:17:13,212 --> 01:17:14,671
There's champagne. </ P>

968
01:17:18,009 --> 01:17:20,385
Do you want more? / I think I like that, Arnold. </ P>

969
01:17:50,875 --> 01:17:53,209
I thought you had something in your mind. </ P>

970
01:17:57,214 --> 01:17:58,840
Yes, indeed. </ P>

971
01:18:00,092 --> 01:18:01,676
Tahan pikiran itu/ Apa?

972
01:18:03,095 --> 01:18:06,348
Hold that thought / Okay.

973
01:18:33,626 --> 01:18:34,959
Come here.

974
01:19:35,312 --> 01:19:37,063
I want... I want...

975
01:19:37,148 --> 01:19:38,273
You want to...

976
01:19:38,357 --> 01:19:40,900
You want to...

977
01:20:09,889 --> 01:20:11,890
p>

978
01:20:34,663 --> 01:20:36,915
All right. You want to...
You want to... / Yeah. </ P>

979
01:20:39,668 --> 01:20:44,756
Look at me. </ P>

980
01:20:50,930 --> 01:20:52,222
You're lying / No.

981
01:20:54,934 --> 01:20:56,559
When Dr . Feld asks you,
if you're still interested in me. </ P>

982
01:20:57,269 --> 01:20:59,687
That's when you look at me. </ P>

983
01:21:00,606 --> 01:21:02,774
Now,

984
01:21:06,570 --> 01:21:08,780
You look at my face. </ P>

985
01:21:22,461 --> 01:21:26,798
There's nothing to do with that.

986
01:21:30,636 --> 01:21:32,845
That's when you stop.

987
01:21:32,930 --> 01:21:36,349
Obstacles are a natural part of the process.
They never feel good, really.

988
01:21:36,684 --> 01:21:40,061
I know you feel
like you've failed.

989
01:21:40,312 --> 01:21:42,730
but see where your failure is.
You fumble on the one-yard line.

990
01:21:43,023 --> 01:21:46,359
So I thought you were ready to
take therapy at home.

991
01:21:47,319 --> 01:21:49,696
I can recommend
someone who is right  good.

992
01:21:52,783 --> 01:21:56,703
I have a patient  who
never married.

993
01:21:57,329 --> 01:21:58,955
And you don't belong to that person.

994
01:22:03,919 --> 01:22:07,964
Even a big marriage
has a boring year.

995
01:22:09,300 --> 01:22:12,927
Very bad if you are tempted
to give up just like that.

996
01:22:14,263 --> 01:22:15,847
But don't.

997
01:22:16,974 --> 01:22:18,308
Wait a minute.

998
01:22:19,685 --> 01:22:23,771
One day will come, when you
will look back at this time.

999
01:22:25,232 --> 01:22:28,693
as an introduction to
something more complete.

1000
01:22:30,404 --> 01:22:33,656
and richer than
you ever dreamed of.

1001
01:23:54,238 --> 01:23:55,279
Soames! / Yo.

1002
01:23:55,364 --> 01:23:57,198
Hey, how's the vacation? / Good!

1003
01:23:57,282 --> 01:23:59,117
Yeah. where is it, Vermont? / Maine.

1004
01:23:59,243 --> 01:24:01,160
Maine. Benar sekali.
Kau bilang Kay menyukai lautnya.

1005
01:24:02,037 --> 01:24:04,580
So what? Will you go there again? </ P>

1006
01:24:05,416 --> 01:24:07,250
Maybe not. A little expensive. </ P>

1007
01:24:07,334 --> 01:24:10,294
Yeah. I hear you, but, hey, if this is
still happiness next year.

1008
01:24:10,379 --> 01:24:13,423
I'll say it's worth
with the money you spent! / Yeah.

1009
01:24:18,011 --> 01:24:19,971
Jon Ross came today.

1010
01:24:20,973 --> 01:24:23,015
You would think that it was
the first time he had heard

1011
01:24:23,100 --> 01:24:26,519
October 15 was the extension deadline.

1012
01:24:28,355 --> 01:24:30,690
That person never filed
on time in his life! </ P>

1013
01:24:31,275 --> 01:24:34,902
And we have the same
conversation every year. </ P>

1014
01:24:35,779 --> 01:24:38,030
Every year. </ P>

1015
01:24:39,700 --> 01:24:42,160
For 17 years.

1016
01:24:44,163 --> 01:24:46,164
Can you imagine that?

1017
01:24:54,631 --> 01:24:57,925
Hi, again, everyone. Golf School
reopens for one week

1018
01:24:58,010 --> 01:25:03,556
This week, Episode 24,
"everything about Putting Strokes"

1019
01:25:03,849 --> 01:25:06,517
I'm Kraig Kann.
This is Professor, Martin Hall

1020
01:25:06,602 --> 01:25:08,019
Refuse. We will show you tonight

1021
01:25:08,103 --> 01:25:10,897
Yes. We all want to hit
lower each time...

1022
01:25:25,579 --> 01:25:26,913
So you have fun? </ P>

1023
01:25:28,457 --> 01:25:31,125
It's a bit difficult to get back to the old routine. </ P>

1024
01:25:33,879 --> 01:25:35,296
What is that? </ P>

1025
01:25:36,006 --> 01:25:38,132
You look like
crying / No! </ P>

1026
01:25:38,217 --> 01:25:41,177
Do you still need someone
to keep the cat when you leave? </ P>

1027
01:25:41,261 --> 01:25:43,888
Oh, we already have
the neighboring girl next door.

1028
01:25:44,014 --> 01:25:45,890
But I don't believe it.
He isn't smart.

1029
01:25:46,517 --> 01:25:48,059
I can take care of him.

1030
01:25:48,435 --> 01:25:49,685
>

1031
01:25:50,229 --> 01:25:55,066
Really?

1032
01:25:55,609 --> 01:25:57,568
Gosh, are you sure? Because I think
I might be able to carry my backup key. </ P>

1033
01:25:59,196 --> 01:26:01,405
And maybe I can stay overnight

1034
01:26:04,159 --> 01:26:06,285
Last night, or two nights. </ P>

1035
01:26:13,252 --> 01:26:15,253
I'll see Caine Mutiny later.

1036
01:26:16,088 --> 01:26:17,839
Do you want to watch that? / I don't think so.

1037
01:26:17,923 --> 01:26:19,841
I just want to go to bed.

1038
01:26:21,301 --> 01:26:24,095
Kay / I'm just a little tired. </ P>

1039
01:26:26,473 --> 01:26:27,932
Is it true that everything is bad? </ P>

1040
01:26:30,769 --> 01:26:32,854
It's just hope. </ P>

1041
01:26:32,938 --> 01:26:35,523
Like someone who has been changed
his appearance, you know ?

1042
01:26:37,276 --> 01:26:42,280
You look different for a minute and
then come back to yourself, right?

1043
01:26:45,284 --> 01:26:46,701
Right?

1044
01:26:49,913 --> 01:26:52,373
I don't know if I can.

1045
01:26:54,793 --> 01:26:56,127
What?

1046
01:26:58,672 --> 01:27:00,673
I don't know if I can go back.

1047
01:27:15,188 --> 01:27:16,981
Are you sure this can be a gallon?

1048
01:27:17,149 --> 01:27:20,151
Yes, sir, can hard.
Just take it from the pantry, sir.

1049
01:27:21,737 --> 01:27:24,697
I thought you'd wonder
why did I call at this meeting.

1050
01:27:24,781 --> 01:27:27,700
As you all know now,
we have to find a very good
dessert for dinner.

1051
01:27:27,784 --> 01:27:29,994
Cold ice cream and strawberries.

1052
01:27:30,579 --> 01:27:34,165
An hour ago, I told Whittaker
to the pantry to bring the other parts. </ P>

1053
01:31:00,789 --> 01:31:02,039
Kay. </ P>

1054
01:32:10,609 --> 01:32:12,776
You're so beautiful. </ P>

1055
01:32:25,290 --> 01:32:28,042
You... You...

1056
01:33:28,687 --> 01:33:30,271
I'm late.

1057
01:33:31,523 --> 01:33:32,815
Okay.

1058
01:33:34,025 --> 01:33:36,777
Have a nice day / Okay.

1059
01:33:37,445 --> 01:33:38,696
Chicken tonight / Good.

1060
01:33:38,822 --> 01:33:42,366
Chicken tonight / Good.

1061
01:33:43,326 --> 01:33:45,286
p>

1062
01:33:52,544 --> 01:33:53,877
With potatoes and maybe
some spinach / Good. Without spinach. </ P>

1063
01:33:54,754 --> 01:33:56,088
Okay. 6:00? / 5:30. </ P>

1064
01:34:19,446 --> 01:34:21,071
Is there a problem? </ P>

1065
01:34:25,744 --> 01:34:27,369
Did you forget? </ P>

1066
01:34:28,580 --> 01:34:30,247
Have a nice day. </ P>

1067
01:34:35,378 --> 01:34:36,628
Arnold !

1068
01:34:36,880 --> 01:34:38,255
Arnie!

1069
01:34:39,090 --> 01:34:40,924
Hi!

1070
01:34:41,593 --> 01:34:44,511
Carol!

1071
01:34:45,889 --> 01:34:47,765
Do you have more corgi?

1072
01:34:48,308 --> 01:34:49,391
How about your trip?

1073
01:34:50,018 --> 01:34:52,811
Our journey is very...
Our journey is really... very...

1074
01:34:54,022 --> 01:34:56,690
You have to come tonight
and we will tell you all those things.

1075
01:34:56,775 --> 01:34:58,359
Good too. I like that. </ P>

1076
01:34:58,443 --> 01:34:59,443
Yeah. </ P>

1077
01:34:59,611 --> 01:35:01,737
All right. I'll meet you later. </ P>

1078
01:35:01,821 --> 01:35:02,821
Okay. </ P>

1079
01:35:07,410 --> 01:35:09,328
That won't happen

1080
01:35:20,507 --> 01:35:22,299
Kay. Arnold. </ P>

1081
01:35:23,676 --> 01:35:28,972
We are all here today to watch
renewal of your marriage vows. </ P>

1082
01:35:29,891 --> 01:35:33,060
We are very happy,
and especially I am very happy. </ P >

1083
01:35:33,144 --> 01:35:36,355
Being here and being part of
from this very special day.

1084
01:35:36,606 --> 01:35:40,442
Arnold, after 32 years of marriage,

1085
01:35:40,860 --> 01:35:44,780
I honestly say I love you
more than I've ever done.

1086
01:35:45,490 --> 01:35:47,658
Our meeting day changes my life.

1087
01:35:48,535 --> 01:35:49,993
Makes me live.

1088
01:35:51,329 --> 01:35:55,249
And now I can't
imagine living life without you.

1089
01:35:55,875 --> 01:35:57,751
It won't be
any life at all.

1090
01:35:58,461 --> 01:36:03,173
When I think about <br / > spend the rest of my life with you,

1091
01:36:04,342 --> 01:36:07,386
I'm just sorry
it won't be long enough.

1092
01:36:08,805 --> 01:36:10,139
So I want to know...

1093
01:36:11,099 --> 01:36:14,268
make episodes of life we
together next.

1094
01:36:14,352 --> 01:36:17,354
Something we both love.

1095
01:36:18,815 --> 01:36:23,277
I swear to watch golf
with you without complaining.

1096
01:36:26,531 --> 01:36:28,282
I swear not to
reduce watching golf,

1097
01:36:28,950 --> 01:36:31,785
and buy you good prizes
not to fill the house. </ P>

1098
01:36:33,621 --> 01:36:35,914
Maybe like jewelry /
Like jewelry .

1099
01:36:35,999 --> 01:36:38,542
Jewelry. Yes. </ P>

1100
01:36:39,043 --> 01:36:43,755
I swear not to cut my hair shorter
than this, because I know you like the long one. </ P>

1101
01:36:43,840 --> 01:36:44,965
Lebih panjang.

1102
01:36:45,049 --> 01:36:47,718
I swear not to complain much.

1103
01:36:48,052 --> 01:36:49,136
If I can help,

1104
01:36:49,220 --> 01:36:53,098
because sometimes there is something
that really needs to be complained about.

1105
01:36:53,183 --> 01:36:55,559
And I swear to go to
one of the "sleep" lessons

1106
01:36:56,561 --> 01:36:59,146
as you have suggested to me. </ P>

1107
01:36:59,230 --> 01:37:03,692
And I swear to take you
somewhere once a year
more than 200 miles away from home.

1108
01:37:03,776 --> 01:37:06,069
and not to visit family members.

1109
01:37:08,072 --> 01:37:10,574
Now, on this happy day.

1110
01:37:11,117 --> 01:37:13,285
I give you the rest of my life,

1111
01:37:14,662 --> 01:37:17,873
and I thank God
every day if you receive it,

1112
01:37:18,249 --> 01:37:21,210
And I swear to
tell you how I feel,

1113
01:37:21,294 --> 01:37:24,087
not only when you ask me.

1114
01:37:25,965 --> 01:37:28,300
And I'll tell you
how do I feel about all this.

1115
01:37:28,760 --> 01:37:31,553
I like it. I love you. </ P>

1116
01:37:41,773 --> 01:37:46,735
We have a ceremony
"break the nose"

1117
01:37:58,790 --> 01:38:00,249
Look? It is not difficult. </ P>

1118
01:38:01,960 --> 01:38:03,252
Thank you. </ P>

1119
01:38:05,713 --> 01:38:07,297
Yes, big boy. </ P>

1120
01:38:07,799 --> 01:38:09,424
Congratulations. </ P>

1121
01:38:21,771 --> 01:38:25,023
I am happy to meet you! / Finally!

1122
01:38:28,945 --> 01:38:30,654
Brad, Brad, Brad!